Re: [BVARC] Why not to use XYL

2024-01-07 Thread Jeff Greer via BVARC
https://en.m.wiktionary.org/wiki/CQ#:~:text=Translingual-,Etymology%201,come%20from%20English%20seek%20you. Sent from my mobile phone Original message From: Chris Medlin via BVARC Date: 1/7/24 8:44 PM (GMT-06:00) To: BRAZOS VALLEY AMATEUR RADIO CLUB Cc: Chris Medlin ,

Re: [BVARC] Why not to use XYL

2024-01-07 Thread Chris Medlin via BVARC
Our abbreviated signals are just shorthand. CQ is derived from “seek you” OM is old man. That’s you, Anthony (and me). YL is “Young Lady”… you got that right. A YL can be licensed or non-licensed. When a YL gets married, regardless of License or Non-License, she becomes an Ex-YL, or XYL. Similar

Re: [BVARC] Why not to use XYL

2024-01-07 Thread Mike Hardwick via BVARC
Rod, Thanks for the great info OM.  MikeN5VCX On Sunday, January 7, 2024 at 05:00:54 PM CST, Rod Neumann via BVARC wrote: regarding the proper meanings of: YL  OM and XYL and DR At the dawn of Ham Radio, it was the Flapper days... the 1920s.  Couples didn't "date".  They courted. 

Re: [BVARC] Why not to use XYL

2024-01-07 Thread K5BOU via BVARC
What if your wife goes be he and not she? Just kidding. Sent from my iPhoneOn Jan 7, 2024, at 17:28, Wes Harris via BVARC wrote:Great discussion Anthony.  I was working a very elderly gentleman during field day a couple years back.   I said 73 Old Man and all the hams around me listening were

Re: [BVARC] Why not to use XYL

2024-01-07 Thread JP Pritchard via BVARC
I have avoided the xyl designation because I think there are ladies among the ranks of ham radio operators who interpret xyl and ex young lady -- not a flattering thing to say. I think it's usually a good idea to refer to "the wife" or "the girlfriend" as "my better half." And to always keep

Re: [BVARC] Why not to use XYL

2024-01-07 Thread Wes Harris via BVARC
Great discussion Anthony.  I was working a very elderly gentleman during field day a couple years back.   I said 73 Old Man and all the hams around me listening were shocked and thought I was being offensive.  I explained that it was proper and hams call each other OM all the time and that I’ve

Re: [BVARC] Why not to use XYL

2024-01-07 Thread Mike Knerr via BVARC
We live and learn. I've had my face slapped a few times. Mike Knerr KI5UBL 73 On Sun, Jan 7, 2024, 4:04 PM anthony moro via BVARC wrote: > So today I was schooled why I shouldn't call a female operator a XYL. So > XYL means unlicensed female operator, or ones wife that is an operator. > Either

Re: [BVARC] Why not to use XYL

2024-01-07 Thread Rod Neumann via BVARC
regarding the proper meanings of: YL OM and XYL and DR At the dawn of Ham Radio, it was the Flapper days... the 1920s. Couples didn't "date". They courted. You had to have family permission to approach a young lady for courtship or at the very least, introduced. If you were interested in a

Re: [BVARC] Why not to use XYL

2024-01-07 Thread anthony moro via BVARC
I just want to share this learning experience with yall. On Sun, Jan 7, 2024, 4:21 PM Rick Hiller wrote: > The key word in that definition is "spouse" -- referred to as an XYL when > talking to a husband -- the OM. All other references to a girlfriend or > any female or licensed female use

Re: [BVARC] Why not to use XYL

2024-01-07 Thread Rick Hiller via BVARC
The key word in that definition is "spouse" -- referred to as an XYL when talking to a husband -- the OM. All other references to a girlfriend or any female or licensed female use YL. If you don't like XYL, just use wife. There is a national group called the YL's. W5RH On Sun, Jan 7,

Re: [BVARC] Why not to use XYL

2024-01-07 Thread mark roman via BVARC
I thought an XYL is a married female ham radio operator. On Sun, Jan 7, 2024 at 4:04 PM anthony moro via BVARC wrote: > So today I was schooled why I shouldn't call a female operator a XYL. So > XYL means unlicensed female operator, or ones wife that is an operator. > Either way it seems to me

[BVARC] Why not to use XYL

2024-01-07 Thread anthony moro via BVARC
So today I was schooled why I shouldn't call a female operator a XYL. So XYL means unlicensed female operator, or ones wife that is an operator. Either way it seems to me that it is not a good idea to say that to you better half if she is an operator. I was given this when I said that. Young Lady