Re: [QUAD-L] Sex

[Johnny C...]

Thanks alot Wheel!!!



From: wheelch...@aol.com <wheelch...@aol.com>
Sent: Saturday, April 22, 2017 6:26 AM
To: cammo...@msn.com; quad-list@eskimo.com
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Sex

There are two that I know of and advertised at New Mobility Magazine and their 
website.
Best Wishes

In a message dated 4/21/2017 9:31:59 P.M. Central Daylight Time, 
cammo...@msn.com writes:

Do any of you use vibrators to stimulate yourselves and if so do you know any 
good ones..or in that department ..?? something i can use as a quad?

Re: [QUAD-L] Sex

[wheelchair]

There are two that I know of and advertised at New Mobility Magazine and  
their website.
Best Wishes
 
 
In a message dated 4/21/2017 9:31:59 P.M. Central Daylight Time,  
cammo...@msn.com writes:

Do any of you use vibrators to stimulate yourselves and if so do you know  
any good ones..or in that department ..?? something i can use as a  quad?

Re: [QUAD-L] Sex

[Johnny C...]

To be honest i'm looking for a vibrator i can use on my ownyou know 
personally .





Thanks in advance



From: RONALD L PRACHT <r.pra...@sbcglobal.net>
Sent: Friday, April 21, 2017 7:38 PM
To: Quad-list Post
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Sex

If you have an adjustable bed I can tell you about a neat trick to please your 
female partner she will love. Raise the end of the bed all the way up, have her 
lay back on the end. Drive your chair forward into the end of the end of the 
bed between her legs and go for it. Three orgasms will do it if you are good.

Ron


On Friday, April 21, 2017 9:32 PM, Johnny C... <cammo...@msn.com> wrote:


Do any of you use vibrators to stimulate yourselves and if so do you know any 
good ones..or in that department ..?? something i can use as a quad?

Re: [QUAD-L] Sex

[RONALD L PRACHT]

If you have an adjustable bed I can tell you about a neat trick to please your 
female partner she will love. Raise the end of the bed all the way up, have her 
lay back on the end. Drive your chair forward into the end of the end of the 
bed between her legs and go for it. Three orgasms will do it if you are good.
Ron  

On Friday, April 21, 2017 9:32 PM, Johnny C...  wrote:
 

  Do any of you use 
vibrators to stimulate yourselves and if so do you know any good ones..or in 
that department ..?? something i can use as a quad?


   

[QUAD-L] Sex

[Johnny C...]

Do any of you use vibrators to stimulate yourselves and if so do you know any 
good ones..or in that department ..?? something i can use as a quad?

Re: [QUAD-L] sex

[jume9999]

 Hi Ed,    Yes, I too allow myself to get caught up in pain and nothing 
else like socialization happens as much as it should. I save my pain meds for 
special times or when I need to accomplish things. It sucks. How do you deal 
with pain?Meredith
Sent from my LG Mobile



-- Original message--From: Ed Tessier Date: Sun, Dec 18, 2016 2:08 
PMTo: Quad-list Post;Subject:[QUAD-L] sex
Just had a lazy afternoon sex with my wife... all oral, since that's what works 
dependably...
 so enjoy times like this… So why does it happen so infrequently, why do I let 
my chronic aches and pains and hassles distract me from enjoying life?  I 
struggle so hard to get through the day sometimes, I don't leave any energy for 
something that should be IMPORTANT
Anybody else in this boat?

Fwd: [QUAD-L] sex

[Larry Willis]

That would be me, Larry, and Nicki putting it on minor burns and scrapes.

-- Forwarded message --
From: *alcibiates2* <alcibiat...@yahoo.com>
Date: Sunday, December 18, 2016
Subject: [QUAD-L] sex
To: Larry Willis <lwillis82...@gmail.com>, quad-list@eskimo.com


I'm confused, who's putting antibiotic ointment and a bandaid on what?


 Original message 
From: Larry Willis <lwillis82...@gmail.com
<javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml','lwillis82...@gmail.com');>>
Date: 12/18/2016 8:08 PM (GMT-05:00)
To: quad-list@eskimo.com
<javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml','quad-list@eskimo.com');>
Subject: Fwd: [QUAD-L] sex

You are so right, Nicki. I have burn scars all over my hands. Immediately
apply neosporin and bandaid. If you don't, it will almost certainly become
infected and very ugly. At least that is my experience.Larry Willis
Retired and proud of it


Begin forwarded message:

*Resent-From:* quad-list@eskimo.com
<javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml','quad-list@eskimo.com');>
*From:* "Joan Anglin" <poaj...@sbcglobal.net
<javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml','poaj...@sbcglobal.net');>>
*Date:* December 18, 2016 at 7:39:04 PM EST
*To:* "'Ed Tessier'" <e...@teamjeved.com
<javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml','e...@teamjeved.com');>>, "'Quad-list Post'" <
quad-list@eskimo.com <javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml','quad-list@eskimo.com');>>
*Subject:* *RE: [QUAD-L] sex*

That applies to so many things, not just sex.

shoulda had a V8



J



*From:* Ed Tessier [mailto:e...@teamjeved.com
<javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml','e...@teamjeved.com');>]
*Sent:* 18 December, 2016 2:08 PM
*To:* Quad-list Post <quad-list@eskimo.com
<javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml','quad-list@eskimo.com');>>
*Subject:* [QUAD-L] sex



Just had a lazy afternoon sex with my wife... all oral, since that's what
works dependably...



 so enjoy times like this… So why does it happen so infrequently, why do I
let my chronic aches and pains and hassles distract me from enjoying life?
I struggle so hard to get through the day sometimes, I don't leave any
energy for something that should be IMPORTANT



Anybody else in this boat?

RE: Fwd: [QUAD-L] sex

[alcibiates2]

I'm confused, who's putting antibiotic ointment and a bandaid on what?

 Original message 
From: Larry Willis <lwillis82...@gmail.com> 
Date: 12/18/2016  8:08 PM  (GMT-05:00) 
To: quad-list@eskimo.com 
Subject: Fwd: [QUAD-L] sex 

You are so right, Nicki. I have burn scars all over my hands. Immediately apply 
neosporin and bandaid. If you don't, it will almost certainly become infected 
and very ugly. At least that is my experience.Larry Willis
Retired and proud of it

Begin forwarded message:

Resent-From: quad-list@eskimo.com
From: "Joan Anglin" <poaj...@sbcglobal.net>
Date: December 18, 2016 at 7:39:04 PM EST
To: "'Ed Tessier'" <e...@teamjeved.com>, "'Quad-list Post'" 
<quad-list@eskimo.com>
Subject: RE: [QUAD-L] sex

That applies to so many things, not just sex.shoulda had a V8 J From: Ed 
Tessier [mailto:e...@teamjeved.com] 
Sent: 18 December, 2016 2:08 PM
To: Quad-list Post <quad-list@eskimo.com>
Subject: [QUAD-L] sex Just had a lazy afternoon sex with my wife... all oral, 
since that's what works dependably...  so enjoy times like this… So why does it 
happen so infrequently, why do I let my chronic aches and pains and hassles 
distract me from enjoying life?  I struggle so hard to get through the day 
sometimes, I don't leave any energy for something that should be IMPORTANT 
Anybody else in this boat?

Fwd: [QUAD-L] sex

[Larry Willis]

You are so right, Nicki. I have burn scars all over my hands. Immediately apply 
neosporin and bandaid. If you don't, it will almost certainly become infected 
and very ugly. At least that is my experience.Larry Willis
Retired and proud of it


Begin forwarded message:

> Resent-From: quad-list@eskimo.com
> From: "Joan Anglin" <poaj...@sbcglobal.net>
> Date: December 18, 2016 at 7:39:04 PM EST
> To: "'Ed Tessier'" <e...@teamjeved.com>, "'Quad-list Post'" 
> <quad-list@eskimo.com>
> Subject: RE: [QUAD-L] sex
> 
> That applies to so many things, not just sex.
> shoulda had a V8
>  
> J
>  
> From: Ed Tessier [mailto:e...@teamjeved.com] 
> Sent: 18 December, 2016 2:08 PM
> To: Quad-list Post <quad-list@eskimo.com>
> Subject: [QUAD-L] sex
>  
> Just had a lazy afternoon sex with my wife... all oral, since that's what 
> works dependably...
>  
>  so enjoy times like this… So why does it happen so infrequently, why do I 
> let my chronic aches and pains and hassles distract me from enjoying life?  I 
> struggle so hard to get through the day sometimes, I don't leave any energy 
> for something that should be IMPORTANT
>  
> Anybody else in this boat?

Re: [QUAD-L] sex

[Larry Willis]

Ha, Joan, you crack me up! V8 and 7UP together should get a rise from anyone!

Larry Willis
Retired and proud of it


> On Dec 18, 2016, at 7:39 PM, Joan Anglin <poaj...@sbcglobal.net> wrote:
> 
> That applies to so many things, not just sex.
> shoulda had a V8
>  
> J
>  
> From: Ed Tessier [mailto:e...@teamjeved.com] 
> Sent: 18 December, 2016 2:08 PM
> To: Quad-list Post <quad-list@eskimo.com>
> Subject: [QUAD-L] sex
>  
> Just had a lazy afternoon sex with my wife... all oral, since that's what 
> works dependably...
>  
>  so enjoy times like this… So why does it happen so infrequently, why do I 
> let my chronic aches and pains and hassles distract me from enjoying life?  I 
> struggle so hard to get through the day sometimes, I don't leave any energy 
> for something that should be IMPORTANT
>  
> Anybody else in this boat?

RE: [QUAD-L] sex

[Joan Anglin]

That applies to so many things, not just sex.

shoulda had a V8

 

:)

 

From: Ed Tessier [mailto:e...@teamjeved.com] 
Sent: 18 December, 2016 2:08 PM
To: Quad-list Post <quad-list@eskimo.com>
Subject: [QUAD-L] sex

 

Just had a lazy afternoon sex with my wife... all oral, since that's what works 
dependably...

 

 so enjoy times like this… So why does it happen so infrequently, why do I let 
my chronic aches and pains and hassles distract me from enjoying life?  I 
struggle so hard to get through the day sometimes, I don't leave any energy for 
something that should be IMPORTANT

 

Anybody else in this boat?

[QUAD-L] sex

[Ed Tessier]

Just had a lazy afternoon sex with my wife... all oral, since that's what
works dependably...

 so enjoy times like this… So why does it happen so infrequently, why do I
let my chronic aches and pains and hassles distract me from enjoying life?
I struggle so hard to get through the day sometimes, I don't leave any
energy for something that should be IMPORTANT

Anybody else in this boat?

[QUAD-L] sex

[HOSNI AL-KHATIB]

Hi My Friends
I Want To Ask You A bout Sex...What Should The Quad Do To Have Normal Sex?What 
Should The Partner (Know Or Do) For The Quad ?What Kind Of Problems The Quad 
Will Have...?
Thank You And God Bless You   

Re: [QUAD-L] sex

[wheelchair]

We all know that sex can be good for most.  For Quads, snowflakes and  sex 
are similar as no two are alike. What is most important is to know that Quad 
 Woman, can get pregnant.  Also, Quads can get STD's just like anyone  else.
Practice makes perfect  or almost.
Best Wishes
 
 
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hosnialkha...@hotmail.com writes:

Hi My  Friends  


I Want To Ask You A bout Sex...
What Should The Quad Do To Have Normal  Sex?
What Should The Partner (Know Or Do) For The Quad  ?


What Kind Of Problems The Quad Will  Have...?


Thank You And God Bless  You

[QUAD-L] Sex- The Subjective Forbidden

[wheelchair]

I'll talk about sex with you Lori. What do you want to  know?   (from a 
wise old bee-keeper)
Best Wishes
 
 


And, u, can't talk about what is going on.   Everyone knows that we can't 
talk about politics or religion here so I can  only blame myself for 
responding.  
 
 
The other taboo subject is sex and, after 13  years of being on this list, 
politics and religion have run wild but  apparently people are scared to talk 
about sex.  And THAT topic would be  more quad related than the other two.
 
 


Lori
 
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every case gotten at second-hand, and  without examination.  - Mark  Twain
 


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Re: [QUAD-L] Sex- The Subjective Forbidden

[Danny Hearn]

ok, so have you had sex with--besides rosie palms and her 5 sisters?  
lol

--- On Sun, 11/16/08, [EMAIL PROTECTED] [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

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Subject: [QUAD-L] Sex- The Subjective Forbidden
To: quad-list@eskimo.com
Date: Sunday, November 16, 2008, 4:55 PM



I'll talk about sex with you Lori. What do you want to know?   (from a wise 
old bee-keeper)
Best Wishes
 

 

And, u, can't talk about what is going on.  Everyone knows that we can't 
talk about politics or religion here so I can only blame myself for 
responding.  
 
 
The other taboo subject is sex and, after 13 years of being on this list, 
politics and religion have run wild but apparently people are scared to talk 
about sex.  And THAT topic would be more quad related than the other two.
 


Lori

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case gotten at second-hand, and without examination.  - Mark Twain
 





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Re: [QUAD-L] Sex- The Subjective Forbidden

[wheelchair]

Oh, so Rosie does get around, eh?   LOL   Don't tell  Rosie I said that.
Best Wishes
 
 
In a message dated 11/16/2008 5:01:20 P.M. Central Standard Time,  
[EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:

ok, so have you had sex with--besides rosie palms  and her 5 sisters? 
 lol

--- On Sun, 11/16/08,  [EMAIL PROTECTED] [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

From:  [EMAIL PROTECTED] [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: [QUAD-L]  Sex- The Subjective Forbidden
To: quad-list@eskimo.com
Date:  Sunday, November 16, 2008, 4:55 PM


I'll talk about sex with you Lori. What do you want to  know?   (from a 
wise old bee-keeper)
Best Wishes
 
 


And, u, can't talk about what is going  on.  Everyone knows that we can't 
talk about politics or  religion here so I can only blame myself for  
responding.  
 
 
The other taboo subject is sex and,  after 13 years of being on this list, 
politics and religion have run  wild but apparently people are scared to talk 
about sex.  And  THAT topic would be more quad related than the other  two.
 
 


Lori
 
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every case gotten at  second-hand, and without examination.   - Mark Twain

 









 

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Re: [QUAD-L] sex

[David K. Kelmer]

Hi JAG,
   
  I'm getting into this discussion late, but I will add my comments here 
anyway.  After my SCI, 15 days shy of 31 years ago, my wife and I listened to 
what the Experts on SCI  SEX had to say during my rehab.  We decided to 
explore and learn about Quad/AB sex on our own.  We had long talks at night 
after the boys were in bed, and we were able to be in an intimate setting.  We 
let our minds guide us and after some time working on initiating new methods of 
making love, we found ways that we both could enjoy sex.  
   
  I would state for the record that making love and having intercourse are two 
different things.  Making love is something that a couple can do over many 
hours in a very pleasurable way, and at some point in that time, they can 
engage in intercourse, and then continue making love.  The quality, or 
quantity, of love made is not dependent on me having an erection to have 
intercourse, so I don't need to buy meds to have a wonderful day of love 
making.   My partner is satisfied with her feelings, as I am, with the love 
that we have made together.
   
  I have an indwelling Foley, and when we are ready to have intercourse, I tape 
it and cover it with a condom.  
   
With Love,
  
CtrlAltDel aka Dave
C4/5 Complete - 30 Years Post
   
  Texas, USA
 

Jessica Ann Gordon [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
  
On Apr 8, 2007, at 12:23 PM, [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

  many have sex w/ a foley

  i can see how many women might but it seems completely different for a guy... 

Re: [QUAD-L] sex

[Oconnelldb]

 
 
that would take a hell of a vacuum.!!!
 
 
 
 
In a message dated 4/7/2007 6:38:35 P.M. US Mountain Standard Time,  
[EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:

 


does  anyone have sex with an indwelling catheter?


this sounds risky to me... am i the only one? it could be pulled out or  
cause infection... yikes!


=jessica

















=



 
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Re: [QUAD-L] sex

[Oconnelldb]

 
 
10-4 g/f.  My ab wife prefers a good massage from my fairly functional  hand 
as the 'normal' positions force all the 'work' onto her and don't really  
allow her to relax and enjoy the moment.  We've  been together for 33  years 
now 
and 'performance' has never been an issue.  We have 3 healthy  kids and 4 grand 
kids now.  I fed, diapered, and took my kids everywhere,  and now i'm driving 
the grands around to schools and soccer games.  Don't  ever accept that you 
can't do something before you try it a dozen or two  times.  Sure it's hard,  
easy is for sissies and incompetents.   We're above that.
Dave
_Dave  Patty's Grandkids_ (http://ocgrands.com/)  
 
 
 
 
In a message dated 4/8/2007 7:14:37 A.M. US Mountain Standard Time,  
[EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:

Ok...I always have to jump in on this subject. I am an Ab girlfriend of a  
quad...(Hi honey!). Sex is not an issues as far as I am concerned. I think he  
worries more about it than I do. First of all there is more than one way to  
please a woman. I very much enjoy the intimacy that we have. I have never been  
so close to anyone. It takes a special bond to get over the embarrasing  
issuses of sex and quad-dom. You have to be very open and have an open mind to  
new 
ideas. The only issues that I have is lack of privacy and time. For  
me...satisfaction is not a problem. I am sure that HE would be more  happier 
with more 
orgasms for his part...wouldn't we all...LOL. I am not sure  how to say what 
I am trying to get accross. If you truly love someone then sex  will work 
itself out. If you are with the right partner then any issues can be  worked 
around with a little creativity. I am sure some AB's that know we are  in a 
relationship have their heads spinning trying to figure us out! 
Just be open and talk honsestly with your partnerif they are not  
comfortable with the situation...then get a new partner. Guys...quit worring  
so much 
and relax! I promise that sex for women is mostly in our  heads...compliment 
us..makes us feel special and wanted. That is what we all  need most. If young 
guys would learn this from the beginning they would have  it made. Some 
things do get better with age. HAVE  FUN!

[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 
Women can, but men can't.  How unfair is that.
Be cautious.  Bacteria is always present in the bladder of the  person with 
the injury.
But it can be done.  It has been done and it continues to be  done.
Best Wishes
W
 
 
 
In a message dated 4/7/2007 8:38:35 P.M. Central Daylight Time,  
[EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:

 


does  anyone have sex with an indwelling  catheter?


this sounds risky to me... am i the only one? it could be pulled  out or 
cause infection... yikes!


=jessica










 

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Re: [QUAD-L] sex

[Bobbie299]

 
Does anyone have sex with an indwelling catheter?

This sounds risky to me... am I the only one? It could be pulled out or cause 
infection... yikes!

 Oh yeah it can be pulled out, it happened to me. Larry pulled it out by 
accident then drove me to the ER for then to put a new one back in, then we 
went 
back to his place and finished the job. This was in 1973, I was a virgin and it 
was my senior prom night.
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Re: [QUAD-L] sex

[Quadius]

Tried Viagra couple years ago, but one didn't seem to do much at all.  Tried
to a couple of days later, but discovered my blood pressure would be too low
to be able to get up out of bed and function later.
Therefore, my caveat is to make sure you monitor your BP.
Quadius

On 4/9/07, [EMAIL PROTECTED] [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:


  Does anyone have sex with an indwelling catheter?

This sounds risky to me... am I the only one? It could be pulled out or
cause infection... yikes!

 *Oh yeah it can be pulled out, it happened to me. Larry pulled it out by
accident then drove me to the ER for then to put a new one back in, then we
went back to his place and finished the job. This was in 1973, I was a
virgin and it was my senior prom night.*
*   Bobbie*



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[wheelchair]

 
In a message dated 4/9/2007 4:54:43 P.M. Central Daylight Time,  
[EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:

 Oh yeah it can be pulled out, it happened to me. Larry  pulled it out by 
accident then drove me to the ER for then to put a new one  back in, then we 
went 
back to his place and finished the job. This was in  1973, I was a virgin and 
it was my senior prom night. 
   Bobbie



finished the job.
 
Did you guys wax and polish the car too ???  What a way to describe an  event 
of the century or 
a Grand Opening.   (lol)
W



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Re: [QUAD-L] Sex and Quad

[delimited4]

I thout i had to wait 45 minutes because of my hand. Never tried viagra...a 
partner sounds kinda kinky too. 
 
john
 
 
-Original Message-
From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]; quad-list@eskimo.com
Sent: Sun, 8 Apr 2007 12:30 AM
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Sex and Quad


Wait..wait...waitRon...you need a partner??
 
Well that answers a lot of questions I've been having.
 
Paul
Confused in California
- Original Message - 
From: RONALD L PRACHT 
To: quad-list@eskimo.com 
Sent: Saturday, April 07, 2007 7:40 PM
Subject: [QUAD-L] Sex and Quad


Hey peeps,
 
I have been using viagra with decent success. You need to take it like 45 
minutes b4 the sexual encounter. Dont eat a big meal or drink 6 beers b4 hand , 
 it wont allow the drug to work very well. I take the 50 mg version, but you 
can go up to as much as 100mg. I straight cathe and I always cathe b4 and after 
the encounter. 
 
I get a decent hard on with viagra, but its not like the old days. I might need 
to try the 100mg. I wonder about cialis?? They say with that you can choose 
when to have the encounter within a 24 hour period.
 
If you have an understanding partner it will help everything go smoothly 
without worry and anxiety. I tried bringing a girl back home that had no clue 
about spinal injury. I pulled it off but was a lil nervous I wouldnt perform to 
her satisfaction. But I guess who cares as long as you try.
 
ron c7

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Re: [QUAD-L] Sex and Quad

[delimited4]

I'm not offended..but I'm not paul either. I'm lousey at sex but I have a 
creative mind. I find most women are attracted to me by money. Sometimes it is 
strange, but so is sex with a guy that can't move.
 
john 
ps, enjoy it before they bust you for mining stem cells
 
 
-Original Message-
From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: quad-list@eskimo.com
Sent: Sun, 8 Apr 2007 12:36 AM
Subject: [QUAD-L] Sex and Quad


Paul,
I didnt mean to offend you. I have had understanding women, and women that are 
from the bar. Being paralyzed makes sex a lil more complicated. It helps if you 
know your partner well and understands whats involved.
 
 
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[delimited4]

I use to have an indwelling and it was ok as long as she didn't like..sit n 
spin. It gets all tangled and messy and, you might wanna use a condom, bring 
some other toys? Condoms are hard to keep on if she uses the love oil first, 
so, just have fun!If shes willin to get in bed with you, stop worrying! Get 
your rubber ducky and have a good time.
 
john
 
 
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From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: quad-list@eskimo.com
Cc: quad-list@eskimo.com
Sent: Sun, 8 Apr 2007 12:27 PM
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] sex




On Apr 8, 2007, at 12:23 PM, [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:


many have sex w/ a foley


i can see how many women might but it seems completely different for a guy... 
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Re: [QUAD-L] sex

[Amy Davis]

Ok...I always have to jump in on this subject. I am an Ab girlfriend of a 
quad...(Hi honey!). Sex is not an issues as far as I am concerned. I think he 
worries more about it than I do. First of all there is more than one way to 
please a woman. I very much enjoy the intimacy that we have. I have never been 
so close to anyone. It takes a special bond to get over the embarrasing issuses 
of sex and quad-dom. You have to be very open and have an open mind to new 
ideas. The only issues that I have is lack of privacy and time. For 
me...satisfaction is not a problem. I am sure that HE would be more happier 
with more orgasms for his part...wouldn't we all...LOL. I am not sure how to 
say what I am trying to get accross. If you truly love someone then sex will 
work itself out. If you are with the right partner then any issues can be 
worked around with a little creativity. I am sure some AB's that know we are in 
a relationship have their heads spinning trying to figure us out! 
  Just be open and talk honsestly with your partnerif they are not 
comfortable with the situation...then get a new partner. Guys...quit worring so 
much and relax! I promise that sex for women is mostly in our 
heads...compliment us..makes us feel special and wanted. That is what we all 
need most. If young guys would learn this from the beginning they would have it 
made. Some things do get better with age. HAVE FUN!

[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
Women can, but men can't.  How unfair is that.
  Be cautious.  Bacteria is always present in the bladder of the person with 
the injury.
  But it can be done.  It has been done and it continues to be done.
  Best Wishes
  W
   
   
   
  In a message dated 4/7/2007 8:38:35 P.M. Central Daylight Time, [EMAIL 
PROTECTED] writes:

  does anyone have sex with an indwelling catheter?

  this sounds risky to me... am i the only one? it could be pulled out or cause 
infection... yikes!
  

  =jessica



  
   




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[QUAD-L] sex

[wheelchair]

 
Amen Amy!
 
The point I had hoped to make was those males with foleys, no.  Women  with 
foleys, yes... when 
very careful.
 
You can't always get what you want... but if you try hard, you might get  
what you need
 
W
 
In a message dated 4/8/2007 9:14:37 A.M. Central Daylight Time,  
[EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:

Ok...I always have to jump in on this subject. I am an Ab girlfriend of a  
quad...(Hi honey!). Sex is not an issues as far as I am concerned. I think he  
worries more about it than I do. First of all there is more than one way to  
please a woman. I very much enjoy the intimacy that we have. I have never been  
so close to anyone. It takes a special bond to get over the embarrasing  
issuses of sex and quad-dom. You have to be very open and have an open mind to  
new 
ideas. The only issues that I have is lack of privacy and time. For  
me...satisfaction is not a problem. I am sure that HE would be more  happier 
with more 
orgasms for his part...wouldn't we all...LOL. I am not sure  how to say what 
I am trying to get accross. If you truly love someone then sex  will work 
itself out. If you are with the right partner then any issues can be  worked 
around with a little creativity. I am sure some AB's that know we are  in a 
relationship have their heads spinning trying to figure us out! 
Just be open and talk honsestly with your partnerif they are not  
comfortable with the situation...then get a new partner. Guys...quit worring  
so much 
and relax! I promise that sex for women is mostly in our  heads...compliment 
us..makes us feel special and wanted. That is what we all  need most. If young 
guys would learn this from the beginning they would have  it made. Some 
things do get better with age. HAVE  FUN!








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Re: [QUAD-L] sex

[Jessica Ann Gordon]

On Apr 8, 2007, at 12:23 PM, [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:


many have sex w/ a foley


i can see how many women might but it seems completely different for  
a guy... 

Re: [QUAD-L] sex

[missliz1]

many have sex w/ a foley

- Original Message -
From: Jessica Ann Gordon 
Date: Saturday, April 7, 2007 9:40 pm
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] sex
To: quad-list@eskimo.com

 
  does anyone have sex with an indwelling catheter?
 
  this sounds risky to me... am i the only one? it could be 
 pulled 
  out or cause infection... yikes!
 
  =jessica
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

[QUAD-L] sex

[wheelchair]

 
Thanks to nature, women are constructed differently then their male  
counterpart.  Physically, a woman can wear a foley cath and still be expose  
for sex.  
While men wearing foleys are pretty much covered.  The foley  must be removed 
to complete the act of sex.
 
Keep in mind that bacteria in the male bladder can enter a healthy woman,  
during sex and cause an UTI or bladder infection.  It is always a  possibility. 
 
Meds can help, but one should always be aware.
 
Best Wishes
W
 
 
 
In a message dated 4/8/2007 11:30:44 A.M. Central Daylight Time,  
[EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:

many have sex w/ a foley
 
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Re: [QUAD-L] sex

[theomen723]

It can be done by folding the cath tube over and wearing a condom.  That's what 
I do.  
 
I'm not sure but, I don't think it's very easy to pull a full catheter balloon 
out through a man's penis.  
 
Luke  
 
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To: quad-list@eskimo.com
Sent: Sat, 7 Apr 2007 8:37 PM
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] sex




does anyone have sex with an indwelling catheter?


this sounds risky to me... am i the only one? it could be pulled out or cause 
infection... yikes!


=jessica
















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[QUAD-L] sex

[paul38]

Hi Everyone,

I wanted to ask the guys if any ED medication has come on the market that has 
been succesful for quads? IF sucessful does anyone have sex with an indwelling 
catheter?

Keep on Rollin,
Paul

Re: [QUAD-L] sex

[Jessica Ann Gordon]

does anyone have sex with an indwelling catheter?


this sounds risky to me... am i the only one? it could be pulled  
out or cause infection... yikes!


=jessica

[QUAD-L] sex

[wheelchair]

 
Women can, but men can't.  How unfair is that.
Be cautious.  Bacteria is always present in the bladder of the person  with 
the injury.
But it can be done.  It has been done and it continues to be  done.
Best Wishes
W
 
 
 
In a message dated 4/7/2007 8:38:35 P.M. Central Daylight Time,  
[EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:

 


does  anyone have sex with an indwelling catheter?


this sounds risky to me... am i the only one? it could be pulled out or  
cause infection... yikes!


=jessica










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Re: [QUAD-L] sex

[Hecedman]

Get ready to have a hard one for a few hours with those  
injections yikes!

Re: [QUAD-L] Sex and Quad

[Paul Jacobson]

Wait..wait...waitRon...you need a partner??

Well that answers a lot of questions I've been having.

Paul
Confused in California
  - Original Message - 
  From: RONALD L PRACHT 
  To: quad-list@eskimo.com 
  Sent: Saturday, April 07, 2007 7:40 PM
  Subject: [QUAD-L] Sex and Quad


  Hey peeps,

  I have been using viagra with decent success. You need to take it like 45 
minutes b4 the sexual encounter. Dont eat a big meal or drink 6 beers b4 hand , 
 it wont allow the drug to work very well. I take the 50 mg version, but you 
can go up to as much as 100mg. I straight cathe and I always cathe b4 and after 
the encounter. 

  I get a decent hard on with viagra, but its not like the old days. I might 
need to try the 100mg. I wonder about cialis?? They say with that you can 
choose when to have the encounter within a 24 hour period.

  If you have an understanding partner it will help everything go smoothly 
without worry and anxiety. I tried bringing a girl back home that had no clue 
about spinal injury. I pulled it off but was a lil nervous I wouldnt perform to 
her satisfaction. But I guess who cares as long as you try.

  ron c7

[QUAD-L] Sex and Quad

[RONALD L PRACHT]

Paul,
  I didnt mean to offend you. I have had understanding women, and women that 
are from the bar. Being paralyzed makes sex a lil more complicated. It helps if 
you know your partner well and understands whats involved.
   
   
  ronc7.in the stl

Re: [QUAD-L] sex problems-TAZER Devices

[Smurfonwheels]

In a message dated 04/08/2004 23:22:56 GMT Standard Time, 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:
A Tazer 
  is a device that delivers a high voltage low amp zap designed to stop an 
  attacker.Other suggested uses were just 
SHOCKING!;^pStuntman

Ah!! See I understand now, the blonde wig can now be removed! 
lol

Love Smurf xxx

Re: [QUAD-L] sex problems-TAZER Devices

[Smurfonwheels]

In a message dated 01/08/2004 16:38:18 GMT Standard Time, 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:
I'd take 
  a TAZER Device with ya when you decide to hit "Da Sack." This way if 
  anything should go wrong (and it always does) you will have an equalizer to 
  demonstrate what it feels like when your caboose doesn't shimmy like an 
  Edsel with a flat tire, at 75 miles an hour. Besides, the TAZER just 
  might add a new spin to your life, lolW

Okay guys I'm in blonde Brit Chick motion... I'm sooo confused now, 
Tazer devices?!? (why do I get the feeling I really shouldn't ask these sorts of 
questions!) Maybe it's because I'm way to innocent ?

Love Smurf xxx

Re: [QUAD-L] sex problems-TAZER Devices

[Stuntman]

A Tazer is a device that delivers a high voltage low amp zap designed 
to stop an attacker.
Other suggested uses were just SHOCKING!
;^p
Stuntman
  
 In a message dated 01/08/2004 16:38:18 GMT Standard Time,  
[EMAIL PROTECTED] 
 writes:
 
 I'd take  a TAZER Device with ya when you decide to hit Da Sack.  
This way 
 if  anything should go wrong (and it always does) you will have an 
equalizer 
 to  
 demonstrate what it feels like when your caboose doesn't shimmy like 
an  
 Edsel 
 with a flat tire, at 75 miles an hour.  Besides, the TAZER just  
might add a 
 new spin to your life, lol
 W
 
 
 Okay guys I'm in blonde Brit Chick motion... I'm sooo 
confused now,  
 Tazer devices?!? (why do I get the feeling I really shouldn't ask 
these sorts 
 of  questions!) Maybe it's because I'm way to innocent  ?
  
 Love Smurf xxx
 
 

-- 
It's not the fall that hurts.

Re: [QUAD-L] sex problems-TAZER Devices

[andrea murray]

Well, This is shocking new. Will, if he start something and don"t finish grils We can just Zap him LOL Wheelchair WarriorStuntman [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
A Tazer is a device that delivers a high voltage low amp zap designed to stop an attacker.Other suggested uses were just SHOCKING!;^pStuntman  In a message dated 01/08/2004 16:38:18 GMT Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED]  writes:  I'd take a TAZER Device with ya when you decide to hit "Da Sack." This way  if anything should go wrong (and it always does) you will have an equalizer  to  demonstrate what it feels like when your caboose doesn't shimmy like an  Edsel  with a flat tire, at 75 miles an hour. Besides, the TAZER just might add a  new spin to your life, lol W   Okay guys I'm in blonde Brit Chick motion... I'm sooo confused now,  Tazer devices?!? (why do I get the feeling I really shouldn't ask these
 sorts  of questions!) Maybe it's because I'm way to innocent ?  Love Smurf xxx  -- It's not the fall that hurts.
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Re: [QUAD-L] sex problems-TAZER Devices

[Oconnelldb]

woohoo, elec stim orgs, my favorite blue story. never tried it but i'm ready anytime. the other dave

In a message dated 8/4/2004 3:10:54 PM US Mountain Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:


In a message dated 01/08/2004 16:38:18 GMT Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:
I'd take a TAZER Device with ya when you decide to hit "Da Sack." This way if anything should go wrong (and it always does) you will have an equalizer to demonstrate what it feels like when your caboose doesn't shimmy like an Edsel with a flat tire, at 75 miles an hour. Besides, the TAZER just might add a new spin to your life, lolW

Okay guys I'm in blonde Brit Chick motion... I'm sooo confused now, Tazer devices?!? (why do I get the feeling I really shouldn't ask these sorts of questions!) Maybe it's because I'm way to innocent ?

Love Smurf xxx


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