Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread Richard J. Williams
On 1/5/2014 10:31 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:

  given that the principle in question is that life
  is inherently and unconditionally sacred.
 
If life is sacred, you'd probably be anti-abortion.


Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread Richard J. Williams
On 1/5/2014 10:39 AM, Share Long wrote:

  From that line of reasoning, Judy, can we assume
  that you are against abortion?
 
So far as I can tell, Judy is pro-choice, Share. So her ramblings about 
the sanctity of life rings kind of hollow for me. It kind of looks like 
Judy is trying to start another argument, sort of like the fight she 
picked about Luke not knowing that Mary was the first to see the risen 
Jesus. It's a sneak attack - everybody on this forum knows that Judy 
doesn't really care what anybody else thinks about life. Almost 
everything posted here is just an excuse for an ankle-biting session. 
It's never ending, like going down a rabbit hole. That's what I think.


Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread doctordumbass
I was referring to *your* participation, dear boy.

Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread Richard J. Williams
On 1/5/2014 11:25 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:

  No, I'm not against abortion.
 
We are going to have to look this up. But, they do sound sort of like 
weasel words to me. How can you recognize the sanctity of life not be 
against abortion? I thought everyone on this list was pro-choice. Go figure.


Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread Richard J. Williams
On 1/5/2014 3:47 PM, steve.sun...@yahoo.com wrote:

  Check
 
Check Mate. This is some really good work by Share!


Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread Richard J. Williams
On 1/5/2014 4:05 PM, authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:

  It doesn't even matter, Share. Stevie would declare you the
  winner whatever you or I said. And he ain't gonna quote
  because he doesn't want to look STOOOPID. Haven't you
  ever noticed how often he refuses to back up his claims?
 
Let's work on it and check all the claims. It might take me awhile to 
check in the archives, but it shouldn't be too difficult to key in: IF 
judy THEN petrus ELSE abortion on Google Groups. I'll get back to you 
on this later with my results. Unless you want to do the checking for us.


Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread Richard J. Williams
On 1/5/2014 4:06 PM, Share Long wrote:

  ...it's hard for me to tell. I think I'm being very clear
  but her response often indicates otherwise. I think Judy
  and I simply think differently.
 
Judy sometimes gets confused, I think, before she stops to think about 
what she is posting. She often thinks somebody is posting directly at 
her, when often it's just a general statement of opinion. It looks like 
something you said Judy took the wrong way, and in her zeal to discredit 
you, she has fallen down another rabbit hole. This time she is already 
down the hole, way down the hole, and it looks like you check mated her 
real good this time.


Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread Richard J. Williams
On 1/5/2014 4:58 PM, steve.sun...@yahoo.com wrote:

  My Lord Judy, you didn't see it coming did you?  You just
  got your clock cleaned!  Just gracefully move off the stage
  and regroup.  It's okay. Really.
 
Judy got waxed by Share real good in this thread. Now Judy is going to 
just be mean. Go figure.


Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread authfriend
Better read the rest of the thread before you sound off, Richard.
  given that the principle in question is that life
  is inherently and unconditionally sacred.
 
 If life is sacred, you'd probably be anti-abortion.



Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread authfriend
As Richard himself admitted in post #368186, nothing he says is to be taken 
seriously. 
 

  From that line of reasoning, Judy, can we assume
  that you are against abortion?

So far as I can tell, Judy is pro-choice, Share. So her ramblings about 
 the sanctity of life rings kind of hollow for me. It kind of looks like 
 Judy is trying to start another argument, sort of like the fight she 
 picked about Luke not knowing that Mary was the first to see the risen 
 Jesus. It's a sneak attack - everybody on this forum knows that Judy 
 doesn't really care what anybody else thinks about life. Almost 
 everything posted here is just an excuse for an ankle-biting session. 
 It's never ending, like going down a rabbit hole. That's what I think.



Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread Richard J. Williams
On 1/5/2014 5:26 PM, feste37 wrote:

  Share really took auth to the cleaners in this thread.
 
Judy does not take kindly to being taken to the cleaners. Why Judy even 
started this is debate beyond me. I've never seen an argument about the 
sanctity of life ever getting resolved in an internet discussion. Go 
figure.


Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread Share Long
Judy, I'm willing to discuss Seraphita's points with her and your points with 
you and Susan's points with her. 





On Sunday, January 5, 2014 8:39 PM, authfri...@yahoo.com 
authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  
There were two participants who were raising points, Share, not just one. Isn't 
that funny, you forgot all about Susan, whose views I was defending. That's OK, 
Stevie and Feste did as well. How convenient.

Just for giggles, let's have a look at Susan's point (her first of two), which 
you had no interest in or opinion about:

Share, I disagree, especially for an action like gay marriage, that really 
does not harm you or harm others. It is a difference of opinions.  There are so 
many many other truly significant issues on this planet.  Starve yourself to 
death over this?  Please, go find someone to donate your time or money to - 
someone suffering or hungry.

To me, it's astonishing that you would prefer to ignore this and instead argue 
about the principle of Judaism that Susan elucidated (at least once I'd gotten 
you back on the road after your non sequitur). Both points are important, but 
that one is secondary if one has an interest in relieving suffering.

Seraphita made another good point, BTW, that threatening to starve oneself is 
an attempt at emotional blackmail. But perhaps that's why you didn't want to 
address it--a little too close to home.


 Judy, in any post, I engage with the parts that I'm interested in or 
knowledgeable about or just opinionated about. I don't try to cover all the 
points, especially when I'm replying to a long post. 

Susan's post was a single shortish paragraph, Share.



And it's my opinion that in a discussion, the actual points and issues it 
raises are determined by ALL the participants, not just one of them. Actually 
that is, I think, part and parcel of the discussion, determining which are the 
salient points. IMO you and I simply have very different ways of thinking about 
topics. 

Which is fine. And this time we got pretty far before the train went off the 
rails. That was enjoyable for me.




On Sunday, January 5, 2014 4:15 PM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
  
It's not so much that you aren't being clear as that you aren't engaging with 
what's on the road, with the actual issue and the points it raises. You go off 
on all these side trips in order to distract from what you can't deal with. You 
did this from the very first post Susan made.

And poor Stevie doesn't know the difference. He thinks any response you come up 
with must be a killer because it's you who made it. (Especially when it's in a 
discussion with me, of course.)


 Thanks, Steve, it's hard for me to tell. I think I'm being very clear but 
her response often indicates otherwise. I think Judy and I simply think 
differently. 





On Sunday, January 5, 2014 3:55 PM, steve.sundur@... steve.sundur@... wrote:
 
  
I think you checkmated Judy. 






Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread authfriend
As Richard himself admitted in post #368186, nothing he says is to be taken 
seriously. 
 

  ...it's hard for me to tell. I think I'm being very clear
  but her response often indicates otherwise. I think Judy
  and I simply think differently.
 
 Judy sometimes gets confused, I think, before she stops to think about 
 what she is posting. She often thinks somebody is posting directly at 
 her, when often it's just a general statement of opinion. It looks like 
 something you said Judy took the wrong way, and in her zeal to discredit 
 you, she has fallen down another rabbit hole. This time she is already 
 down the hole, way down the hole, and it looks like you check mated her 
 real good this time.



Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-06 Thread authfriend
Non sequitur. I didn't say you had to discuss anything with anybody. I'm 
pointing out what you did not, in fact, discuss; and that you miswrote in your 
previous post when you said there was only one person raising points.
 
  Judy, I'm willing to discuss Seraphita's points with her and your points 
with you and Susan's points with her. 
 

 
 
 On Sunday, January 5, 2014 8:39 PM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   There were two participants who were raising points, Share, not just one. 
Isn't that funny, you forgot all about Susan, whose views I was defending. 
That's OK, Stevie and Feste did as well. How convenient.
 

 Just for giggles, let's have a look at Susan's point (her first of two), which 
you had no interest in or opinion about:
 

 Share, I disagree, especially for an action like gay marriage, that really 
does not harm you or harm others. It is a difference of opinions.  There are so 
many many other truly significant issues on this planet.  Starve yourself to 
death over this?  Please, go find someone to donate your time or money to - 
someone suffering or hungry.
 

 To me, it's astonishing that you would prefer to ignore this and instead argue 
about the principle of Judaism that Susan elucidated (at least once I'd gotten 
you back on the road after your non sequitur). Both points are important, but 
that one is secondary if one has an interest in relieving suffering.
 

 Seraphita made another good point, BTW, that threatening to starve oneself is 
an attempt at emotional blackmail. But perhaps that's why you didn't want to 
address it--a little too close to home.
 
  Judy, in any post, I engage with the parts that I'm interested in or 
knowledgeable about or just opinionated about. I don't try to cover all the 
points, especially when I'm replying to a long post. 
 

 Susan's post was a single shortish paragraph, Share.
 

 

 

 And it's my opinion that in a discussion, the actual points and issues it 
raises are determined by ALL the participants, not just one of them. Actually 
that is, I think, part and parcel of the discussion, determining which are the 
salient points. IMO you and I simply have very different ways of thinking about 
topics. 
 Which is fine. And this time we got pretty far before the train went off the 
rails. That was enjoyable for me.

 
 
 On Sunday, January 5, 2014 4:15 PM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   It's not so much that you aren't being clear as that you aren't engaging 
with what's on the road, with the actual issue and the points it raises. You go 
off on all these side trips in order to distract from what you can't deal with. 
You did this from the very first post Susan made.
 

 And poor Stevie doesn't know the difference. He thinks any response you come 
up with must be a killer because it's you who made it. (Especially when it's in 
a discussion with me, of course.)
 
  Thanks, Steve, it's hard for me to tell. I think I'm being very clear but 
her response often indicates otherwise. I think Judy and I simply think 
differently. 
 

 
 
 On Sunday, January 5, 2014 3:55 PM, steve.sundur@... steve.sundur@... 
wrote:
 
   I think you checkmated Judy. 
 
 

 




 
 
 
 



 
 

 




 
 
 
 



 
 

 
 



 
 
 
 





[FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread TurquoiseB
I think that *everyone* who feels that gay marriage is wrong should do
exactly what this Utah man is doing, and go on hunger fasts to the death
to stand up for their beliefs. This would actually solve much of the
problem, and leave the world a better place without them.

http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/2014/01/04/trestin-meacham-gay-hunger-st\
rike_n_4540369.html
http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/2014/01/04/trestin-meacham-gay-hunger-s\
trike_n_4540369.html






Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread Share Long
turq, though I disagree with this man's beliefs, I admire that he's willing to 
go to such lengths to express them. And in the process, to pursue an action 
that does not physically harm others.





On Sunday, January 5, 2014 5:08 AM, TurquoiseB turquoi...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  
I think that *everyone* who feels that gay marriage is wrong should do exactly 
what this Utah man is doing, and go on hunger fasts to the death to stand up 
for their beliefs. This would actually solve much of the problem, and leave the 
world a better place without them. 


http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/2014/01/04/trestin-meacham-gay-hunger-strike_n_4540369.html
 






Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread wayback71
Share, I disagree, especially for an action like gay marriage, that really does 
not harm you or harm others. It is a difference of opinions.  There are so many 
many other truly significant issues on this planet.  Starve yourself to death 
over this?  Please, go find someone to donate your time or money to - someone 
suffering or hungry.  Another thought, it is my understanding that in Judaism 
life is held to be so precious that individuals are not expected to martyr 
themselves.  Fighting for a cause, dying in battle, putting yourself in front 
of a bullet meant for your loved one - all good.  But martyrdom is another.  It 
is not really considered admirable.  I like that approach.

Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread Share Long
But wayback, if one were to die in battle or put one's self in front of a 
bullet, that entails violence and violence involving another person or persons! 
Whereas starving one's self does not involve getting or giving harm to another. 
Like I said, I don't agree with his cause, but I admire that he's taking a 
strong, non violent stand about it.

BTW, he didn't sound like a martyr to me at all. Not that I've spoken with any 
martyrs!





On Sunday, January 5, 2014 7:31 AM, waybac...@yahoo.com waybac...@yahoo.com 
wrote:
 
  
Share, I disagree, especially for an action like gay marriage, that really does 
not harm you or harm others. It is a difference of opinions.  There are so many 
many other truly significant issues on this planet.  Starve yourself to death 
over this?  Please, go find someone to donate your time or money to - someone 
suffering or hungry.  Another thought, it is my understanding that in Judaism 
life is held to be so precious that individuals are not expected to martyr 
themselves.  Fighting for a cause, dying in battle, putting yourself in front 
of a bullet meant for your loved one - all good.  But martyrdom is another.  It 
is not really considered admirable.  I like that approach.


Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread authfriend
Non sequitur.
 

  But wayback, if one were to die in battle or put one's self in front of a 
bullet, that entails violence and violence involving another person or persons! 
Whereas starving one's self does not involve getting or giving harm to another. 

 

 The point is that suicide (in this case by starvation) for a cause that does 
not involve preventing physical harm to another is against the principle of the 
sacredness of life.
 

  Like I said, I don't agree with his cause, but I admire that he's taking a 
strong, non violent stand about it. 
 

 He's doing violence to himself. That is not the only way--and certainly not 
the most effective way--to take a strong, non violent stand against gay 
marriage.

 BTW, he didn't sound like a martyr to me at all. Not that I've spoken with 
any martyrs! 
 

 Of course he thinks of himself as a martyr:
 

 a person who sacrifices something of great value and especially life itself 
for the sake of principle
 

 He is most likely mentally disturbed.
 

 wayback wrote:
 
   Share, I disagree, especially for an action like gay marriage, that really 
does not harm you or harm others. It is a difference of opinions.  There are so 
many many other truly significant issues on this planet.  Starve yourself to 
death over this?  Please, go find someone to donate your time or money to - 
someone suffering or hungry.  Another thought, it is my understanding that in 
Judaism life is held to be so precious that individuals are not expected to 
martyr themselves.  Fighting for a cause, dying in battle, putting yourself in 
front of a bullet meant for your loved one - all good.  But martyrdom is 
another.  It is not really considered admirable.  I like that approach.
 
 

 
 



 
 
 
 





Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread Share Long
Judy, I agree that life is sacred. And I also recognize that other people may 
have very different ideas than mine about what constitutes that sacredness, 
what is necessary for it to be preserved.





On Sunday, January 5, 2014 9:57 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com 
authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  
Non sequitur.

 But wayback, if one were to die in battle or put one's self in front of a 
bullet, that entails violence and violence involving another person or persons! 
Whereas starving one's self does not involve getting or giving harm to another. 


The point is that suicide (in this case by starvation) for a cause that does 
not involve preventing physical harm to another is against the principle of the 
sacredness of life.

 Like I said, I don't agree with his cause, but I admire that he's taking a 
strong, non violent stand about it. 

He's doing violence to himself. That is not the only way--and certainly not the 
most effective way--to take a strong, non violent stand against gay marriage.

 BTW, he didn't sound like a martyr to me at all. Not that I've spoken with 
any martyrs! 

Of course he thinks of himself as a martyr:

a person who sacrifices something of great value and especially life itself 
for the sake of principle

He is most likely mentally disturbed.

wayback wrote:
  
Share, I disagree, especially for an action like gay marriage, that really does 
not harm you or harm others. It is a difference of opinions.  There are so many 
many other truly significant issues on this planet.  Starve yourself to death 
over this?  Please, go find someone to donate your time or money to - someone 
suffering or hungry.  Another thought, it is my understanding that in Judaism 
life is held to be so precious that individuals are not expected to martyr 
themselves.  Fighting for a cause, dying in battle, putting yourself in front 
of a bullet meant for your loved one - all good.  But martyrdom is another.  It 
is not really considered admirable.  I like that approach.




Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread Share Long
Judy, do you think that suffragettes who went on hunger strikes when jailed for 
their protests were also likely mentally disturbed?





On Sunday, January 5, 2014 9:59 AM, Share Long sharelon...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  
Judy, I agree that life is sacred. And I also recognize that other people may 
have very different ideas than mine about what constitutes that sacredness, 
what is necessary for it to be preserved.





On Sunday, January 5, 2014 9:57 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com 
authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  
Non sequitur.

 But wayback, if one were to die in battle or put one's self in front of a 
bullet, that entails violence and violence involving another person or persons! 
Whereas starving one's self does not involve getting or giving harm to another. 


The point is that suicide (in this case by starvation) for a cause that does 
not involve preventing physical harm to another is against the principle of the 
sacredness of life.

 Like I said, I don't agree with his cause, but I admire that he's taking a 
strong, non violent stand about it. 

He's doing violence to himself. That is not the only way--and certainly not the 
most effective way--to take a strong, non violent stand against gay marriage.

 BTW, he didn't sound like a martyr to me at all. Not that I've spoken with 
any martyrs! 

Of course he thinks of himself as a martyr:

a person who sacrifices something of great value and especially life itself 
for the sake of principle

He is most likely mentally disturbed.

wayback wrote:
  
Share, I disagree, especially for an action like gay marriage, that really does 
not harm you or harm others. It is a difference of opinions.  There are so many 
many other truly significant issues on this planet.  Starve yourself to death 
over this?  Please, go find someone to donate your time or money to - someone 
suffering or hungry.  Another thought, it is my understanding that in Judaism 
life is held to be so precious that individuals are not expected to martyr 
themselves.  Fighting for a cause, dying in battle, putting yourself in front 
of a bullet meant for your loved one - all good.  But martyrdom is another.  It 
is not really considered admirable.  I like that approach.






Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread authfriend
Um, Share, what it takes for the sacredness of life to be preserved isn't a 
matter of opinion or ideas, it's a matter of biological facts. If you die by 
your own hand, you have deliberately destroyed the sacredness of your own life.

 

 You aren't engaging with what wayback and I are saying. As usual with any 
matter of dispute, your mind is like a car on an icy road--you keep sliding off 
the point at issue rather than dealing with it directly. You use this as a 
tactic to prevent rational discussion that might show you to be on the wrong 
side of the issue when you can't come up with a solid case.

  Judy, I agree that life is sacred. And I also recognize that other people 
may have very different ideas than mine about what constitutes that sacredness, 
what is necessary for it to be preserved. 
 

 
 
 On Sunday, January 5, 2014 9:57 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   Non sequitur.
 

  But wayback, if one were to die in battle or put one's self in front of a 
bullet, that entails violence and violence involving another person or persons! 
Whereas starving one's self does not involve getting or giving harm to another. 

 

 The point is that suicide (in this case by starvation) for a cause that does 
not involve preventing physical harm to another is against the principle of the 
sacredness of life.
 

  Like I said, I don't agree with his cause, but I admire that he's taking a 
strong, non violent stand about it. 
 

 He's doing violence to himself. That is not the only way--and certainly not 
the most effective way--to take a strong, non violent stand against gay 
marriage.

 BTW, he didn't sound like a martyr to me at all. Not that I've spoken with 
any martyrs! 
 

 Of course he thinks of himself as a martyr:
 

 a person who sacrifices something of great value and especially life itself 
for the sake of principle
 

 He is most likely mentally disturbed.
 

 wayback wrote:
 
   Share, I disagree, especially for an action like gay marriage, that really 
does not harm you or harm others. It is a difference of opinions.  There are so 
many many other truly significant issues on this planet.  Starve yourself to 
death over this?  Please, go find someone to donate your time or money to - 
someone suffering or hungry.  Another thought, it is my understanding that in 
Judaism life is held to be so precious that individuals are not expected to 
martyr themselves.  Fighting for a cause, dying in battle, putting yourself in 
front of a bullet meant for your loved one - all good.  But martyrdom is 
another.  It is not really considered admirable.  I like that approach.
 
 

 




 
 
 
 



 
 

 
 



 
 
 
 





Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread authfriend
Anyone who genuinely has the intention of starving themselves to death is 
likely mentally disturbed, i.e., suicidal. Typically, though, it's a publicity 
stunt meant to call attention to the cause.
 
  Judy, do you think that suffragettes who went on hunger strikes when jailed 
for their protests were also likely mentally disturbed? 
 

   Judy, I agree that life is sacred. And I also recognize that other people 
may have very different ideas than mine about what constitutes that sacredness, 
what is necessary for it to be preserved.
 

 
 
 On Sunday, January 5, 2014 9:57 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   Non sequitur.
 

  But wayback, if one were to die in battle or put one's self in front of a 
bullet, that entails violence and violence involving another person or persons! 
Whereas starving one's self does not involve getting or giving harm to another. 

 

 The point is that suicide (in this case by starvation) for a cause that does 
not involve preventing physical harm to another is against the principle of the 
sacredness of life.
 

  Like I said, I don't agree with his cause, but I admire that he's taking a 
strong, non violent stand about it. 
 

 He's doing violence to himself. That is not the only way--and certainly not 
the most effective way--to take a strong, non violent stand against gay 
marriage.

 BTW, he didn't sound like a martyr to me at all. Not that I've spoken with 
any martyrs! 
 

 Of course he thinks of himself as a martyr:
 

 a person who sacrifices something of great value and especially life itself 
for the sake of principle
 

 He is most likely mentally disturbed.
 

 wayback wrote:
 
   Share, I disagree, especially for an action like gay marriage, that really 
does not harm you or harm others. It is a difference of opinions.  There are so 
many many other truly significant issues on this planet.  Starve yourself to 
death over this?  Please, go find someone to donate your time or money to - 
someone suffering or hungry.  Another thought, it is my understanding that in 
Judaism life is held to be so precious that individuals are not expected to 
martyr themselves.  Fighting for a cause, dying in battle, putting yourself in 
front of a bullet meant for your loved one - all good.  But martyrdom is 
another.  It is not really considered admirable.  I like that approach.
 
 

 




 
 
 
 



 
 

 




 
 
 
 


 
 

 
 




 
 
 
 






Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread Share Long
Judy, I don't agree with you about what it takes to preserve the sacredness of 
life. Yes, I agree that to preserve life, one must stay alive. But that's a 
different issue imo.





On Sunday, January 5, 2014 10:20 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com 
authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  
Um, Share, what it takes for the sacredness of life to be preserved isn't a 
matter of opinion or ideas, it's a matter of biological facts. If you die by 
your own hand, you have deliberately destroyed the sacredness of your own life.


You aren't engaging with what wayback and I are saying. As usual with any 
matter of dispute, your mind is like a car on an icy road--you keep sliding off 
the point at issue rather than dealing with it directly. You use this as a 
tactic to prevent rational discussion that might show you to be on the wrong 
side of the issue when you can't come up with a solid case.


 Judy, I agree that life is sacred. And I also recognize that other people 
may have very different ideas than mine about what constitutes that sacredness, 
what is necessary for it to be preserved. 





On Sunday, January 5, 2014 9:57 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
  
Non sequitur.

 But wayback, if one were to die in battle or put one's self in front of a 
bullet, that entails violence and violence involving another person or persons! 
Whereas starving one's self does not involve getting or giving harm to another. 


The point is that suicide (in this case by starvation) for a cause that does 
not involve preventing physical harm to another is against the principle of the 
sacredness of life.

 Like I said, I don't agree with his cause, but I admire that he's taking a 
strong, non violent stand about it. 

He's doing violence to himself. That is not the only way--and certainly not the 
most effective way--to take a strong, non violent stand against gay marriage.

 BTW, he didn't sound like a martyr to me at all. Not that I've spoken with 
any martyrs! 

Of course he thinks of himself as a martyr:

a person who sacrifices something of great value and especially life itself 
for the sake of principle

He is most likely mentally disturbed.

wayback wrote:
  
Share, I disagree, especially for an action like gay marriage, that really does 
not harm you or harm others. It is a difference of opinions.  There are so many 
many other truly significant issues on this planet.  Starve yourself to death 
over this?  Please, go find someone to donate your time or money to - someone 
suffering or hungry.  Another thought, it is my understanding that in Judaism 
life is held to be so precious that individuals are not expected to martyr 
themselves.  Fighting for a cause, dying in battle, putting yourself in front 
of a bullet meant for your loved one - all good.  But martyrdom is another.  It 
is not really considered admirable.  I like that approach.






Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread authfriend
Oh, do elaborate for us on why you believe preserving the sacredness of life is 
a different issue from preserving life, given that the principle in question is 
that life is inherently and unconditionally sacred.
 
  Judy, I don't agree with you about what it takes to preserve the sacredness 
of life. Yes, I agree that to preserve life, one must stay alive. But that's a 
different issue imo. 
 

 
 
 On Sunday, January 5, 2014 10:20 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   Um, Share, what it takes for the sacredness of life to be preserved isn't a 
matter of opinion or ideas, it's a matter of biological facts. If you die by 
your own hand, you have deliberately destroyed the sacredness of your own life.

 

 You aren't engaging with what wayback and I are saying. As usual with any 
matter of dispute, your mind is like a car on an icy road--you keep sliding off 
the point at issue rather than dealing with it directly. You use this as a 
tactic to prevent rational discussion that might show you to be on the wrong 
side of the issue when you can't come up with a solid case.

  Judy, I agree that life is sacred. And I also recognize that other people 
may have very different ideas than mine about what constitutes that sacredness, 
what is necessary for it to be preserved. 
 

 
 
 On Sunday, January 5, 2014 9:57 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   Non sequitur.
 

  But wayback, if one were to die in battle or put one's self in front of a 
bullet, that entails violence and violence involving another person or persons! 
Whereas starving one's self does not involve getting or giving harm to another. 

 

 The point is that suicide (in this case by starvation) for a cause that does 
not involve preventing physical harm to another is against the principle of the 
sacredness of life.
 

  Like I said, I don't agree with his cause, but I admire that he's taking a 
strong, non violent stand about it. 
 

 He's doing violence to himself. That is not the only way--and certainly not 
the most effective way--to take a strong, non violent stand against gay 
marriage.

 BTW, he didn't sound like a martyr to me at all. Not that I've spoken with 
any martyrs! 
 

 Of course he thinks of himself as a martyr:
 

 a person who sacrifices something of great value and especially life itself 
for the sake of principle
 

 He is most likely mentally disturbed.
 

 wayback wrote:
 
   Share, I disagree, especially for an action like gay marriage, that really 
does not harm you or harm others. It is a difference of opinions.  There are so 
many many other truly significant issues on this planet.  Starve yourself to 
death over this?  Please, go find someone to donate your time or money to - 
someone suffering or hungry.  Another thought, it is my understanding that in 
Judaism life is held to be so precious that individuals are not expected to 
martyr themselves.  Fighting for a cause, dying in battle, putting yourself in 
front of a bullet meant for your loved one - all good.  But martyrdom is 
another.  It is not really considered admirable.  I like that approach.
 
 

 




 
 
 
 



 
 

 




 
 
 
 



 
 

 
 



 
 
 
 





Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread Share Long
Judy, usually the phrase *publicity stunt* is used pejoratively. Is that how 
you mean it?





On Sunday, January 5, 2014 10:25 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com 
authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  
Anyone who genuinely has the intention of starving themselves to death is 
likely mentally disturbed, i.e., suicidal. Typically, though, it's a publicity 
stunt meant to call attention to the cause.


 Judy, do you think that suffragettes who went on hunger strikes when jailed 
for their protests were also likely mentally disturbed? 


  
Judy, I agree that life is sacred. And I also recognize that other people may 
have very different ideas than mine about what constitutes that sacredness, 
what is necessary for it to be preserved.





On Sunday, January 5, 2014 9:57 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
  
Non sequitur.

 But wayback, if one were to die in battle or put one's self in front of a 
bullet, that entails violence and violence involving another person or persons! 
Whereas starving one's self does not involve getting or giving harm to another. 


The point is that suicide (in this case by starvation) for a cause that does 
not involve preventing physical harm to another is against the principle of the 
sacredness of life.

 Like I said, I don't agree with his cause, but I admire that he's taking a 
strong, non violent stand about it. 

He's doing violence to himself. That is not the only way--and certainly not the 
most effective way--to take a strong, non violent stand against gay marriage.

 BTW, he didn't sound like a martyr to me at all. Not that I've spoken with 
any martyrs! 

Of course he thinks of himself as a martyr:

a person who sacrifices something of great value and especially life itself 
for the sake of principle

He is most likely mentally disturbed.

wayback wrote:
  
Share, I disagree, especially for an action like gay marriage, that really does 
not harm you or harm others. It is a difference of opinions.  There are so many 
many other truly significant issues on this planet.  Starve yourself to death 
over this?  Please, go find someone to donate your time or money to - someone 
suffering or hungry.  Another thought, it is my understanding that in Judaism 
life is held to be so precious that individuals are not expected to martyr 
themselves.  Fighting for a cause, dying in battle, putting yourself in front 
of a bullet meant for your loved one - all good.  But martyrdom is another.  It 
is not really considered admirable.  I like that approach.








Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread Share Long
From that line of reasoning, Judy, can we assume that you are against abortion?





On Sunday, January 5, 2014 10:31 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com 
authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  
Oh, do elaborate for us on why you believe preserving the sacredness of life is 
a different issue from preserving life, given that the principle in question is 
that life is inherently and unconditionally sacred.


 Judy, I don't agree with you about what it takes to preserve the sacredness 
of life. Yes, I agree that to preserve life, one must stay alive. But that's a 
different issue imo. 





On Sunday, January 5, 2014 10:20 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
  
Um, Share, what it takes for the sacredness of life to be preserved isn't a 
matter of opinion or ideas, it's a matter of biological facts. If you die by 
your own hand, you have deliberately destroyed the sacredness of your own life.


You aren't engaging with what wayback and I are saying. As usual with any 
matter of dispute, your mind is like a car on an icy road--you keep sliding off 
the point at issue rather than dealing with it directly. You use this as a 
tactic to prevent rational discussion that might show you to be on the wrong 
side of the issue when you can't come up with a solid case.


 Judy, I agree that life is sacred. And I also recognize that other people 
may have very different ideas than mine about what constitutes that sacredness, 
what is necessary for it to be preserved. 





On Sunday, January 5, 2014 9:57 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
  
Non sequitur.

 But wayback, if one were to die in battle or put one's self in front of a 
bullet, that entails violence and violence involving another person or persons! 
Whereas starving one's self does not involve getting or giving harm to another. 


The point is that suicide (in this case by starvation) for a cause that does 
not involve preventing physical harm to another is against the principle of the 
sacredness of life.

 Like I said, I don't agree with his cause, but I admire that he's taking a 
strong, non violent stand about it. 

He's doing violence to himself. That is not the only way--and certainly not the 
most effective way--to take a strong, non violent stand against gay marriage.

 BTW, he didn't sound like a martyr to me at all. Not that I've spoken with 
any martyrs! 

Of course he thinks of himself as a martyr:

a person who sacrifices something of great value and especially life itself 
for the sake of principle

He is most likely mentally disturbed.

wayback wrote:
  
Share, I disagree, especially for an action like gay marriage, that really does 
not harm you or harm others. It is a difference of opinions.  There are so many 
many other truly significant issues on this planet.  Starve yourself to death 
over this?  Please, go find someone to donate your time or money to - someone 
suffering or hungry.  Another thought, it is my understanding that in Judaism 
life is held to be so precious that individuals are not expected to martyr 
themselves.  Fighting for a cause, dying in battle, putting yourself in front 
of a bullet meant for your loved one - all good.  But martyrdom is another.  It 
is not really considered admirable.  I like that approach.








Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread authfriend
Depends on the stunt in question and what cause it's promoting. I don't think a 
hunger strike is the most effective of stunts, though, even for a good cause.
 
  Judy, usually the phrase *publicity stunt* is used pejoratively. Is that 
how you mean it? 
 
 
 
 On Sunday, January 5, 2014 10:25 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   Anyone who genuinely has the intention of starving themselves to death is 
likely mentally disturbed, i.e., suicidal. Typically, though, it's a publicity 
stunt meant to call attention to the cause.
 
  Judy, do you think that suffragettes who went on hunger strikes when jailed 
for their protests were also likely mentally disturbed? 
 

   Judy, I agree that life is sacred. And I also recognize that other people 
may have very different ideas than mine about what constitutes that sacredness, 
what is necessary for it to be preserved.
 

 
 
 On Sunday, January 5, 2014 9:57 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   Non sequitur.
 

  But wayback, if one were to die in battle or put one's self in front of a 
bullet, that entails violence and violence involving another person or persons! 
Whereas starving one's self does not involve getting or giving harm to another. 

 

 The point is that suicide (in this case by starvation) for a cause that does 
not involve preventing physical harm to another is against the principle of the 
sacredness of life.
 

  Like I said, I don't agree with his cause, but I admire that he's taking a 
strong, non violent stand about it. 
 

 He's doing violence to himself. That is not the only way--and certainly not 
the most effective way--to take a strong, non violent stand against gay 
marriage.

 BTW, he didn't sound like a martyr to me at all. Not that I've spoken with 
any martyrs! 
 

 Of course he thinks of himself as a martyr:
 

 a person who sacrifices something of great value and especially life itself 
for the sake of principle
 

 He is most likely mentally disturbed.
 

 wayback wrote:
 
   Share, I disagree, especially for an action like gay marriage, that really 
does not harm you or harm others. It is a difference of opinions.  There are so 
many many other truly significant issues on this planet.  Starve yourself to 
death over this?  Please, go find someone to donate your time or money to - 
someone suffering or hungry.  Another thought, it is my understanding that in 
Judaism life is held to be so precious that individuals are not expected to 
martyr themselves.  Fighting for a cause, dying in battle, putting yourself in 
front of a bullet meant for your loved one - all good.  But martyrdom is 
another.  It is not really considered admirable.  I like that approach.
 
 

 




 
 
 
 



 
 

 




 
 
 
 


 
 

 
 




 
 
 
 




 
 

 
 



 
 
 
 





Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread authfriend
I don't believe I said one way or the other whether I agreed with the 
principle, did I? No, I'm not against abortion. Try again. See if you can keep 
the car on the road this time and actually answer the question I asked.
 

  From that line of reasoning, Judy, can we assume that you are against 
abortion? 
 

 
 
 On Sunday, January 5, 2014 10:31 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   Oh, do elaborate for us on why you believe preserving the sacredness of life 
is a different issue from preserving life, given that the principle in question 
is that life is inherently and unconditionally sacred.
 
  Judy, I don't agree with you about what it takes to preserve the sacredness 
of life. Yes, I agree that to preserve life, one must stay alive. But that's a 
different issue imo. 
 

 
 
 On Sunday, January 5, 2014 10:20 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   Um, Share, what it takes for the sacredness of life to be preserved isn't a 
matter of opinion or ideas, it's a matter of biological facts. If you die by 
your own hand, you have deliberately destroyed the sacredness of your own life.

 

 You aren't engaging with what wayback and I are saying. As usual with any 
matter of dispute, your mind is like a car on an icy road--you keep sliding off 
the point at issue rather than dealing with it directly. You use this as a 
tactic to prevent rational discussion that might show you to be on the wrong 
side of the issue when you can't come up with a solid case.

  Judy, I agree that life is sacred. And I also recognize that other people 
may have very different ideas than mine about what constitutes that sacredness, 
what is necessary for it to be preserved. 
 

 
 
 On Sunday, January 5, 2014 9:57 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   Non sequitur.
 

  But wayback, if one were to die in battle or put one's self in front of a 
bullet, that entails violence and violence involving another person or persons! 
Whereas starving one's self does not involve getting or giving harm to another. 

 

 The point is that suicide (in this case by starvation) for a cause that does 
not involve preventing physical harm to another is against the principle of the 
sacredness of life.
 

  Like I said, I don't agree with his cause, but I admire that he's taking a 
strong, non violent stand about it. 
 

 He's doing violence to himself. That is not the only way--and certainly not 
the most effective way--to take a strong, non violent stand against gay 
marriage.

 BTW, he didn't sound like a martyr to me at all. Not that I've spoken with 
any martyrs! 
 

 Of course he thinks of himself as a martyr:
 

 a person who sacrifices something of great value and especially life itself 
for the sake of principle
 

 He is most likely mentally disturbed.
 

 wayback wrote:
 
   Share, I disagree, especially for an action like gay marriage, that really 
does not harm you or harm others. It is a difference of opinions.  There are so 
many many other truly significant issues on this planet.  Starve yourself to 
death over this?  Please, go find someone to donate your time or money to - 
someone suffering or hungry.  Another thought, it is my understanding that in 
Judaism life is held to be so precious that individuals are not expected to 
martyr themselves.  Fighting for a cause, dying in battle, putting yourself in 
front of a bullet meant for your loved one - all good.  But martyrdom is 
another.  It is not really considered admirable.  I like that approach.
 
 

 




 
 
 
 



 
 

 




 
 
 
 



 
 

 




 
 
 
 



 
 

 
 



 
 
 
 





Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread Share Long
Judy, except for the first sentence of this post of yours, I don't see where 
you actually asked me a question! If I missed it, could you repeat? 





On Sunday, January 5, 2014 10:44 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com 
authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  
I don't believe I said one way or the other whether I agreed with the 
principle, did I? No, I'm not against abortion. Try again. See if you can keep 
the car on the road this time and actually answer the question I asked.

 From that line of reasoning, Judy, can we assume that you are against 
abortion? 





On Sunday, January 5, 2014 10:31 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
  
Oh, do elaborate for us on why you believe preserving the sacredness of life is 
a different issue from preserving life, given that the principle in question is 
that life is inherently and unconditionally sacred.


 Judy, I don't agree with you about what it takes to preserve the sacredness 
of life. Yes, I agree that to preserve life, one must stay alive. But that's a 
different issue imo. 





On Sunday, January 5, 2014 10:20 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
  
Um, Share, what it takes for the sacredness of life to be preserved isn't a 
matter of opinion or ideas, it's a matter of biological facts. If you die by 
your own hand, you have deliberately destroyed the sacredness of your own life.


You aren't engaging with what wayback and I are saying. As usual with any 
matter of dispute, your mind is like a car on an icy road--you keep sliding off 
the point at issue rather than dealing with it directly. You use this as a 
tactic to prevent rational discussion that might show you to be on the wrong 
side of the issue when you can't come up with a solid case.


 Judy, I agree that life is sacred. And I also recognize that other people 
may have very different ideas than mine about what constitutes that sacredness, 
what is necessary for it to be preserved. 





On Sunday, January 5, 2014 9:57 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
  
Non sequitur.

 But wayback, if one were to die in battle or put one's self in front of a 
bullet, that entails violence and violence involving another person or persons! 
Whereas starving one's self does not involve getting or giving harm to another. 


The point is that suicide (in this case by starvation) for a cause that does 
not involve preventing physical harm to another is against the principle of the 
sacredness of life.

 Like I said, I don't agree with his cause, but I admire that he's taking a 
strong, non violent stand about it. 

He's doing violence to himself. That is not the only way--and certainly not the 
most effective way--to take a strong, non violent stand against gay marriage.

 BTW, he didn't sound like a martyr to me at all. Not that I've spoken with 
any martyrs! 

Of course he thinks of himself as a martyr:

a person who sacrifices something of great value and especially life itself 
for the sake of principle

He is most likely mentally disturbed.

wayback wrote:
  
Share, I disagree, especially for an action like gay marriage, that really does 
not harm you or harm others. It is a difference of opinions.  There are so many 
many other truly significant issues on this planet.  Starve yourself to death 
over this?  Please, go find someone to donate your time or money to - someone 
suffering or hungry.  Another thought, it is my understanding that in Judaism 
life is held to be so precious that individuals are not expected to martyr 
themselves.  Fighting for a cause, dying in battle, putting yourself in front 
of a bullet meant for your loved one - all good.  But martyrdom is another.  It 
is not really considered admirable.  I like that approach.










Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread authfriend
Oh, PLEASE, Share! If you can't or don't want to answer the question, just say 
so. Don't pretend you can't find it. How lame.
 

  Judy, except for the first sentence of this post of yours, I don't see 
where you actually asked me a question! If I missed it, could you repeat? 

 
 
 
 On Sunday, January 5, 2014 10:44 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   I don't believe I said one way or the other whether I agreed with the 
principle, did I? No, I'm not against abortion. Try again. See if you can keep 
the car on the road this time and actually answer the question I asked.
 

  From that line of reasoning, Judy, can we assume that you are against 
abortion? 
 

 
 
 On Sunday, January 5, 2014 10:31 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   Oh, do elaborate for us on why you believe preserving the sacredness of life 
is a different issue from preserving life, given that the principle in question 
is that life is inherently and unconditionally sacred.
 
  Judy, I don't agree with you about what it takes to preserve the sacredness 
of life. Yes, I agree that to preserve life, one must stay alive. But that's a 
different issue imo. 
 

 
 
 On Sunday, January 5, 2014 10:20 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   Um, Share, what it takes for the sacredness of life to be preserved isn't a 
matter of opinion or ideas, it's a matter of biological facts. If you die by 
your own hand, you have deliberately destroyed the sacredness of your own life.

 

 You aren't engaging with what wayback and I are saying. As usual with any 
matter of dispute, your mind is like a car on an icy road--you keep sliding off 
the point at issue rather than dealing with it directly. You use this as a 
tactic to prevent rational discussion that might show you to be on the wrong 
side of the issue when you can't come up with a solid case.

  Judy, I agree that life is sacred. And I also recognize that other people 
may have very different ideas than mine about what constitutes that sacredness, 
what is necessary for it to be preserved. 
 

 
 
 On Sunday, January 5, 2014 9:57 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   Non sequitur.
 

  But wayback, if one were to die in battle or put one's self in front of a 
bullet, that entails violence and violence involving another person or persons! 
Whereas starving one's self does not involve getting or giving harm to another. 

 

 The point is that suicide (in this case by starvation) for a cause that does 
not involve preventing physical harm to another is against the principle of the 
sacredness of life.
 

  Like I said, I don't agree with his cause, but I admire that he's taking a 
strong, non violent stand about it. 
 

 He's doing violence to himself. That is not the only way--and certainly not 
the most effective way--to take a strong, non violent stand against gay 
marriage.

 BTW, he didn't sound like a martyr to me at all. Not that I've spoken with 
any martyrs! 
 

 Of course he thinks of himself as a martyr:
 

 a person who sacrifices something of great value and especially life itself 
for the sake of principle
 

 He is most likely mentally disturbed.
 

 wayback wrote:
 
   Share, I disagree, especially for an action like gay marriage, that really 
does not harm you or harm others. It is a difference of opinions.  There are so 
many many other truly significant issues on this planet.  Starve yourself to 
death over this?  Please, go find someone to donate your time or money to - 
someone suffering or hungry.  Another thought, it is my understanding that in 
Judaism life is held to be so precious that individuals are not expected to 
martyr themselves.  Fighting for a cause, dying in battle, putting yourself in 
front of a bullet meant for your loved one - all good.  But martyrdom is 
another.  It is not really considered admirable.  I like that approach.
 
 

 




 
 
 
 



 
 

 




 
 
 
 



 
 

 




 
 
 
 



 
 

 




 
 
 
 



 
 

 
 



 
 
 
 





Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread Share Long
Judy, assuming this is what you mean by a question, I think preserving life and 
preserving the sacredness of life are two different issues because though life 
is inherently and unconditionally sacred in principle, there are degrees of 
perceived sacredness in actuality. For example, if a robber with a gun broke 
into a family's home, a family member would shoot him based on the principle 
that at that moment, in those circumstances, the lives of the family members 
were more sacred than the life of the robber. And the legal system would uphold 
this idea.





On Sunday, January 5, 2014 11:25 AM, authfri...@yahoo.com 
authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  
Oh, PLEASE, Share! If you can't or don't want to answer the question, just say 
so. Don't pretend you can't find it. How lame.

 Judy, except for the first sentence of this post of yours, I don't see where 
you actually asked me a question! If I missed it, could you repeat? 




On Sunday, January 5, 2014 10:44 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
  
I don't believe I said one way or the other whether I agreed with the 
principle, did I? No, I'm not against abortion. Try again. See if you can keep 
the car on the road this time and actually answer the question I asked.

 From that line of reasoning, Judy, can we assume that you are against 
abortion? 





On Sunday, January 5, 2014 10:31 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
  
Oh, do elaborate for us on why you believe preserving the sacredness of life is 
a different issue from preserving life, given that the principle in question is 
that life is inherently and unconditionally sacred.


 Judy, I don't agree with you about what it takes to preserve the sacredness 
of life. Yes, I agree that to preserve life, one must stay alive. But that's a 
different issue imo. 





On Sunday, January 5, 2014 10:20 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
  
Um, Share, what it takes for the sacredness of life to be preserved isn't a 
matter of opinion or ideas, it's a matter of biological facts. If you die by 
your own hand, you have deliberately destroyed the sacredness of your own life.


You aren't engaging with what wayback and I are saying. As usual with any 
matter of dispute, your mind is like a car on an icy road--you keep sliding off 
the point at issue rather than dealing with it directly. You use this as a 
tactic to prevent rational discussion that might show you to be on the wrong 
side of the issue when you can't come up with a solid case.


 Judy, I agree that life is sacred. And I also recognize that other people 
may have very different ideas than mine about what constitutes that sacredness, 
what is necessary for it to be preserved. 





On Sunday, January 5, 2014 9:57 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
  
Non sequitur.

 But wayback, if one were to die in battle or put one's self in front of a 
bullet, that entails violence and violence involving another person or persons! 
Whereas starving one's self does not involve getting or giving harm to another. 


The point is that suicide (in this case by starvation) for a cause that does 
not involve preventing physical harm to another is against the principle of the 
sacredness of life.

 Like I said, I don't agree with his cause, but I admire that he's taking a 
strong, non violent stand about it. 

He's doing violence to himself. That is not the only way--and certainly not the 
most effective way--to take a strong, non violent stand against gay marriage.

 BTW, he didn't sound like a martyr to me at all. Not that I've spoken with 
any martyrs! 

Of course he thinks of himself as a martyr:

a person who sacrifices something of great value and especially life itself 
for the sake of principle

He is most likely mentally disturbed.

wayback wrote:
  
Share, I disagree, especially for an action like gay marriage, that really does 
not harm you or harm others. It is a difference of opinions.  There are so many 
many other truly significant issues on this planet.  Starve yourself to death 
over this?  Please, go find someone to donate your time or money to - someone 
suffering or hungry.  Another thought, it is my understanding that in Judaism 
life is held to be so precious that individuals are not expected to martyr 
themselves.  Fighting for a cause, dying in battle, putting yourself in front 
of a bullet meant for your loved one - all good.  But martyrdom is another.  It 
is not really considered admirable.  I like that approach.












Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread authfriend
The legal system would exonerate the shooter, but not because the robber's life 
was considered less sacred than the lives of the shooter and his or her 
family.
 

  Judy, assuming this is what you mean by a question, 

 

 (As if you didn't know. As I said, lame.)
 

  I think preserving life and preserving the sacredness of life are two 
different issues because though life is inherently and unconditionally sacred 
in principle, there are degrees of perceived sacredness in actuality. 
 

 Then you're saying you don't believe in the principle itself, because it 
doesn't allow for degrees of perceived sacredness. That would put conditions 
on it. Nothing wrong with that; I don't believe in it myself. But you've been 
beating around the bush--sliding off the road--instead of coming right out with 
it.
 

 Now tell us how your belief applies to the guy who claims he's going to starve 
himself to death if same-sex marriage isn't prohibited. Is his life less sacred 
than...whose?
 

  For example, if a robber with a gun broke into a family's home, a family 
member would shoot him based on the principle that at that moment, in those 
circumstances, the lives of the family members were more sacred than the life 
of the robber. And the legal system would uphold this idea. 
 

 
 
 On Sunday, January 5, 2014 11:25 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   Oh, PLEASE, Share! If you can't or don't want to answer the question, just 
say so. Don't pretend you can't find it. How lame.
 

  Judy, except for the first sentence of this post of yours, I don't see 
where you actually asked me a question! If I missed it, could you repeat? 

 
 
 
 On Sunday, January 5, 2014 10:44 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   I don't believe I said one way or the other whether I agreed with the 
principle, did I? No, I'm not against abortion. Try again. See if you can keep 
the car on the road this time and actually answer the question I asked.
 

  From that line of reasoning, Judy, can we assume that you are against 
abortion? 
 

 
 
 On Sunday, January 5, 2014 10:31 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   Oh, do elaborate for us on why you believe preserving the sacredness of life 
is a different issue from preserving life, given that the principle in question 
is that life is inherently and unconditionally sacred.
 
  Judy, I don't agree with you about what it takes to preserve the sacredness 
of life. Yes, I agree that to preserve life, one must stay alive. But that's a 
different issue imo. 
 

 
 
 On Sunday, January 5, 2014 10:20 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   Um, Share, what it takes for the sacredness of life to be preserved isn't a 
matter of opinion or ideas, it's a matter of biological facts. If you die by 
your own hand, you have deliberately destroyed the sacredness of your own life.

 

 You aren't engaging with what wayback and I are saying. As usual with any 
matter of dispute, your mind is like a car on an icy road--you keep sliding off 
the point at issue rather than dealing with it directly. You use this as a 
tactic to prevent rational discussion that might show you to be on the wrong 
side of the issue when you can't come up with a solid case.

  Judy, I agree that life is sacred. And I also recognize that other people 
may have very different ideas than mine about what constitutes that sacredness, 
what is necessary for it to be preserved. 
 

 
 
 On Sunday, January 5, 2014 9:57 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   Non sequitur.
 

  But wayback, if one were to die in battle or put one's self in front of a 
bullet, that entails violence and violence involving another person or persons! 
Whereas starving one's self does not involve getting or giving harm to another. 

 

 The point is that suicide (in this case by starvation) for a cause that does 
not involve preventing physical harm to another is against the principle of the 
sacredness of life.
 

  Like I said, I don't agree with his cause, but I admire that he's taking a 
strong, non violent stand about it. 
 

 He's doing violence to himself. That is not the only way--and certainly not 
the most effective way--to take a strong, non violent stand against gay 
marriage.

 BTW, he didn't sound like a martyr to me at all. Not that I've spoken with 
any martyrs! 
 

 Of course he thinks of himself as a martyr:
 

 a person who sacrifices something of great value and especially life itself 
for the sake of principle
 

 He is most likely mentally disturbed.
 

 wayback wrote:
 
   Share, I disagree, especially for an action like gay marriage, that really 
does not harm you or harm others. It is a difference of opinions.  There are so 
many many other truly significant issues on this planet.  Starve yourself to 
death over this?  Please, go find someone to donate your time or money to - 
someone suffering or hungry.  Another thought, it is my understanding that in 
Judaism life is held to be so precious that 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread Share Long
The family member shooting the robber is by action saying that the lives of 
family members are more sacred in those circumstances and the legal system 
would in essence be upholding that opinion.

I think the guy starving himself to death is saying that his belief about gay 
marriage is more sacred than his life.

I do believe in the principle that all life is sacred. I also see that in 
actual, day to day living, people make choices that express imo, their belief 
in degrees of sacredness.

I do too. For example, as much as I hate to do it, I will kill certain bugs if 
I find them in my house. I say a little prayer for them. But dispatch them I do!





On Sunday, January 5, 2014 12:23 PM, authfri...@yahoo.com 
authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  
The legal system would exonerate the shooter, but not because the robber's life 
was considered less sacred than the lives of the shooter and his or her 
family.

 Judy, assuming this is what you mean by a question, 



(As if you didn't know. As I said, lame.)

 I think preserving life and preserving the sacredness of life are two 
different issues because though life is inherently and unconditionally sacred 
in principle, there are degrees of perceived sacredness in actuality. 

Then you're saying you don't believe in the principle itself, because it 
doesn't allow for degrees of perceived sacredness. That would put conditions 
on it. Nothing wrong with that; I don't believe in it myself. But you've been 
beating around the bush--sliding off the road--instead of coming right out with 
it.

Now tell us how your belief applies to the guy who claims he's going to starve 
himself to death if same-sex marriage isn't prohibited. Is his life less sacred 
than...whose?

 For example, if a robber with a gun broke into a family's home, a family 
member would shoot him based on the principle that at that moment, in those 
circumstances, the lives of the family members were more sacred than the life 
of the robber. And the legal system would uphold this idea. 





On Sunday, January 5, 2014 11:25 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
  
Oh, PLEASE, Share! If you can't or don't want to answer the question, just say 
so. Don't pretend you can't find it. How lame.

 Judy, except for the first sentence of this post of yours, I don't see where 
you actually asked me a question! If I missed it, could you repeat? 




On Sunday, January 5, 2014 10:44 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
  
I don't believe I said one way or the other whether I agreed with the 
principle, did I? No, I'm not against abortion. Try again. See if you can keep 
the car on the road this time and actually answer the question I asked.

 From that line of reasoning, Judy, can we assume that you are against 
abortion? 





On Sunday, January 5, 2014 10:31 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
  
Oh, do elaborate for us on why you believe preserving the sacredness of life is 
a different issue from preserving life, given that the principle in question is 
that life is inherently and unconditionally sacred.


 Judy, I don't agree with you about what it takes to preserve the sacredness 
of life. Yes, I agree that to preserve life, one must stay alive. But that's a 
different issue imo. 





On Sunday, January 5, 2014 10:20 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
  
Um, Share, what it takes for the sacredness of life to be preserved isn't a 
matter of opinion or ideas, it's a matter of biological facts. If you die by 
your own hand, you have deliberately destroyed the sacredness of your own life.


You aren't engaging with what wayback and I are saying. As usual with any 
matter of dispute, your mind is like a car on an icy road--you keep sliding off 
the point at issue rather than dealing with it directly. You use this as a 
tactic to prevent rational discussion that might show you to be on the wrong 
side of the issue when you can't come up with a solid case.


 Judy, I agree that life is sacred. And I also recognize that other people 
may have very different ideas than mine about what constitutes that sacredness, 
what is necessary for it to be preserved. 





On Sunday, January 5, 2014 9:57 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
  
Non sequitur.

 But wayback, if one were to die in battle or put one's self in front of a 
bullet, that entails violence and violence involving another person or persons! 
Whereas starving one's self does not involve getting or giving harm to another. 


The point is that suicide (in this case by starvation) for a cause that does 
not involve preventing physical harm to another is against the principle of the 
sacredness of life.

 Like I said, I don't agree with his cause, but I admire that he's taking a 
strong, non violent stand about it. 

He's doing violence to himself. That is not the only way--and certainly not the 
most effective way--to take a strong, non violent stand against gay marriage.

 BTW, he didn't sound like a martyr to me at all. Not 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread authfriend
No, now you're going way off the road and using sacred to mean whatever you 
want it to mean (in this case, more valuable to me is probably closer), not 
what it means in the context of the principle in question.
 

  The family member shooting the robber is by action saying that the lives of 
family members are more sacred in those circumstances and the legal system 
would in essence be upholding that opinion.
 

 I think the guy starving himself to death is saying that his belief about gay 
marriage is more sacred than his life. 
 

 In which case he's saying he's a martyr. And as Susan pointed out to start 
with, martyring oneself is against the principles of Judaism.
 

  I do believe in the principle that all life is sacred. I also see that in 
actual, day to day living, people make choices that express imo, their belief 
in degrees of sacredness. 

 

 Then they don't believe in the principle. You can't have it both ways.
 

  I do too. For example, as much as I hate to do it, I will kill certain bugs 
if I find them in my house. I say a little prayer for them. But dispatch them I 
do! 
 

 The principle Susan was talking about is that human life is sacred, so this is 
another non sequitur, no matter how holy you think it makes you look.
 

 In any case, Susan's main point was that going on a hunger strike (or as 
Barry, the Writer, puts it, a hunger fast) is a terrible waste of effort 
given how much real suffering there is in the world that he could be doing 
something to prevent. I agree with Susan, there isn't a thing admirable about 
what he's doing. Either he's looking for publicity, or he's mentally disturbed.
 

 I find it interesting that you haven't addressed this at all.
 

 
 
 On Sunday, January 5, 2014 12:23 PM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   The legal system would exonerate the shooter, but not because the robber's 
life was considered less sacred than the lives of the shooter and his or her 
family.
 

  Judy, assuming this is what you mean by a question, 

 

 (As if you didn't know. As I said, lame.)
 

  I think preserving life and preserving the sacredness of life are two 
different issues because though life is inherently and unconditionally sacred 
in principle, there are degrees of perceived sacredness in actuality. 
 

 Then you're saying you don't believe in the principle itself, because it 
doesn't allow for degrees of perceived sacredness. That would put conditions 
on it. Nothing wrong with that; I don't believe in it myself. But you've been 
beating around the bush--sliding off the road--instead of coming right out with 
it.
 

 Now tell us how your belief applies to the guy who claims he's going to starve 
himself to death if same-sex marriage isn't prohibited. Is his life less sacred 
than...whose?
 

  For example, if a robber with a gun broke into a family's home, a family 
member would shoot him based on the principle that at that moment, in those 
circumstances, the lives of the family members were more sacred than the life 
of the robber. And the legal system would uphold this idea. 
 

 
 
 On Sunday, January 5, 2014 11:25 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
 





  Oh, PLEASE, Share! If you can't or don't want to answer the question, just 
say so. Don't pretend you can't find it. How lame.
 

  Judy, except for the first sentence of this post of yours, I don't see 
where you actually asked me a question! If I missed it, could you repeat? 

 
 
 
 On Sunday, January 5, 2014 10:44 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   I don't believe I said one way or the other whether I agreed with the 
principle, did I? No, I'm not against abortion. Try again. See if you can keep 
the car on the road this time and actually answer the question I asked.
 

  From that line of reasoning, Judy, can we assume that you are against 
abortion? 
 

 
 
 On Sunday, January 5, 2014 10:31 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   Oh, do elaborate for us on why you believe preserving the sacredness of life 
is a different issue from preserving life, given that the principle in question 
is that life is inherently and unconditionally sacred.
 
  Judy, I don't agree with you about what it takes to preserve the sacredness 
of life. Yes, I agree that to preserve life, one must stay alive. But that's a 
different issue imo. 
 

 
 
 On Sunday, January 5, 2014 10:20 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   Um, Share, what it takes for the sacredness of life to be preserved isn't a 
matter of opinion or ideas, it's a matter of biological facts. If you die by 
your own hand, you have deliberately destroyed the sacredness of your own life.

 

 You aren't engaging with what wayback and I are saying. As usual with any 
matter of dispute, your mind is like a car on an icy road--you keep sliding off 
the point at issue rather than dealing with it directly. You use this as a 
tactic to prevent rational discussion that might show you to be on the wrong 
side of the 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread steve.sundur
Share, you are about two steps away.


Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread steve.sundur
Check


Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread steve.sundur
and Mate.


Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread Share Long
Steve, your posts don't contain the previous post so I'm not sure what you're 
replying to. For example, what did you mean when you said I was 2 steps away?

 





On Sunday, January 5, 2014 3:47 PM, steve.sun...@yahoo.com 
steve.sun...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  
Check


Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread steve.sundur
I think you checkmated Judy. 


Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread Share Long
Thanks, Steve, it's hard for me to tell. I think I'm being very clear but her 
response often indicates otherwise. I think Judy and I simply think differently.





On Sunday, January 5, 2014 3:55 PM, steve.sun...@yahoo.com 
steve.sun...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  
I think you checkmated Judy. 


Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread authfriend
It doesn't even matter, Share. Stevie would declare you the winner whatever 
you or I said. And he ain't gonna quote because he doesn't want to look 
STOOOPID. Haven't you ever noticed how often he refuses to back up his 
claims?
 
  Steve, your posts don't contain the previous post so I'm not sure what 
you're replying to. For example, what did you mean when you said I was 2 steps 
away? 

 
 

 
 
 On Sunday, January 5, 2014 3:47 PM, steve.sundur@... steve.sundur@... 
wrote:
 
   Check
 
 

 
 



 
 
 
 





Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread Share Long
Judy, actually I think human life is always about having it both ways. Meaning 
that we humans are matter and spirit, each informing the other, and sometimes 
not jiving with each other.





On Sunday, January 5, 2014 1:25 PM, authfri...@yahoo.com 
authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  
No, now you're going way off the road and using sacred to mean whatever you 
want it to mean (in this case, more valuable to me is probably closer), not 
what it means in the context of the principle in question.

 The family member shooting the robber is by action saying that the lives of 
family members are more sacred in those circumstances and the legal system 
would in essence be upholding that opinion.

I think the guy starving himself to death is saying that his belief about gay 
marriage is more sacred than his life. 

In which case he's saying he's a martyr. And as Susan pointed out to start 
with, martyring oneself is against the principles of Judaism.

 I do believe in the principle that all life is sacred. I also see that in 
actual, day to day living, people make choices that express imo, their belief 
in degrees of sacredness. 


Then they don't believe in the principle. You can't have it both ways.

 I do too. For example, as much as I hate to do it, I will kill certain bugs 
if I find them in my house. I say a little prayer for them. But dispatch them I 
do! 

The principle Susan was talking about is that human life is sacred, so this is 
another non sequitur, no matter how holy you think it makes you look.

In any case, Susan's main point was that going on a hunger strike (or as Barry, 
the Writer, puts it, a hunger fast) is a terrible waste of effort given how 
much real suffering there is in the world that he could be doing something to 
prevent. I agree with Susan, there isn't a thing admirable about what he's 
doing. Either he's looking for publicity, or he's mentally disturbed.

I find it interesting that you haven't addressed this at all.





On Sunday, January 5, 2014 12:23 PM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
  
The legal system would exonerate the shooter, but not because the robber's life 
was considered less sacred than the lives of the shooter and his or her 
family.

 Judy, assuming this is what you mean by a question, 



(As if you didn't know. As I said, lame.)

 I think preserving life and preserving the sacredness of life are two 
different issues because though life is inherently and unconditionally sacred 
in principle, there are degrees of perceived sacredness in actuality. 

Then you're saying you don't believe in the principle itself, because it 
doesn't allow for degrees of perceived sacredness. That would put conditions 
on it. Nothing wrong with that; I don't believe in it myself. But you've been 
beating around the bush--sliding off the road--instead of coming right out with 
it.

Now tell us how your belief applies to the guy who claims he's going to starve 
himself to death if same-sex marriage isn't prohibited. Is his life less sacred 
than...whose?

 For example, if a robber with a gun broke into a family's home, a family 
member would shoot him based on the principle that at that moment, in those 
circumstances, the lives of the family members were more sacred than the life 
of the robber. And the legal system would uphold this idea. 







On Sunday, January 5, 2014 11:25 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
   
Oh, PLEASE, Share! If you can't or don't want to answer the question, just say 
so. Don't pretend you can't find it. How lame.

 Judy, except for the first sentence of this post of yours, I don't see where 
you actually asked me a question! If I missed it, could you repeat? 




On Sunday, January 5, 2014 10:44 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
  
I don't believe I said one way or the other whether I agreed with the 
principle, did I? No, I'm not against abortion. Try again. See if you can keep 
the car on the road this time and actually answer the question I asked.

 From that line of reasoning, Judy, can we assume that you are against 
abortion? 





On Sunday, January 5, 2014 10:31 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
  
Oh, do elaborate for us on why you believe preserving the sacredness of life is 
a different issue from preserving life, given that the principle in question is 
that life is inherently and unconditionally sacred.


 Judy, I don't agree with you about what it takes to preserve the sacredness 
of life. Yes, I agree that to preserve life, one must stay alive. But that's a 
different issue imo. 





On Sunday, January 5, 2014 10:20 AM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
  
Um, Share, what it takes for the sacredness of life to be preserved isn't a 
matter of opinion or ideas, it's a matter of biological facts. If you die by 
your own hand, you have deliberately destroyed the sacredness of your own life.


You aren't engaging with what wayback and I are saying. As usual with any 
matter of dispute, your mind is like a car 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread authfriend
It's not so much that you aren't being clear as that you aren't engaging with 
what's on the road, with the actual issue and the points it raises. You go off 
on all these side trips in order to distract from what you can't deal with. You 
did this from the very first post Susan made.
 

 And poor Stevie doesn't know the difference. He thinks any response you come 
up with must be a killer because it's you who made it. (Especially when it's in 
a discussion with me, of course.)
 
  Thanks, Steve, it's hard for me to tell. I think I'm being very clear but 
her response often indicates otherwise. I think Judy and I simply think 
differently. 
 

 
 
 On Sunday, January 5, 2014 3:55 PM, steve.sundur@... steve.sundur@... 
wrote:
 
   I think you checkmated Judy. 
 
 

 
 



 
 
 
 





Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread steve.sundur
My Lord Judy, you didn't see it coming did you?  You just got your clock 
cleaned!  Just gracefully move off the stage and regroup.  It's okay. Really.


Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread steve.sundur
Share, if you don't mind me saying, you had her tied up loops like we haven't 
seen a while.  Really, you feel kind of bad for her.  Or at least I do.


Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread steve.sundur
Share, you should share more of these tidbits on Batgap.  Can you imagine how 
they would have said the same thing!!


Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread feste37
Yep, Share really took auth to the cleaners in this thread. Auth flails around 
hopelessly but Share is always one step ahead. And of course, auth hates 
losing. 

 

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, steve.sundur@... wrote:

 Share, if you don't mind me saying, you had her tied up loops like we haven't 
seen a while.  Really, you feel kind of bad for her.  Or at least I do.




Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread authfriend
As I told Share, Stevie-poo, you can't tell the difference between good 
arguments and bad ones. The only distinction you're capable of making is whose 
argument it is: If it's Share's, it's Good; if it's Judy's, it's Bad.
 

 If you had any clue other than that, you'd be able to actually participate in 
the discussion, or at least provide some analysis. But you can't do that. All 
you can do is throw spitballs from the sidelines.
 
 My Lord Judy, you didn't see it coming did you?  You just got your clock 
cleaned!  Just gracefully move off the stage and regroup.  It's okay. Really.
 





Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread authfriend
Was wondering when you'd barge in, Feste. But like Stevie, either you can't 
tell the difference between a good argument and a bad one, or you feel you have 
to support Share and oppose me just on general principles even when she's 
wrong. And like Stevie, you're incapable of actually participating in the 
discussion.
 

 Let's see, now: Do you admire the guy who's starving himself to death to 
protest same-sex marriage? (Regardless of whether you agree with his 
position--is this a good way to achieve his goal?)
 
  Yep, Share really took auth to the cleaners in this thread. Auth flails 
around hopelessly but Share is always one step ahead. And of course, auth hates 
losing. 

 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, steve.sundur@... wrote:

 Share, if you don't mind me saying, you had her tied up loops like we haven't 
seen a while.  Really, you feel kind of bad for her.  Or at least I do.






Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread feste37
Nice try, auth, but I am not taking the bait. I think it's best if you just 
accept your defeat and move on. Tomorrow is another day.

 

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 Was wondering when you'd barge in, Feste. But like Stevie, either you can't 
tell the difference between a good argument and a bad one, or you feel you have 
to support Share and oppose me just on general principles even when she's 
wrong. And like Stevie, you're incapable of actually participating in the 
discussion.
 

 Let's see, now: Do you admire the guy who's starving himself to death to 
protest same-sex marriage? (Regardless of whether you agree with his 
position--is this a good way to achieve his goal?)
 
  Yep, Share really took auth to the cleaners in this thread. Auth flails 
around hopelessly but Share is always one step ahead. And of course, auth hates 
losing. 

 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, steve.sundur@... wrote:

 Share, if you don't mind me saying, you had her tied up loops like we haven't 
seen a while.  Really, you feel kind of bad for her.  Or at least I do.








Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread authfriend
Oh, and by the way, I've been defending wayback's position. That may put you 
and Stevie in a little bit of a bind, because, I suspect, she is one of the 
Good Guys in your alleged minds.
 

  Was wondering when you'd barge in, Feste. But like Stevie, either you can't 
tell the difference between a good argument and a bad one, or you feel you have 
to support Share and oppose me just on general principles even when she's 
wrong. And like Stevie, you're incapable of actually participating in the 
discussion.
 

 Let's see, now: Do you admire the guy who's starving himself to death to 
protest same-sex marriage? (Regardless of whether you agree with his 
position--is this a good way to achieve his goal?) 
 
  Yep, Share really took auth to the cleaners in this thread. Auth flails 
around hopelessly but Share is always one step ahead. And of course, auth hates 
losing. 

 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, steve.sundur@... wrote:

 Share, if you don't mind me saying, you had her tied up loops like we haven't 
seen a while.  Really, you feel kind of bad for her.  Or at least I do.








Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread authfriend
Translation: I really don't approve of the dude's hunger strike, but I can't 
possibly express an opinion contrary to Share's, or I'd look very, very silly.
 

 Like Stevie, Feste, your worst flaw is your moral cowardice.
 
  Nice try, auth, but I am not taking the bait. I think it's best if you just 
accept your defeat and move on. Tomorrow is another day. 

 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 Was wondering when you'd barge in, Feste. But like Stevie, either you can't 
tell the difference between a good argument and a bad one, or you feel you have 
to support Share and oppose me just on general principles even when she's 
wrong. And like Stevie, you're incapable of actually participating in the 
discussion.
 

 Let's see, now: Do you admire the guy who's starving himself to death to 
protest same-sex marriage? (Regardless of whether you agree with his 
position--is this a good way to achieve his goal?)
 
  Yep, Share really took auth to the cleaners in this thread. Auth flails 
around hopelessly but Share is always one step ahead. And of course, auth hates 
losing. 

 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, steve.sundur@... wrote:

 Share, if you don't mind me saying, you had her tied up loops like we haven't 
seen a while.  Really, you feel kind of bad for her.  Or at least I do.










Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread steve.sundur
Leave go Judy, leave go.  It's all good.
 

 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5RrLAgi_mBY 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5RrLAgi_mBY



Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread feste37
Is that worse than being a lying jackass, auth, because that's what you were 
calling me a couple of weeks ago. I know that following your failure to get the 
better of Share, who is far too nimble for you ever to lay a glove on, you need 
to find someone to beat up. Be my guest, if it makes you happy. 

 

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 Translation: I really don't approve of the dude's hunger strike, but I can't 
possibly express an opinion contrary to Share's, or I'd look very, very silly.
 

 Like Stevie, Feste, your worst flaw is your moral cowardice.
 
  Nice try, auth, but I am not taking the bait. I think it's best if you just 
accept your defeat and move on. Tomorrow is another day. 

 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 Was wondering when you'd barge in, Feste. But like Stevie, either you can't 
tell the difference between a good argument and a bad one, or you feel you have 
to support Share and oppose me just on general principles even when she's 
wrong. And like Stevie, you're incapable of actually participating in the 
discussion.
 

 Let's see, now: Do you admire the guy who's starving himself to death to 
protest same-sex marriage? (Regardless of whether you agree with his 
position--is this a good way to achieve his goal?)
 
  Yep, Share really took auth to the cleaners in this thread. Auth flails 
around hopelessly but Share is always one step ahead. And of course, auth hates 
losing. 

 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, steve.sundur@... wrote:

 Share, if you don't mind me saying, you had her tied up loops like we haven't 
seen a while.  Really, you feel kind of bad for her.  Or at least I do.












Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread authfriend
Feste, all I can say is I hope your fantasies keep you warm at night. Not even 
Share believes what you just said.
 

 Or, I don't know, maybe she does. I just don't think she could possibly be 
that out of it.
 

 

  Is that worse than being a lying jackass, auth, because that's what you 
were calling me a couple of weeks ago. I know that following your failure to 
get the better of Share, who is far too nimble for you ever to lay a glove on, 
you need to find someone to beat up. Be my guest, if it makes you happy. 

 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 Translation: I really don't approve of the dude's hunger strike, but I can't 
possibly express an opinion contrary to Share's, or I'd look very, very silly.
 

 Like Stevie, Feste, your worst flaw is your moral cowardice.
 
  Nice try, auth, but I am not taking the bait. I think it's best if you just 
accept your defeat and move on. Tomorrow is another day. 

 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 Was wondering when you'd barge in, Feste. But like Stevie, either you can't 
tell the difference between a good argument and a bad one, or you feel you have 
to support Share and oppose me just on general principles even when she's 
wrong. And like Stevie, you're incapable of actually participating in the 
discussion.
 

 Let's see, now: Do you admire the guy who's starving himself to death to 
protest same-sex marriage? (Regardless of whether you agree with his 
position--is this a good way to achieve his goal?)
 
  Yep, Share really took auth to the cleaners in this thread. Auth flails 
around hopelessly but Share is always one step ahead. And of course, auth hates 
losing. 

 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, steve.sundur@... wrote:

 Share, if you don't mind me saying, you had her tied up loops like we haven't 
seen a while.  Really, you feel kind of bad for her.  Or at least I do.














Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread Share Long
Judy, in any post, I engage with the parts that I'm interested in or 
knowledgeable about or just opinionated about. I don't try to cover all the 
points, especially when I'm replying to a long post. And it's my opinion that 
in a discussion, the actual points and issues it raises are determined by ALL 
the participants, not just one of them. Actually that is, I think, part and 
parcel of the discussion, determining which are the salient points. IMO you and 
I simply have very different ways of thinking about topics. 

Which is fine. And this time we got pretty far before the train went off the 
rails. That was enjoyable for me.




On Sunday, January 5, 2014 4:15 PM, authfri...@yahoo.com 
authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  
It's not so much that you aren't being clear as that you aren't engaging with 
what's on the road, with the actual issue and the points it raises. You go off 
on all these side trips in order to distract from what you can't deal with. You 
did this from the very first post Susan made.

And poor Stevie doesn't know the difference. He thinks any response you come up 
with must be a killer because it's you who made it. (Especially when it's in a 
discussion with me, of course.)


 Thanks, Steve, it's hard for me to tell. I think I'm being very clear but 
her response often indicates otherwise. I think Judy and I simply think 
differently. 





On Sunday, January 5, 2014 3:55 PM, steve.sundur@... steve.sundur@... wrote:
 
  
I think you checkmated Judy. 




Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread doctordumbass
Share, you should share more of these tidbits on Batgap.  Can you imagine how 
they would have said the same thing!!
 

 Yep, we put on a good peep-show, over there, Steve!



Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread Share Long
Judy, imo this is one of the strategies you use in an argument that creates a 
barrier to finding the truth. To say what I don't believe and then to negate 
your statement may be a clever debating tactic. But it brings to my mind the 
idea of forked tongues!




On Sunday, January 5, 2014 8:12 PM, authfri...@yahoo.com 
authfri...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  
Feste, all I can say is I hope your fantasies keep you warm at night. Not even 
Share believes what you just said.

Or, I don't know, maybe she does. I just don't think she could possibly be that 
out of it.



 Is that worse than being a lying jackass, auth, because that's what you 
were calling me a couple of weeks ago. I know that following your failure to 
get the better of Share, who is far too nimble for you ever to lay a glove on, 
you need to find someone to beat up. Be my guest, if it makes you happy. 





---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:


Translation: I really don't approve of the dude's hunger strike, but I can't 
possibly express an opinion contrary to Share's, or I'd look very, very silly.


Like Stevie, Feste, your worst flaw is your moral cowardice.


 Nice try, auth, but I am not taking the bait. I think it's best if you just 
accept your defeat and move on. Tomorrow is another day. 






---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:


Was wondering when you'd barge in, Feste. But like Stevie, either you can't 
tell the difference between a good argument and a bad one, or you feel you 
have to support Share and oppose me just on general principles even when 
she's wrong. And like Stevie, you're incapable of actually participating in 
the discussion.


Let's see, now: Do you admire the guy who's starving himself to death to 
protest same-sex marriage? (Regardless of whether you agree with his 
position--is this a good way to achieve his goal?)


 Yep, Share really took auth to the cleaners in this thread. Auth flails 
around hopelessly but Share is always one step ahead. And of course, auth 
hates losing. 






---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, steve.sundur@... wrote:


Share, if you don't mind me saying, you had her tied up loops like we 
haven't seen a while.  Really, you feel kind of bad for her.  Or at least 
I do.


Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread authfriend
There were two participants who were raising points, Share, not just one. Isn't 
that funny, you forgot all about Susan, whose views I was defending. That's OK, 
Stevie and Feste did as well. How convenient.
 

 Just for giggles, let's have a look at Susan's point (her first of two), which 
you had no interest in or opinion about:
 

 Share, I disagree, especially for an action like gay marriage, that really 
does not harm you or harm others. It is a difference of opinions.  There are so 
many many other truly significant issues on this planet.  Starve yourself to 
death over this?  Please, go find someone to donate your time or money to - 
someone suffering or hungry.
 

 To me, it's astonishing that you would prefer to ignore this and instead argue 
about the principle of Judaism that Susan elucidated (at least once I'd gotten 
you back on the road after your non sequitur). Both points are important, but 
that one is secondary if one has an interest in relieving suffering.
 

 Seraphita made another good point, BTW, that threatening to starve oneself is 
an attempt at emotional blackmail. But perhaps that's why you didn't want to 
address it--a little too close to home.
 
  Judy, in any post, I engage with the parts that I'm interested in or 
knowledgeable about or just opinionated about. I don't try to cover all the 
points, especially when I'm replying to a long post. 
 

 Susan's post was a single shortish paragraph, Share.
 

 

 

 And it's my opinion that in a discussion, the actual points and issues it 
raises are determined by ALL the participants, not just one of them. Actually 
that is, I think, part and parcel of the discussion, determining which are the 
salient points. IMO you and I simply have very different ways of thinking about 
topics. 
 Which is fine. And this time we got pretty far before the train went off the 
rails. That was enjoyable for me.

 
 
 On Sunday, January 5, 2014 4:15 PM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   It's not so much that you aren't being clear as that you aren't engaging 
with what's on the road, with the actual issue and the points it raises. You go 
off on all these side trips in order to distract from what you can't deal with. 
You did this from the very first post Susan made.
 

 And poor Stevie doesn't know the difference. He thinks any response you come 
up with must be a killer because it's you who made it. (Especially when it's in 
a discussion with me, of course.)
 
  Thanks, Steve, it's hard for me to tell. I think I'm being very clear but 
her response often indicates otherwise. I think Judy and I simply think 
differently. 
 

 
 
 On Sunday, January 5, 2014 3:55 PM, steve.sundur@... steve.sundur@... 
wrote:
 
   I think you checkmated Judy. 
 
 

 




 
 
 
 



 
 

 
 



 
 
 
 





Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread steve.sundur
Peep show?!  I think you've got full exhibition going on there sometimes. (-:
 

 



Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread steve.sundur
Somebody take Judy's shovel away from her, Please!


Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread authfriend
Oh, I thought Share had already done that, according to you and Feste.
 

 Ooopsie...
 

 Somebody take Judy's shovel away from her, Please!




Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread authfriend
And if I'd simply declared that you didn't believe Feste, you'd have expressed 
even more faux outrage about that. At least I allowed for two possibilities. 
(Interesting that you haven't said which is the case.) 
 

 No, it doesn't create a barrier to finding the truth, nor is it a matter of 
a debating tactic or forked tongues. Don't be ridiculous. 
 

 As far as tongues are concerned, though, yours is more like a whole tree with 
the branches all tangled up. That does create a barrier to finding the truth.
 


  Judy, imo this is one of the strategies you use in an argument that creates 
a barrier to finding the truth. To say what I don't believe and then to negate 
your statement may be a clever debating tactic. But it brings to my mind the 
idea of forked tongues! 

 
 
 On Sunday, January 5, 2014 8:12 PM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote:
 
   Feste, all I can say is I hope your fantasies keep you warm at night. Not 
even Share believes what you just said.
 

 Or, I don't know, maybe she does. I just don't think she could possibly be 
that out of it.
 

 

  Is that worse than being a lying jackass, auth, because that's what you 
were calling me a couple of weeks ago. I know that following your failure to 
get the better of Share, who is far too nimble for you ever to lay a glove on, 
you need to find someone to beat up. Be my guest, if it makes you happy. 

 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 Translation: I really don't approve of the dude's hunger strike, but I can't 
possibly express an opinion contrary to Share's, or I'd look very, very silly.
 

 Like Stevie, Feste, your worst flaw is your moral cowardice.
 
  Nice try, auth, but I am not taking the bait. I think it's best if you just 
accept your defeat and move on. Tomorrow is another day. 

 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 Was wondering when you'd barge in, Feste. But like Stevie, either you can't 
tell the difference between a good argument and a bad one, or you feel you have 
to support Share and oppose me just on general principles even when she's 
wrong. And like Stevie, you're incapable of actually participating in the 
discussion.
 

 Let's see, now: Do you admire the guy who's starving himself to death to 
protest same-sex marriage? (Regardless of whether you agree with his 
position--is this a good way to achieve his goal?)
 
  Yep, Share really took auth to the cleaners in this thread. Auth flails 
around hopelessly but Share is always one step ahead. And of course, auth hates 
losing. 

 

 

 ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, steve.sundur@... wrote:

 Share, if you don't mind me saying, you had her tied up loops like we haven't 
seen a while.  Really, you feel kind of bad for her.  Or at least I do.












 
 

 
 





 
 
 
 











Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread steve.sundur

 well, she did, but...you are nothing... if not persistent!
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote:

 Oh, I thought Share had already done that, according to you and Feste.
 

 Ooopsie...
 

 Somebody take Judy's shovel away from her, Please!






Re: [FairfieldLife] Finally, an anti-gay marriage protest I like

2014-01-05 Thread steve.sundur
As far as tongues are concerned, though, yours is more like a whole tree with 
the branches all tangled up. That does create a barrier to finding the truth.
 

 oh yea? Well yours is like a whole tree with all the branches tangled up, 
which just got some fertilizer dumped on it, and then, then, then, the tangler 
monster came and tangled it up double.
 

 So there!