[FairfieldLife] Re: Psychological Rape is impossible on FFL

2013-04-28 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@... wrote: Thanks Judy, but I looked up the whole exchange, (below) and it appears much more involved than you have here. Very interesting, Steve. It appears that after reading that quote from Robin I posted for you, you realized

[FairfieldLife] Re: Psychological Rape is impossible on FFL

2013-04-28 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote: You know, Curtis, it's amazing how much Share sounds like you sometimes, especially when she's talking about Robin, and about the folks

[FairfieldLife] Re: Psychological Rape is impossible on FFL

2013-04-28 Thread curtisdeltablues
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote: You know, Curtis, it's amazing how much Share sounds like you

[FairfieldLife] Re: Psychological Rape is impossible on FFL

2013-04-28 Thread Xenophaneros Anartaxius
Judy, I do not think you get this: the only consistent context in the field of language, in thought, is one's own mind. The version of truth we have represented in our own mind always seems to be the correct one, at least initially. Another mind is a different world altogether with seeming

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Psychological Rape is impossible on FFL

2013-04-28 Thread Ravi Chivukula
PLATITUDE ALERT !!! MAGNITUDE 6.0 - Moderate to high ability to deal with discomfort arising from the need to take an actual stand. On Sun, Apr 28, 2013 at 7:57 PM, Xenophaneros Anartaxius anartax...@yahoo.com wrote: ** Judy, I do not think you get this: the only consistent context in the

[FairfieldLife] Re: Psychological Rape is impossible on FFL

2013-04-28 Thread Xenophaneros Anartaxius
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula chivukula.ravi@... wrote: PLATITUDE ALERT !!! MAGNITUDE 6.0 - Moderate to high ability to deal with discomfort arising from the need to take an actual stand. Only 6.0? Oh fuck. You should read the ones by the Roman emperor Marcus Aurelius

[FairfieldLife] Re: Psychological Rape is impossible on FFL

2013-04-28 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend

[FairfieldLife] Re: Psychological Rape is impossible on FFL

2013-04-28 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Xenophaneros Anartaxius anartaxius@... wrote: Judy, I do not think you get this: the only consistent context *plonk*

[FairfieldLife] Re: Psychological Rape is impossible on FFL

2013-04-27 Thread doctordumbass
Hi Share, I have been reading through all these messages over this original expression of yours. I honestly do not see how it is possible on a public forum with neither person physically known to the other, with no prior relationship at all, for someone to psychologically ultimately violate

[FairfieldLife] Re: Psychological Rape is impossible on FFL

2013-04-27 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@... no_reply@... wrote: Hi Share, I have been reading through all these messages over this original expression of yours. I honestly do not see how it is possible on a public forum with neither person physically known to the other, with no

[FairfieldLife] Re: Psychological Rape is impossible on FFL

2013-04-27 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote: (snip) The evasively prodding starfish has disappeared. Nonetheless the big crab with sharp claws and slithery stingrays with acidy tendrils are still jabbing away at our little clam who has by now both toughened up and

[FairfieldLife] Re: Psychological Rape is impossible on FFL

2013-04-27 Thread seventhray27
: [FairfieldLife] Re: Psychological Rape is impossible on FFL Â Hi Share, I have been reading through all these messages over this original expression of yours. I honestly do not see how it is possible on a public forum with neither person physically known to the other, with no prior relationship at all

[FairfieldLife] Re: Psychological Rape is impossible on FFL

2013-04-27 Thread doctordumbass
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote: Doc, cringing at being likened to a clam, I'm gonna use part of Xeno's analogy. Zee Know is in CC when he posts. A very inefficient reality. Imagine a building with a solid foundation, but lots of scaffolding covering

[FairfieldLife] Re: Psychological Rape is impossible on FFL

2013-04-27 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ wrote: Hey Steve, I am always open to dialogue, when dialogue is initiated. The only difference between Share's approach and mine, is that it took awhile for

[FairfieldLife] Re: Psychological Rape is impossible on FFL

2013-04-27 Thread seventhray27
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@... wrote: For a person to express something about how another's post feels to them is one thing. I do it all the time, on here. But to make the other person responsible for such a feeling, is ultimately irresponsible. Do you see it

[FairfieldLife] Re: Psychological Rape is impossible on FFL

2013-04-27 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@... wrote: My take is that Share felt that the best description of that interaction with Robin was psychological rape. Just out of curiosity, did you read the interaction? If so, how long ago, would you guess? And you're aware by

[FairfieldLife] Re: Psychological Rape is impossible on FFL

2013-04-27 Thread seventhray27
Judy, it has been some time since I read the interaction. I am basing my interpretation on what I know about Share. And, of course, I see things differently than you do. I allow more leeway in people's reactions, and in peoples motivations than perhaps you do. Share's reaction makes sense to

[FairfieldLife] Re: Psychological Rape is impossible on FFL

2013-04-27 Thread Xenophaneros Anartaxius
Zee Know is in CC when he posts. A very inefficient reality. Imagine a building with a solid foundation, but lots of scaffolding covering the exterior. Not yet ready to look through the windows at the outside world. :-) Doc, as I do not experience any witnessing, this must be a particularly

[FairfieldLife] Re: Psychological Rape is impossible on FFL

2013-04-27 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@... wrote: Judy, it has been some time since I read the interaction. Too bad you missed my post of yesterday in which I quoted the whole thing, and my post to Xeno that quoted what Robin said. But don't worry, I'll post what Robin

[FairfieldLife] Re: Psychological Rape is impossible on FFL

2013-04-27 Thread doctordumbass
An unwarranted intrusion, aka, psychological rape, on here, FFL? Nah - I also agree the past is where it belongs, though I am not convinced that anyone influences anyone else here on FFL, *against* their will. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@... wrote: ---

[FairfieldLife] Re: Psychological Rape is impossible on FFL

2013-04-27 Thread doctordumbass
I don't know anything about you, except what you post here. And that is what I see, CC. The tell is your intellectual clarity, on the one hand, and the zeal with which you favor it, over a more simple representation of what goes on around here. I am not praising you or insulting you, simply

[FairfieldLife] Re: Psychological Rape is impossible on FFL

2013-04-27 Thread doctordumbass
Thanks Judy, for filling in some of my blanks.:-) Good to know. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ no_reply@ wrote: Hi Share, I have been reading through all these messages over this original