Re: Looking back at very difficult year

[Boris Liberman]

Thank you, Mark, for your kind words.

On 1/6/2016 16:53, Mark C wrote:
Sadden to learn that 2015 brought so much sorrow, Boris. Loses such as 
you describe truly are life changing events. I hope that 2016 brings 
peace and time to recover.


Mark


On 1/5/2016 2:20 PM, Boris Liberman wrote:

Hello.

It seems that the 2015 has been one of if not the most difficult year 
in my life so far. Back in March, just a few days after we signed a 
contract for our own apartment, my father passed away from cardiac 
arrest. It was unexpected, it was very quick, it wash shocking and 
very painful for my mother, my brother and myself.


Some of you I contacted privately on this when the wound was still 
very fresh. And to some of you I owe great debt now. I don't think 
that it is possible to fully recover from the death of someone dear 
and close, especially from the closest family. At least, as time goes 
by, I could regain most of my self, although my outlook at many 
things now has changed a lot.


As it learned later, about the same time a good friend of mine, 
former class-mate from my school in Moscow also died. He was among 
the people of whom I wouldn't even dare think that something like 
this could happen. Apparently, he wasn't very healthy and few weeks 
after his mother passed away, he followed...


Boris








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Re: Looking back at very difficult year

[Boris Liberman]

Thank you, Peter. Yes, my father had a habit of following the doctor's 
advise only to the point when he would start feeling a bit better. Then, 
he'd claim that he felt well, and hence required no medical care of any 
kind. I still remember the fights between my mother and him when she had 
to practically force him to continue a course of any kind of medication 
that required minimal discipline from his part.


My father passed away at the age of 73, so he certainly could have 
enjoyed few more years of watching his granddaughters grow...


Boris

On 1/6/2016 16:57, P.J. Alling wrote:
Boris my father died almost 20 years ago from congestive heart 
failure. It was expected, but it hurt. He was a relatively young man, 
in this age of medical miracles. It still hurts, but only 
occasionally, and it's bearable.


On 1/5/2016 2:20 PM, Boris Liberman wrote:

Hello.

It seems that the 2015 has been one of if not the most difficult year 
in my life so far. Back in March, just a few days after we signed a 
contract for our own apartment, my father passed away from cardiac 
arrest. It was unexpected, it was very quick, it wash shocking and 
very painful for my mother, my brother and myself.


Some of you I contacted privately on this when the wound was still 
very fresh. And to some of you I owe great debt now. I don't think 
that it is possible to fully recover from the death of someone dear 
and close, especially from the closest family. At least, as time goes 
by, I could regain most of my self, although my outlook at many 
things now has changed a lot.


As it learned later, about the same time a good friend of mine, 
former class-mate from my school in Moscow also died. He was among 
the people of whom I wouldn't even dare think that something like 
this could happen. Apparently, he wasn't very healthy and few weeks 
after his mother passed away, he followed...


Boris











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Re: Looking back at very difficult year

[Boris Liberman]

Thanks you, Christine. Please pass my thanks to Darrel.

I am told that for the husband/wife of a person who just passed away, 
the very first year afterwards is the most difficult one. My mother now 
has a good deal of her own problems, where her breast cancer got out of 
control of the pills that she's been taking for 5 years now. My brother 
and I are frantically getting her prepared for the surgery... She's soon 
to be 77 and she had triple bypass surgery in 2004, so she's not the 
sporty kind, to say the least...


I wish you strength in 2016. I am sure I will need much of it myself.

Boris


On 1/6/2016 17:24, Christine Aguila wrote:

Hi Boris:

Very sad to hear about your difficult year.  Darrel & I send our condolences.

It seems you and I have had a similar kind of year.  In January my very best 
friend of 20 plus years had a heart attack and died at the age of 54. Then in 
July, my dad died, and now my mom is not doing very well  and is in a 
rehabilitation center.  Mom and dad were married for 56 years.

I try to remember all the good memories and hold close to the idea that the way 
we honor those who have left us is to live our lives to the fullest knowing 
life must go on.

In sympathy, Christine



On Jan 5, 2016, at 1:20 PM, Boris Liberman  wrote:

Hello.

It seems that the 2015 has been one of if not the most difficult year in my 
life so far. Back in March, just a few days after we signed a contract for our 
own apartment, my father passed away from cardiac arrest. It was unexpected, it 
was very quick, it wash shocking and very painful for my mother, my brother and 
myself.

Some of you I contacted privately on this when the wound was still very fresh. 
And to some of you I owe great debt now. I don't think that it is possible to 
fully recover from the death of someone dear and close, especially from the 
closest family. At least, as time goes by, I could regain most of my self, 
although my outlook at many things now has changed a lot.

As it learned later, about the same time a good friend of mine, former 
class-mate from my school in Moscow also died. He was among the people of whom 
I wouldn't even dare think that something like this could happen. Apparently, 
he wasn't very healthy and few weeks after his mother passed away, he 
followed...

Boris





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Re: Looking back at very difficult year

[Boris Liberman]

Thank you, Brian!

On 1/6/2016 22:35, Brian Walters wrote:

Hi Boris

It's good to see you posting again.

I'm sorry about your painful losses during the year and sincerely hope
that 2016 is much better for you and your family.


Kind regards

Brian

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On Wed, Jan 6, 2016, at 06:20 AM, Boris Liberman wrote:

Hello.

It seems that the 2015 has been one of if not the most difficult year in
my life so far. Back in March, just a few days after we signed a
contract for our own apartment, my father passed away from cardiac
arrest. It was unexpected, it was very quick, it wash shocking and very
painful for my mother, my brother and myself.

Some of you I contacted privately on this when the wound was still very
fresh. And to some of you I owe great debt now. I don't think that it is
possible to fully recover from the death of someone dear and close,
especially from the closest family. At least, as time goes by, I could
regain most of my self, although my outlook at many things now has
changed a lot.

As it learned later, about the same time a good friend of mine, former
class-mate from my school in Moscow also died. He was among the people
of whom I wouldn't even dare think that something like this could
happen. Apparently, he wasn't very healthy and few weeks after his
mother passed away, he followed...

Boris





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Re: Looking back at very difficult year

[Boris Liberman]

Thank you for your kind words, Malcolm.

Yes, this is very sad thing. And one cannot possibly really prepare for 
it. The moment before and the moment after are so profoundly different...


Boris


On 1/8/2016 16:25, Malcolm Smith wrote:


I'm very sorry to hear of your loss Boris.

I never know what to say, despite several occasions of terminal care to
those close to us in the last few years. Even when you know you are going to
lose someone close, it is still a profound shock. My own parents died after
long illnesses; it was both a relief they were finally free of pain, yet
utterly heartbreaking. Years on their absence still catches me out at times.

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RE: Looking back at very difficult year

[Malcolm Smith]

Boris Liberman wrote:
 
> It seems that the 2015 has been one of if not the most difficult year
> in my life so far. Back in March, just a few days after we signed a
> contract for our own apartment, my father passed away from cardiac
> arrest. It was unexpected, it was very quick, it wash shocking and very
> painful for my mother, my brother and myself.
> 
> Some of you I contacted privately on this when the wound was still very
> fresh. And to some of you I owe great debt now. I don't think that it
> is possible to fully recover from the death of someone dear and close,
> especially from the closest family. At least, as time goes by, I could
> regain most of my self, although my outlook at many things now has
> changed a lot.
> 
> As it learned later, about the same time a good friend of mine, former
> class-mate from my school in Moscow also died. He was among the people
> of whom I wouldn't even dare think that something like this could
> happen. Apparently, he wasn't very healthy and few weeks after his
> mother passed away, he followed...

I'm very sorry to hear of your loss Boris. 

I never know what to say, despite several occasions of terminal care to
those close to us in the last few years. Even when you know you are going to
lose someone close, it is still a profound shock. My own parents died after
long illnesses; it was both a relief they were finally free of pain, yet
utterly heartbreaking. Years on their absence still catches me out at times.

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Re: Looking back at very difficult year

[Christine Aguila]

Hi Boris:

Very sad to hear about your difficult year.  Darrel & I send our condolences.

It seems you and I have had a similar kind of year.  In January my very best 
friend of 20 plus years had a heart attack and died at the age of 54. Then in 
July, my dad died, and now my mom is not doing very well  and is in a 
rehabilitation center.  Mom and dad were married for 56 years.  

I try to remember all the good memories and hold close to the idea that the way 
we honor those who have left us is to live our lives to the fullest knowing 
life must go on.

In sympathy, Christine


> On Jan 5, 2016, at 1:20 PM, Boris Liberman  wrote:
> 
> Hello.
> 
> It seems that the 2015 has been one of if not the most difficult year in my 
> life so far. Back in March, just a few days after we signed a contract for 
> our own apartment, my father passed away from cardiac arrest. It was 
> unexpected, it was very quick, it wash shocking and very painful for my 
> mother, my brother and myself.
> 
> Some of you I contacted privately on this when the wound was still very 
> fresh. And to some of you I owe great debt now. I don't think that it is 
> possible to fully recover from the death of someone dear and close, 
> especially from the closest family. At least, as time goes by, I could regain 
> most of my self, although my outlook at many things now has changed a lot.
> 
> As it learned later, about the same time a good friend of mine, former 
> class-mate from my school in Moscow also died. He was among the people of 
> whom I wouldn't even dare think that something like this could happen. 
> Apparently, he wasn't very healthy and few weeks after his mother passed 
> away, he followed...
> 
> Boris
> 
> 
> 
> 
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Re: Looking back at very difficult year

[Mark C]

Sadden to learn that 2015 brought so much sorrow, Boris. Loses such as 
you describe truly are life changing events. I hope that 2016 brings 
peace and time to recover.


Mark


On 1/5/2016 2:20 PM, Boris Liberman wrote:

Hello.

It seems that the 2015 has been one of if not the most difficult year 
in my life so far. Back in March, just a few days after we signed a 
contract for our own apartment, my father passed away from cardiac 
arrest. It was unexpected, it was very quick, it wash shocking and 
very painful for my mother, my brother and myself.


Some of you I contacted privately on this when the wound was still 
very fresh. And to some of you I owe great debt now. I don't think 
that it is possible to fully recover from the death of someone dear 
and close, especially from the closest family. At least, as time goes 
by, I could regain most of my self, although my outlook at many things 
now has changed a lot.


As it learned later, about the same time a good friend of mine, former 
class-mate from my school in Moscow also died. He was among the people 
of whom I wouldn't even dare think that something like this could 
happen. Apparently, he wasn't very healthy and few weeks after his 
mother passed away, he followed...


Boris








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Re: Looking back at very difficult year

[P.J. Alling]

Boris my father died almost 20 years ago from congestive heart failure.  
It was expected, but it hurt. He was a relatively young man, in this age 
of medical miracles. It still hurts, but only occasionally, and it's 
bearable.


On 1/5/2016 2:20 PM, Boris Liberman wrote:

Hello.

It seems that the 2015 has been one of if not the most difficult year 
in my life so far. Back in March, just a few days after we signed a 
contract for our own apartment, my father passed away from cardiac 
arrest. It was unexpected, it was very quick, it wash shocking and 
very painful for my mother, my brother and myself.


Some of you I contacted privately on this when the wound was still 
very fresh. And to some of you I owe great debt now. I don't think 
that it is possible to fully recover from the death of someone dear 
and close, especially from the closest family. At least, as time goes 
by, I could regain most of my self, although my outlook at many things 
now has changed a lot.


As it learned later, about the same time a good friend of mine, former 
class-mate from my school in Moscow also died. He was among the people 
of whom I wouldn't even dare think that something like this could 
happen. Apparently, he wasn't very healthy and few weeks after his 
mother passed away, he followed...


Boris








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Re: Looking back at very difficult year

[Brian Walters]

Hi Boris

It's good to see you posting again.

I'm sorry about your painful losses during the year and sincerely hope
that 2016 is much better for you and your family.


Kind regards

Brian

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On Wed, Jan 6, 2016, at 06:20 AM, Boris Liberman wrote:
> Hello.
> 
> It seems that the 2015 has been one of if not the most difficult year in 
> my life so far. Back in March, just a few days after we signed a 
> contract for our own apartment, my father passed away from cardiac 
> arrest. It was unexpected, it was very quick, it wash shocking and very 
> painful for my mother, my brother and myself.
> 
> Some of you I contacted privately on this when the wound was still very 
> fresh. And to some of you I owe great debt now. I don't think that it is 
> possible to fully recover from the death of someone dear and close, 
> especially from the closest family. At least, as time goes by, I could 
> regain most of my self, although my outlook at many things now has 
> changed a lot.
> 
> As it learned later, about the same time a good friend of mine, former 
> class-mate from my school in Moscow also died. He was among the people 
> of whom I wouldn't even dare think that something like this could 
> happen. Apparently, he wasn't very healthy and few weeks after his 
> mother passed away, he followed...
> 
> Boris
> 
> 

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Re: Looking back at very difficult year

[Bulent Celasun]

Hi Boris,

Just wanted to say that "time", more than anything else, helps healing
our wounds.
All of them. A little or totally...

And 2016 is time. Some more time...



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2016-01-05 21:20 GMT+02:00 Boris Liberman :
> Hello.
>
> It seems that the 2015 has been one of if not the most difficult year in my
> life so far. Back in March, just a few days after we signed a contract for
> our own apartment, my father passed away from cardiac arrest. It was
> unexpected, it was very quick, it wash shocking and very painful for my
> mother, my brother and myself.
>
> Some of you I contacted privately on this when the wound was still very
> fresh. And to some of you I owe great debt now. I don't think that it is
> possible to fully recover from the death of someone dear and close,
> especially from the closest family. At least, as time goes by, I could
> regain most of my self, although my outlook at many things now has changed a
> lot.
>
> As it learned later, about the same time a good friend of mine, former
> class-mate from my school in Moscow also died. He was among the people of
> whom I wouldn't even dare think that something like this could happen.
> Apparently, he wasn't very healthy and few weeks after his mother passed
> away, he followed...
>
> Boris
>
>
>
>
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Re: Looking back at very difficult year

[J.C. O'Connell]

My dad passed in Nov of 2013 and I still haven't recovered, time does 
make it a little easier though.

jco

On 1/6/2016 12:23 AM, Boris Liberman wrote:

Thank you, Paul.

I am trying very hard not to dwell too much into misery and I may even 
have some minor "successes" every now and then, but the wound is still 
quite fresh...


/deep sigh/

On 1/6/2016 2:49, Paul Stenquist wrote:


Hi Boris.
So sorry to hear of your loss. Keep your family close and remember 
the good times. The pain won't go away any time soon, but you can 
begin to fill the void with love and warmth.

Paul



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Subject: Looking back at very difficult year

Hello.

It seems that the 2015 has been one of if not the most difficult 
year in my life so far. Back in
March, just a few days after we signed a contract for our own 
apartment, my father passed away from
cardiac arrest. It was unexpected, it was very quick, it wash 
shocking and very painful for my

mother, my brother and myself.

Some of you I contacted privately on this when the wound was still 
very fresh. And to some of you I
owe great debt now. I don't think that it is possible to fully 
recover from the death of someone
dear and close, especially from the closest family. At least, as 
time goes by, I could regain most

of my self, although my outlook at many things now has changed a lot.

As it learned later, about the same time a good friend of mine, 
former class-mate from my school in
Moscow also died. He was among the people of whom I wouldn't even 
dare think that something like
this could happen. Apparently, he wasn't very healthy and few weeks 
after his mother passed away, he

followed...

Boris





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Re: Looking back at very difficult year

[Boris Liberman]

Thank you, John.

Yes, I hear you perfectly. This hasn't been an easy year, at all...

On 1/6/2016 2:10, John Coyle wrote:

Hi Boris - 2015 must have been one of the worst years of your life: please take 
comfort from your
beautiful family being around you, as I have in the last few days.


John in Brisbane




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Hello.

It seems that the 2015 has been one of if not the most difficult year in my 
life so far. Back in
March, just a few days after we signed a contract for our own apartment, my 
father passed away from
cardiac arrest. It was unexpected, it was very quick, it wash shocking and very 
painful for my
mother, my brother and myself.

Some of you I contacted privately on this when the wound was still very fresh. 
And to some of you I
owe great debt now. I don't think that it is possible to fully recover from the 
death of someone
dear and close, especially from the closest family. At least, as time goes by, 
I could regain most
of my self, although my outlook at many things now has changed a lot.

As it learned later, about the same time a good friend of mine, former 
class-mate from my school in
Moscow also died. He was among the people of whom I wouldn't even dare think 
that something like
this could happen. Apparently, he wasn't very healthy and few weeks after his 
mother passed away, he
followed...

Boris





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Re: Looking back at very difficult year

[Boris Liberman]

Thank you, Carlos.

Almost a year passed since March, when it all happened, so I can feel 
the healing effects of time, to some extent... I need more time, that's 
for sure.



On 1/6/2016 0:47, Carlos R. wrote:
I am sorry for that, Boris. My father also died in the same way when I 
was very young (23) and living abroad at that time. Time will heal 
your wounds for sure, but it is a slow process. Be patient and strong, 
and enjoy your life as much as you can.


Carlos


El 05/01/2016 a las 20:20, Boris Liberman escribió:

Hello.

It seems that the 2015 has been one of if not the most difficult year in
my life so far. Back in March, just a few days after we signed a
contract for our own apartment, my father passed away from cardiac
arrest. It was unexpected, it was very quick, it wash shocking and very
painful for my mother, my brother and myself.

Some of you I contacted privately on this when the wound was still very
fresh. And to some of you I owe great debt now. I don't think that it is
possible to fully recover from the death of someone dear and close,
especially from the closest family. At least, as time goes by, I could
regain most of my self, although my outlook at many things now has
changed a lot.

As it learned later, about the same time a good friend of mine, former
class-mate from my school in Moscow also died. He was among the people
of whom I wouldn't even dare think that something like this could
happen. Apparently, he wasn't very healthy and few weeks after his
mother passed away, he followed...

Boris











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Re: Looking back at very difficult year

[Boris Liberman]

Thank you, Paul.

I am trying very hard not to dwell too much into misery and I may even 
have some minor "successes" every now and then, but the wound is still 
quite fresh...


/deep sigh/

On 1/6/2016 2:49, Paul Stenquist wrote:


Hi Boris.
So sorry to hear of your loss. Keep your family close and remember the good 
times. The pain won't go away any time soon, but you can begin to fill the void 
with love and warmth.
Paul



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Subject: Looking back at very difficult year

Hello.

It seems that the 2015 has been one of if not the most difficult year in my 
life so far. Back in
March, just a few days after we signed a contract for our own apartment, my 
father passed away from
cardiac arrest. It was unexpected, it was very quick, it wash shocking and very 
painful for my
mother, my brother and myself.

Some of you I contacted privately on this when the wound was still very fresh. 
And to some of you I
owe great debt now. I don't think that it is possible to fully recover from the 
death of someone
dear and close, especially from the closest family. At least, as time goes by, 
I could regain most
of my self, although my outlook at many things now has changed a lot.

As it learned later, about the same time a good friend of mine, former 
class-mate from my school in
Moscow also died. He was among the people of whom I wouldn't even dare think 
that something like
this could happen. Apparently, he wasn't very healthy and few weeks after his 
mother passed away, he
followed...

Boris





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Re: Looking back at very difficult year

[Boris Liberman]

Thank you, Jack. Tough year indeed...



On 1/5/2016 22:38, Jack Davis wrote:

Tough year, Boris. Am honored you
chose to share and extent my sincerest sympathies.
Here's to a hopeful 2016!

J

Sent from my iPhone


On Jan 5, 2016, at 11:20 AM, Boris Liberman  wrote:

Hello.

It seems that the 2015 has been one of if not the most difficult year in my 
life so far. Back in March, just a few days after we signed a contract for our 
own apartment, my father passed away from cardiac arrest. It was unexpected, it 
was very quick, it wash shocking and very painful for my mother, my brother and 
myself.

Some of you I contacted privately on this when the wound was still very fresh. 
And to some of you I owe great debt now. I don't think that it is possible to 
fully recover from the death of someone dear and close, especially from the 
closest family. At least, as time goes by, I could regain most of my self, 
although my outlook at many things now has changed a lot.

As it learned later, about the same time a good friend of mine, former 
class-mate from my school in Moscow also died. He was among the people of whom 
I wouldn't even dare think that something like this could happen. Apparently, 
he wasn't very healthy and few weeks after his mother passed away, he 
followed...

Boris





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Re: Looking back at very difficult year

[Boris Liberman]

Bulent, thank you so much for your wise and soothing words... It is just 
that time goes on so slowly for me these days...


On 1/5/2016 22:45, Bulent Celasun wrote:

Hi Boris,

Just wanted to say that "time", more than anything else, helps healing
our wounds.
All of them. A little or totally...

And 2016 is time. Some more time...



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2016-01-05 21:20 GMT+02:00 Boris Liberman :

Hello.

It seems that the 2015 has been one of if not the most difficult year in my
life so far. Back in March, just a few days after we signed a contract for
our own apartment, my father passed away from cardiac arrest. It was
unexpected, it was very quick, it wash shocking and very painful for my
mother, my brother and myself.

Some of you I contacted privately on this when the wound was still very
fresh. And to some of you I owe great debt now. I don't think that it is
possible to fully recover from the death of someone dear and close,
especially from the closest family. At least, as time goes by, I could
regain most of my self, although my outlook at many things now has changed a
lot.

As it learned later, about the same time a good friend of mine, former
class-mate from my school in Moscow also died. He was among the people of
whom I wouldn't even dare think that something like this could happen.
Apparently, he wasn't very healthy and few weeks after his mother passed
away, he followed...

Boris





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Re: Looking back at very difficult year

[Boris Liberman]

Thanks, Stan.

Yes, especially now that we finally moved in into our own apartment, it 
feels different too... The "glass half full" is an ever uphill battle 
for me... At least now, that I am aware of this trait of mine, I can 
deal with it, and not let it overcome me.


On 1/6/2016 0:38, Stanley Halpin wrote:

On Jan 5, 2016, at 2:20 PM, Boris Liberman  wrote:

Hello.

It seems that the 2015 has been one of if not the most difficult year in my 
life so far. Back in March, just a few days after we signed a contract for our 
own apartment, my father passed away from cardiac arrest. It was unexpected, it 
was very quick, it wash shocking and very painful for my mother, my brother and 
myself.

Some of you I contacted privately on this when the wound was still very fresh. 
And to some of you I owe great debt now. I don't think that it is possible to 
fully recover from the death of someone dear and close, especially from the 
closest family. At least, as time goes by, I could regain most of my self, 
although my outlook at many things now has changed a lot.

As it learned later, about the same time a good friend of mine, former 
class-mate from my school in Moscow also died. He was among the people of whom 
I wouldn't even dare think that something like this could happen. Apparently, 
he wasn't very healthy and few weeks after his mother passed away, he 
followed...

Boris


So sorry Boris. Put your arms around your own lovey family and consider your 
many blessings. This will not help ease the pain of your losses, but possibly 
it will help you flip from “glass half empty” to “glass half full.”

Stan



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Re: Looking back at very difficult year

[Boris Liberman]

Thank you, Dan.

This is what I am trying to do, at least within myself...

On 1/5/2016 23:31, Daniel J. Matyola wrote:

My heart goes out to you and your family, Boris.

Keeping his memory alive, through images and stories, will help a bit
to ease the pain of the loss.

Dan Matyola
http://www.pentaxphotogallery.com/danieljmatyola


On Tue, Jan 5, 2016 at 2:20 PM, Boris Liberman  wrote:

Hello.

It seems that the 2015 has been one of if not the most difficult year in my
life so far. Back in March, just a few days after we signed a contract for
our own apartment, my father passed away from cardiac arrest. It was
unexpected, it was very quick, it wash shocking and very painful for my
mother, my brother and myself.

Some of you I contacted privately on this when the wound was still very
fresh. And to some of you I owe great debt now. I don't think that it is
possible to fully recover from the death of someone dear and close,
especially from the closest family. At least, as time goes by, I could
regain most of my self, although my outlook at many things now has changed a
lot.

As it learned later, about the same time a good friend of mine, former
class-mate from my school in Moscow also died. He was among the people of
whom I wouldn't even dare think that something like this could happen.
Apparently, he wasn't very healthy and few weeks after his mother passed
away, he followed...

Boris





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Re: Looking back at very difficult year

[Stanley Halpin]

> On Jan 5, 2016, at 2:20 PM, Boris Liberman  wrote:
> 
> Hello.
> 
> It seems that the 2015 has been one of if not the most difficult year in my 
> life so far. Back in March, just a few days after we signed a contract for 
> our own apartment, my father passed away from cardiac arrest. It was 
> unexpected, it was very quick, it wash shocking and very painful for my 
> mother, my brother and myself.
> 
> Some of you I contacted privately on this when the wound was still very 
> fresh. And to some of you I owe great debt now. I don't think that it is 
> possible to fully recover from the death of someone dear and close, 
> especially from the closest family. At least, as time goes by, I could regain 
> most of my self, although my outlook at many things now has changed a lot.
> 
> As it learned later, about the same time a good friend of mine, former 
> class-mate from my school in Moscow also died. He was among the people of 
> whom I wouldn't even dare think that something like this could happen. 
> Apparently, he wasn't very healthy and few weeks after his mother passed 
> away, he followed...
> 
> Boris
> 

So sorry Boris. Put your arms around your own lovey family and consider your 
many blessings. This will not help ease the pain of your losses, but possibly 
it will help you flip from “glass half empty” to “glass half full.”

Stan
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Re: Looking back at very difficult year

[Carlos R.]

I am sorry for that, Boris. My father also died in the same way when I 
was very young (23) and living abroad at that time. Time will heal your 
wounds for sure, but it is a slow process. Be patient and strong, and 
enjoy your life as much as you can.


Carlos


El 05/01/2016 a las 20:20, Boris Liberman escribió:

Hello.

It seems that the 2015 has been one of if not the most difficult year in
my life so far. Back in March, just a few days after we signed a
contract for our own apartment, my father passed away from cardiac
arrest. It was unexpected, it was very quick, it wash shocking and very
painful for my mother, my brother and myself.

Some of you I contacted privately on this when the wound was still very
fresh. And to some of you I owe great debt now. I don't think that it is
possible to fully recover from the death of someone dear and close,
especially from the closest family. At least, as time goes by, I could
regain most of my self, although my outlook at many things now has
changed a lot.

As it learned later, about the same time a good friend of mine, former
class-mate from my school in Moscow also died. He was among the people
of whom I wouldn't even dare think that something like this could
happen. Apparently, he wasn't very healthy and few weeks after his
mother passed away, he followed...

Boris








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Re: Looking back at very difficult year

[Daniel J. Matyola]

My heart goes out to you and your family, Boris.

Keeping his memory alive, through images and stories, will help a bit
to ease the pain of the loss.

Dan Matyola
http://www.pentaxphotogallery.com/danieljmatyola


On Tue, Jan 5, 2016 at 2:20 PM, Boris Liberman  wrote:
> Hello.
>
> It seems that the 2015 has been one of if not the most difficult year in my
> life so far. Back in March, just a few days after we signed a contract for
> our own apartment, my father passed away from cardiac arrest. It was
> unexpected, it was very quick, it wash shocking and very painful for my
> mother, my brother and myself.
>
> Some of you I contacted privately on this when the wound was still very
> fresh. And to some of you I owe great debt now. I don't think that it is
> possible to fully recover from the death of someone dear and close,
> especially from the closest family. At least, as time goes by, I could
> regain most of my self, although my outlook at many things now has changed a
> lot.
>
> As it learned later, about the same time a good friend of mine, former
> class-mate from my school in Moscow also died. He was among the people of
> whom I wouldn't even dare think that something like this could happen.
> Apparently, he wasn't very healthy and few weeks after his mother passed
> away, he followed...
>
> Boris
>
>
>
>
>
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RE: Looking back at very difficult year

[John Coyle]

Hi Boris - 2015 must have been one of the worst years of your life: please take 
comfort from your
beautiful family being around you, as I have in the last few days.


John in Brisbane




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Subject: Looking back at very difficult year

Hello.

It seems that the 2015 has been one of if not the most difficult year in my 
life so far. Back in
March, just a few days after we signed a contract for our own apartment, my 
father passed away from
cardiac arrest. It was unexpected, it was very quick, it wash shocking and very 
painful for my
mother, my brother and myself.

Some of you I contacted privately on this when the wound was still very fresh. 
And to some of you I
owe great debt now. I don't think that it is possible to fully recover from the 
death of someone
dear and close, especially from the closest family. At least, as time goes by, 
I could regain most
of my self, although my outlook at many things now has changed a lot.

As it learned later, about the same time a good friend of mine, former 
class-mate from my school in
Moscow also died. He was among the people of whom I wouldn't even dare think 
that something like
this could happen. Apparently, he wasn't very healthy and few weeks after his 
mother passed away, he
followed...

Boris





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Re: Looking back at very difficult year

[Paul Stenquist]

Hi Boris.
So sorry to hear of your loss. Keep your family close and remember the good 
times. The pain won't go away any time soon, but you can begin to fill the void 
with love and warmth.
Paul
> 
> 
> 
> -Original Message-
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> Sent: Wednesday, 6 January 2016 05:20
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> Subject: Looking back at very difficult year
> 
> Hello.
> 
> It seems that the 2015 has been one of if not the most difficult year in my 
> life so far. Back in
> March, just a few days after we signed a contract for our own apartment, my 
> father passed away from
> cardiac arrest. It was unexpected, it was very quick, it wash shocking and 
> very painful for my
> mother, my brother and myself.
> 
> Some of you I contacted privately on this when the wound was still very 
> fresh. And to some of you I
> owe great debt now. I don't think that it is possible to fully recover from 
> the death of someone
> dear and close, especially from the closest family. At least, as time goes 
> by, I could regain most
> of my self, although my outlook at many things now has changed a lot.
> 
> As it learned later, about the same time a good friend of mine, former 
> class-mate from my school in
> Moscow also died. He was among the people of whom I wouldn't even dare think 
> that something like
> this could happen. Apparently, he wasn't very healthy and few weeks after his 
> mother passed away, he
> followed...
> 
> Boris
> 
> 
> 
> 
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Re: Looking back at very difficult year

[Jack Davis]

Tough year, Boris. Am honored you
chose to share and extent my sincerest sympathies.
Here's to a hopeful 2016!

J

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> On Jan 5, 2016, at 11:20 AM, Boris Liberman  wrote:
> 
> Hello.
> 
> It seems that the 2015 has been one of if not the most difficult year in my 
> life so far. Back in March, just a few days after we signed a contract for 
> our own apartment, my father passed away from cardiac arrest. It was 
> unexpected, it was very quick, it wash shocking and very painful for my 
> mother, my brother and myself.
> 
> Some of you I contacted privately on this when the wound was still very 
> fresh. And to some of you I owe great debt now. I don't think that it is 
> possible to fully recover from the death of someone dear and close, 
> especially from the closest family. At least, as time goes by, I could regain 
> most of my self, although my outlook at many things now has changed a lot.
> 
> As it learned later, about the same time a good friend of mine, former 
> class-mate from my school in Moscow also died. He was among the people of 
> whom I wouldn't even dare think that something like this could happen. 
> Apparently, he wasn't very healthy and few weeks after his mother passed 
> away, he followed...
> 
> Boris
> 
> 
> 
> 
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