[FairfieldLife] Barry the hypocrite [was Re: Post Count Fri 16-Aug-13 00:15:06 UTC]

2013-08-17 Thread doctordumbass
Ah, another opportunity to tell you to go fuck yourself, Barry - And so soon!

There is nothing altruistic or learning-oriented about what you do here. You 
may have conceived this psychology in your attempt at appearing legitimate, in 
your anger and frustration filled spewage, but anybody can see that, for the 
pathetic excuse that it is. 

You are an emotional wreck, with nothing to offer here, except ways to tear 
just about anything down that isn't you. 

Talk about an ego trip. And to have you challenge Alex repeatedly, is pathetic. 
Own your shit, Barry. After all, it isn't anyone else's but yours. And yes, it 
does stink. Badly.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Alex Stanley j_alexander_stanley@ 
 wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Alex Stanley 
   j_alexander_stanley@ wrote:
   
I'm referring to Barry being hugely in favor of posting 
limits that are, at this point, all about Judy. Which 
is not to say that others are not equally focused on Barry.
   
   206 posts' worth this past week, either replying
   to something I posted, or mentioning me, just from
   the four core members of the MGC alone. Overall, 
   subtracting the posts *I* made from the total, I'm 
   mentioned or cited in over a third of all posts. 
   
   I think one could make a case for focused on. :-)
  
  You seem to be conveniently overlooking that most 
  reactivity toward you is in response your own 
  reactive/egoic, separation-creating behavior. For 
  example, a very common theme of your posts is to 
  describe something enjoyable in your life with a 
  zinger at the end how TM/FFLers/seekers are bad/wrong.
 
 And? 
 
 If part of my goal were to get TMers or other seekers
 who consistently present themselves as better than 
 others to *demonstrate* their own attachments, hatreds, 
 and reactivity, and thus point out the difference between 
 their PR and their reality, can you think of a more 
 effective way to do so? 
 
 WHAT in the post do they focus on? WHAT do they react
 to? 
 
 What you focus on, you become. 
 
 Are you suggesting that they have no *choice* but to
 react the way they do? That's not much of a commercial
 for the spiritual path, is it?





[FairfieldLife] Barry the hypocrite [was Re: Post Count Fri 16-Aug-13 00:15:06 UTC]

2013-08-17 Thread emilymae.reyn
Yes, if anything, we owe Alex a huge THANK YOU for being a moderator of 
unparalleled skill in all ways.  His finesse is unmatched in dealing with the 
personalities here and I appreciate his sacrifice for this thankless task.  
Should we pitch in for a gift card? (Smile)  

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@... no_reply@... wrote:

 Ah, another opportunity to tell you to go fuck yourself, Barry - And so soon!
 
 There is nothing altruistic or learning-oriented about what you do here. You 
 may have conceived this psychology in your attempt at appearing legitimate, 
 in your anger and frustration filled spewage, but anybody can see that, for 
 the pathetic excuse that it is. 
 
 You are an emotional wreck, with nothing to offer here, except ways to tear 
 just about anything down that isn't you. 
 
 Talk about an ego trip. And to have you challenge Alex repeatedly, is 
 pathetic. Own your shit, Barry. After all, it isn't anyone else's but yours. 
 And yes, it does stink. Badly.
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Alex Stanley j_alexander_stanley@ 
  wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Alex Stanley 
j_alexander_stanley@ wrote:

 I'm referring to Barry being hugely in favor of posting 
 limits that are, at this point, all about Judy. Which 
 is not to say that others are not equally focused on Barry.

206 posts' worth this past week, either replying
to something I posted, or mentioning me, just from
the four core members of the MGC alone. Overall, 
subtracting the posts *I* made from the total, I'm 
mentioned or cited in over a third of all posts. 

I think one could make a case for focused on. :-)
   
   You seem to be conveniently overlooking that most 
   reactivity toward you is in response your own 
   reactive/egoic, separation-creating behavior. For 
   example, a very common theme of your posts is to 
   describe something enjoyable in your life with a 
   zinger at the end how TM/FFLers/seekers are bad/wrong.
  
  And? 
  
  If part of my goal were to get TMers or other seekers
  who consistently present themselves as better than 
  others to *demonstrate* their own attachments, hatreds, 
  and reactivity, and thus point out the difference between 
  their PR and their reality, can you think of a more 
  effective way to do so? 
  
  WHAT in the post do they focus on? WHAT do they react
  to? 
  
  What you focus on, you become. 
  
  Are you suggesting that they have no *choice* but to
  react the way they do? That's not much of a commercial
  for the spiritual path, is it?
 





[FairfieldLife] Barry the hypocrite [was Re: Post Count Fri 16-Aug-13 00:15:06 UTC]

2013-08-17 Thread doctordumbass
I am sending him a Maserati GranTurismo MC Stradale, as we speak!

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@... wrote:

 Yes, if anything, we owe Alex a huge THANK YOU for being a moderator of 
 unparalleled skill in all ways.  His finesse is unmatched in dealing with the 
 personalities here and I appreciate his sacrifice for this thankless task.  
 Should we pitch in for a gift card? (Smile)  
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ no_reply@ wrote:
 
  Ah, another opportunity to tell you to go fuck yourself, Barry - And so 
  soon!
  
  There is nothing altruistic or learning-oriented about what you do here. 
  You may have conceived this psychology in your attempt at appearing 
  legitimate, in your anger and frustration filled spewage, but anybody can 
  see that, for the pathetic excuse that it is. 
  
  You are an emotional wreck, with nothing to offer here, except ways to tear 
  just about anything down that isn't you. 
  
  Talk about an ego trip. And to have you challenge Alex repeatedly, is 
  pathetic. Own your shit, Barry. After all, it isn't anyone else's but 
  yours. And yes, it does stink. Badly.
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Alex Stanley 
   j_alexander_stanley@ wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Alex Stanley 
 j_alexander_stanley@ wrote:
 
  I'm referring to Barry being hugely in favor of posting 
  limits that are, at this point, all about Judy. Which 
  is not to say that others are not equally focused on Barry.
 
 206 posts' worth this past week, either replying
 to something I posted, or mentioning me, just from
 the four core members of the MGC alone. Overall, 
 subtracting the posts *I* made from the total, I'm 
 mentioned or cited in over a third of all posts. 
 
 I think one could make a case for focused on. :-)

You seem to be conveniently overlooking that most 
reactivity toward you is in response your own 
reactive/egoic, separation-creating behavior. For 
example, a very common theme of your posts is to 
describe something enjoyable in your life with a 
zinger at the end how TM/FFLers/seekers are bad/wrong.
   
   And? 
   
   If part of my goal were to get TMers or other seekers
   who consistently present themselves as better than 
   others to *demonstrate* their own attachments, hatreds, 
   and reactivity, and thus point out the difference between 
   their PR and their reality, can you think of a more 
   effective way to do so? 
   
   WHAT in the post do they focus on? WHAT do they react
   to? 
   
   What you focus on, you become. 
   
   Are you suggesting that they have no *choice* but to
   react the way they do? That's not much of a commercial
   for the spiritual path, is it?
  
 





[FairfieldLife] Barry the hypocrite [was Re: Post Count Fri 16-Aug-13 00:15:06 UTC]

2013-08-17 Thread authfriend


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@... no_reply@... wrote:

 Ah, another opportunity to tell you to go fuck yourself, Barry - And so soon!
 
 There is nothing altruistic or learning-oriented about what
 you do here. You may have conceived this psychology in your
 attempt at appearing legitimate, in your anger and
 frustration filled spewage, but anybody can see that, for
 the pathetic excuse that it is.

I can't resist mentioning another of Barry's pathetic
excuses. According to him, I'm the only person here who
genuinely dislikes him. Everybody else who criticizes
him has been influenced to do so BY ME and would never
have had a negative thought about him otherwise.

Bet y'all didn't know I was that powerful, didja?

(And yet, *at the same time*, also according to Barry,
nobody pays any attention to me at all. Cognitive
dissonance, anyone?)



 You are an emotional wreck, with nothing to offer here, except ways to tear 
 just about anything down that isn't you. 
 
 Talk about an ego trip. And to have you challenge Alex repeatedly, is 
 pathetic. Own your shit, Barry. After all, it isn't anyone else's but yours. 
 And yes, it does stink. Badly.




[FairfieldLife] Barry the hypocrite [was Re: Post Count Fri 16-Aug-13 00:15:06 UTC]

2013-08-17 Thread emilymae.reyn
EXCELLENT!  (I just googled the image) May it shift smoothly on the gravel 
driveway


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@... no_reply@... wrote:

 I am sending him a Maserati GranTurismo MC Stradale, as we speak!
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@ wrote:
 
  Yes, if anything, we owe Alex a huge THANK YOU for being a moderator of 
  unparalleled skill in all ways.  His finesse is unmatched in dealing with 
  the personalities here and I appreciate his sacrifice for this thankless 
  task.  Should we pitch in for a gift card? (Smile)  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ no_reply@ wrote:
  
   Ah, another opportunity to tell you to go fuck yourself, Barry - And so 
   soon!
   
   There is nothing altruistic or learning-oriented about what you do here. 
   You may have conceived this psychology in your attempt at appearing 
   legitimate, in your anger and frustration filled spewage, but anybody can 
   see that, for the pathetic excuse that it is. 
   
   You are an emotional wreck, with nothing to offer here, except ways to 
   tear just about anything down that isn't you. 
   
   Talk about an ego trip. And to have you challenge Alex repeatedly, is 
   pathetic. Own your shit, Barry. After all, it isn't anyone else's but 
   yours. And yes, it does stink. Badly.
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Alex Stanley 
j_alexander_stanley@ wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Alex Stanley 
  j_alexander_stanley@ wrote:
  
   I'm referring to Barry being hugely in favor of posting 
   limits that are, at this point, all about Judy. Which 
   is not to say that others are not equally focused on Barry.
  
  206 posts' worth this past week, either replying
  to something I posted, or mentioning me, just from
  the four core members of the MGC alone. Overall, 
  subtracting the posts *I* made from the total, I'm 
  mentioned or cited in over a third of all posts. 
  
  I think one could make a case for focused on. :-)
 
 You seem to be conveniently overlooking that most 
 reactivity toward you is in response your own 
 reactive/egoic, separation-creating behavior. For 
 example, a very common theme of your posts is to 
 describe something enjoyable in your life with a 
 zinger at the end how TM/FFLers/seekers are bad/wrong.

And? 

If part of my goal were to get TMers or other seekers
who consistently present themselves as better than 
others to *demonstrate* their own attachments, hatreds, 
and reactivity, and thus point out the difference between 
their PR and their reality, can you think of a more 
effective way to do so? 

WHAT in the post do they focus on? WHAT do they react
to? 

What you focus on, you become. 

Are you suggesting that they have no *choice* but to
react the way they do? That's not much of a commercial
for the spiritual path, is it?
   
  
 





[FairfieldLife] Barry the hypocrite [was Re: Post Count Fri 16-Aug-13 00:15:06 UTC]

2013-08-17 Thread Ann


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@... no_reply@... wrote:

 Ah, another opportunity to tell you to go fuck yourself, Barry - And so soon!
 
 There is nothing altruistic or learning-oriented about what you do here. You 
 may have conceived this psychology in your attempt at appearing legitimate, 
 in your anger and frustration filled spewage, but anybody can see that, for 
 the pathetic excuse that it is. 
 
 You are an emotional wreck, with nothing to offer here, except ways to tear 
 just about anything down that isn't you. 
 
 Talk about an ego trip. And to have you challenge Alex repeatedly, is 
 pathetic. Own your shit, Barry. After all, it isn't anyone else's but yours. 
 And yes, it does stink. Badly.

Barry couldn't actually challenge Alex in any way that counts. The fact that 
Alex even bothers to reply shows a huge amount of patience, good nature and and 
optimism. 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Alex Stanley j_alexander_stanley@ 
  wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Alex Stanley 
j_alexander_stanley@ wrote:

 I'm referring to Barry being hugely in favor of posting 
 limits that are, at this point, all about Judy. Which 
 is not to say that others are not equally focused on Barry.

206 posts' worth this past week, either replying
to something I posted, or mentioning me, just from
the four core members of the MGC alone. Overall, 
subtracting the posts *I* made from the total, I'm 
mentioned or cited in over a third of all posts. 

I think one could make a case for focused on. :-)
   
   You seem to be conveniently overlooking that most 
   reactivity toward you is in response your own 
   reactive/egoic, separation-creating behavior. For 
   example, a very common theme of your posts is to 
   describe something enjoyable in your life with a 
   zinger at the end how TM/FFLers/seekers are bad/wrong.
  
  And? 
  
  If part of my goal were to get TMers or other seekers
  who consistently present themselves as better than 
  others to *demonstrate* their own attachments, hatreds, 
  and reactivity, and thus point out the difference between 
  their PR and their reality, can you think of a more 
  effective way to do so? 
  
  WHAT in the post do they focus on? WHAT do they react
  to? 
  
  What you focus on, you become. 
  
  Are you suggesting that they have no *choice* but to
  react the way they do? That's not much of a commercial
  for the spiritual path, is it?
 





[FairfieldLife] Barry the hypocrite [was Re: Post Count Fri 16-Aug-13 00:15:06 UTC]

2013-08-17 Thread doctordumbass
So humble of you Judy, spreading the credit around, but you and I both know The 
Truth. If it wasn't for all those side emails, phone calls, texts, even the 
singing telegram last week, I would prefer to keep a lower profile around here, 
wrt Barry. Oh crap, the doorbell just rang, again, and my cell phone is going 
off. I AM ON IT, I assure you!

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@... wrote:

 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ no_reply@ wrote:
 
  Ah, another opportunity to tell you to go fuck yourself, Barry - And so 
  soon!
  
  There is nothing altruistic or learning-oriented about what
  you do here. You may have conceived this psychology in your
  attempt at appearing legitimate, in your anger and
  frustration filled spewage, but anybody can see that, for
  the pathetic excuse that it is.
 
 I can't resist mentioning another of Barry's pathetic
 excuses. According to him, I'm the only person here who
 genuinely dislikes him. Everybody else who criticizes
 him has been influenced to do so BY ME and would never
 have had a negative thought about him otherwise.
 
 Bet y'all didn't know I was that powerful, didja?
 
 (And yet, *at the same time*, also according to Barry,
 nobody pays any attention to me at all. Cognitive
 dissonance, anyone?)
 
 
 
  You are an emotional wreck, with nothing to offer here, except ways to tear 
  just about anything down that isn't you. 
  
  Talk about an ego trip. And to have you challenge Alex repeatedly, is 
  pathetic. Own your shit, Barry. After all, it isn't anyone else's but 
  yours. And yes, it does stink. Badly.





[FairfieldLife] Barry the hypocrite [was Re: Post Count Fri 16-Aug-13 00:15:06 UTC]

2013-08-17 Thread Alex Stanley
You're gonna send a high-end Italian car to a guy who lives on a gravel road in 
Iowa, a zillion miles away from anyone who is even qualified to pop the hood? 
Jeez, I thought for a minute that you guys actually liked me.

In reality, though, I drive home to this:

https://maps.google.com/maps?hl=enll=41.085311,-91.978381spn=0.002764,0.002395t=hz=19

http://tinyurl.com/n7vj5pq

in a rebuilt, salvage title 2003 Pontiac Vibe. After 13 years with my humongous 
Dodge Ram 2500 long bed, club cab, 4x4 pickup truck as my only ride, getting 
about 12 MPG and having to fill a 33 gallon tank, I wanted something small that 
gets good gas mileage. The Vibe was cheap, and its Toyota Corolla drivetrain 
makes it ridiculously reliable. I get 28-30 MPG on every tank, and if someone 
dings it in a parking lot, I totally don't give a shit. There's a real freedom 
in driving a completely expendable car.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@... no_reply@... wrote:

 I am sending him a Maserati GranTurismo MC Stradale, as we speak!
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@ wrote:
 
  Yes, if anything, we owe Alex a huge THANK YOU for being a moderator of 
  unparalleled skill in all ways.  His finesse is unmatched in dealing with 
  the personalities here and I appreciate his sacrifice for this thankless 
  task.  Should we pitch in for a gift card? (Smile)  
  




[FairfieldLife] Barry the hypocrite [was Re: Post Count Fri 16-Aug-13 00:15:06 UTC]

2013-08-17 Thread doctordumbass
Hey, I figured you'd spring for a repave and hire a mechanic!

Yeah, beaters are awesome! I had a 1975 Opel 1900, built like a tank, with 
heavy steel. I remember one day back East in the snow, where some jerk off had 
taken two spaces to protect his auto, with a snow bank on the passenger side. I 
squeezed in next to him, and crawled out the hatchback. Not sure how he made it 
into his car, but it was gone when I got back. 

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Alex Stanley j_alexander_stanley@... 
wrote:

 You're gonna send a high-end Italian car to a guy who lives on a gravel road 
 in Iowa, a zillion miles away from anyone who is even qualified to pop the 
 hood? Jeez, I thought for a minute that you guys actually liked me.
 
 In reality, though, I drive home to this:
 
 https://maps.google.com/maps?hl=enll=41.085311,-91.978381spn=0.002764,0.002395t=hz=19
 
 http://tinyurl.com/n7vj5pq
 
 in a rebuilt, salvage title 2003 Pontiac Vibe. After 13 years with my 
 humongous Dodge Ram 2500 long bed, club cab, 4x4 pickup truck as my only 
 ride, getting about 12 MPG and having to fill a 33 gallon tank, I wanted 
 something small that gets good gas mileage. The Vibe was cheap, and its 
 Toyota Corolla drivetrain makes it ridiculously reliable. I get 28-30 MPG on 
 every tank, and if someone dings it in a parking lot, I totally don't give a 
 shit. There's a real freedom in driving a completely expendable car.
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ no_reply@ wrote:
 
  I am sending him a Maserati GranTurismo MC Stradale, as we speak!
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@ 
  wrote:
  
   Yes, if anything, we owe Alex a huge THANK YOU for being a moderator of 
   unparalleled skill in all ways.  His finesse is unmatched in dealing with 
   the personalities here and I appreciate his sacrifice for this thankless 
   task.  Should we pitch in for a gift card? (Smile)