Re: [Goanet] [Goa Research Net] On the track to re-discover Orchata, a health drink from Goa (Eunice Lima Fernandes De Sa)

2020-06-29 Thread Helga do Rosario Gomes
d, be it fruit, vegetables, the sun, etc.  Food and
> preservation have evolved around our seasonal resources.
>
> Living on the scenic banks of the River Mandovi, in Ribandar,
> just across Chorao and 10 minutes from Panjim, I think of the
> good simple times.
>
> When I retired and heard parents complaining about children
> having fizzy drinks and not wanting to drink milk, I thought
> it time to introduce them to Orchata, xarope de brindao, aam
> panna, lime juice, etc., all made from seasonal fruits and
> with great health benefits.
>
> It worked!  The fall-out benefit was that I was able to
> salvage the neglected kokum (also called the bin'na), the
> green mangies from a fallen branch etc.  Also the pulp
> inspired me to make jams and pickles, since they have great
> antioxidant and anti-inflammatory properties.
>
>   As we reached out to more people with our summer
>   coolers, we realise that they were waiting for the
>   taste of Orchata.  I'm happy to provide these
>   coolers and happier with the response and
>   creativity of my well-wishers.  We've had a variety
>   of cocktails and mocktails being created with all
>   three, and beautiful pictures posted.
>
> Now you are getting all the coolers, jam, pickles and
> chocolates from my personal kitchen.  But we are thinking of
> expanding and looking for a place, equipment, material, etc.
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> 99228 53736. Her Orchata and other preparations have been
> widely appreciated on the 'Goa Menus' Facebook group and
> other networks in Goa.
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Re: [Goanet] Goanet Reader: Why tiny Goa needs to look into the deepend of cyberspace

2007-05-18 Thread Helga do Rosario Gomes
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Great article Nandakumar! Its all there at our finger tips but we need a 
strong and concerted effort to train teachers and students to look for the 
right stuff and then use it well.
Helga


 Let me restrict myself to science, technology, medicine and
 engineering. What are the knowledge requirements in these
 areas? Users look for lecture notes, full text journal
 articles, reviews, images, abstracts, patents, weblinks. How
 many students and teachers in Goa are familiar with MIT's
 open courseware?
 Those who are answering IIT and other entrance exams would
 find the physics, mathematics and chemistry courseware
 useful. So also the students of engineering.


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Re: [Goanet] Sign Spotting in Panjim

2007-03-07 Thread Helga do Rosario Gomes

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Very nice Cecil. I felt like I was wandering through the city. You could 
make this into a walking tour and sell it to some travel agency. I too like 
the old Portuguese names - like Armazen Vaglo jostling with the more modern 
names. Its when I think of our good friend Isabel Santa Rita Vas and her 
beautiful  article about life growing up in Panjim.I don't know why it did 
not  become highly popular because it is a great piece of reading for anyone 
wanting to settle in Panjim. I will be on the lookout for BABA ANTHONY -ST 
JOSE VAZ, AL MALIK REHAIN FARHAAN and
SHRI GANESH SITABAI KRUPA on my next visit and I am sure to spot them just 
as I did you outside the NIO!
Helga


In the area near National Cinema you will find a large old style
barber's shop (with a little wooden horse for small boys) named
BARBERIA NOVA SUCURSAL, probably the biggest hair cutting salon in
Goa. Behind this shop you will find a small shop, about as big as a
billiards table, with the fancy name CASHINATH CAMOTIM  IRMAO PVT
LTD.

In the Municipal Building we have the imposing SADASSIVA D. N. COUNTO,
COMERICIO DE MAQUNAS DE COSTURA. The names of the three buses – BABA 
ANTHONY -
ST JOSE VAZ (why wait for canonization?), AL MALIK REHAIN FARHAAN and
SHRI GANESH SITABAI KRUPA. Our very own Amar-Akbar-Anthony on wheels.
The hate mongers can go take a plunge in the deeper end of the
Mandovi! Viva Goa!


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Re: [Goanet] The much maligned Gulfie/to Helga

2007-03-07 Thread Helga do Rosario Gomes

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Selma,
To address your post:
 So your rebuttal was in the wrong
 mail.
HRG: No my reply was in the right thread. Because your remark about 'Bamons' 
was in the' Much Maigned Gulfie 'discussion - I did not put it there - you 
did.
 I think that last sentence was most unwarranted and
 I'll tell you the reason why. Discrimination, biases,
 caste harassment, sexual harassment, are not about
 colour, caste or sex. They are all about power.
HRG: Thanks for explaining that to me! How did I live all these years 
without knowing that ?!
 One
 faction of society has it and the other is denied it.
 I can hardly be in a position to keep casteism alive
 and kicking. I don't have the power.
 HRG: Seems to me that you have the power to voice your opinion on this 
forum and every other power you would like to have! What powers would you 
like and what deters you from having them? Maybe we could help?

 If your analogy was true, every struggle or opinion
 voiced against casteism would be considered a strategy
 to keep it alive and ticking.
HRG: I am all for an intelligent discussion on castes/discrimination and its 
implication for the present state of education in Goa. But I won't stand for 
derision and anecdotal evidence as data. Your comments are offensive and 
there are probably others like me who found them so. They could be silent 
because 1) They don't want to deal with these polemics 2) Are too well bred 
to say so. 



Re: [Goanet] The much maligned Gulfie

2007-03-05 Thread Helga do Rosario Gomes

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Dear Selma,
HRG: Here I am address some of your comments.
 But not all stereotypes are negative. For instance,
 the stereotype of the Goan Catholic being a susegad,
 fun loving, peaceful creature has been our hallmark
 and we embrace it.
HRG: I can't imagine any stereotype being good! Perhaps you do not know but 
the 'sussegado Goan' stereotype often has a negative connotation because it 
depicts people who are lazy, have no ambition and are happy with their 
little world. I certainly would not like to be called sossegada and much 
less sossegado!
Let's analyse the stereotype that
 has arisen of the Gulfie. That he is uneducated,
 that he goes to the Gulf does a menial job, comes back
 with a lot of money but continues to be an uncouth
 buffoon.
HRG: That is a stereotype but in my discussion of education I was not 
perpetuating it. I won't repeat what I have already said in that post.
 goes to the Gulf, often works from dusk to
 dawn, suffers unbearable conditions, separated from
 his family and returns to Goa to enrich it
 economically.
HRG: That was the point of the discussion. Why do they do so? My point and I 
think Sunith's was to say that perhaps our not so bad (but could be better) 
education could be harnessed to get young men into good positions in the 
tourism industry. Money? Valuable but a short term gain.There is also job 
satisfaction, living amongst your family and career prospects that favor 
living in Goa.  And if you say they suffer unbearable conditions then 
perhaps the our government, schools, churches and NGOs could sell the 
advantages of a good education and the doors that it can open.
 Is hard work and sacrifice to be ridiculed? Not only
 do we make fun of it, but government policies are such
 that the Gulf-worker is usually unduly discriminated
 against when he returns, right from the time of his
 arrival at customs.
HRG: No its not but everyone works hard not only Gulf Goans. Its a pity that 
the countries where they labor and give their best years respect them even 
less.
 The scores of Gulf-workers are usually those of the
 disadvantaged castes. They are not Bamons, privy
 to opportunities that arise from wealth and
 connections.
HRG: I think its my turn now to say that I have had it with the berating of 
'Bamons' as you like to call them. As you have analyzed the Gulfie for me 
perhaps its my turn now to dissect the 'Bamon' for you?
Yes, some families have been privy to wealth and the opportunities it offers 
but so have you thanks to your parents. Many of these families are not 
wealthy but being middle class they have understood the value of a good 
education and have encouraged their kids to do well and many have. Some of 
the kids that Sunith named and you dismissed as rich kids are kids of 
government workers with no property to sell and make a fast buck. But like 
the Gulf Goan they have worked very hard to get into good universities in 
India and overseas. Entrance into professional colleges in Goa is much less 
biased towards the wealthy than say Ivy League universities in the USA. 
That's why there are so many non Bamon doctors, priests, architects, 
engineers and Professors.
 If anything this derision is infact another way of
 keeping casteism, well, alive and kicking in Goa.
HRG: I think you are contributing to keeping casteism well, alive and 
kicking on this forum.
Helga 



Re: [Goanet] The much maligned Gulfie

2007-03-02 Thread Helga do Rosario Gomes

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We all know that stereotypes are hurtful even if you know you were not 
deliberately targeted. Its natural to take umbrage. Unfortunately there are 
few of us who have not stereotyped often unconsciously or unaware that 
someone may take offence.
Helga

 Well said!
 Reena
 Carvalho wrote:

 I've just about had it with the constant maligning of  the so-called
 Gulfie.
 



Re: [Goanet] Fork and Knife and North American Table DiningEtiquette

2007-03-01 Thread Helga do Rosario Gomes

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I have to agree with you Paulo. In this age with people of all cultures
traveling everywhere and experimenting with new foods the 'right' way to eat
seems so passé.
As long as the person is not making a mess, I think its fine to eat the way
you feel most comfortable. Japanese have so many rules about chopsticks but
do the critical Europeans even know they are making a ton of faux pas?  Most
everyone picks up two sticks, makes sure he grasps a succulent piece of tuna 
,
hangs on to it with the chopsticks, pop it in the mouth and enjoys the small 
but delicious
moment! What I think is more important is to be able to enjoy good food and
we Asians are true masters at that!
Helga



 Today we are all more relaxed and I believe the Americans have their
 reasons
 to be different and I think it is associated to the fact that you should
 always use the stronger hand to hold the fork (right if you are
 right-handed
 or left if you are left-handed).

 Best,
 Paulo Colaco Dias.





Re: [Goanet] Goa's Educational system

2007-02-26 Thread Helga do Rosario Gomes

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Selma and Sunith,
This ricochet of email is is not serving the discussion on Goa's educational 
system. If you pick up isolated incidences or specific characters we will 
get nowhere and we be arguing until we are blue in the face. Yes there are 
many young men in the coastal villages of Goa who hang around at the tinto 
waiting to get overseas or hang around at the shacks while the non Goan boys 
do all the work. In the meantime there are many good jobs in 5 star hotels 
that could have been ours if our young men had the education especially as 
we have many hotel management colleges whose graduates are accepted by 
hotels in the UK etc. So has our education system failed them? Probably. 
Because they prefer arduous short term stints in the Gulf/UK and then the 
return to bleak futures mostly saturated with alcohol. But I think this is 
mostly in families that have not grasped that education can be a long term 
investment mainly because they have not had the luxury of one. And no one 
has told them it can be so. It seems like our leaders, priests and the local 
intelligentsia us included have failed to impart the formula that has worked 
for us. And Selma, I don't know why you would even think that you and your 
family were lumped with them. Did you not tell us that your parents were an 
educated couple who worked hard overseas and  gave you opportunities and 
privileges that you and your sibling now enjoy? Just like many of us 
'privileged sons and daughters of Goa'?
Education can level the playing field only if we allow it to and only if we 
are aware that it can be so. Not all Westerners have figured that our 
either. Our town of Boothbay Harbor has no immigrants and a very large 
population of pretty comfortable lobster fishermen thanks to tax benefits 
and subsidies. Almost all of our house taxes (and with monstrous waterfront 
properties it all adds up) go to the school which at least to me from Marina 
English High School, Verna is an excellent facility with very small classes, 
sports and extracurricular activities. Truly the kids are pampered. But who 
graduates from high school (Std XII) and goes on to a good college? Only the 
kids of scientists and non Mainers. The lobstermen's kids 'gradate' (no one 
fails!) with poor scores, are barely able to read/write but have a job with 
their dad and the permissions to fish which nowadays are worth a lot. 
Unfortunately, the lobster populations are expected to collapse soon. In the 
urban areas its no different - the US government has pumped millions of  the 
tax payer's dollars into programs that have shown very little return. Kids 
from poor families are still not able to read and write and are not equipped 
for any job barring waiting tables and with the current trend of jobs going 
overseas its a big  problem. However we have 'Teach for America' that has 
worked and some other programs that I think could work for Goa. We should 
talk about those! Also please refer to my previous email where I talk about 
young college graduates who could contribute to outreach with the 
exceptional projects that they undertake.
Helga
 Let me say however there is a big disconnect between
 what the privileged sons and daughters of Goa can reap
 as reward and what the masses can look forward to. A
 good education system levels the playing field. It
 makes available not just opportunity but also
 aspiration, motivation and the inclination to climb
 higher and reach further.



Re: [Goanet] Climate Change and Education

2007-02-25 Thread Helga do Rosario Gomes

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I am in the process of screening through more than 3000 email - a
consequence of my long stay in Goa so I enter into this argument late.
The discussion on education is interesting and highly pertinent and just
when I thought I could side with one argument another came up!
Yes our education unfortunately does not impart written and spoken skills
especially for kids whose parents are not educated. So many young people shy
from asking questions, reading or discussing problems like global warming,
HIV etc. Someone pointed out that South Goa kids prefer to go overseas, make
a fast buck and come back and that's true too and we have to address that.
Is it that teachers don't excite and challenge kids? In the US when we make
outreach activities for kids we focus on the question: WHY do they care?
e.g. Why do kids care if there are different types of clouds? But when I
left Goa I did not know how to make my presentations attractive, slip a few
jokes to make my talk more fun and get the audience excited in my work and I
still find it a challenge. So the teachers too have to get some exposure and
training. Perhaps a big curriculum bogs them?
Buoyed by the enthusiasm from students, academics in fields totally
unrelated to climate, priests and others at  Basilio Monteiro's wonderful
conference (more on that in another email) Joaquim took his global warming
talk to many Goan colleges and the kids just loved it. Incidentally his talk
covers a lot more than Al Gore's movie and dwells on natural events such as
those mentioned by Gabriel Figueiredo. And he talked about the consequences
of the Goa Regional Plan too!!! But I think its Joaquim  and I who were more
impressed with the kids who we met at these small colleges - Carmel's,
Dhempe's and Xavier's. In small and familiar settings they asked a ton of
questions, took copies of the presentation and talked of their own projects.
The latter were really impressive - in fact Carmels publishes a peer
reviewed journal with research articles from science to literature. But I
think we lack outreach activities that can take information researched or
learned into larger settings. Can these kids take their projects to schools
perhaps? Can they give presentations and excite and enthuse others? Will
their already packed schedules allow them to do so or could it be part of
their curriculum? At the same conference Prof. Junjunwala lamented the lack
of good teachers and the recent abundance of well paid jobs in
multinationals doesn't help. Can we do something like 'Teachers for
America'? We have a huge populace of retired academics, researchers etc.
Could we pay them to go back and teach in schools? And finally we need more
teachers on his forum.
Helga



 Ever since I set foot in the UK a few months ago, I have been amazed by
 the general level of awareness people here have about Global Warming
 and Climate change.



Re: [Goanet] The mess that is Goa/response to Helga

2006-12-12 Thread Helga do Rosario Gomes

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Mario,
Stacey was driving all over Goa which worked well for me who did not even 
know to drive then!
Helga
 I'm glad that your friend, Stacey, saw none of ...
 the mounting garbage, the reckless traffic, the
 ugly facade of new buildings erected without planning
 and without a hint of an architectural soul in them.

 Neither did I the last time I was in Goa.



 
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Re: [Goanet] Great Men Of Goa

2006-12-12 Thread Helga do Rosario Gomes

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A bit late in the No great women in Goa debate' or is it over?

If there are, I would be very happy if someone could
 bring the names to my attention because one has always to be learning, and
 if there are, and fall within accepted notions of Greatness, I would 
 gladly
 apologize for the inadvertent error of ommission.
 MARCOS GOMES CATAO

Not aware of any Great Goan Women? What a pity!
If you are not aware of any GGW then: 1) It could be because there were
non pre 1950. Which could be further construed to mean
that the Portuguese regime afforded  few opportunities for women 2) That 
even though you
took so much time to ferret out all these male luminaries it did not occur 
to you
to look out for women 3) To quote you  'one has always to be learning' so I
guess you have some homework to do!
I don't think its (1) because I do know that there were many bright women in
the time frame you mention and that there was little gender discrimination 
in
the  Portuguese regime.(2) As for your painstaking 'research' if you had 
taken the trouble to look then you
would have been pleasantly surprised to see that some of the great men on
your list were actually related to women who were equally or perhaps
greater! Case in point being Bruto da Costa (Lisbon) whose wife is a 
Chemical engineer and environmentalist in Lisbon and
his sister in law Adelia Costa said to the first woman psychiatrist of Goa.
And how about the well known educationist Correia Afonso? And to that list I 
would add Maria Aurora Couto, a writer and Professor (3) A good place to 
start your homework would be Goa Sudharop's e book where you would find many 
women even from the 1950s.

Helga do Rosario Gomes


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Re: [Goanet] Gulab Jaam (Was: Goa is............)/to Cornel

2006-12-10 Thread Helga do Rosario Gomes

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Oddly enough Selma your experiences where different from mine probably
because it was a party of Lusophiles. I
went to the Fundacao to get information on scholarships for a family member
and no one at the reception spoke Portuguese which to me was very
surprising. I mean how many people at the British Council do not speak
English? Every foreign agency in Japan was manned by English speaking
Japanese. I am sure there are some who do speak Portuguese but they weren't
there on that day they weren't at the front desk. And contrary to what your
friend told you there are many people who speak very good Portuguese and not
'Português de cozinha' so they could be hired! Now I am not trying to tell
the Fundacao how to run its shop just  a few contrarian thoughts on a
cool, Sunday morning to quote Fred.
You went to a party which was technically a gathering of Lusophiles so 
people were bound to speech Portuguese. Believe me if you were to go to a US 
function in Japan no one would have bothered to speak Japanese to you.  Also 
I would like to state that not everyone who speaks Portuguese is doing so 
because they  are snobs and want to draw an imaginary line. Many like me 
speak it because it was the first language we spoke and the language we 
still speak to our close relatives and  friends. Its just what we are used 
to - we also speak English and Konkani even though many people who don't 
speak Portuguese refuse to speak Konkani now. I don't know why but I got 
flogged several times (Toronto and London) because I spoke Portuguese - I 
like speaking the language I was raised speaking but then I like speaking 
all the languages that I know. What is the big deal about speaking 
Portuguese? If you like a language all you have to do is buy Rosetta Stone, 
practice everyday and maybe do an immersion program in Portugal/Brazil.
 I think Goan society is still very elitist, which is
 funny really because the most pretentious of the lot
 are generally the least educated.
 If you are implying that the people on the day of that party were 
pretentious  because they did not speak English to you and so were not 
educated I cant comment  as I wasn't at that party. But in defense of my 
family I would say that many still speak Portuguese because they studied the 
language, spoke it all their lives like we do English and suddenly life as 
they knew changed. In spite of that they did reinvent themselves and all 
speak very good English. They are also highly educated but I would not call 
them snobs. You are meeting the wrong people Selma - come visit us in Goa!
Helga

 I think Goan society is still very elitist, which is
 funny really because the most pretentious of the lot
 are generally the least educated.

 selma






 
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Re: [Goanet] The mess that is Goa/response to Helga

2006-12-09 Thread Helga do Rosario Gomes

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Hi Selma,
Even though you have abandoned this thread I would like add one more post to 
this discussion and this one is to state that I do not question your love 
for Goa or your loyalty. Unlike our President I do not possess a meter that 
allows me to measure loyalty and patriotism.
We certainly cant compare  India to Iran- where lives under a West leaning 
despot turned into lives under a brutal theocracy with not even an simple 
experiment in democracy like the one by the Pants from Pune that they 
undertook as the British were leaving - I know because one of their 
daughters Aditi Pant was my PhD advisor.
But I know why our points of view differ - you were taken as a young girl to 
the Middle East which afforded you opportunities for a career etc that young 
women of my age and maybe yours did not have in Goa. As a young woman we had 
few options - medicine, teaching or working in a bank. Marriage to a well 
established upper-class man was to many young women the best  and easiest 
option . Perhaps we were used to courts that work slowly, apathetic cops, 
rude and lazy government workers and a hospital where the poor are treated 
like dirt by the ones who should be caring for them - we did not know better 
and many still don't. Buying a car was almost like winning Mervyns's lottery 
and a phone was Kohinoorean in value as was overseas travel and any other 
luxury. So when I see the opportunities for the young people of today  it 
pleases me immensely. As you pointed out to Sunith only the wealthy or the 
upper class could have an education and EVERY job required a sugar daddy. 
Well now the scene at least from where I am standing is totally different: 
education is affordable to everyone as is overseas travel which to me is a 
also great education, there are plenty of jobs to be had based purely on 
merit and really few want to work in a government office or even a bank. In 
fact the ICCI bank has such a high turnover that they are no longer able to 
provide the great service they used to. Old conservative families have 
changed their outlook and the field has leveled. There is a chance for a 
better life not just for the upper class but for everyone. However I do 
understand that you would like to see more happening in Goa and that what I 
see as advantages may not seem so to you raised as you were in an affluent 
country. Well its up to Goans now to elect leaders that can serve them 
better, to insist on zoning laws, better traffic conditions etc And many are 
doing so. Valmiki Faleiro had some excellent articles  on the traffic 
situation, Clinton and many others are trying to solve the garbage problem. 
A river had to catch fire before the US caught up to the fact that they were 
polluting their water sources and Rachel Carson fought a long and hard 
battle against DDT. We are still reeling over what it is costing us to pay 
for a war that was endorsed by 75% and now by only 30%  - the difference 
learned the hard way.  Even now the US is fighting a severe battle against 
drugs, guns and obesity. I have hope for Goa  and that's why I will be going 
back again next week - to do what I love best. Meet my friends, neighbors 
and enjoy the warmth of a great community where Christmas has not lost its 
spirit!
Happy holidays and don't let the gulab jamum lady bite!
Helga
 --
 Dear Helga,

 It is customary on this forum to make politically
 correct and patronising statements about Goa. Anyone
 who doesn't play alongwith the game is soon vilified.
 I stopped responding to this thread sometime ago
 because apart from the righteous rhetoric there really

 Stating something does not bring into question one's
 own loyalty and love for their mother-land. It merely
 catapults one into debate and seeking of avenues to
 reverse the situation. We must get over this need to
 demonise someone with a contrary view and that too
 with the most personal of insults.

 Selma



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Re: [Goanet] Goa Sudharop Raflle update

2006-12-09 Thread Helga do Rosario Gomes

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As you must know Mervyn its freezing out here - do you really want us to 
bare for you for four days?
Maybe we could do it in Goa?
Helga



 For those of you who find these posts about the raffle
 too repetitive, my apologies. Bare with us for four
 more days and you wont hear much from us again. 


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Re: [Goanet] The mess that is Goa/response to Helga

2006-12-09 Thread Helga do Rosario Gomes

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Yes Selma nothing beats entering your home and seeing the old walls still
strong and welcoming - its amazing how even an old door that just wouldn't
lock properly and still doesn't in spite of the best efforts of your
carpenter can be a great souvenir! To quote my friend Stacey Young from NY
who fell in love with Goa in two nanosecs - Don't call it a house Helga, its
a home!
And the wonderful people who welcome you to their homes, the teenagers who
don't think it uncool to visit older people, drink tea  and chit chat with
you about outsourcing and which shops have the best salwaar. And the big
cribs/nativity scenes in every Salcete village -  the joint effort of 
village boys competing with the next vaddo! Check out the one at Pedda
Benaulim - my ancestral home.
When will you be home?
Helga



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Re: [Goanet] The Table in Ribandar

2006-12-08 Thread Helga do Rosario Gomes

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It was a blooper! I was having big problems with that sentence - in
retrospect 'deliver' would have been better although I got rid of that word
after I had so much trouble explaining it to my Japanese students. They just
couldn't get it and their dictionary did not have that context. When I
finally decided on 'laid' it was to mean that baby Selma was laid on the
table - nicely and softly all swaddled in towels! If it inspires a tiatro
who should play the adult Selma? I am a bit out of touch with tiatristas.
Helga


 Helga do Rosario Gomes wrote to Selma:
 From the time you were laid on that table in Ribandar?!!!

 Now I think Helga has misunderstood what Selma originally said. She
 claimed
 to have been delivered on this table in Ribandar, not laid. Eggs get laid,
 humans get delivered.  I have an idea for a Semi-Fiction Documentary with
 the Table in Ribandar
 being central to the plot. Like the Da Vinci Code and the centrality of
 the
 painting of The Last Supper.


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Re: [Goanet] Home is where Roland says it is

2006-12-07 Thread Helga do Rosario Gomes

That was funny Cecil. And to George: the bit about monopoly was in jest. I 
meant monopoly as in Bell and Microsoft. I know that you have a good sense 
of humor and  I do appreciate what Acaria, Philomena, you and everyone 
related to GS does.

 Cecil:
 In George's defense it must be said that he has never said that Goa
 Sudharop is the only meaningful Goan charity. It is only Roland who is
 beating the drum over-enthusiastically to draw attention away from the
 major blunders in his own postings. In fact I think Mervyn and George, and
 all involved with the Goa Sudharop Raffle, must be embarrassed by Roland
 mentioning the raffle to further his own prejudiced postings.

I accused him of throwing like a girl!
 Helga:
 6) One watch does not make you a philanthropist who can throw (like a 
 girl)
 stones at others - you need to try harder!
 Cecil:
 I think that was unnecessary and below the belt Helga, to accuse Roland of
 being 'like a girl'. 


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Re: [Goanet] Home Is Where The Heart Is (2)

2006-12-05 Thread Helga do Rosario Gomes
Thankfully this riposte is not going to task my mind:
1) Why shouldn't they rush to elevate themselves in their careers? Isn't 
everyone doing that all over the world? They don't have the dole to fall 
back on or free medical benefits, just opportunities and chances at a half 
way decent education which they are grabbing. I wish the young people in my 
town of Boothbay whose school grabs all of my house tax had that kind of an 
ambition. You should have been lauding these kids who survive brain racking 
tests and brutal schedules without the luxury of cars, credit cards and 
laptops. How do they address issues  like global warming, sustainable 
development and alternate fuels if they don't have the kind of education 
that the NIO tries to give them?
2) And how do you know my colleagues are 'not doing anything?'
3) What correlation is there between by lenghty (sic) prose and my largesse? 
I could be doing both, neither or one or the other.
4) How do you know if I contribute to Goa Sudharop or not? Did you hack into 
Paypal?
5) Does giving to Goa Sudharop constitute the only charitable act that a 
Goan can undertake? Or the only meaningful one? Really George Pinto I could 
be accusing you of monopoly!
6) One watch does not make you a philanthropist who can throw (like a girl) 
stones at others - you need to try harder!


 And Helga, much as I admire your lenghty treatise on how Goa has a
 bright future with all your bright colleagues in the NIO and elsewhere
 rushing about to elevate themselves in their careers,
 I would admire even more your less lenghty but more effective donation
 to Goa Sudharop to do what your young colleagues are not doing -
 making Goa a better place, one person at a time.
  


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Re: [Goanet] The mess that is Goa

2006-12-04 Thread Helga do Rosario Gomes
Hi Philomena,
This is not a specific response to you but to the ongoing discussion The
mess that is Goa which was very disturbing for me not 'enlightening or
entertaining' as it luckily was for you.
Because I tend to ramble I am enumerating a few of the many thoughts that
have been scuttling in my mind for the entire week:
1) This is not a forum to bash countries which is how some discussions
devolve. Case in point was an almost 2 month discussion on Canada vs. the
USA. In my mind there are countries with problems and there are countries
with GREATER problems. That is why I am glad that Cecil brought Canada vs.
Goa to the level of Comedy Central - absurd and infantile. If traffic
is a big problem in Goa and in my opinion it is a serious one than maybe
targeting some of the Friday Discussion Balcoes would have been a better
idea? DVDs on safe driving and why discipline, abiding to rules and small
courtesies actually gets you  home faster and safer could be offered? We
could talk to our friends and relatives about what we have learned/seen? Its
not like there are no traffic problems, road rage and DUI in  large cities
in the USA. Yes first world countries not just Western ones are more
organized and disciplined with more emphasis on human safety, justice etc
which makes for good living. Does that make them all better humans or
everyone's lifestyle better? Money, smaller and or homogenous
populations, stronger leaders, young cultures and combinations of many such
factors have helped these countries. Also development has been at the
immense cost to this planet which we are  recognizing only now.

2) Selma, I don't think that Goa is devolving although what's your time line
i.e. from when did it start to devolve? From the time you were laid on that 
table in
Ribandar?!!!Then maybe you are some mutant Prophet!  I would say its 
evolving in certain areas and devolving in
others - the latter because our human foot print is immense and partly
because of corruption, a very heterogeneous population which identifies more
with its state/religion than with the country and fierce competition for
opportunities and resources which are scare. Its for this reason that life
seems so much harder than it would in sparsely populated Canada with its
vast natural resources. In India, competition for professional colleges is
immense unlike in North America which has a flexible education system, tons
of colleges and a small young population.  But its still a great time to be
young in India - there are more jobs in fields like mass media and when you
turn on the TV you see fresh faces with fresh outlooks unlike in the west
which seems a tad jaded or in the case of my morning tryst with CNN - very
trite.  There are ton of News and financial TV channels in India, a lot of
them peopled by  young women who discuss financial markets like they just
came out of  internships with Amartya Sen. My young neighbor Arjun has set
up his own financial consultancy - who thought Verna would have a financial
guru? I have already spoken about young women scientists at the NIO in my
previous posts.

3) Helping Goa. Yes there is much that some (not all!) expatriates can do
for Goa/India but how about the other way around? What can Goans/Indians do
for expatriates of more developed countries? I think its important that we
identify these areas so that it can be a two way 'trade/charity' and thus
make us all feel wanted and respected. No one wants people to drop money and
give advice that often is not applicable to the situation- they want respect
and like the expatriates they  want to feel useful and empowered. So
lets enumerate what we and our kids can get from Cecil, Aristo, Jason etc. 
My
friend Ronnie, a chemist who lives in Toronto sent his son to the NIO for an
internship and  it worked really well for him. I often think that Americans
would be well served by a reverse Peace Corp. where armadas of Indian women
could teach  'poor' Americans how to cook healthy meals and feed families on
less than 100$ a week rather than cry poverty, eat junk food and become
obese.

4) Also let's not think that everyone wants to leave their home and hearth
and let's do some soul searching. As RK pointed out - how different are
people and their lives in different corners of the world if we compare
apples with apples? Not Dharvi slums and the vast sprawl of Mississauga.
When we immigrate we often get the Oh He/She is Doing So Well label! Bem
analisado what exactly does that mean? It probably means something in terms
of your buying power in less economically developed countries ( not so much
in India anymore) and perhaps to a small extent for professions like 
academia
and research where there is more money (at least in some fields), so more
opportunities to rise up the ranks and more exposure thanks to the ease with
which traveling is possible. But in the corporate world? These Oh He/She is
Doing So Well people how different is working for a bank/insurance

Re: [Goanet] Fr. Agnel Needs to Be Fastracked to Sainthood -Thereshould be no European Bias!

2006-12-02 Thread Helga do Rosario Gomes
Well said Margaret!



. The virtual genocide of
 the Palestinians. The global trafficking of children for the purpose of
 cheap labour and/or prostitution. The dangerous descent of Iraq into civil
 war and the complete destabilization of the Middle East. I could go on and
 on, but I'm sure you catch my drift.

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Re: [Goanet] Absence of women on Goanet/response to Selma

2006-11-30 Thread Helga do Rosario Gomes
Just to clear matters Aristo I don't think Goan women living in Goa spend 
their time making pattice or cutlecy which is what Selma said - seriously or 
in jest I don't know. If I was living in Goa which I have for the greater 
part of my life, this forum would have no use for me. Then I probably would 
have joined realclimate.org or some food and wine blog. Because there I 
could learn new stuff. So I am not surprised that barring a few, Goan women 
(living in Goa) do not contribute to our discussions.  There are plenty of 
other Indian discussion groups where topics such as corruption, environment, 
development and sustainability, religion in the modern world are being 
discussed. Its not that they don't have anything to say. Women in Goa are 
doing really well, balancing great careers with family, not an easy feat 
considering they don't have all the first world facilities like comfortable 
public transportation, day care etc. I am very impressed at the daughters of 
my friends who take posts overseas, work for big name companies and are very 
self assured. At the NIO where I spent two weeks there were women everywhere 
(apparently they cant find any guys to do fieldwork!!) and they are working 
toward their doctorates in very interesting fields like paleoclimate, 
molecular biology and biotechnology.
However, I do wonder why Goan women overseas especially from the two biggest 
communities of Canada and the UK are so absent from this forum which I think 
is very informative and often entertaining for us expatriates. Where I 
wonder are the  wives and daughters of the many who write so vociferously 
and often at great leegth! I saw plenty of ladies at Viva Goa!!! I do 
know a few Goan women living in Canada and the USA - one is very busy with 
her extremely demanding career but there are also a few who spend a 
disproportionate amount of time are chatting on the phone about who's 
getting married to who in Goa and which same caste party is happening next 
week where they can take inventory of the latest crop of Goan bachelors even 
though their daughters are not in the marriage market yet Its not my 
business what anyone does but a few lines would have been welcome!
Helga


 Don't worry Selma, all the girls around me in my generation were
 encouraged to do what they WANTED to do, but boys will be boys, and
 girls will be girls, we have different interests and priorities.
 However, none of them can make fish cutlecy for me!

 Cheers,
 Aristo.

 On 11/30/06, Carvalho [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 While boys are
 left in the company of men to talk about the issues of
 the day, girls are encouraged to help in the kitchen
 and serve appetizers (also called pattices in Goa). We
 


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Re: [Goanet] Absence of women on Goanet

2006-11-29 Thread Helga do Rosario Gomes
Why surprised Selma? Are there any women on the 'up to date' list of Great
Goan men? Or was a list of Great Goan MEN!?
As far as lists are concerned this one had less statistical merit than 
People Magazine's Sexiest Men Alive!
But maybe we can start one for women? Let me put at Number# 1 the much 
maligned but highly indispensable Goan Maid. The same one that got bashed in 
the last few posts for her lack of work ethic and loose morals!

Helga




 Dear Sachin,
 I don't think there are any women on Goanet and as the last surviving
 member of that now nearly extinct species, let me give you my opinion...



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Re: [Goanet] Absence of women on Goanet

2006-11-29 Thread Helga do Rosario Gomes
Maybe start another raffle?!
Helga




 Hi Selma
 I reckon we definitely have more than one female Goanetter at present. My
 question however, is how do we increase the numbers?
 Regards


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[Goanet] Fwd: Pesticides in (Indian) Bottled Water and Soft Drinks

2006-09-19 Thread Helga do Rosario Gomes

* G * O * A * N * E * T  C * L * A * S * S * I * F * I * E * D * S *

Enjoy your holiday in Goa. Stay at THE GARCA BRANCA from November to May
 There is no better, value for money, guest house.
  Confirm your bookings early or miss-out

  Visit http://www.garcabranca.com for details/booking/confirmation.

 I received this from a chemist (ex NIO) who now works on
environmental issues at Environment Canada and has worked with
pesticides for a long time. Guess I  sticking to my well water and
its cute frogs!
Helga

 This is what he had to say:
It would be advisable  to be informed on the high levels of pesticides
found in bottled water and soft drinks manufactured in India.  read
the original CSE Report (Aug 2006). The analytical methodology and
conclusions seem to be non biased and scientifically sound-although
the Coke and Pepsi multinationals will like you to believe otherwise.


The links are as follows:

http://www.cseindia.org/misc/cola-indepth/poison.pdf


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