Re: [FairfieldLife] Meaning is a Static Thing

2014-04-17 Thread Share Long
Ann, maybe it's a fine line between admiration and being gaga over a 
charismatic person. As for which comes first, health or quiet charisma, I'd 
guess that good psychological health would be the foundation.


On Wednesday, April 16, 2014 9:03 PM, awoelfleba...@yahoo.com 
awoelfleba...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  




---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :


Ann, in this post as well as in my previous posts, I often write to discover 
what I think rather than to declare what I think. Plus I get a lot from the 
input and questions from others. Like this question of yours about where 
charisma comes from. My immediate response was that it comes from Being, from 
Life and I'm not giving that thought up completely. 

OTOH, I think both Martin Luther King and Hitler had the gift of public 
speaking and their charisma was funneled through that gift,
 the big difference being, imo, that King was grounded in spirituality and 
Hitler wasn't.

Nick Vujicic comes to mind as a contemporary charismatic person. He's a young, 
Australian fellow who was born without arms and legs and has gone on to live an 
amazing life which includes uplifting and inspiring others. I'd say his 
charisma comes
straight from his spirit and doesn't get distorted much on the way to 
expression. 

Have you seen him in person? Or are you thinking/confusing charisma for 
admiration for the man? There is a big difference. Charisma is a palpable 
magnet coming off the charismatic in my experience. You are mesmerized or at 
least drawn to stay near the charismatic. They are attractive in all sorts of 
ways that goes way beyond physical attraction. They seem to hold out a promise 
for something they can give you if you stay near them or listen to their words. 
It is quite a physical sensation.

My guess is that it's easier for the quiet, charismatic people to stay 
psychologically healthy than it is for the expressive charismatics.

Chicken or the egg? (I seem to be asking that a lot lately.)


On Wednesday, April 16, 2014 12:23 PM, awoelflebater@... awoelflebater@... 
wrote:

 




---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :


Ann, I think I've mainly been in the presence of healthy or developed 
charismatic people like Martin Luther King. My guess is that charisma is a gift 
that can easily be misused and thus the world has known many unhealthy or 
undeveloped charismatic people, like Hitler.

But I would also say that a charismatic person can be mainly either quiet or 
expressive.

Hmm, so that just about covers the range of possibilities. Funny, because 
earlier you were talking about charisma as being all fire and brimstone and 
theatrical.

 For example, I'd put Fr. Keating in the group of healthy, quiet charismatic 
people whereas I'd put MLK in the group of healthy, expressive charismatics.

What do you think, do you think charisma has to do with the person or their 
message primarily? 








Re: [FairfieldLife] Meaning is a Static Thing

2014-04-16 Thread Share Long
Thanks, Nablusoss, wonderful to hear Maharishi who's not at all charismatic. 
And I mean that as a great compliment. I think he doesn't have to be because 
he's speaking the plain truth.


On Wednesday, April 16, 2014 2:22 AM, nablusoss1008 no_re...@yahoogroups.com 
wrote:
 
  
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y7ajEzVsuhg


Re: [FairfieldLife] Meaning is a Static Thing

2014-04-16 Thread dhamiltony2k5
Jeezus X-mas, Not at all Charismatic? You evidently did not get to spend much 
time around Maharishi.
 That's a pity.
 
 
 This is a good working definition of charismatic .. . 
 
 
 Weber, in an oft quoted passage, defined charisma as a certain quality of an 
individual personality, by virtue of which [s/]he is set apart from ordinary 
[people] and treated as endowed with supernatural, superhuman, or at least 
specifically exceptional powers or qualities. These are such as are not 
accessible to the ordinary person, but are regarded as of divine origin or as 
exemplary, and on the basis of them the individual concerned is treated as a 
leader. 1
 

 By experience,
 -U.S. Buck in the Dome
 

 

 .. .sharelong60 asserts:
 

 Thanks, Nablusoss, wonderful to hear Maharishi who's not at all charismatic. 
And I mean that as a great compliment. I think he doesn't have to be because 
he's speaking the plain truth.
 On Wednesday, April 16, 2014 2:22 AM, nablusoss1008 no_re...@yahoogroups.com 
wrote:   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y7ajEzVsuhg 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y7ajEzVsuhg

 


 












Re: [FairfieldLife] Meaning is a Static Thing

2014-04-16 Thread Share Long
Buck, when I think of charismatic I think of fire and brimstone preachers, etc. 
Maharishi spoke the plain truth and did not need such theatrics imo. He was a 
true leader in that sense.


On Wednesday, April 16, 2014 6:20 AM, dhamiltony...@yahoo.com 
dhamiltony...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  
Jeezus X-mas, Not at all Charismatic? You evidently did not get to spend
much time around Maharishi.
That's a pity.

This is a good working definition of charismatic .. . 

Weber, in an oft quoted passage, defined charisma as a certain quality of an 
individual
personality, by virtue of which [s/]he is set apart from ordinary [people] and 
treated as
endowed with supernatural, superhuman, or at least specifically exceptional 
powers or
qualities. These are such as are not accessible to the ordinary person, but are 
regarded as
of divine origin or as exemplary, and on the basis of them the individual 
concerned is
treated as a leader. 1

By experience,
-U.S. Buck in the Dome


.. .sharelong60 asserts:


Thanks, Nablusoss, wonderful to hear Maharishi who's not at all charismatic. 
And I mean that as a great compliment. I think he doesn't have to be because 
he's speaking the plain truth.
On Wednesday, April 16, 2014 2:22 AM, nablusoss1008 no_re...@yahoogroups.com 
wrote:
 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y7ajEzVsuhg




Re: [FairfieldLife] Meaning is a Static Thing

2014-04-16 Thread TurquoiseBee
Doug (Buck) obviously has pretty low standards when it comes to charisma. 


Based on my own experience -- both with Maharishi and with other teachers since 
-- I would have to say that Maharishi Mahesh Yogi had about the same level of 
charisma as my plumber. And my plumber charges less. 




 From: dhamiltony...@yahoo.com dhamiltony...@yahoo.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Wednesday, April 16, 2014 1:18 PM
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Meaning is a Static Thing
 


  
Jeezus X-mas, Not at all Charismatic? You evidently did not get to spend
much time around Maharishi.
That's a pity.
This is a good working definition of charismatic .. . 
Weber, in an oft quoted passage, defined charisma as a certain quality of an 
individual
personality, by virtue of which [s/]he is set apart from ordinary [people] and 
treated as
endowed with supernatural, superhuman, or at least specifically exceptional 
powers or
qualities. These are such as are not accessible to the ordinary person, but are 
regarded as
of divine origin or as exemplary, and on the basis of them the individual 
concerned is
treated as a leader. 1
By experience,
-U.S. Buck in the Dome
.. .sharelong60 asserts:
Thanks, Nablusoss, wonderful to hear Maharishi who's not at all charismatic. 
And I mean that as a great compliment. I think he doesn't have to be because 
he's speaking the plain truth.
On Wednesday, April 16, 2014 2:22 AM, nablusoss1008 no_re...@yahoogroups.com 
wrote:
 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y7ajEzVsuhg

Re: [FairfieldLife] Meaning is a Static Thing

2014-04-16 Thread Share Long
turq, I think the highest form of charisma is not needing charisma at all. And 
imo Maharishi exemplified this highest form.


On Wednesday, April 16, 2014 6:56 AM, TurquoiseBee turquoi...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  
Doug (Buck) obviously has pretty low standards when it comes to charisma. 


Based on my own experience -- both with Maharishi and with other teachers since 
-- I would have to say that Maharishi Mahesh Yogi had about the same level of 
charisma as my plumber. And my plumber charges less. 




 From: dhamiltony...@yahoo.com dhamiltony...@yahoo.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Wednesday, April 16, 2014 1:18 PM
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Meaning is a Static Thing
 


  
Jeezus X-mas, Not at all Charismatic? You evidently did not get to spend
much time around Maharishi.
That's a pity.
This is a good working definition of charismatic .. . 
Weber, in an oft quoted passage, defined charisma as a certain quality of an 
individual
personality, by virtue of which [s/]he is set apart from ordinary [people] and 
treated as
endowed with supernatural, superhuman, or at least specifically exceptional 
powers or
qualities. These are such as are not accessible to the ordinary person, but are 
regarded as
of divine origin or as exemplary, and on the basis of them the individual 
concerned is
treated as a leader. 1
By experience,
-U.S. Buck in the Dome
.. .sharelong60 asserts:
Thanks, Nablusoss, wonderful to hear Maharishi who's not at all charismatic. 
And I mean that as a great compliment. I think he doesn't have to be because 
he's speaking the plain truth.
On Wednesday, April 16, 2014 2:22 AM, nablusoss1008 no_re...@yahoogroups.com 
wrote:
 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y7ajEzVsuhg




Re: [FairfieldLife] Meaning is a Static Thing

2014-04-16 Thread nablusoss1008

 The Turq didn't see any charisma because he was in the TMO for other reasons 
than being attentive, the party and the broads, as he has told us ad nauseum. 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 Doug (Buck) obviously has pretty low standards when it comes to charisma. 
 

 Based on my own experience -- both with Maharishi and with other teachers 
since -- I would have to say that Maharishi Mahesh Yogi had about the same 
level of charisma as my plumber. And my plumber charges less. 

 

 
 From: dhamiltony2k5@... dhamiltony2k5@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Wednesday, April 16, 2014 1:18 PM
 Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Meaning is a Static Thing
 
 
   Jeezus X-mas, Not at all Charismatic? You evidently did not get to spend 
much time around Maharishi.
 That's a pity.
 This is a good working definition of charismatic .. .
 Weber, in an oft quoted passage, defined charisma as a certain quality of an 
individual personality, by virtue of which [s/]he is set apart from ordinary 
[people] and treated as endowed with supernatural, superhuman, or at least 
specifically exceptional powers or qualities. These are such as are not 
accessible to the ordinary person, but are regarded as of divine origin or as 
exemplary, and on the basis of them the individual concerned is treated as a 
leader. 1
 By experience,
 -U.S. Buck in the Dome
 .. .sharelong60 asserts:
 Thanks, Nablusoss, wonderful to hear Maharishi who's not at all charismatic. 
And I mean that as a great compliment. I think he doesn't have to be because 
he's speaking the plain truth.
 On Wednesday, April 16, 2014 2:22 AM, nablusoss1008 no_re...@yahoogroups.com 
wrote:   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y7ajEzVsuhg 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y7ajEzVsuhg

 



























Re: [FairfieldLife] Meaning is a Static Thing

2014-04-16 Thread nablusoss1008
Maharishi certainly didn't have to be charming to impress anyone. But anyone 
who met still commented on his charisma, not counting the dull or drugged-out 
of which we have a few experts here :-)
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 Thanks, Nablusoss, wonderful to hear Maharishi who's not at all charismatic. 
And I mean that as a great compliment. I think he doesn't have to be because 
he's speaking the plain truth.
 

 On Wednesday, April 16, 2014 2:22 AM, nablusoss1008 no_re...@yahoogroups.com 
wrote:
 
   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y7ajEzVsuhg 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y7ajEzVsuhg

 


 












Re: [FairfieldLife] Meaning is a Static Thing

2014-04-16 Thread Share Long
Nablusoss, maybe it's more accurate to say that Mahairishi redefined charisma 
to mean someone who speaks the plain truth and thus awakens it in the listeners 
rather than someone who uses theatrics, etc. to persuade audiences. 


On Wednesday, April 16, 2014 7:01 AM, nablusoss1008 no_re...@yahoogroups.com 
wrote:
 
  


The Turq didn't see any charisma because he was in the TMO for other reasons 
than being attentive, the party and the broads, as he has told us ad nauseum. 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :


Doug (Buck) obviously has pretty low standards when it comes to charisma. 


Based on my own experience -- both with Maharishi and with other teachers since 
-- I would have to say that Maharishi Mahesh Yogi had
about the same level of charisma as my plumber. And my plumber charges less. 


From: dhamiltony2k5@... dhamiltony2k5@...
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Wednesday, April 16, 2014 1:18 PM
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Meaning is a Static Thing



 
Jeezus X-mas, Not at all Charismatic? You evidently did not get to spend
much time around Maharishi.
That's a pity.
This is a good working definition of charismatic .. .
Weber, in an oft quoted passage, defined charisma as a certain quality of an 
individual
personality, by virtue of which [s/]he is set apart from ordinary [people] and 
treated as
endowed with supernatural, superhuman, or at least specifically exceptional 
powers or
qualities. These are such as are not accessible to the ordinary person, but are 
regarded as
of divine origin or as exemplary, and on the basis of them the individual 
concerned is
treated as a leader. 1
By experience,
-U.S. Buck in the Dome
.. .sharelong60 asserts:
Thanks, Nablusoss, wonderful to hear Maharishi who's not at all charismatic. 
And I mean that as a great compliment. I think he doesn't have to be because 
he's speaking the plain truth.
On Wednesday, April 16, 2014 2:22 AM, nablusoss1008 no_re...@yahoogroups.com 
wrote:
 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y7ajEzVsuhg




Re: [FairfieldLife] Meaning is a Static Thing

2014-04-16 Thread dhamiltony2k5
Yes that evidently goes back to the possible range of human behavior, including 
the NPD'ed. The so-called charismatic preacher could be a good example of that 
too. I feel Weber's more scholarly definition is better for our larger purposes 
of spiritual discussion here. It is more inclusive of what we see as spiritual 
saints, leaders and teachers spiritually than the image of some theatrical 
style of preaching. Weber's definition of charismatic better takes into account 
a scale of field affect ranging from a NPD preacher, Turqb's plumber or to the 
jagad caliber saint we also know. 
 That range all got rendered down a while ago here, 
 
https://groups.yahoo.com/neo/groups/FairfieldLife/conversations/messages/370672 
https://groups.yahoo.com/neo/groups/FairfieldLife/conversations/messages/370672
 -Buck
 

 

 sharelong60 writes:

 Buck, when I think of charismatic I think of fire and brimstone preachers, 
etc. Maharishi spoke the plain truth and did not need such theatrics imo. He 
was a true leader in that sense.
 

 On Wednesday, April 16, 2014 6:20 AM, Buck wrote:
   Jeezus X-mas, Not at all Charismatic? You evidently did not get to spend 
much time around Maharishi.
 That's a pity.
 

 This is a good working definition of charismatic .. .
 

 Weber, in an oft quoted passage, defined charisma as a certain quality of an 
individual personality, by virtue of which [s/]he is set apart from ordinary 
[people] and treated as endowed with supernatural, superhuman, or at least 
specifically exceptional powers or qualities. These are such as are not 
accessible to the ordinary person, but are regarded as of divine origin or as 
exemplary, and on the basis of them the individual concerned is treated as a 
leader. 1
 

 By experience,
 -U.S. Buck in the Dome
 

 

 .. .sharelong60 asserts:
 

 Thanks, Nablusoss, wonderful to hear Maharishi who's not at all charismatic. 
And I mean that as a great compliment. I think he doesn't have to be because 
he's speaking the plain truth.
 On Wednesday, April 16, 2014 2:22 AM, nablusoss1008 no_re...@yahoogroups.com 
wrote:   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y7ajEzVsuhg 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y7ajEzVsuhg

 















 


 














Re: [FairfieldLife] Meaning is a Static Thing

2014-04-16 Thread awoelflebater

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 Buck, when I think of charismatic I think of fire and brimstone preachers, 
etc. Maharishi spoke the plain truth and did not need such theatrics imo. He 
was a true leader in that sense.
 

 Interesting. That makes me think you have never been near a charismatic 
person. Actually, in my experience charismatic means supremely engaging, 
almost seductive, in an ability to keep you riveted to the spot. Charisma has 
an effect of totally making you want to stay as close to that person's energy 
as possible. It is a wonderful feeling but also a dangerous one because if the 
charismatic is also off their rocker or simply charismatic without other 
redeeming qualities then you could be hooped until you can get out from under 
the spell.
 

 

 On Wednesday, April 16, 2014 6:20 AM, dhamiltony2k5@... dhamiltony2k5@... 
wrote:
 
   Jeezus X-mas, Not at all Charismatic? You evidently did not get to spend 
much time around Maharishi.
 That's a pity.
 

 This is a good working definition of charismatic .. .
 

 Weber, in an oft quoted passage, defined charisma as a certain quality of an 
individual personality, by virtue of which [s/]he is set apart from ordinary 
[people] and treated as endowed with supernatural, superhuman, or at least 
specifically exceptional powers or qualities. These are such as are not 
accessible to the ordinary person, but are regarded as of divine origin or as 
exemplary, and on the basis of them the individual concerned is treated as a 
leader. 1
 

 By experience,
 -U.S. Buck in the Dome
 

 

 .. .sharelong60 asserts:
 

 Thanks, Nablusoss, wonderful to hear Maharishi who's not at all charismatic. 
And I mean that as a great compliment. I think he doesn't have to be because 
he's speaking the plain truth.
 On Wednesday, April 16, 2014 2:22 AM, nablusoss1008 no_re...@yahoogroups.com 
wrote:   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y7ajEzVsuhg 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y7ajEzVsuhg

 















 


 














Re: [FairfieldLife] Meaning is a Static Thing

2014-04-16 Thread awoelflebater

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 Nablusoss, maybe it's more accurate to say that Mahairishi redefined charisma 
to mean someone who speaks the plain truth and thus awakens it in the listeners 
rather than someone who uses theatrics, etc. to persuade audiences. 
 

 Now I am sure you have not been in the presence of a charismatic person. It 
has absolutely nothing to do with theatrics. It is all about the energy that 
emanates from that person and it contains power, and it is not overblown or 
dramatic. It is quiet and pervasive.
 

 On Wednesday, April 16, 2014 7:01 AM, nablusoss1008 no_re...@yahoogroups.com 
wrote:
 
   

 The Turq didn't see any charisma because he was in the TMO for other reasons 
than being attentive, the party and the broads, as he has told us ad nauseum. 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 Doug (Buck) obviously has pretty low standards when it comes to charisma. 
 

 Based on my own experience -- both with Maharishi and with other teachers 
since -- I would have to say that Maharishi Mahesh Yogi had about the same 
level of charisma as my plumber. And my plumber charges less. 

 

 
 From: dhamiltony2k5@... dhamiltony2k5@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Wednesday, April 16, 2014 1:18 PM
 Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Meaning is a Static Thing
 
 
   Jeezus X-mas, Not at all Charismatic? You evidently did not get to spend 
much time around Maharishi.
 That's a pity.
 This is a good working definition of charismatic .. .
 Weber, in an oft quoted passage, defined charisma as a certain quality of an 
individual personality, by virtue of which [s/]he is set apart from ordinary 
[people] and treated as endowed with supernatural, superhuman, or at least 
specifically exceptional powers or qualities. These are such as are not 
accessible to the ordinary person, but are regarded as of divine origin or as 
exemplary, and on the basis of them the individual concerned is treated as a 
leader. 1
 By experience,
 -U.S. Buck in the Dome
 .. .sharelong60 asserts:
 Thanks, Nablusoss, wonderful to hear Maharishi who's not at all charismatic. 
And I mean that as a great compliment. I think he doesn't have to be because 
he's speaking the plain truth.
 On Wednesday, April 16, 2014 2:22 AM, nablusoss1008 no_re...@yahoogroups.com 
wrote:   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y7ajEzVsuhg 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y7ajEzVsuhg

 


























 


 












Re: [FairfieldLife] Meaning is a Static Thing

2014-04-16 Thread Share Long
Ann, I think I've mainly been in the presence of healthy or developed 
charismatic people like Martin Luther King. My guess is that charisma is a gift 
that can easily be misused and thus the world has known many unhealthy or 
undeveloped charismatic people, like Hitler.

But I would also say that a charismatic person can be mainly either quiet or 
expressive. For example, I'd put Fr. Keating in the group of healthy, quiet 
charismatic people whereas I'd put MLK in the group of healthy, expressive 
charismatics.


On Wednesday, April 16, 2014 9:10 AM, awoelfleba...@yahoo.com 
awoelfleba...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  




---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :


Nablusoss, maybe it's more accurate to say that Mahairishi redefined charisma 
to mean someone who speaks the plain truth and thus awakens it in the listeners 
rather than someone who uses theatrics, etc. to persuade audiences. 

Now I am sure you have not been in the presence of a charismatic person. It has 
absolutely nothing to do with theatrics. It is all about the energy that 
emanates from that person and it contains power, and it is not overblown or 
dramatic. It is quiet and pervasive.


On Wednesday, April 16, 2014 7:01 AM, nablusoss1008 no_re...@yahoogroups.com 
wrote:

 


The Turq didn't see any charisma because he was in the TMO for other reasons 
than being attentive, the party and the broads, as he has told us ad nauseum. 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :


Doug (Buck) obviously has pretty low standards when it comes to charisma. 


Based on my own experience -- both with Maharishi and with other teachers since 
-- I would have to say that Maharishi Mahesh Yogi had
about the same level of charisma as my plumber. And my plumber charges less. 


From: dhamiltony2k5@... dhamiltony2k5@...
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Wednesday, April 16, 2014 1:18 PM
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Meaning is a Static Thing



 
Jeezus X-mas, Not at all Charismatic? You evidently did not get to spend
much time around Maharishi.
That's a pity.
This is a good working definition of charismatic .. .
Weber, in an oft quoted passage, defined charisma as a certain quality of an 
individual
personality, by virtue of which [s/]he is set apart from ordinary [people] and 
treated as
endowed with supernatural, superhuman, or at least specifically exceptional 
powers or
qualities. These are such as are not accessible to the ordinary person, but are 
regarded as
of divine origin or as exemplary, and on the basis of them the individual 
concerned is
treated as a leader. 1
By experience,
-U.S. Buck in the Dome
.. .sharelong60 asserts:
Thanks, Nablusoss, wonderful to hear Maharishi who's not at all charismatic. 
And I mean that as a great compliment. I think he doesn't have to be because 
he's speaking the plain truth.
On Wednesday, April 16, 2014 2:22 AM, nablusoss1008 no_re...@yahoogroups.com 
wrote:
 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y7ajEzVsuhg






Re: [FairfieldLife] Meaning is a Static Thing

2014-04-16 Thread Share Long
Ann, in this post as well as in my previous posts, I often write to discover 
what I think rather than to declare what I think. Plus I get a lot from the 
input and questions from others. Like this question of yours about where 
charisma comes from. My immediate response was that it comes from Being, from 
Life and I'm not giving that thought up completely. 

OTOH, I think both Martin Luther King and Hitler had the gift of public 
speaking and their charisma was funneled through that gift, the big difference 
being, imo, that King was grounded in spirituality and Hitler wasn't.

Nick Vujicic comes to mind as a contemporary charismatic person. He's a young, 
Australian fellow who was born without arms and legs and has gone on to live an 
amazing life which includes uplifting and inspiring others. I'd say his 
charisma comes straight from his spirit and doesn't get distorted much on the 
way to expression. 

My guess is that it's easier for the quiet, charismatic people to stay 
psychologically healthy than it is for the expressive charismatics.


On Wednesday, April 16, 2014 12:23 PM, awoelfleba...@yahoo.com 
awoelfleba...@yahoo.com wrote:
 
  




---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :


Ann, I think I've mainly been in the presence of healthy or developed 
charismatic people like Martin Luther King. My guess is that charisma is a gift 
that can easily be misused and thus the world has known many unhealthy or 
undeveloped charismatic people, like Hitler.

But I would also say that a charismatic person can be mainly either quiet or 
expressive.

Hmm, so that just about covers the range of possibilities. Funny, because 
earlier you were talking about charisma as being all fire and brimstone and 
theatrical.

 For example, I'd put Fr. Keating in the group of healthy, quiet charismatic 
people whereas I'd put MLK in the group of healthy, expressive charismatics.

What do you think, do you think charisma has to do with the person or their 
message primarily? 






Re: [FairfieldLife] Meaning is a Static Thing

2014-04-16 Thread awoelflebater

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 Ann, I think I've mainly been in the presence of healthy or developed 
charismatic people like Martin Luther King. My guess is that charisma is a gift 
that can easily be misused and thus the world has known many unhealthy or 
undeveloped charismatic people, like Hitler.

But I would also say that a charismatic person can be mainly either quiet or 
expressive.
 

 Hmm, so that just about covers the range of possibilities. Funny, because 
earlier you were talking about charisma as being all fire and brimstone and 
theatrical.
 

  For example, I'd put Fr. Keating in the group of healthy, quiet charismatic 
people whereas I'd put MLK in the group of healthy, expressive charismatics.
 

 What do you think, do you think charisma has to do with the person or their 
message primarily? 
 

 


 












Re: [FairfieldLife] Meaning is a Static Thing

2014-04-16 Thread awoelflebater

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 Ann, in this post as well as in my previous posts, I often write to discover 
what I think rather than to declare what I think. Plus I get a lot from the 
input and questions from others. Like this question of yours about where 
charisma comes from. My immediate response was that it comes from Being, from 
Life and I'm not giving that thought up completely. 

OTOH, I think both Martin Luther King and Hitler had the gift of public 
speaking and their charisma was funneled through that gift, the big difference 
being, imo, that King was grounded in spirituality and Hitler wasn't.

Nick Vujicic comes to mind as a contemporary charismatic person. He's a young, 
Australian fellow who was born without arms and legs and has gone on to live an 
amazing life which includes uplifting and inspiring others. I'd say his 
charisma comes straight from his spirit and doesn't get distorted much on the 
way to expression. 
 

 Have you seen him in person? Or are you thinking/confusing charisma for 
admiration for the man? There is a big difference. Charisma is a palpable 
magnet coming off the charismatic in my experience. You are mesmerized or at 
least drawn to stay near the charismatic. They are attractive in all sorts of 
ways that goes way beyond physical attraction. They seem to hold out a promise 
for something they can give you if you stay near them or listen to their words. 
It is quite a physical sensation.

My guess is that it's easier for the quiet, charismatic people to stay 
psychologically healthy than it is for the expressive charismatics.
 

 Chicken or the egg? (I seem to be asking that a lot lately.)
 

 On Wednesday, April 16, 2014 12:23 PM, awoelflebater@... awoelflebater@... 
wrote:
 
   

 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote :

 Ann, I think I've mainly been in the presence of healthy or developed 
charismatic people like Martin Luther King. My guess is that charisma is a gift 
that can easily be misused and thus the world has known many unhealthy or 
undeveloped charismatic people, like Hitler.

But I would also say that a charismatic person can be mainly either quiet or 
expressive.
 

 Hmm, so that just about covers the range of possibilities. Funny, because 
earlier you were talking about charisma as being all fire and brimstone and 
theatrical.
 

  For example, I'd put Fr. Keating in the group of healthy, quiet charismatic 
people whereas I'd put MLK in the group of healthy, expressive charismatics.
 

 What do you think, do you think charisma has to do with the person or their 
message primarily?