[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-07 Thread emilymae.reyn
I just looked up compassion sympathy and empathy as I was asking myself 
how I define them.  I feel for others' and in Share's case, I offered her 
compassion the other day for her Attachment Disorder after viewing the host 
of difficult character traits associated with it.  This was not accurate.  What 
I was offering her was sympathy.  Compassion is a big word and has an 
element of action to relieve suffering in it.  

You, Ann, demonstrate an online version of compassion in many instances here.  
I don't see this in Share, but I can only talk from my perspective.  Resorting 
to name-calling, as she does with everyone she doesn't like is not a 
compassionate approach - more of a playground approach.  Smile.  

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann awoelflebater@... wrote:

 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@ wrote:
 
  Bless you Judy.  I am going to take a nod from the Share playbook and
  offer you compassion.
 
 Your eyesight is better than mine. I have never seen compassion from Share. 
 She, instead, chooses to view me as arrogant. Are deprecating labels another 
 form of open-heartedness? Emily might have an opinion on this as well. 
 (Emily, feel free to ignore this.)
 
  You'll have to find someone else to play with tonight.
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend  wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
  wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend  wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
wrote:
 
  sure Judy.  Carry on with your truth campaign.  as Curtis aptly
  pointed out: for someone to constantly declare how dedicated to
  truth they are, is not unlike the magician telling everyone
  repeatedly how this is a plain, ordinary deck with which I am
  going to perform this trick.

 Not if the person is in fact dedicated to truth, unlike the
 magician. Curtis isn't, you aren't (as I just got done noting),
 Barry obviously isn't. So it isn't at all surprising that the
 three of you would be anxious to portray a truth-teller as
 a deceiver, is it?
  
   Can I assume you're afraid to answer my question, Stevie?
  
   And that's you in a nutshell, isn't Judy.  You can
fill in the blank, (as you do),
  
   Which blank would this be, Stevie?
  
with whomever you determine to be the
liar of the hour, or the day.  Usually there is no shortage of
candidates.
  
   Actually they don't change much from week to week, Stevie.
  
And that, pretty much is how you spend your posts here.
  
   And that what, Stevie? Your writing is pretty incoherent
   tonight. I don't think you quite got what I've been saying.
  
   But it's obvious you aren't happy about the truths I've
   been telling, Stevie--you know, like the one about your
   having blamed DrD for bringing up Barry's brother's
   suicide when it was actually Barry who did that. And
   another truth is that you've never retracted your
   accusation nor apologized to DrD for it.
  
   I'm truly sorry that it makes you so uncomfortable,
   Stevie, but them's the breaks.
  
And I am glad you have something to aspire towards.  Perhaps someone
here will take up your cause and make a nomination.
I think it would make for a fascinating vetting process.
And yikes.  Could it be that you could be a possible candidate for
  the
two different awards that have shown up now.
  
   Oh, Stevie, you've already forgotten what I said in my
   earlier post, and you've even quoted it below. See if
   you can find it. A little practice exercise for you.
  
  but this is how you choose to spend your life force, so I
  hope is gratifying for you.

 Not being concerned about the truth, you probably aren't
 aware that there are many people who have dedicated their
 lives to the truth, sometimes even *sacrificed* their
 lives to the truth. Truth and truth-telling have generally
 been highly regarded throughout history, something to
 strive for.

 http://www.ridenhour.org/prizes_truth_telling.html

 (I wouldn't consider myself to come close to deserving
 such a prize because my efforts have been so limited.)

 But there are always those who can't see the importance of
 truth, who find it inconvenient and annoying, not worth the
 effort; and even those who believe truth just gets in the
 way of their needs and desires and whims. And sometimes, of
 course, such people are just cowards who *fear* the truth.




  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27
  steve.sundur@
  wrote:
   
I wonder if anyone even reads those rebuttals. But I suppose
they are gratifying to you.
  
   Right, the point is to get the truth on the record.
  
   

[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-07 Thread Ann


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@... wrote:

 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann  wrote:
 
 
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
 wrote:
  
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann  wrote:
   
   
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
   wrote:


 sure Judy.  Carry on with your truth campaign.  as Curtis aptly
   pointed
 out: for someone to constantly declare how dedicated to truth
 they
 are, is not unlike the magician telling everyone repeatedly how
   this is
 a plain, ordinary deck with which I am going to perform this
 trick.

 but this is how you choose to spend your life force, so I hope
 is
 gratifying for you.
   
And how do you see yourself spending your life force Steve?
 
  Why don't
   you ask that question to my family, to my employees, or to the local
   media who have made it point to compare our business to places like
   Nordstroms or Ritz Carlton as an example of of a (small) company
 that
   offers superior customer service.
 
  Oh, so you focus your energies on business. I knew someone like that
 once - he was my father.
 Ann, you've got to be kidding.  I am a householder, I have
 responsibilities to my family and my employees.  I have a job like most
 other people.  I attempt to do it well.  Your dad was a business titan. 
 I am a business small fry, and my business is a means to an end.  But I
 take pride in it, as do my the other employees.  Are you trying to read
 some kind of obsession into this?

No, are you? But you emphasized you business reputation in particular in your 
paragraph above. Many, many people focus on one thing more than the other, it 
is very tricky ( I find) to discover how to balance all of the responsibilities 
in one's life. You said obsession, not me. 

I'm glad to know you have a balanced life and your energies are distributed 
evenly. Just not, apparently, in rewarding those seeking truth (hence your 
original post to Judy). Now calm down and have a nice vacation. ( I like the 
term business titan, by the way,  it sounds so powerful. But even my father 
was not obsessed. His business abilities came very easily to him. What he did 
in his career was very much a part of who he was naturally - an honest, bright, 
compassionate born leader.)
 
 How can you fault anyone for caring about truth, whether you
 believe
   that particular person is misguided or off base or not?
 
  Yow Ann.  I'm
   not going to go along with this.  I do feel a need to speak out if I
   feel a person is misguided.  Don't you?
 
  Go along with what? Read my question again, I think you didn't
 understand it for some reason. You might find we actually agree on this
 one.
 
   How come you can sit there and make these mocking noises when your
   greatest contribution here appears to be belittling others?
 
   Sort of one
   sided, I think. But I can live that assessment, if that is how you
 see
   things.
 
  This is what I like about you Steve. Even though it is self evident
 that it is one sided ( it is, after all, just my viewpoint and that
 would make it singular) you come across as a nice guy. (Share, was that
 belittling of me?)
 
   Who do you perceive yourself to be that you can afford to jibber
 away in
   the corner laughing and scorning others who take umbrage at lies,
   manipulation s and the conscious twisting of true things?
 
  Ann, remember,
   opinions are like a-holes.  Everyone has one, and most of them
 stink.  I
   include myself in this category, but I wonder if you do as well?
 
  I don't think your answer went anywhere near my question but, in a
 strange way, you answered it completely, perhaps inadvertently.
 
   When did you decide life was not worth living well or deeply?
 
  You seem
   pretty all knowing Ann.  Why don't you tell me?
 
  Ah, the cutting jab. Well, I have no idea when you stopped or if you
 ever were committed to such things but it doesn't appear as if you have
 considered it much.Ann, I guess I'll have to revert to a trite phrase. 
 I simply try to live in the moment, and enjoy the moment.  Not always
 easy, but I don't really know a better way.
 
  Share, take it away...
 




 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27
 steve.sundur@
 wrote:
  
   I wonder if anyone even reads those rebuttals. But I suppose
   they are gratifying to you.
 
  Right, the point is to get the truth on the record.
 
  I mean, for example, I certainly wouldn't expect you
  to retract and apologize for accusing DrD of bringing
  up Barry's brother's suicide when, as I pointed out in
  one of those posts, it was actually Barry himself who
  had done so.
 
  But that error--blaming DrD for Barry's own behavior--
  can't be allowed to stand unrefuted.
   

[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-07 Thread doctordumbass
May you enjoy many tall, strong and tropical beverages on your vacation!!

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@... wrote:

 Thank you Jim.
 A couple things come to mind. (as I am here at work, getting things in
 order so that I can go on vacation tomorrow with a somewhat unfettered
 mind)
 I am not sure if I have as much invested in this site as Judy.  On the
 other hand, I do tend to trust my judgments, which many times are snap
 judgements.
 And it may be that when I take the time, to look more closely at
 something, (as I did recently at Judy's prodding), such as whether Robin
 was being truthful when he said he didn't strike someone, (and the
 context), then it may be that I modify my position some.
 But in that exact example a lot of effort was expended for a pretty
 small adjustment.
 I think the main complaint I hear about me is that I am too emotional in
 my judgments.
 Perhaps I am.
 On the other hand, it is always nice to have the real world to help you
 keep score on things.
 I will read over what you've written and see if anything else comes to
 mind.
 But I just don't know if I can come around to seeing Judy in a different
 light, than what I do.
 I'll try to keep an open mind.
 Thanks for your feedback.
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@  wrote:
 
  Hey Steve, I've been following this back and forth, for awhile. In
 terms of how you like to interact here, which I think mirrors your daily
 life and work, congenial, comes to mind. You and I could probably go to
 lunch and not mention TM, or any of the FFL topics, and still have
 plenty to yak about, and have a good time. I enjoy not always winding
 everything out, too.
 
  On the other hand, it was my business and skill for many years, to
 ensure clarity and understanding regarding the design, development, and
 transfer of very technical knowledge, to engineers and technicians, so
 that satellites, lasers, large phone switches, and data centers, for
 example, didn't fuck up. As a result, I can determine, when I want to
 put the effort into it, now that I don't *have* to, whether or not
 someone is being illogical, exaggerating, skewing material, has a hidden
 agenda, etc. Over so many years of analysis, it becomes obvious.
 
  Judy has a very consistent approach here. She is intent on unraveling
 the writing of those who are professing to say one thing, and in fact,
 through the mechanisms I referred to earlier, are saying something quite
 different. Further, if someone is simply expressing something, is there
 integrity in the expression?
 
  We do not have the luxury here to evaluate someone's body language and
 expressions here. It is all expressed through writing. So, the
 interactions between us are sometimes less than congenial, because there
 is no other way to further the thoughts expressed, sometimes, than to
 take exception. In everyday interaction, a raised eyebrow, or quick joke
 may suffice to move a conversation along, but here, with writing as the
 only tool, everything must be spelled out.
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
 wrote:
  
   Bless you Judy.  I am going to take a nod from the Share playbook
 and
   offer you compassion.
   You'll have to find someone else to play with tonight.
  
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend  wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
   wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend  wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27
 steve.sundur@
 wrote:
  
   sure Judy.  Carry on with your truth campaign.  as Curtis
 aptly
   pointed out: for someone to constantly declare how
 dedicated to
   truth they are, is not unlike the magician telling everyone
   repeatedly how this is a plain, ordinary deck with which I
 am
   going to perform this trick.
 
  Not if the person is in fact dedicated to truth, unlike the
  magician. Curtis isn't, you aren't (as I just got done
 noting),
  Barry obviously isn't. So it isn't at all surprising that the
  three of you would be anxious to portray a truth-teller as
  a deceiver, is it?
   
Can I assume you're afraid to answer my question, Stevie?
   
And that's you in a nutshell, isn't Judy.  You can
 fill in the blank, (as you do),
   
Which blank would this be, Stevie?
   
 with whomever you determine to be the
 liar of the hour, or the day.  Usually there is no shortage of
 candidates.
   
Actually they don't change much from week to week, Stevie.
   
 And that, pretty much is how you spend your posts here.
   
And that what, Stevie? Your writing is pretty incoherent
tonight. I don't think you quite got what I've been saying.
   
But it's obvious you aren't happy about the truths I've
been telling, Stevie--you know, like the one about your
having blamed DrD for bringing up 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-07 Thread Ann


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@... wrote:

 I just looked up compassion sympathy and empathy as I was asking myself 
 how I define them.  I feel for others' and in Share's case, I offered her 
 compassion the other day for her Attachment Disorder after viewing the host 
 of difficult character traits associated with it.  This was not accurate.  
 What I was offering her was sympathy.  Compassion is a big word and has 
 an element of action to relieve suffering in it.  
 
 You, Ann, demonstrate an online version of compassion in many instances here. 
  I don't see this in Share, but I can only talk from my perspective.  
 Resorting to name-calling, as she does with everyone she doesn't like is not 
 a compassionate approach - more of a playground approach.  Smile.

Thanks for your input. I find it always to be worthwhile. 

I think what I can most admire in a person is the ability to 'drop' something 
in a moment and do an about face in any situation; for that person to be open 
enough to absorb new information and new input in a way that would allow them 
to begin fresh again in an old circumstance or in the face of a person they may 
be having a 'problem' with. 

This probably has nothing to do with compassion but it does have to do with 
openness. This kind of openness can certainly lead to what could appear, at 
times, to be compassion. Although I am certainly no saint and am no great 
exhibitor of the most positive traits known to man I AM open to finding out new 
and different things about people, in fact, I welcome this (especially if it 
were to show someone in a better light).  Open vs closed. Holding on vs letting 
go. Moving on vs remaining static. These are just some of the qualities I value 
and am working on within myself. Not in some structured way as in  adopting 
some path of discipline or spiritual tradition but just by becoming animated 
day after day in what I think of as my life. Roll with it all or become some 
jaded, angry, embittered and ultimately miserable person. I think we see this 
all the time in certain family and friends. Tragic.
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann awoelflebater@ wrote:
 
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@ wrote:
  
   Bless you Judy.  I am going to take a nod from the Share playbook and
   offer you compassion.
  
  Your eyesight is better than mine. I have never seen compassion from Share. 
  She, instead, chooses to view me as arrogant. Are deprecating labels 
  another form of open-heartedness? Emily might have an opinion on this as 
  well. (Emily, feel free to ignore this.)
  
   You'll have to find someone else to play with tonight.
   
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend  wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
   wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend  wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
 wrote:
  
   sure Judy.  Carry on with your truth campaign.  as Curtis aptly
   pointed out: for someone to constantly declare how dedicated to
   truth they are, is not unlike the magician telling everyone
   repeatedly how this is a plain, ordinary deck with which I am
   going to perform this trick.
 
  Not if the person is in fact dedicated to truth, unlike the
  magician. Curtis isn't, you aren't (as I just got done noting),
  Barry obviously isn't. So it isn't at all surprising that the
  three of you would be anxious to portray a truth-teller as
  a deceiver, is it?
   
Can I assume you're afraid to answer my question, Stevie?
   
And that's you in a nutshell, isn't Judy.  You can
 fill in the blank, (as you do),
   
Which blank would this be, Stevie?
   
 with whomever you determine to be the
 liar of the hour, or the day.  Usually there is no shortage of
 candidates.
   
Actually they don't change much from week to week, Stevie.
   
 And that, pretty much is how you spend your posts here.
   
And that what, Stevie? Your writing is pretty incoherent
tonight. I don't think you quite got what I've been saying.
   
But it's obvious you aren't happy about the truths I've
been telling, Stevie--you know, like the one about your
having blamed DrD for bringing up Barry's brother's
suicide when it was actually Barry who did that. And
another truth is that you've never retracted your
accusation nor apologized to DrD for it.
   
I'm truly sorry that it makes you so uncomfortable,
Stevie, but them's the breaks.
   
 And I am glad you have something to aspire towards.  Perhaps someone
 here will take up your cause and make a nomination.
 I think it would make for a fascinating vetting process.
 And yikes.  Could it be that you could be a possible candidate for
   the
 two different awards that have shown up 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-07 Thread seventhray27


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann wrote:
 No, are you? But you emphasized you business reputation in particular
in your paragraph above. Many, many people focus on one thing more than
the other, it is very tricky ( I find) to discover how to balance all of
the responsibilities in one's life. You said obsession, not me.

 I'm glad to know you have a balanced life and your energies are
distributed evenly. Just not, apparently, in rewarding those seeking
truth (hence your original post to Judy).

I'm good with you having the last word on this Ann. And thanks for the
good wishes.  Getting ready to head out now.

Now calm down and have a nice vacation. ( I like the term business
titan, by the way, it sounds so powerful. But even my father was not
obsessed. His business abilities came very easily to him. What he did
in his career was very much a part of who he was naturally - an honest,
bright, compassionate born leader.)

Well, I don't know if KF was a Dow Component, but if not, it couldn't
have been far behind.




[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-07 Thread seventhray27

Thanks Jim. I'm especially looking forward to a nice camping overnight. 
Maybe catch some lake trout to fry up.


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@... wrote:

 May you enjoy many tall, strong and tropical beverages on your
vacation!!

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
wrote:
 
  Thank you Jim.
  A couple things come to mind. (as I am here at work, getting things
in
  order so that I can go on vacation tomorrow with a somewhat
unfettered
  mind)
  I am not sure if I have as much invested in this site as Judy. On
the
  other hand, I do tend to trust my judgments, which many times are
snap
  judgements.
  And it may be that when I take the time, to look more closely at
  something, (as I did recently at Judy's prodding), such as whether
Robin
  was being truthful when he said he didn't strike someone, (and the
  context), then it may be that I modify my position some.
  But in that exact example a lot of effort was expended for a pretty
  small adjustment.
  I think the main complaint I hear about me is that I am too
emotional in
  my judgments.
  Perhaps I am.
  On the other hand, it is always nice to have the real world to help
you
  keep score on things.
  I will read over what you've written and see if anything else comes
to
  mind.
  But I just don't know if I can come around to seeing Judy in a
different
  light, than what I do.
  I'll try to keep an open mind.
  Thanks for your feedback.
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ wrote:
  
   Hey Steve, I've been following this back and forth, for awhile. In
  terms of how you like to interact here, which I think mirrors your
daily
  life and work, congenial, comes to mind. You and I could probably go
to
  lunch and not mention TM, or any of the FFL topics, and still have
  plenty to yak about, and have a good time. I enjoy not always
winding
  everything out, too.
  
   On the other hand, it was my business and skill for many years, to
  ensure clarity and understanding regarding the design, development,
and
  transfer of very technical knowledge, to engineers and technicians,
so
  that satellites, lasers, large phone switches, and data centers, for
  example, didn't fuck up. As a result, I can determine, when I want
to
  put the effort into it, now that I don't *have* to, whether or not
  someone is being illogical, exaggerating, skewing material, has a
hidden
  agenda, etc. Over so many years of analysis, it becomes obvious.
  
   Judy has a very consistent approach here. She is intent on
unraveling
  the writing of those who are professing to say one thing, and in
fact,
  through the mechanisms I referred to earlier, are saying something
quite
  different. Further, if someone is simply expressing something, is
there
  integrity in the expression?
  
   We do not have the luxury here to evaluate someone's body language
and
  expressions here. It is all expressed through writing. So, the
  interactions between us are sometimes less than congenial, because
there
  is no other way to further the thoughts expressed, sometimes, than
to
  take exception. In everyday interaction, a raised eyebrow, or quick
joke
  may suffice to move a conversation along, but here, with writing as
the
  only tool, everything must be spelled out.
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
  wrote:
   
Bless you Judy. I am going to take a nod from the Share playbook
  and
offer you compassion.
You'll have to find someone else to play with tonight.
   
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27
steve.sundur@
wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27
  steve.sundur@
  wrote:
   
sure Judy. Carry on with your truth campaign. as Curtis
  aptly
pointed out: for someone to constantly declare how
  dedicated to
truth they are, is not unlike the magician telling
everyone
repeatedly how this is a plain, ordinary deck with
which I
  am
going to perform this trick.
  
   Not if the person is in fact dedicated to truth, unlike
the
   magician. Curtis isn't, you aren't (as I just got done
  noting),
   Barry obviously isn't. So it isn't at all surprising that
the
   three of you would be anxious to portray a truth-teller as
   a deceiver, is it?

 Can I assume you're afraid to answer my question, Stevie?

 And that's you in a nutshell, isn't Judy. You can
  fill in the blank, (as you do),

 Which blank would this be, Stevie?

 with whomever you determine to be the
  liar of the hour, or the day. Usually there is no shortage
of
  candidates.

 Actually they don't change much from week to week, Stevie.

  And that, pretty much is how you spend your posts here.

 And 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-07 Thread Ann


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@... wrote:

 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann wrote:
  No, are you? But you emphasized you business reputation in particular
 in your paragraph above. Many, many people focus on one thing more than
 the other, it is very tricky ( I find) to discover how to balance all of
 the responsibilities in one's life. You said obsession, not me.
 
  I'm glad to know you have a balanced life and your energies are
 distributed evenly. Just not, apparently, in rewarding those seeking
 truth (hence your original post to Judy).
 
 I'm good with you having the last word on this Ann. And thanks for the
 good wishes.  Getting ready to head out now.
 
 Now calm down and have a nice vacation. ( I like the term business
 titan, by the way, it sounds so powerful. But even my father was not
 obsessed. His business abilities came very easily to him. What he did
 in his career was very much a part of who he was naturally - an honest,
 bright, compassionate born leader.)
 
 Well, I don't know if KF was a Dow Component, but if not, it couldn't
 have been far behind.

Kraft Corp was the second largest food company in the world behind General 
Foods. My father was CEO of Kraft Corp ( not the smaller division of Kraft 
Foods). That later became Dart and Kraft while he was still working. Kraft Corp 
included many other food companies like Sealtest, Tupperware etc. My father was 
aghast and luckily retired by the time the cigarette company Philip Morris got 
in bed with Kraft.




[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-07 Thread turquoiseb
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27  wrote:

 Thanks Jim. I'm especially looking forward to a nice camping
overnight.
 Maybe catch some lake trout to fry up.

Sounds great, Steve. No camping this weekend, but we did manage
to have a family picnic in a canal-side park here in Leiden. Camping
will come later this summer, on a family vacation in the south of
France.

 
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[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-07 Thread emilymae.reyn
Yes, openness as a lead in to compassion - I like that idea.  Yes, I am working 
on doing what you describe below in my life.  I'm all about trying to let go 
and be more present and aware of myself and relation to life and others'  
these days, which brings a number of other things into more clear focus - like 
control and fear and trust and on and on and on. 

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann awoelflebater@... wrote:

 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymae.reyn emilymae.reyn@ wrote:
 
  I just looked up compassion sympathy and empathy as I was asking 
  myself how I define them.  I feel for others' and in Share's case, I 
  offered her compassion the other day for her Attachment Disorder after 
  viewing the host of difficult character traits associated with it.  This 
  was not accurate.  What I was offering her was sympathy.  Compassion is 
  a big word and has an element of action to relieve suffering in it.  
  
  You, Ann, demonstrate an online version of compassion in many instances 
  here.  I don't see this in Share, but I can only talk from my perspective.  
  Resorting to name-calling, as she does with everyone she doesn't like is 
  not a compassionate approach - more of a playground approach.  Smile.
 
 Thanks for your input. I find it always to be worthwhile. 
 
 I think what I can most admire in a person is the ability to 'drop' something 
 in a moment and do an about face in any situation; for that person to be open 
 enough to absorb new information and new input in a way that would allow them 
 to begin fresh again in an old circumstance or in the face of a person they 
 may be having a 'problem' with. 
 
 This probably has nothing to do with compassion but it does have to do with 
 openness. This kind of openness can certainly lead to what could appear, at 
 times, to be compassion. Although I am certainly no saint and am no great 
 exhibitor of the most positive traits known to man I AM open to finding out 
 new and different things about people, in fact, I welcome this (especially if 
 it were to show someone in a better light).  Open vs closed. Holding on vs 
 letting go. Moving on vs remaining static. These are just some of the 
 qualities I value and am working on within myself. Not in some structured way 
 as in  adopting some path of discipline or spiritual tradition but just by 
 becoming animated day after day in what I think of as my life. Roll with it 
 all or become some jaded, angry, embittered and ultimately miserable person. 
 I think we see this all the time in certain family and friends. Tragic.
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann awoelflebater@ wrote:
  
   
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@ 
   wrote:
   
Bless you Judy.  I am going to take a nod from the Share playbook and
offer you compassion.
   
   Your eyesight is better than mine. I have never seen compassion from 
   Share. She, instead, chooses to view me as arrogant. Are deprecating 
   labels another form of open-heartedness? Emily might have an opinion on 
   this as well. (Emily, feel free to ignore this.)
   
You'll have to find someone else to play with tonight.


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend  wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend  wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
  wrote:
   
sure Judy.  Carry on with your truth campaign.  as Curtis aptly
pointed out: for someone to constantly declare how dedicated to
truth they are, is not unlike the magician telling everyone
repeatedly how this is a plain, ordinary deck with which I am
going to perform this trick.
  
   Not if the person is in fact dedicated to truth, unlike the
   magician. Curtis isn't, you aren't (as I just got done noting),
   Barry obviously isn't. So it isn't at all surprising that the
   three of you would be anxious to portray a truth-teller as
   a deceiver, is it?

 Can I assume you're afraid to answer my question, Stevie?

 And that's you in a nutshell, isn't Judy.  You can
  fill in the blank, (as you do),

 Which blank would this be, Stevie?

  with whomever you determine to be the
  liar of the hour, or the day.  Usually there is no shortage of
  candidates.

 Actually they don't change much from week to week, Stevie.

  And that, pretty much is how you spend your posts here.

 And that what, Stevie? Your writing is pretty incoherent
 tonight. I don't think you quite got what I've been saying.

 But it's obvious you aren't happy about the truths I've
 been telling, Stevie--you know, like the one about your
 having blamed DrD for bringing up Barry's brother's
 suicide when it was actually Barry who 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-07 Thread Share Long
Wonderful photo, thanks, turq, but what's *really* important: what was the FOOD 
s'il vous plait?





 From: turquoiseb no_re...@yahoogroups.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Sunday, July 7, 2013 9:14 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson
 


  
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27  wrote:

 Thanks Jim. I'm especially looking forward to a nice camping overnight. 
 Maybe catch some lake trout to fry up.

Sounds great, Steve. No camping this weekend, but we did manage
to have a family picnic in a canal-side park here in Leiden. Camping
will come later this summer, on a family vacation in the south of
France. 






 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-07 Thread Share Long
Bon voyage, Steve and family! Usually I say it's a funny old world or that life 
is rich, strange but beautiful. I might start saying it's fluffy which to me 
means loveable (-:





 From: seventhray27 steve.sun...@yahoo.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Saturday, July 6, 2013 11:12 PM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson
 


  
Thank you Ann, for your reply.  And to borrow again from the Share playbook, 
regarding differences of opinion, The world is a crazy and fun place, (to 
paraphrase)

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann  wrote:

 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@ wrote:
 
  Bless you Judy.  I am going to take a nod from the Share playbook and
  offer you compassion.
 
 Your eyesight is better than mine. I have never seen compassion from Share. 
 She, instead, chooses to view me as arrogant. Are deprecating labels another 
 form of open-heartedness? Emily might have an opinion on this as well. 
 (Emily, feel free to ignore this.)
 
  You'll have to find someone else to play with tonight.
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend  wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
  wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend  wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
wrote:
 
  sure Judy.  Carry on with your truth campaign.  as Curtis aptly
  pointed out: for someone to constantly declare how dedicated to
  truth they are, is not unlike the magician telling everyone
  repeatedly how this is a plain, ordinary deck with which I am
  going to perform this trick.

 Not if the person is in fact dedicated to truth, unlike the
 magician. Curtis isn't, you aren't (as I just got done noting),
 Barry obviously isn't. So it isn't at all surprising that the
 three of you would be anxious to portray a truth-teller as
 a deceiver, is it?
  
   Can I assume you're afraid to answer my question, Stevie?
  
   And that's you in a nutshell, isn't Judy.  You can
fill in the blank, (as you do),
  
   Which blank would this be, Stevie?
  
with whomever you determine to be the
liar of the hour, or the day.  Usually there is no shortage of
candidates.
  
   Actually they don't change much from week to week, Stevie.
  
And that, pretty much is how you spend your posts here.
  
   And that what, Stevie? Your writing is pretty incoherent
   tonight. I don't think you quite got what I've been saying.
  
   But it's obvious you aren't happy about the truths I've
   been telling, Stevie--you know, like the one about your
   having blamed DrD for bringing up Barry's brother's
   suicide when it was actually Barry who did that. And
   another truth is that you've never retracted your
   accusation nor apologized to DrD for it.
  
   I'm truly sorry that it makes you so uncomfortable,
   Stevie, but them's the breaks.
  
And I am glad you have something to aspire towards.  Perhaps someone
here will take up your cause and make a nomination.
I think it would make for a fascinating vetting process.
And yikes.  Could it be that you could be a possible candidate for
  the
two different awards that have shown up now.
  
   Oh, Stevie, you've already forgotten what I said in my
   earlier post, and you've even quoted it below. See if
   you can find it. A little practice exercise for you.
  
  but this is how you choose to spend your life force, so I
  hope is gratifying for you.

 Not being concerned about the truth, you probably aren't
 aware that there are many people who have dedicated their
 lives to the truth, sometimes even *sacrificed* their
 lives to the truth. Truth and truth-telling have generally
 been highly regarded throughout history, something to
 strive for.

 http://www.ridenhour.org/prizes_truth_telling.html

 (I wouldn't consider myself to come close to deserving
 such a prize because my efforts have been so limited.)

 But there are always those who can't see the importance of
 truth, who find it inconvenient and annoying, not worth the
 effort; and even those who believe truth just gets in the
 way of their needs and desires and whims. And sometimes, of
 course, such people are just cowards who *fear* the truth.




  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27
  steve.sundur@
  wrote:
   
I wonder if anyone even reads those rebuttals. But I suppose
they are gratifying to you.
  
   Right, the point is to get the truth on the record.
  
   I mean, for example, I certainly wouldn't expect you
   to retract and apologize for accusing DrD of bringing
   up Barry's brother's suicide when, as I pointed

[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-07 Thread turquoiseb


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote:

 Wonderful photo, thanks, turq, but what's *really* important: 
 what was the FOOD s'il vous plait?

A chicken roasted with lemon and herbs, fresh olives,
fresh bread, a variety of cheeses, fresh fruit salad
for dessert, and a good bottle of wine. 

Homemade cookies, too, not that they would tempt you. :-)





Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-07 Thread Share Long
Ack, turq torturing the FF Cookie Monster! But what kind, what kind?
Ha! the only stuff that would NOT tempt me is the cheese and, ashamed to admit, 
the fruit salad. I'm the only person in the TMO who isn't into fruit which IMHO 
doesn't qualify as dessert as it's too healthy. Also only TMer not into pie. Go 
figure (-:





 From: turquoiseb no_re...@yahoogroups.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Sunday, July 7, 2013 11:05 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson
 


  


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote:

 Wonderful photo, thanks, turq, but what's *really* important: 
 what was the FOOD s'il vous plait?

A chicken roasted with lemon and herbs, fresh olives,
fresh bread, a variety of cheeses, fresh fruit salad
for dessert, and a good bottle of wine. 

Homemade cookies, too, not that they would tempt you. :-)


 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-07 Thread Share Long
salyavin, I think it's more likely that our Space Brethren would try to 
communicate with dolphins and whales who carry in their DNA the knowledge of 
time travel. As for the limitations of scientific research, I guess if humans 
or even animals are involved then there's a chance that the observer will have 
an effect on the subjects of the experiment. Also, I think self report is 
considered a valid form of observation and research albeit an initial form of 
both, a jumping off point for further research. Your experiences with TM sound 
wonderful and actually IMHO, come through in your posts here. And regarding 
your point about interconnectedness, I refer you to wikipedia on mirror 
neurons.      





 From: salyavin808 fintlewoodle...@mail.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Saturday, July 6, 2013 1:04 PM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson
 


  


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote:

 salyavin, I too can't believe teasification isn't a real and or proper word. 
 It should be both IMHO. And maybe it will be if our NSA buddies are tracking 
 this tread. Anyway, I'm so glad you love crop circles but only in asterisks. 
 And is there a scientific reason for thinking the Space Brothers wouldn't 
 have their own websites?! One would logically think that if they can hurtle 
 themselves through space to get here, they could set up a little website, 
 etc. I'm just sayin.

But maybe the Space Brothers aren't trying to communicate with us?

Perhaps crop circles are aimed at crows who will turn out to be 
the true owners of the Earth. Or pigeons even... We just assume 
they must be for us as we have such a mighty opinion of ourselves.

 BTW, thank you too for all the cool info about the old fashioned typewriters 
 and why the letters were arranged in the qwerty order, to keep the keys from 
 getting jammed.  Love learning new stuff (-:
 
 Last but not least I gotta ask what you think about the research just posted 
 by Susan. Good design for a scientific study?

Very interesting. Bit of a small sample, but a large signal from
it. And with a form of guided meditation too, which some people
round here will tell you does nothing at all.

Would like to see a similar type of experiment with TMers, I think
when people are caught out like that when they are acting naturally
is much better than when the are in an experimental setting where
white coat syndrome sets in and people start behaving - consciously
or not - how they think the doctors would want them to behave.

As for a mechanism, I'm not sure about the interconnectedness
explanation as I can't see any way we actually are connected,
especially in a woo-woo way.

What I think TM has done for me is put me in touch with my deeper
feelings and opened my heart a lot, so I guess that would make one
more empathetic.

I'm certainly more aware of my surroundings and how I affect other
people and how they affect each other, in as much as these things 
are self measurable anyway. 


 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-06 Thread Share Long
salyavin, I too can't believe teasification isn't a real and or proper word. It 
should be both IMHO. And maybe it will be if our NSA buddies are tracking this 
tread. Anyway, I'm so glad you love crop circles but only in asterisks. And is 
there a scientific reason for thinking the Space Brothers wouldn't have their 
own websites?! One would logically think that if they can hurtle themselves 
through space to get here, they could set up a little website, etc. I'm just 
sayin.


BTW, thank you too for all the cool info about the old fashioned typewriters 
and why the letters were arranged in the qwerty order, to keep the keys from 
getting jammed.  Love learning new stuff (-:

Last but not least I gotta ask what you think about the research just posted by 
Susan. Good design for a scientific study?



 From: salyavin808 fintlewoodle...@mail.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Friday, July 5, 2013 12:03 PM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson
 


  


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote:

 salyavin, I like when people make up words like teasification. And IMHO it's 
 sad if Ravi is right and Judy is unteasible. Sometimes I like it when someone 
 makes me laugh at myself. Anyway, I've enjoyed your humor recently but wish 
 you liked crop circles more. I think they're beautiful.

Hey, I **love** crop circles! I just seriously doubt they are made
by the Space Brothers. Especially when the people who do build
them have their own website.

 PS I wonder if Ravi was being ironic when he lambasted you for writing FOUR 
 posts on one topic. 

I think you need self awareness before you can do irony.

PS I *can't* believe teasification isn't a proper word...

 
  From: salyavin808 fintlewoodlewix@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Friday, July 5, 2013 5:54 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson
 
 
 
   
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Alex Stanley j_alexander_stanley@ 
 wrote:
 
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, salyavin808 fintlewoodlewix@ 
  wrote:
  
   
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
   
First and second, more bloopers from our little Stevie.

Third, Maharishi and Robin.
   
   Is this a way of getting round the post limit? Moderator!
  
  
  Basically, yes. And, if you think I'm going to micromanage the content of 
  posts in order to stop it, you need to put down that crack pipe.
 
 LOL, it was more for Judy's teasification than anything else 
 but I know what you mean - I wouldn't read them if you paid me.



 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-06 Thread salyavin808


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote:

 salyavin, I too can't believe teasification isn't a real and or proper word. 
 It should be both IMHO. And maybe it will be if our NSA buddies are tracking 
 this tread. Anyway, I'm so glad you love crop circles but only in asterisks. 
 And is there a scientific reason for thinking the Space Brothers wouldn't 
 have their own websites?! One would logically think that if they can hurtle 
 themselves through space to get here, they could set up a little website, 
 etc. I'm just sayin.

But maybe the Space Brothers aren't trying to communicate with us?

Perhaps crop circles are aimed at crows who will turn out to be 
the true owners of the Earth. Or pigeons even... We just assume 
they must be for us as we have such a mighty opinion of ourselves.
 
 BTW, thank you too for all the cool info about the old fashioned typewriters 
 and why the letters were arranged in the qwerty order, to keep the keys from 
 getting jammed.  Love learning new stuff (-:
 
 Last but not least I gotta ask what you think about the research just posted 
 by Susan. Good design for a scientific study?

Very interesting. Bit of a small sample, but a large signal from
it. And with a form of guided meditation too, which some people
round here will tell you does nothing at all.

Would like to see a similar type of experiment with TMers, I think
when people are caught out like that when they are acting naturally
is much better than when the are in an experimental setting where
white coat syndrome sets in and people start behaving - consciously
or not - how they think the doctors would want them to behave.

As for a mechanism, I'm not sure about the interconnectedness
explanation as I can't see any way we actually are connected,
especially in a woo-woo way.
 
What I think TM has done for me is put me in touch with my deeper
feelings and opened my heart a lot, so I guess that would make one
more empathetic.

I'm certainly more aware of my surroundings and how I affect other
people and how they affect each other, in as much as these things 
are self measurable anyway. 



[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-06 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@... wrote:

 I wonder if anyone even reads those rebuttals.  But I suppose
 they are gratifying to you.

Right, the point is to get the truth on the record.

I mean, for example, I certainly wouldn't expect you
to retract and apologize for accusing DrD of bringing
up Barry's brother's suicide when, as I pointed out in
one of those posts, it was actually Barry himself who
had done so.

But that error--blaming DrD for Barry's own behavior--
can't be allowed to stand unrefuted.

That's just the way it is in this world. Some people
care about the truth, and some don't. The former can't
force the latter to care, so they do the best they can
to ensure the truth is not obscured by those who don't
care about it.





[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-06 Thread seventhray27

sure Judy.  Carry on with your truth campaign.  as Curtis aptly pointed
out: for someone to constantly declare how dedicated to truth they
are, is not unlike the magician telling everyone repeatedly how this is
a plain, ordinary deck with which I am going to perform this trick.

but this is how you choose to spend your life force, so I hope is
gratifying for you.




--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
wrote:
 
  I wonder if anyone even reads those rebuttals. But I suppose
  they are gratifying to you.

 Right, the point is to get the truth on the record.

 I mean, for example, I certainly wouldn't expect you
 to retract and apologize for accusing DrD of bringing
 up Barry's brother's suicide when, as I pointed out in
 one of those posts, it was actually Barry himself who
 had done so.

 But that error--blaming DrD for Barry's own behavior--
 can't be allowed to stand unrefuted.

 That's just the way it is in this world. Some people
 care about the truth, and some don't. The former can't
 force the latter to care, so they do the best they can
 to ensure the truth is not obscured by those who don't
 care about it.





[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-06 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@... wrote:

 sure Judy.  Carry on with your truth campaign.  as Curtis aptly
 pointed out: for someone to constantly declare how dedicated to
 truth they are, is not unlike the magician telling everyone
 repeatedly how this is a plain, ordinary deck with which I am
 going to perform this trick.

Not if the person is in fact dedicated to truth, unlike the
magician. Curtis isn't, you aren't (as I just got done noting),
Barry obviously isn't. So it isn't at all surprising that the
three of you would be anxious to portray a truth-teller as
a deceiver, is it?

 but this is how you choose to spend your life force, so I
 hope is gratifying for you.

Not being concerned about the truth, you probably aren't
aware that there are many people who have dedicated their
lives to the truth, sometimes even *sacrificed* their
lives to the truth. Truth and truth-telling have generally
been highly regarded throughout history, something to
strive for.

http://www.ridenhour.org/prizes_truth_telling.html

(I wouldn't consider myself to come close to deserving
such a prize because my efforts have been so limited.)

But there are always those who can't see the importance of
truth, who find it inconvenient and annoying, not worth the
effort; and even those who believe truth just gets in the
way of their needs and desires and whims. And sometimes, of
course, such people are just cowards who *fear* the truth.




 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
 wrote:
  
   I wonder if anyone even reads those rebuttals. But I suppose
   they are gratifying to you.
 
  Right, the point is to get the truth on the record.
 
  I mean, for example, I certainly wouldn't expect you
  to retract and apologize for accusing DrD of bringing
  up Barry's brother's suicide when, as I pointed out in
  one of those posts, it was actually Barry himself who
  had done so.
 
  But that error--blaming DrD for Barry's own behavior--
  can't be allowed to stand unrefuted.
 
  That's just the way it is in this world. Some people
  care about the truth, and some don't. The former can't
  force the latter to care, so they do the best they can
  to ensure the truth is not obscured by those who don't
  care about it.
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-06 Thread Ann


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@... wrote:

 
 sure Judy.  Carry on with your truth campaign.  as Curtis aptly pointed
 out: for someone to constantly declare how dedicated to truth they
 are, is not unlike the magician telling everyone repeatedly how this is
 a plain, ordinary deck with which I am going to perform this trick.
 
 but this is how you choose to spend your life force, so I hope is
 gratifying for you.

And how do you see yourself spending your life force Steve? How can you fault 
anyone for caring about truth, whether you believe that particular person is 
misguided or off base or not? How come you can sit there and make these mocking 
noises when your greatest contribution here appears to be belittling others? 
Who do you perceive yourself to be that you can afford to jibber away in the 
corner laughing and scorning others who take umbrage at lies, manipulation s 
and the conscious twisting of true things? When did you decide life was not 
worth living well or deeply?
 
 
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
 wrote:
  
   I wonder if anyone even reads those rebuttals. But I suppose
   they are gratifying to you.
 
  Right, the point is to get the truth on the record.
 
  I mean, for example, I certainly wouldn't expect you
  to retract and apologize for accusing DrD of bringing
  up Barry's brother's suicide when, as I pointed out in
  one of those posts, it was actually Barry himself who
  had done so.
 
  But that error--blaming DrD for Barry's own behavior--
  can't be allowed to stand unrefuted.
 
  That's just the way it is in this world. Some people
  care about the truth, and some don't. The former can't
  force the latter to care, so they do the best they can
  to ensure the truth is not obscured by those who don't
  care about it.
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-06 Thread seventhray27

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend  wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
wrote:
 
  sure Judy.  Carry on with your truth campaign.  as Curtis aptly
  pointed out: for someone to constantly declare how dedicated to
  truth they are, is not unlike the magician telling everyone
  repeatedly how this is a plain, ordinary deck with which I am
  going to perform this trick.

 Not if the person is in fact dedicated to truth, unlike the
 magician. Curtis isn't, you aren't (as I just got done noting),
 Barry obviously isn't. So it isn't at all surprising that the
 three of you would be anxious to portray a truth-teller as
 a deceiver, is it?And that's you in a nutshell, isn't Judy.  You can
fill in the blank, (as you do), with whomever you determine to be the
liar of the hour, or the day.  Usually there is no shortage of
candidates.  And that, pretty much is how you spend your posts here.
And I am glad you have something to aspire towards.  Perhaps someone
here will take up your cause and make a nomination.
I think it would make for a fascinating vetting process.
And yikes.  Could it be that you could be a possible candidate for the
two different awards that have shown up now.


  but this is how you choose to spend your life force, so I
  hope is gratifying for you.

 Not being concerned about the truth, you probably aren't
 aware that there are many people who have dedicated their
 lives to the truth, sometimes even *sacrificed* their
 lives to the truth. Truth and truth-telling have generally
 been highly regarded throughout history, something to
 strive for.

 http://www.ridenhour.org/prizes_truth_telling.html

 (I wouldn't consider myself to come close to deserving
 such a prize because my efforts have been so limited.)

 But there are always those who can't see the importance of
 truth, who find it inconvenient and annoying, not worth the
 effort; and even those who believe truth just gets in the
 way of their needs and desires and whims. And sometimes, of
 course, such people are just cowards who *fear* the truth.




  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
  wrote:
   
I wonder if anyone even reads those rebuttals. But I suppose
they are gratifying to you.
  
   Right, the point is to get the truth on the record.
  
   I mean, for example, I certainly wouldn't expect you
   to retract and apologize for accusing DrD of bringing
   up Barry's brother's suicide when, as I pointed out in
   one of those posts, it was actually Barry himself who
   had done so.
  
   But that error--blaming DrD for Barry's own behavior--
   can't be allowed to stand unrefuted.
  
   That's just the way it is in this world. Some people
   care about the truth, and some don't. The former can't
   force the latter to care, so they do the best they can
   to ensure the truth is not obscured by those who don't
   care about it.
  
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-06 Thread seventhray27

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann  wrote:



 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
wrote:
 
 
  sure Judy.  Carry on with your truth campaign.  as Curtis aptly
pointed
  out: for someone to constantly declare how dedicated to truth they
  are, is not unlike the magician telling everyone repeatedly how
this is
  a plain, ordinary deck with which I am going to perform this trick.
 
  but this is how you choose to spend your life force, so I hope is
  gratifying for you.

 And how do you see yourself spending your life force Steve?Why don't
you ask that question to my family, to my employees, or to the local
media who have made it point to compare our business to places like
Nordstroms or Ritz Carlton as an example of of a (small) company that
offers superior customer service.
  How can you fault anyone for caring about truth, whether you believe
that particular person is misguided or off base or not? Yow Ann.  I'm
not going to go along with this.  I do feel a need to speak out if I
feel a person is misguided.  Don't you?
How come you can sit there and make these mocking noises when your
greatest contribution here appears to be belittling others? Sort of one
sided, I think. But I can live that assessment, if that is how you see
things.
Who do you perceive yourself to be that you can afford to jibber away in
the corner laughing and scorning others who take umbrage at lies,
manipulation s and the conscious twisting of true things? Ann, remember,
opinions are like a-holes.  Everyone has one, and most of them stink.  I
include myself in this category, but I wonder if you do as well?
When did you decide life was not worth living well or deeply?You seem
pretty all knowing Ann.  Why don't you tell me?
 
 
 
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
  wrote:
   
I wonder if anyone even reads those rebuttals. But I suppose
they are gratifying to you.
  
   Right, the point is to get the truth on the record.
  
   I mean, for example, I certainly wouldn't expect you
   to retract and apologize for accusing DrD of bringing
   up Barry's brother's suicide when, as I pointed out in
   one of those posts, it was actually Barry himself who
   had done so.
  
   But that error--blaming DrD for Barry's own behavior--
   can't be allowed to stand unrefuted.
  
   That's just the way it is in this world. Some people
   care about the truth, and some don't. The former can't
   force the latter to care, so they do the best they can
   to ensure the truth is not obscured by those who don't
   care about it.
  
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-06 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@... wrote:
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend  wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
 wrote:
  
   sure Judy.  Carry on with your truth campaign.  as Curtis aptly
   pointed out: for someone to constantly declare how dedicated to
   truth they are, is not unlike the magician telling everyone
   repeatedly how this is a plain, ordinary deck with which I am
   going to perform this trick.
 
  Not if the person is in fact dedicated to truth, unlike the
  magician. Curtis isn't, you aren't (as I just got done noting),
  Barry obviously isn't. So it isn't at all surprising that the
  three of you would be anxious to portray a truth-teller as
  a deceiver, is it?

Can I assume you're afraid to answer my question, Stevie?

And that's you in a nutshell, isn't Judy.  You can
 fill in the blank, (as you do),

Which blank would this be, Stevie?

 with whomever you determine to be the
 liar of the hour, or the day.  Usually there is no shortage of
 candidates.

Actually they don't change much from week to week, Stevie.

 And that, pretty much is how you spend your posts here.

And that what, Stevie? Your writing is pretty incoherent
tonight. I don't think you quite got what I've been saying.

But it's obvious you aren't happy about the truths I've
been telling, Stevie--you know, like the one about your
having blamed DrD for bringing up Barry's brother's
suicide when it was actually Barry who did that. And 
another truth is that you've never retracted your
accusation nor apologized to DrD for it.

I'm truly sorry that it makes you so uncomfortable, 
Stevie, but them's the breaks.

 And I am glad you have something to aspire towards.  Perhaps someone
 here will take up your cause and make a nomination.
 I think it would make for a fascinating vetting process.
 And yikes.  Could it be that you could be a possible candidate for the
 two different awards that have shown up now.

Oh, Stevie, you've already forgotten what I said in my
earlier post, and you've even quoted it below. See if
you can find it. A little practice exercise for you.

   but this is how you choose to spend your life force, so I
   hope is gratifying for you.
 
  Not being concerned about the truth, you probably aren't
  aware that there are many people who have dedicated their
  lives to the truth, sometimes even *sacrificed* their
  lives to the truth. Truth and truth-telling have generally
  been highly regarded throughout history, something to
  strive for.
 
  http://www.ridenhour.org/prizes_truth_telling.html
 
  (I wouldn't consider myself to come close to deserving
  such a prize because my efforts have been so limited.)
 
  But there are always those who can't see the importance of
  truth, who find it inconvenient and annoying, not worth the
  effort; and even those who believe truth just gets in the
  way of their needs and desires and whims. And sometimes, of
  course, such people are just cowards who *fear* the truth.
 
 
 
 
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
   wrote:

 I wonder if anyone even reads those rebuttals. But I suppose
 they are gratifying to you.
   
Right, the point is to get the truth on the record.
   
I mean, for example, I certainly wouldn't expect you
to retract and apologize for accusing DrD of bringing
up Barry's brother's suicide when, as I pointed out in
one of those posts, it was actually Barry himself who
had done so.
   
But that error--blaming DrD for Barry's own behavior--
can't be allowed to stand unrefuted.
   
That's just the way it is in this world. Some people
care about the truth, and some don't. The former can't
force the latter to care, so they do the best they can
to ensure the truth is not obscured by those who don't
care about it.




[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-06 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@... wrote:
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann  wrote:
(snip)
   How can you fault anyone for caring about truth, whether you believe
 that particular person is misguided or off base or not? Yow Ann.  I'm
 not going to go along with this.  I do feel a need to speak out if I
 feel a person is misguided.  Don't you?

Ann, our Stevie believes that truth-telling is misguided, so
anyone who does it is also misguided. That's why he's bravely
speaking out against it, to stay on Barry's good side.




[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-06 Thread seventhray27
Bless you Judy.  I am going to take a nod from the Share playbook and
offer you compassion.
You'll have to find someone else to play with tonight.


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend  wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend  wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
  wrote:
   
sure Judy.  Carry on with your truth campaign.  as Curtis aptly
pointed out: for someone to constantly declare how dedicated to
truth they are, is not unlike the magician telling everyone
repeatedly how this is a plain, ordinary deck with which I am
going to perform this trick.
  
   Not if the person is in fact dedicated to truth, unlike the
   magician. Curtis isn't, you aren't (as I just got done noting),
   Barry obviously isn't. So it isn't at all surprising that the
   three of you would be anxious to portray a truth-teller as
   a deceiver, is it?

 Can I assume you're afraid to answer my question, Stevie?

 And that's you in a nutshell, isn't Judy.  You can
  fill in the blank, (as you do),

 Which blank would this be, Stevie?

  with whomever you determine to be the
  liar of the hour, or the day.  Usually there is no shortage of
  candidates.

 Actually they don't change much from week to week, Stevie.

  And that, pretty much is how you spend your posts here.

 And that what, Stevie? Your writing is pretty incoherent
 tonight. I don't think you quite got what I've been saying.

 But it's obvious you aren't happy about the truths I've
 been telling, Stevie--you know, like the one about your
 having blamed DrD for bringing up Barry's brother's
 suicide when it was actually Barry who did that. And
 another truth is that you've never retracted your
 accusation nor apologized to DrD for it.

 I'm truly sorry that it makes you so uncomfortable,
 Stevie, but them's the breaks.

  And I am glad you have something to aspire towards.  Perhaps someone
  here will take up your cause and make a nomination.
  I think it would make for a fascinating vetting process.
  And yikes.  Could it be that you could be a possible candidate for
the
  two different awards that have shown up now.

 Oh, Stevie, you've already forgotten what I said in my
 earlier post, and you've even quoted it below. See if
 you can find it. A little practice exercise for you.

but this is how you choose to spend your life force, so I
hope is gratifying for you.
  
   Not being concerned about the truth, you probably aren't
   aware that there are many people who have dedicated their
   lives to the truth, sometimes even *sacrificed* their
   lives to the truth. Truth and truth-telling have generally
   been highly regarded throughout history, something to
   strive for.
  
   http://www.ridenhour.org/prizes_truth_telling.html
  
   (I wouldn't consider myself to come close to deserving
   such a prize because my efforts have been so limited.)
  
   But there are always those who can't see the importance of
   truth, who find it inconvenient and annoying, not worth the
   effort; and even those who believe truth just gets in the
   way of their needs and desires and whims. And sometimes, of
   course, such people are just cowards who *fear* the truth.
  
  
  
  
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27
steve.sundur@
wrote:
 
  I wonder if anyone even reads those rebuttals. But I suppose
  they are gratifying to you.

 Right, the point is to get the truth on the record.

 I mean, for example, I certainly wouldn't expect you
 to retract and apologize for accusing DrD of bringing
 up Barry's brother's suicide when, as I pointed out in
 one of those posts, it was actually Barry himself who
 had done so.

 But that error--blaming DrD for Barry's own behavior--
 can't be allowed to stand unrefuted.

 That's just the way it is in this world. Some people
 care about the truth, and some don't. The former can't
 force the latter to care, so they do the best they can
 to ensure the truth is not obscured by those who don't
 care about it.




[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-06 Thread seventhray27
Yes Judy,
Don't say a word. Pappa's going to buy you a mocking bird.And if that
mocking bird won't sing, Pappa's going to buy you a diamond ring.And if
that diamond ring turns brass, Pappa's going to buy you a looking
glass.And if that looking glass gets broke, Pappa's  going to buy you a
billy goat.And if that billy goat won't pull, Pappa's going to buy you a
cart and bull.And if that cart and bull goes down, you'll still be the
sweetest baby in town.
Quiet your mind Judy.  All's well.  Get some rest, and wake up refreshed
to fight tomorrows battles.  I know they're still be here for you.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend  wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann  wrote:
 (snip)
How can you fault anyone for caring about truth, whether you
believe
  that particular person is misguided or off base or not? Yow Ann. 
I'm
  not going to go along with this.  I do feel a need to speak out if I
  feel a person is misguided.  Don't you?

 Ann, our Stevie believes that truth-telling is misguided, so
 anyone who does it is also misguided. That's why he's bravely
 speaking out against it, to stay on Barry's good side.




[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-06 Thread authfriend
It doesn't take long to make you realize you're in
over your head, Stevie. Next time think about whether
you really want to take that plunge, eh?


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@... wrote:

 Bless you Judy.  I am going to take a nod from the Share playbook and
 offer you compassion.
 You'll have to find someone else to play with tonight.
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend  wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
 wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend  wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
   wrote:

 sure Judy.  Carry on with your truth campaign.  as Curtis aptly
 pointed out: for someone to constantly declare how dedicated to
 truth they are, is not unlike the magician telling everyone
 repeatedly how this is a plain, ordinary deck with which I am
 going to perform this trick.
   
Not if the person is in fact dedicated to truth, unlike the
magician. Curtis isn't, you aren't (as I just got done noting),
Barry obviously isn't. So it isn't at all surprising that the
three of you would be anxious to portray a truth-teller as
a deceiver, is it?
 
  Can I assume you're afraid to answer my question, Stevie?
 
  And that's you in a nutshell, isn't Judy.  You can
   fill in the blank, (as you do),
 
  Which blank would this be, Stevie?
 
   with whomever you determine to be the
   liar of the hour, or the day.  Usually there is no shortage of
   candidates.
 
  Actually they don't change much from week to week, Stevie.
 
   And that, pretty much is how you spend your posts here.
 
  And that what, Stevie? Your writing is pretty incoherent
  tonight. I don't think you quite got what I've been saying.
 
  But it's obvious you aren't happy about the truths I've
  been telling, Stevie--you know, like the one about your
  having blamed DrD for bringing up Barry's brother's
  suicide when it was actually Barry who did that. And
  another truth is that you've never retracted your
  accusation nor apologized to DrD for it.
 
  I'm truly sorry that it makes you so uncomfortable,
  Stevie, but them's the breaks.
 
   And I am glad you have something to aspire towards.  Perhaps someone
   here will take up your cause and make a nomination.
   I think it would make for a fascinating vetting process.
   And yikes.  Could it be that you could be a possible candidate for
 the
   two different awards that have shown up now.
 
  Oh, Stevie, you've already forgotten what I said in my
  earlier post, and you've even quoted it below. See if
  you can find it. A little practice exercise for you.
 
 but this is how you choose to spend your life force, so I
 hope is gratifying for you.
   
Not being concerned about the truth, you probably aren't
aware that there are many people who have dedicated their
lives to the truth, sometimes even *sacrificed* their
lives to the truth. Truth and truth-telling have generally
been highly regarded throughout history, something to
strive for.
   
http://www.ridenhour.org/prizes_truth_telling.html
   
(I wouldn't consider myself to come close to deserving
such a prize because my efforts have been so limited.)
   
But there are always those who can't see the importance of
truth, who find it inconvenient and annoying, not worth the
effort; and even those who believe truth just gets in the
way of their needs and desires and whims. And sometimes, of
course, such people are just cowards who *fear* the truth.
   
   
   
   
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27
 steve.sundur@
 wrote:
  
   I wonder if anyone even reads those rebuttals. But I suppose
   they are gratifying to you.
 
  Right, the point is to get the truth on the record.
 
  I mean, for example, I certainly wouldn't expect you
  to retract and apologize for accusing DrD of bringing
  up Barry's brother's suicide when, as I pointed out in
  one of those posts, it was actually Barry himself who
  had done so.
 
  But that error--blaming DrD for Barry's own behavior--
  can't be allowed to stand unrefuted.
 
  That's just the way it is in this world. Some people
  care about the truth, and some don't. The former can't
  force the latter to care, so they do the best they can
  to ensure the truth is not obscured by those who don't
  care about it.
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-06 Thread seventhray27
Yes Judy.  Of course Judy.  As you wish, Judy.
Sweet dreams Judy.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend  wrote:

 It doesn't take long to make you realize you're in
 over your head, Stevie. Next time think about whether
 you really want to take that plunge, eh?


 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
wrote:
 
  Bless you Judy.  I am going to take a nod from the Share playbook
and
  offer you compassion.
  You'll have to find someone else to play with tonight.
 
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend  wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
  wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend  wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27
steve.sundur@
wrote:
 
  sure Judy.  Carry on with your truth campaign.  as Curtis
aptly
  pointed out: for someone to constantly declare how
dedicated to
  truth they are, is not unlike the magician telling everyone
  repeatedly how this is a plain, ordinary deck with which I
am
  going to perform this trick.

 Not if the person is in fact dedicated to truth, unlike the
 magician. Curtis isn't, you aren't (as I just got done
noting),
 Barry obviously isn't. So it isn't at all surprising that the
 three of you would be anxious to portray a truth-teller as
 a deceiver, is it?
  
   Can I assume you're afraid to answer my question, Stevie?
  
   And that's you in a nutshell, isn't Judy.  You can
fill in the blank, (as you do),
  
   Which blank would this be, Stevie?
  
with whomever you determine to be the
liar of the hour, or the day.  Usually there is no shortage of
candidates.
  
   Actually they don't change much from week to week, Stevie.
  
And that, pretty much is how you spend your posts here.
  
   And that what, Stevie? Your writing is pretty incoherent
   tonight. I don't think you quite got what I've been saying.
  
   But it's obvious you aren't happy about the truths I've
   been telling, Stevie--you know, like the one about your
   having blamed DrD for bringing up Barry's brother's
   suicide when it was actually Barry who did that. And
   another truth is that you've never retracted your
   accusation nor apologized to DrD for it.
  
   I'm truly sorry that it makes you so uncomfortable,
   Stevie, but them's the breaks.
  
And I am glad you have something to aspire towards.  Perhaps
someone
here will take up your cause and make a nomination.
I think it would make for a fascinating vetting process.
And yikes.  Could it be that you could be a possible candidate
for
  the
two different awards that have shown up now.
  
   Oh, Stevie, you've already forgotten what I said in my
   earlier post, and you've even quoted it below. See if
   you can find it. A little practice exercise for you.
  
  but this is how you choose to spend your life force, so I
  hope is gratifying for you.

 Not being concerned about the truth, you probably aren't
 aware that there are many people who have dedicated their
 lives to the truth, sometimes even *sacrificed* their
 lives to the truth. Truth and truth-telling have generally
 been highly regarded throughout history, something to
 strive for.

 http://www.ridenhour.org/prizes_truth_telling.html

 (I wouldn't consider myself to come close to deserving
 such a prize because my efforts have been so limited.)

 But there are always those who can't see the importance of
 truth, who find it inconvenient and annoying, not worth the
 effort; and even those who believe truth just gets in the
 way of their needs and desires and whims. And sometimes, of
 course, such people are just cowards who *fear* the truth.




  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27
  steve.sundur@
  wrote:
   
I wonder if anyone even reads those rebuttals. But I
suppose
they are gratifying to you.
  
   Right, the point is to get the truth on the record.
  
   I mean, for example, I certainly wouldn't expect you
   to retract and apologize for accusing DrD of bringing
   up Barry's brother's suicide when, as I pointed out in
   one of those posts, it was actually Barry himself who
   had done so.
  
   But that error--blaming DrD for Barry's own behavior--
   can't be allowed to stand unrefuted.
  
   That's just the way it is in this world. Some people
   care about the truth, and some don't. The former can't
   force the latter to care, so they do the best they can
   to ensure the truth is not obscured by those who don't
   care about it.
  
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-06 Thread doctordumbass
Hey Steve, I've been following this back and forth, for awhile. In terms of how 
you like to interact here, which I think mirrors your daily life and work, 
congenial, comes to mind. You and I could probably go to lunch and not mention 
TM, or any of the FFL topics, and still have plenty to yak about, and have a 
good time. I enjoy not always winding everything out, too.

On the other hand, it was my business and skill for many years, to ensure 
clarity and understanding regarding the design, development, and transfer of 
very technical knowledge, to engineers and technicians, so that satellites, 
lasers, large phone switches, and data centers, for example, didn't fuck up. As 
a result, I can determine, when I want to put the effort into it, now that I 
don't *have* to, whether or not someone is being illogical, exaggerating, 
skewing material, has a hidden agenda, etc. Over so many years of analysis, it 
becomes obvious.

Judy has a very consistent approach here. She is intent on unraveling the 
writing of those who are professing to say one thing, and in fact, through the 
mechanisms I referred to earlier, are saying something quite different. 
Further, if someone is simply expressing something, is there integrity in the 
expression? 

We do not have the luxury here to evaluate someone's body language and 
expressions here. It is all expressed through writing. So, the interactions 
between us are sometimes less than congenial, because there is no other way to 
further the thoughts expressed, sometimes, than to take exception. In everyday 
interaction, a raised eyebrow, or quick joke may suffice to move a conversation 
along, but here, with writing as the only tool, everything must be spelled out.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@... wrote:

 Bless you Judy.  I am going to take a nod from the Share playbook and
 offer you compassion.
 You'll have to find someone else to play with tonight.
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend  wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
 wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend  wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
   wrote:

 sure Judy.  Carry on with your truth campaign.  as Curtis aptly
 pointed out: for someone to constantly declare how dedicated to
 truth they are, is not unlike the magician telling everyone
 repeatedly how this is a plain, ordinary deck with which I am
 going to perform this trick.
   
Not if the person is in fact dedicated to truth, unlike the
magician. Curtis isn't, you aren't (as I just got done noting),
Barry obviously isn't. So it isn't at all surprising that the
three of you would be anxious to portray a truth-teller as
a deceiver, is it?
 
  Can I assume you're afraid to answer my question, Stevie?
 
  And that's you in a nutshell, isn't Judy.  You can
   fill in the blank, (as you do),
 
  Which blank would this be, Stevie?
 
   with whomever you determine to be the
   liar of the hour, or the day.  Usually there is no shortage of
   candidates.
 
  Actually they don't change much from week to week, Stevie.
 
   And that, pretty much is how you spend your posts here.
 
  And that what, Stevie? Your writing is pretty incoherent
  tonight. I don't think you quite got what I've been saying.
 
  But it's obvious you aren't happy about the truths I've
  been telling, Stevie--you know, like the one about your
  having blamed DrD for bringing up Barry's brother's
  suicide when it was actually Barry who did that. And
  another truth is that you've never retracted your
  accusation nor apologized to DrD for it.
 
  I'm truly sorry that it makes you so uncomfortable,
  Stevie, but them's the breaks.
 
   And I am glad you have something to aspire towards.  Perhaps someone
   here will take up your cause and make a nomination.
   I think it would make for a fascinating vetting process.
   And yikes.  Could it be that you could be a possible candidate for
 the
   two different awards that have shown up now.
 
  Oh, Stevie, you've already forgotten what I said in my
  earlier post, and you've even quoted it below. See if
  you can find it. A little practice exercise for you.
 
 but this is how you choose to spend your life force, so I
 hope is gratifying for you.
   
Not being concerned about the truth, you probably aren't
aware that there are many people who have dedicated their
lives to the truth, sometimes even *sacrificed* their
lives to the truth. Truth and truth-telling have generally
been highly regarded throughout history, something to
strive for.
   
http://www.ridenhour.org/prizes_truth_telling.html
   
(I wouldn't consider myself to come close to deserving
such a prize because my efforts have been so limited.)
   
But there are always those who can't see the importance of
truth, who find it inconvenient 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-06 Thread Ann


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@... wrote:

 Bless you Judy.  I am going to take a nod from the Share playbook and
 offer you compassion.

Your eyesight is better than mine. I have never seen compassion from Share. 
She, instead, chooses to view me as arrogant. Are deprecating labels another 
form of open-heartedness? Emily might have an opinion on this as well. (Emily, 
feel free to ignore this.)

 You'll have to find someone else to play with tonight.
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend  wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
 wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend  wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
   wrote:

 sure Judy.  Carry on with your truth campaign.  as Curtis aptly
 pointed out: for someone to constantly declare how dedicated to
 truth they are, is not unlike the magician telling everyone
 repeatedly how this is a plain, ordinary deck with which I am
 going to perform this trick.
   
Not if the person is in fact dedicated to truth, unlike the
magician. Curtis isn't, you aren't (as I just got done noting),
Barry obviously isn't. So it isn't at all surprising that the
three of you would be anxious to portray a truth-teller as
a deceiver, is it?
 
  Can I assume you're afraid to answer my question, Stevie?
 
  And that's you in a nutshell, isn't Judy.  You can
   fill in the blank, (as you do),
 
  Which blank would this be, Stevie?
 
   with whomever you determine to be the
   liar of the hour, or the day.  Usually there is no shortage of
   candidates.
 
  Actually they don't change much from week to week, Stevie.
 
   And that, pretty much is how you spend your posts here.
 
  And that what, Stevie? Your writing is pretty incoherent
  tonight. I don't think you quite got what I've been saying.
 
  But it's obvious you aren't happy about the truths I've
  been telling, Stevie--you know, like the one about your
  having blamed DrD for bringing up Barry's brother's
  suicide when it was actually Barry who did that. And
  another truth is that you've never retracted your
  accusation nor apologized to DrD for it.
 
  I'm truly sorry that it makes you so uncomfortable,
  Stevie, but them's the breaks.
 
   And I am glad you have something to aspire towards.  Perhaps someone
   here will take up your cause and make a nomination.
   I think it would make for a fascinating vetting process.
   And yikes.  Could it be that you could be a possible candidate for
 the
   two different awards that have shown up now.
 
  Oh, Stevie, you've already forgotten what I said in my
  earlier post, and you've even quoted it below. See if
  you can find it. A little practice exercise for you.
 
 but this is how you choose to spend your life force, so I
 hope is gratifying for you.
   
Not being concerned about the truth, you probably aren't
aware that there are many people who have dedicated their
lives to the truth, sometimes even *sacrificed* their
lives to the truth. Truth and truth-telling have generally
been highly regarded throughout history, something to
strive for.
   
http://www.ridenhour.org/prizes_truth_telling.html
   
(I wouldn't consider myself to come close to deserving
such a prize because my efforts have been so limited.)
   
But there are always those who can't see the importance of
truth, who find it inconvenient and annoying, not worth the
effort; and even those who believe truth just gets in the
way of their needs and desires and whims. And sometimes, of
course, such people are just cowards who *fear* the truth.
   
   
   
   
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27
 steve.sundur@
 wrote:
  
   I wonder if anyone even reads those rebuttals. But I suppose
   they are gratifying to you.
 
  Right, the point is to get the truth on the record.
 
  I mean, for example, I certainly wouldn't expect you
  to retract and apologize for accusing DrD of bringing
  up Barry's brother's suicide when, as I pointed out in
  one of those posts, it was actually Barry himself who
  had done so.
 
  But that error--blaming DrD for Barry's own behavior--
  can't be allowed to stand unrefuted.
 
  That's just the way it is in this world. Some people
  care about the truth, and some don't. The former can't
  force the latter to care, so they do the best they can
  to ensure the truth is not obscured by those who don't
  care about it.
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-06 Thread seventhray27
Thank you Jim.
A couple things come to mind. (as I am here at work, getting things in
order so that I can go on vacation tomorrow with a somewhat unfettered
mind)
I am not sure if I have as much invested in this site as Judy.  On the
other hand, I do tend to trust my judgments, which many times are snap
judgements.
And it may be that when I take the time, to look more closely at
something, (as I did recently at Judy's prodding), such as whether Robin
was being truthful when he said he didn't strike someone, (and the
context), then it may be that I modify my position some.
But in that exact example a lot of effort was expended for a pretty
small adjustment.
I think the main complaint I hear about me is that I am too emotional in
my judgments.
Perhaps I am.
On the other hand, it is always nice to have the real world to help you
keep score on things.
I will read over what you've written and see if anything else comes to
mind.
But I just don't know if I can come around to seeing Judy in a different
light, than what I do.
I'll try to keep an open mind.
Thanks for your feedback.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@...  wrote:

 Hey Steve, I've been following this back and forth, for awhile. In
terms of how you like to interact here, which I think mirrors your daily
life and work, congenial, comes to mind. You and I could probably go to
lunch and not mention TM, or any of the FFL topics, and still have
plenty to yak about, and have a good time. I enjoy not always winding
everything out, too.

 On the other hand, it was my business and skill for many years, to
ensure clarity and understanding regarding the design, development, and
transfer of very technical knowledge, to engineers and technicians, so
that satellites, lasers, large phone switches, and data centers, for
example, didn't fuck up. As a result, I can determine, when I want to
put the effort into it, now that I don't *have* to, whether or not
someone is being illogical, exaggerating, skewing material, has a hidden
agenda, etc. Over so many years of analysis, it becomes obvious.

 Judy has a very consistent approach here. She is intent on unraveling
the writing of those who are professing to say one thing, and in fact,
through the mechanisms I referred to earlier, are saying something quite
different. Further, if someone is simply expressing something, is there
integrity in the expression?

 We do not have the luxury here to evaluate someone's body language and
expressions here. It is all expressed through writing. So, the
interactions between us are sometimes less than congenial, because there
is no other way to further the thoughts expressed, sometimes, than to
take exception. In everyday interaction, a raised eyebrow, or quick joke
may suffice to move a conversation along, but here, with writing as the
only tool, everything must be spelled out.

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
wrote:
 
  Bless you Judy.  I am going to take a nod from the Share playbook
and
  offer you compassion.
  You'll have to find someone else to play with tonight.
 
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend  wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
  wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend  wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27
steve.sundur@
wrote:
 
  sure Judy.  Carry on with your truth campaign.  as Curtis
aptly
  pointed out: for someone to constantly declare how
dedicated to
  truth they are, is not unlike the magician telling everyone
  repeatedly how this is a plain, ordinary deck with which I
am
  going to perform this trick.

 Not if the person is in fact dedicated to truth, unlike the
 magician. Curtis isn't, you aren't (as I just got done
noting),
 Barry obviously isn't. So it isn't at all surprising that the
 three of you would be anxious to portray a truth-teller as
 a deceiver, is it?
  
   Can I assume you're afraid to answer my question, Stevie?
  
   And that's you in a nutshell, isn't Judy.  You can
fill in the blank, (as you do),
  
   Which blank would this be, Stevie?
  
with whomever you determine to be the
liar of the hour, or the day.  Usually there is no shortage of
candidates.
  
   Actually they don't change much from week to week, Stevie.
  
And that, pretty much is how you spend your posts here.
  
   And that what, Stevie? Your writing is pretty incoherent
   tonight. I don't think you quite got what I've been saying.
  
   But it's obvious you aren't happy about the truths I've
   been telling, Stevie--you know, like the one about your
   having blamed DrD for bringing up Barry's brother's
   suicide when it was actually Barry who did that. And
   another truth is that you've never retracted your
   accusation nor apologized to DrD for it.
  
   I'm truly sorry that it makes you so uncomfortable,
   Stevie, but them's the 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-06 Thread seventhray27
Thank you Ann, for your reply.  And to borrow again from the Share
playbook, regarding differences of opinion, The world is a crazy and
fun place, (to paraphrase)
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann  wrote:



 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
wrote:
 
  Bless you Judy.  I am going to take a nod from the Share playbook
and
  offer you compassion.

 Your eyesight is better than mine. I have never seen compassion from
Share. She, instead, chooses to view me as arrogant. Are deprecating
labels another form of open-heartedness? Emily might have an opinion on
this as well. (Emily, feel free to ignore this.)

  You'll have to find someone else to play with tonight.
 
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend  wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
  wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend  wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27
steve.sundur@
wrote:
 
  sure Judy.  Carry on with your truth campaign.  as Curtis
aptly
  pointed out: for someone to constantly declare how
dedicated to
  truth they are, is not unlike the magician telling everyone
  repeatedly how this is a plain, ordinary deck with which I
am
  going to perform this trick.

 Not if the person is in fact dedicated to truth, unlike the
 magician. Curtis isn't, you aren't (as I just got done
noting),
 Barry obviously isn't. So it isn't at all surprising that the
 three of you would be anxious to portray a truth-teller as
 a deceiver, is it?
  
   Can I assume you're afraid to answer my question, Stevie?
  
   And that's you in a nutshell, isn't Judy.  You can
fill in the blank, (as you do),
  
   Which blank would this be, Stevie?
  
with whomever you determine to be the
liar of the hour, or the day.  Usually there is no shortage of
candidates.
  
   Actually they don't change much from week to week, Stevie.
  
And that, pretty much is how you spend your posts here.
  
   And that what, Stevie? Your writing is pretty incoherent
   tonight. I don't think you quite got what I've been saying.
  
   But it's obvious you aren't happy about the truths I've
   been telling, Stevie--you know, like the one about your
   having blamed DrD for bringing up Barry's brother's
   suicide when it was actually Barry who did that. And
   another truth is that you've never retracted your
   accusation nor apologized to DrD for it.
  
   I'm truly sorry that it makes you so uncomfortable,
   Stevie, but them's the breaks.
  
And I am glad you have something to aspire towards.  Perhaps
someone
here will take up your cause and make a nomination.
I think it would make for a fascinating vetting process.
And yikes.  Could it be that you could be a possible candidate
for
  the
two different awards that have shown up now.
  
   Oh, Stevie, you've already forgotten what I said in my
   earlier post, and you've even quoted it below. See if
   you can find it. A little practice exercise for you.
  
  but this is how you choose to spend your life force, so I
  hope is gratifying for you.

 Not being concerned about the truth, you probably aren't
 aware that there are many people who have dedicated their
 lives to the truth, sometimes even *sacrificed* their
 lives to the truth. Truth and truth-telling have generally
 been highly regarded throughout history, something to
 strive for.

 http://www.ridenhour.org/prizes_truth_telling.html

 (I wouldn't consider myself to come close to deserving
 such a prize because my efforts have been so limited.)

 But there are always those who can't see the importance of
 truth, who find it inconvenient and annoying, not worth the
 effort; and even those who believe truth just gets in the
 way of their needs and desires and whims. And sometimes, of
 course, such people are just cowards who *fear* the truth.




  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27
  steve.sundur@
  wrote:
   
I wonder if anyone even reads those rebuttals. But I
suppose
they are gratifying to you.
  
   Right, the point is to get the truth on the record.
  
   I mean, for example, I certainly wouldn't expect you
   to retract and apologize for accusing DrD of bringing
   up Barry's brother's suicide when, as I pointed out in
   one of those posts, it was actually Barry himself who
   had done so.
  
   But that error--blaming DrD for Barry's own behavior--
   can't be allowed to stand unrefuted.
  
   That's just the way it is in this world. Some people
   care about the truth, and some don't. The former can't
   force the latter to care, so they do the best they can
   to ensure the 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-06 Thread Ann


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@... wrote:

 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann  wrote:
 
 
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
 wrote:
  
  
   sure Judy.  Carry on with your truth campaign.  as Curtis aptly
 pointed
   out: for someone to constantly declare how dedicated to truth they
   are, is not unlike the magician telling everyone repeatedly how
 this is
   a plain, ordinary deck with which I am going to perform this trick.
  
   but this is how you choose to spend your life force, so I hope is
   gratifying for you.
 
  And how do you see yourself spending your life force Steve?

Why don't
 you ask that question to my family, to my employees, or to the local
 media who have made it point to compare our business to places like
 Nordstroms or Ritz Carlton as an example of of a (small) company that
 offers superior customer service.

Oh, so you focus your energies on business. I knew someone like that once - he 
was my father.

   How can you fault anyone for caring about truth, whether you believe
 that particular person is misguided or off base or not? 

Yow Ann.  I'm
 not going to go along with this.  I do feel a need to speak out if I
 feel a person is misguided.  Don't you?

Go along with what? Read my question again, I think you didn't understand it 
for some reason. You might find we actually agree on this one.

 How come you can sit there and make these mocking noises when your
 greatest contribution here appears to be belittling others?

 Sort of one
 sided, I think. But I can live that assessment, if that is how you see
 things.

This is what I like about you Steve. Even though it is self evident that it is 
one sided ( it is, after all, just my viewpoint and that would make it 
singular) you come across as a nice guy. (Share, was that belittling of me?)

 Who do you perceive yourself to be that you can afford to jibber away in
 the corner laughing and scorning others who take umbrage at lies,
 manipulation s and the conscious twisting of true things? 

Ann, remember,
 opinions are like a-holes.  Everyone has one, and most of them stink.  I
 include myself in this category, but I wonder if you do as well?

I don't think your answer went anywhere near my question but, in a strange way, 
you answered it completely, perhaps inadvertently.

 When did you decide life was not worth living well or deeply?

You seem
 pretty all knowing Ann.  Why don't you tell me?

Ah, the cutting jab. Well, I have no idea when you stopped or if you ever were 
committed to such things but it doesn't appear as if you have considered it 
much.

Share, take it away...
  
  
  
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
   wrote:

 I wonder if anyone even reads those rebuttals. But I suppose
 they are gratifying to you.
   
Right, the point is to get the truth on the record.
   
I mean, for example, I certainly wouldn't expect you
to retract and apologize for accusing DrD of bringing
up Barry's brother's suicide when, as I pointed out in
one of those posts, it was actually Barry himself who
had done so.
   
But that error--blaming DrD for Barry's own behavior--
can't be allowed to stand unrefuted.
   
That's just the way it is in this world. Some people
care about the truth, and some don't. The former can't
force the latter to care, so they do the best they can
to ensure the truth is not obscured by those who don't
care about it.
   
  
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-06 Thread Ann
Steve, have a wonderful few days off. Forget about all this FFL stuff and enjoy 
your family and your time away. I am sure you work very hard so take this time 
to revel in the fruits of your labours. Safe travels.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@... wrote:

 Thank you Jim.
 A couple things come to mind. (as I am here at work, getting things in
 order so that I can go on vacation tomorrow with a somewhat unfettered
 mind)
 I am not sure if I have as much invested in this site as Judy.  On the
 other hand, I do tend to trust my judgments, which many times are snap
 judgements.
 And it may be that when I take the time, to look more closely at
 something, (as I did recently at Judy's prodding), such as whether Robin
 was being truthful when he said he didn't strike someone, (and the
 context), then it may be that I modify my position some.
 But in that exact example a lot of effort was expended for a pretty
 small adjustment.
 I think the main complaint I hear about me is that I am too emotional in
 my judgments.
 Perhaps I am.
 On the other hand, it is always nice to have the real world to help you
 keep score on things.
 I will read over what you've written and see if anything else comes to
 mind.
 But I just don't know if I can come around to seeing Judy in a different
 light, than what I do.
 I'll try to keep an open mind.
 Thanks for your feedback.
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@  wrote:
 
  Hey Steve, I've been following this back and forth, for awhile. In
 terms of how you like to interact here, which I think mirrors your daily
 life and work, congenial, comes to mind. You and I could probably go to
 lunch and not mention TM, or any of the FFL topics, and still have
 plenty to yak about, and have a good time. I enjoy not always winding
 everything out, too.
 
  On the other hand, it was my business and skill for many years, to
 ensure clarity and understanding regarding the design, development, and
 transfer of very technical knowledge, to engineers and technicians, so
 that satellites, lasers, large phone switches, and data centers, for
 example, didn't fuck up. As a result, I can determine, when I want to
 put the effort into it, now that I don't *have* to, whether or not
 someone is being illogical, exaggerating, skewing material, has a hidden
 agenda, etc. Over so many years of analysis, it becomes obvious.
 
  Judy has a very consistent approach here. She is intent on unraveling
 the writing of those who are professing to say one thing, and in fact,
 through the mechanisms I referred to earlier, are saying something quite
 different. Further, if someone is simply expressing something, is there
 integrity in the expression?
 
  We do not have the luxury here to evaluate someone's body language and
 expressions here. It is all expressed through writing. So, the
 interactions between us are sometimes less than congenial, because there
 is no other way to further the thoughts expressed, sometimes, than to
 take exception. In everyday interaction, a raised eyebrow, or quick joke
 may suffice to move a conversation along, but here, with writing as the
 only tool, everything must be spelled out.
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
 wrote:
  
   Bless you Judy.  I am going to take a nod from the Share playbook
 and
   offer you compassion.
   You'll have to find someone else to play with tonight.
  
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend  wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
   wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend  wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27
 steve.sundur@
 wrote:
  
   sure Judy.  Carry on with your truth campaign.  as Curtis
 aptly
   pointed out: for someone to constantly declare how
 dedicated to
   truth they are, is not unlike the magician telling everyone
   repeatedly how this is a plain, ordinary deck with which I
 am
   going to perform this trick.
 
  Not if the person is in fact dedicated to truth, unlike the
  magician. Curtis isn't, you aren't (as I just got done
 noting),
  Barry obviously isn't. So it isn't at all surprising that the
  three of you would be anxious to portray a truth-teller as
  a deceiver, is it?
   
Can I assume you're afraid to answer my question, Stevie?
   
And that's you in a nutshell, isn't Judy.  You can
 fill in the blank, (as you do),
   
Which blank would this be, Stevie?
   
 with whomever you determine to be the
 liar of the hour, or the day.  Usually there is no shortage of
 candidates.
   
Actually they don't change much from week to week, Stevie.
   
 And that, pretty much is how you spend your posts here.
   
And that what, Stevie? Your writing is pretty incoherent
tonight. I don't think you quite got what I've been saying.
   
But it's 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-06 Thread seventhray27

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann  wrote:



 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
wrote:
 
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann  wrote:
  
  
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
  wrote:
   
   
sure Judy.  Carry on with your truth campaign.  as Curtis aptly
  pointed
out: for someone to constantly declare how dedicated to truth
they
are, is not unlike the magician telling everyone repeatedly how
  this is
a plain, ordinary deck with which I am going to perform this
trick.
   
but this is how you choose to spend your life force, so I hope
is
gratifying for you.
  
   And how do you see yourself spending your life force Steve?

 Why don't
  you ask that question to my family, to my employees, or to the local
  media who have made it point to compare our business to places like
  Nordstroms or Ritz Carlton as an example of of a (small) company
that
  offers superior customer service.

 Oh, so you focus your energies on business. I knew someone like that
once - he was my father.
Ann, you've got to be kidding.  I am a householder, I have
responsibilities to my family and my employees.  I have a job like most
other people.  I attempt to do it well.  Your dad was a business titan. 
I am a business small fry, and my business is a means to an end.  But I
take pride in it, as do my the other employees.  Are you trying to read
some kind of obsession into this?

How can you fault anyone for caring about truth, whether you
believe
  that particular person is misguided or off base or not?

 Yow Ann.  I'm
  not going to go along with this.  I do feel a need to speak out if I
  feel a person is misguided.  Don't you?

 Go along with what? Read my question again, I think you didn't
understand it for some reason. You might find we actually agree on this
one.

  How come you can sit there and make these mocking noises when your
  greatest contribution here appears to be belittling others?

  Sort of one
  sided, I think. But I can live that assessment, if that is how you
see
  things.

 This is what I like about you Steve. Even though it is self evident
that it is one sided ( it is, after all, just my viewpoint and that
would make it singular) you come across as a nice guy. (Share, was that
belittling of me?)

  Who do you perceive yourself to be that you can afford to jibber
away in
  the corner laughing and scorning others who take umbrage at lies,
  manipulation s and the conscious twisting of true things?

 Ann, remember,
  opinions are like a-holes.  Everyone has one, and most of them
stink.  I
  include myself in this category, but I wonder if you do as well?

 I don't think your answer went anywhere near my question but, in a
strange way, you answered it completely, perhaps inadvertently.

  When did you decide life was not worth living well or deeply?

 You seem
  pretty all knowing Ann.  Why don't you tell me?

 Ah, the cutting jab. Well, I have no idea when you stopped or if you
ever were committed to such things but it doesn't appear as if you have
considered it much.Ann, I guess I'll have to revert to a trite phrase. 
I simply try to live in the moment, and enjoy the moment.  Not always
easy, but I don't really know a better way.

 Share, take it away...

   
   
   
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27
steve.sundur@
wrote:
 
  I wonder if anyone even reads those rebuttals. But I suppose
  they are gratifying to you.

 Right, the point is to get the truth on the record.

 I mean, for example, I certainly wouldn't expect you
 to retract and apologize for accusing DrD of bringing
 up Barry's brother's suicide when, as I pointed out in
 one of those posts, it was actually Barry himself who
 had done so.

 But that error--blaming DrD for Barry's own behavior--
 can't be allowed to stand unrefuted.

 That's just the way it is in this world. Some people
 care about the truth, and some don't. The former can't
 force the latter to care, so they do the best they can
 to ensure the truth is not obscured by those who don't
 care about it.

   
  
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-06 Thread seventhray27
Thank you Ann.  This is rough coming in here and tying this up this
stuff.   At least the Sprint bill was manageable at $568.00.  (family
gets included though)

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann  wrote:

 Steve, have a wonderful few days off. Forget about all this FFL stuff
and enjoy your family and your time away. I am sure you work very hard
so take this time to revel in the fruits of your labours. Safe travels.

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
wrote:
 
  Thank you Jim.
  A couple things come to mind. (as I am here at work, getting things
in
  order so that I can go on vacation tomorrow with a somewhat
unfettered
  mind)
  I am not sure if I have as much invested in this site as Judy.  On
the
  other hand, I do tend to trust my judgments, which many times are
snap
  judgements.
  And it may be that when I take the time, to look more closely at
  something, (as I did recently at Judy's prodding), such as whether
Robin
  was being truthful when he said he didn't strike someone, (and the
  context), then it may be that I modify my position some.
  But in that exact example a lot of effort was expended for a pretty
  small adjustment.
  I think the main complaint I hear about me is that I am too
emotional in
  my judgments.
  Perhaps I am.
  On the other hand, it is always nice to have the real world to help
you
  keep score on things.
  I will read over what you've written and see if anything else comes
to
  mind.
  But I just don't know if I can come around to seeing Judy in a
different
  light, than what I do.
  I'll try to keep an open mind.
  Thanks for your feedback.
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@  wrote:
  
   Hey Steve, I've been following this back and forth, for awhile. In
  terms of how you like to interact here, which I think mirrors your
daily
  life and work, congenial, comes to mind. You and I could probably go
to
  lunch and not mention TM, or any of the FFL topics, and still have
  plenty to yak about, and have a good time. I enjoy not always
winding
  everything out, too.
  
   On the other hand, it was my business and skill for many years, to
  ensure clarity and understanding regarding the design, development,
and
  transfer of very technical knowledge, to engineers and technicians,
so
  that satellites, lasers, large phone switches, and data centers, for
  example, didn't fuck up. As a result, I can determine, when I want
to
  put the effort into it, now that I don't *have* to, whether or not
  someone is being illogical, exaggerating, skewing material, has a
hidden
  agenda, etc. Over so many years of analysis, it becomes obvious.
  
   Judy has a very consistent approach here. She is intent on
unraveling
  the writing of those who are professing to say one thing, and in
fact,
  through the mechanisms I referred to earlier, are saying something
quite
  different. Further, if someone is simply expressing something, is
there
  integrity in the expression?
  
   We do not have the luxury here to evaluate someone's body language
and
  expressions here. It is all expressed through writing. So, the
  interactions between us are sometimes less than congenial, because
there
  is no other way to further the thoughts expressed, sometimes, than
to
  take exception. In everyday interaction, a raised eyebrow, or quick
joke
  may suffice to move a conversation along, but here, with writing as
the
  only tool, everything must be spelled out.
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
  wrote:
   
Bless you Judy.  I am going to take a nod from the Share
playbook
  and
offer you compassion.
You'll have to find someone else to play with tonight.
   
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend  wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27
steve.sundur@
wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend  wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27
  steve.sundur@
  wrote:
   
sure Judy.  Carry on with your truth campaign.  as
Curtis
  aptly
pointed out: for someone to constantly declare how
  dedicated to
truth they are, is not unlike the magician telling
everyone
repeatedly how this is a plain, ordinary deck with
which I
  am
going to perform this trick.
  
   Not if the person is in fact dedicated to truth, unlike
the
   magician. Curtis isn't, you aren't (as I just got done
  noting),
   Barry obviously isn't. So it isn't at all surprising that
the
   three of you would be anxious to portray a truth-teller as
   a deceiver, is it?

 Can I assume you're afraid to answer my question, Stevie?

 And that's you in a nutshell, isn't Judy.  You can
  fill in the blank, (as you do),

 Which blank would this be, Stevie?

  with whomever you determine to be the
  liar of the hour, or the day.  Usually there is no 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-05 Thread salyavin808


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@... wrote:

 First and second, more bloopers from our little Stevie.
 
 Third, Maharishi and Robin.

Is this a way of getting round the post limit? Moderator!




Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-05 Thread Ravi Chivukula

On 7/4/13 11:05 PM, salyavin808 wrote:




--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
mailto:FairfieldLife%40yahoogroups.com, authfriend 
authfriend@... wrote:


 First and second, more bloopers from our little Stevie.

 Third, Maharishi and Robin.

Is this a way of getting round the post limit? Moderator!



Shouldn't be too hard Salyavin baby, recall your reductionistic, 
obfuscatory retardedness that we have talked about? It's the opposite of it.









[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-05 Thread salyavin808


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula chivukula.ravi@... wrote:

 On 7/4/13 11:05 PM, salyavin808 wrote:
 
 
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
  mailto:FairfieldLife%40yahoogroups.com, authfriend 
  authfriend@ wrote:
  
   First and second, more bloopers from our little Stevie.
  
   Third, Maharishi and Robin.
 
  Is this a way of getting round the post limit? Moderator!
 
 
 Shouldn't be too hard Salyavin baby, recall your reductionistic, 
 obfuscatory retardedness that we have talked about? It's the opposite of it.
 

Oh right, that's cleared that up then...



Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-05 Thread Ravi Chivukula

On 7/5/13 12:09 AM, salyavin808 wrote:




--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
mailto:FairfieldLife%40yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula 
chivukula.ravi@... wrote:


 On 7/4/13 11:05 PM, salyavin808 wrote:
 
 
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
mailto:FairfieldLife%40yahoogroups.com

  mailto:FairfieldLife%40yahoogroups.com, authfriend
  authfriend@ wrote:
  
   First and second, more bloopers from our little Stevie.
  
   Third, Maharishi and Robin.
 
  Is this a way of getting round the post limit? Moderator!
 

 Shouldn't be too hard Salyavin baby, recall your reductionistic,
 obfuscatory retardedness that we have talked about? It's the 
opposite of it.



Oh right, that's cleared that up then...



No salyavin baby - not if you have come back that quickly. Remember - 
this is your impulsiveness arising out of your reductionistic, 
obfuscatory retardedness. Give it a few days and you will get it - you 
need to trust the process.










[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-05 Thread Alex Stanley


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, salyavin808 fintlewoodlewix@... wrote:

 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
 
  First and second, more bloopers from our little Stevie.
  
  Third, Maharishi and Robin.
 
 Is this a way of getting round the post limit? Moderator!


Basically, yes. And, if you think I'm going to micromanage the content of posts 
in order to stop it, you need to put down that crack pipe. 



[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-05 Thread salyavin808


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Alex Stanley j_alexander_stanley@... 
wrote:

 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, salyavin808 fintlewoodlewix@ wrote:
 
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
  
   First and second, more bloopers from our little Stevie.
   
   Third, Maharishi and Robin.
  
  Is this a way of getting round the post limit? Moderator!
 
 
 Basically, yes. And, if you think I'm going to micromanage the content of 
 posts in order to stop it, you need to put down that crack pipe.


LOL, it was more for Judy's teasification than anything else 
but I know what you mean - I wouldn't read them if you paid me.




[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-05 Thread Ann


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Alex Stanley j_alexander_stanley@... 
wrote:

 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, salyavin808 fintlewoodlewix@ wrote:
 
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
  
   First and second, more bloopers from our little Stevie.
   
   Third, Maharishi and Robin.
  
  Is this a way of getting round the post limit? Moderator!
 
 
 Basically, yes. And, if you think I'm going to micromanage the content of 
 posts in order to stop it, you need to put down that crack pipe.

I think there is someone else who constantly uses this respond to multiple 
posts and posters technique as well (Hi Share) but I am pretty sure salyavin 
was being unserious here. As usual, I liked your response though.





Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-05 Thread Ravi Chivukula
On Jul 5, 2013, at 3:54 AM, salyavin808 fintlewoodle...@mail.com wrote:

 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Alex Stanley 
 j_alexander_stanley@... wrote:
 
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, salyavin808 fintlewoodlewix@ 
  wrote:
  
   
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
   
First and second, more bloopers from our little Stevie.

Third, Maharishi and Robin.
   
   Is this a way of getting round the post limit? Moderator!
  
  
  Basically, yes. And, if you think I'm going to micromanage the content of 
  posts in order to stop it, you need to put down that crack pipe.
 
 LOL, it was more for Judy's teasification than anything else 
 but I know what you mean - I wouldn't read them if you paid me.

Judy's Teasification salyavin baby? LOL - there is something about her that 
causes grown men like you to act like retards. This is your fourth post on it 
you fucking idiot.

News flash - Judy is essentially unteasifiable. Look at Barry - 20 years and he 
is still trying, is there a lesson you think? Is this something your 
reductionistic, obfuscatory, impulsive brain can wrap around?
 
 


Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-05 Thread Share Long
salyavin, I like when people make up words like teasification. And IMHO it's 
sad if Ravi is right and Judy is unteasible. Sometimes I like it when someone 
makes me laugh at myself. Anyway, I've enjoyed your humor recently but wish you 
liked crop circles more. I think they're beautiful.

PS I wonder if Ravi was being ironic when he lambasted you for writing FOUR 
posts on one topic. 




 From: salyavin808 fintlewoodle...@mail.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Friday, July 5, 2013 5:54 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson
 


  


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Alex Stanley j_alexander_stanley@... 
wrote:

 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, salyavin808 fintlewoodlewix@ wrote:
 
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
  
   First and second, more bloopers from our little Stevie.
   
   Third, Maharishi and Robin.
  
  Is this a way of getting round the post limit? Moderator!
 
 
 Basically, yes. And, if you think I'm going to micromanage the content of 
 posts in order to stop it, you need to put down that crack pipe.

LOL, it was more for Judy's teasification than anything else 
but I know what you mean - I wouldn't read them if you paid me.


 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-05 Thread Ravi Chivukula
On Jul 5, 2013, at 9:29 AM, Share Long sharelon...@yahoo.com wrote:

 salyavin, I like when people make up words like teasification. And IMHO it's 
 sad if Ravi is right and Judy is unteasible. Sometimes I like it when someone 
 makes me laugh at myself. Anyway, I've enjoyed your humor recently but wish 
 you liked crop circles more. I think they're beautiful.
 PS I wonder if Ravi was being ironic when he lambasted you for writing FOUR 
 posts on one topic. 

It was a bait - to see if salyavin can control his impulsive, salivating 
nature. I'm still waiting.

 
 From: salyavin808 fintlewoodle...@mail.com
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Friday, July 5, 2013 5:54 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson
 
  
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Alex Stanley 
 j_alexander_stanley@... wrote:
 
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, salyavin808 fintlewoodlewix@ 
  wrote:
  
   
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
   
First and second, more bloopers from our little Stevie.

Third, Maharishi and Robin.
   
   Is this a way of getting round the post limit? Moderator!
  
  
  Basically, yes. And, if you think I'm going to micromanage the content of 
  posts in order to stop it, you need to put down that crack pipe.
 
 LOL, it was more for Judy's teasification than anything else 
 but I know what you mean - I wouldn't read them if you paid me.
 
 
 
 


[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-05 Thread emilymae.reyn
re: Sometimes I like it when someone makes me laugh at myself.  Sometimes 
Share?  When don't you like it?  



--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote:

 salyavin, I like when people make up words like teasification. And IMHO it's 
 sad if Ravi is right and Judy is unteasible. Sometimes I like it when someone 
 makes me laugh at myself. Anyway, I've enjoyed your humor recently but wish 
 you liked crop circles more. I think they're beautiful.
 
 PS I wonder if Ravi was being ironic when he lambasted you for writing FOUR 
 posts on one topic. 
 
 
 
 
  From: salyavin808 fintlewoodlewix@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Friday, July 5, 2013 5:54 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson
  
 
 
   
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Alex Stanley j_alexander_stanley@ 
 wrote:
 
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, salyavin808 fintlewoodlewix@ 
  wrote:
  
   
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
   
First and second, more bloopers from our little Stevie.

Third, Maharishi and Robin.
   
   Is this a way of getting round the post limit? Moderator!
  
  
  Basically, yes. And, if you think I'm going to micromanage the content of 
  posts in order to stop it, you need to put down that crack pipe.
 
 LOL, it was more for Judy's teasification than anything else 
 but I know what you mean - I wouldn't read them if you paid me.





[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-05 Thread salyavin808


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote:

 salyavin, I like when people make up words like teasification. And IMHO it's 
 sad if Ravi is right and Judy is unteasible. Sometimes I like it when someone 
 makes me laugh at myself. Anyway, I've enjoyed your humor recently but wish 
 you liked crop circles more. I think they're beautiful.

Hey, I **love** crop circles! I just seriously doubt they are made
by the Space Brothers. Especially when the people who do build
them have their own website.

 
 PS I wonder if Ravi was being ironic when he lambasted you for writing FOUR 
 posts on one topic. 

I think you need self awareness before you can do irony.



PS I *can't* believe teasification isn't a proper word...


 
  From: salyavin808 fintlewoodlewix@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Friday, July 5, 2013 5:54 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson
  
 
 
   
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Alex Stanley j_alexander_stanley@ 
 wrote:
 
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, salyavin808 fintlewoodlewix@ 
  wrote:
  
   
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
   
First and second, more bloopers from our little Stevie.

Third, Maharishi and Robin.
   
   Is this a way of getting round the post limit? Moderator!
  
  
  Basically, yes. And, if you think I'm going to micromanage the content of 
  posts in order to stop it, you need to put down that crack pipe.
 
 LOL, it was more for Judy's teasification than anything else 
 but I know what you mean - I wouldn't read them if you paid me.





Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-05 Thread Ravi Chivukula
On Jul 5, 2013, at 10:03 AM, salyavin808 fintlewoodle...@mail.com wrote:

 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote:
 
  salyavin, I like when people make up words like teasification. And IMHO 
  it's sad if Ravi is right and Judy is unteasible. Sometimes I like it when 
  someone makes me laugh at myself. Anyway, I've enjoyed your humor recently 
  but wish you liked crop circles more. I think they're beautiful.
 
 Hey, I **love** crop circles! I just seriously doubt they are made
 by the Space Brothers. Especially when the people who do build
 them have their own website.
 
  PS I wonder if Ravi was being ironic when he lambasted you for writing FOUR 
  posts on one topic. 
 
 I think you need self awareness before you can do irony.
 

Yep - Four it is. And we get to see the spiritual salyavin - hilarious :-).

 
 PS I *can't* believe teasification isn't a proper word...
 
  
  From: salyavin808 fintlewoodlewix@...
  To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
  Sent: Friday, July 5, 2013 5:54 AM
  Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson
  
  
  

  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Alex Stanley j_alexander_stanley@ 
  wrote:
  
   
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, salyavin808 fintlewoodlewix@ 
   wrote:
   


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:

 First and second, more bloopers from our little Stevie.
 
 Third, Maharishi and Robin.

Is this a way of getting round the post limit? Moderator!
   
   
   Basically, yes. And, if you think I'm going to micromanage the content of 
   posts in order to stop it, you need to put down that crack pipe.
  
  LOL, it was more for Judy's teasification than anything else 
  but I know what you mean - I wouldn't read them if you paid me.
 
 
 


Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-05 Thread Ravi Chivukula
I hope you are rooting for Murray now salivating puppy.


On Jul 5, 2013, at 10:14 AM, Ravi Chivukula chivukula.r...@gmail.com wrote:

 On Jul 5, 2013, at 10:03 AM, salyavin808 fintlewoodle...@mail.com wrote:
 
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote:
 
  salyavin, I like when people make up words like teasification. And IMHO 
  it's sad if Ravi is right and Judy is unteasible. Sometimes I like it when 
  someone makes me laugh at myself. Anyway, I've enjoyed your humor recently 
  but wish you liked crop circles more. I think they're beautiful.
 
 Hey, I **love** crop circles! I just seriously doubt they are made
 by the Space Brothers. Especially when the people who do build
 them have their own website.
 
  PS I wonder if Ravi was being ironic when he lambasted you for writing 
  FOUR posts on one topic. 
 
 I think you need self awareness before you can do irony.
 
 Yep - Four it is. And we get to see the spiritual salyavin - hilarious :-).
 
 
 PS I *can't* believe teasification isn't a proper word...
 
  
  From: salyavin808 fintlewoodlewix@...
  To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
  Sent: Friday, July 5, 2013 5:54 AM
  Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson
  
  
  

  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Alex Stanley 
  j_alexander_stanley@ wrote:
  
   
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, salyavin808 fintlewoodlewix@ 
   wrote:
   


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:

 First and second, more bloopers from our little Stevie.
 
 Third, Maharishi and Robin.

Is this a way of getting round the post limit? Moderator!
   
   
   Basically, yes. And, if you think I'm going to micromanage the content 
   of posts in order to stop it, you need to put down that crack pipe.
  
  LOL, it was more for Judy's teasification than anything else 
  but I know what you mean - I wouldn't read them if you paid me.
 
 
 


[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-05 Thread Ann


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote:

 salyavin, I like when people make up words like teasification. And IMHO it's 
 sad if Ravi is right and Judy is unteasible. Sometimes I like it when someone 
 makes me laugh at myself.

I have yet to see it.

Usually when I hope to see that you start shouting arrogant and get all pouty 
instead.

 Anyway, I've enjoyed your humor recently but wish you liked crop circles 
 more. I think they're beautiful.
 
 PS I wonder if Ravi was being ironic when he lambasted you for writing FOUR 
 posts on one topic. 
 
 
 
 
  From: salyavin808 fintlewoodlewix@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Friday, July 5, 2013 5:54 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson
  
 
 
   
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Alex Stanley j_alexander_stanley@ 
 wrote:
 
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, salyavin808 fintlewoodlewix@ 
  wrote:
  
   
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote:
   
First and second, more bloopers from our little Stevie.

Third, Maharishi and Robin.
   
   Is this a way of getting round the post limit? Moderator!
  
  
  Basically, yes. And, if you think I'm going to micromanage the content of 
  posts in order to stop it, you need to put down that crack pipe.
 
 LOL, it was more for Judy's teasification than anything else 
 but I know what you mean - I wouldn't read them if you paid me.





[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-05 Thread seventhray27

unwhatable?  Is there something else you're trying to say?  (-:


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula wrote:

 Judy's Teasification salyavin baby? LOL - there is something about her
that causes grown men like you to act like retards. This is your fourth
post on it you fucking idiot.

 News flash - Judy is essentially unteasifiable. Look at Barry - 20
years and he is still trying, is there a lesson you think? Is this
something your reductionistic, obfuscatory, impulsive brain can wrap
around?
 
 





Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-05 Thread Ravi Chivukula
Sorry for the typo - untaseable it is. She can fucking tase you but she 
can't be tased back.


On 7/5/13 3:25 PM, seventhray27 wrote:


unwhatable?  Is there something else you're trying to say?  (-:


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula wrote:

 Judy's Teasification salyavin baby? LOL - there is something about 
her that causes grown men like you to act like retards. This is your 
fourth post on it you fucking idiot.


 News flash - Judy is essentially unteasifiable. Look at Barry - 20 
years and he is still trying, is there a lesson you think? Is this 
something your reductionistic, obfuscatory, impulsive brain can wrap 
around?

 
 







[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-05 Thread seventhray27

that wasn't what I was referring to, but it'll have to do.


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula wrote:

 Sorry for the typo - untaseable it is. She can fucking tase you but
she
 can't be tased back.

 On 7/5/13 3:25 PM, seventhray27 wrote:
 
  unwhatable? Is there something else you're trying to say? (-:
 
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula wrote:
 
   Judy's Teasification salyavin baby? LOL - there is something about
  her that causes grown men like you to act like retards. This is your
  fourth post on it you fucking idiot.
  
   News flash - Judy is essentially unteasifiable. Look at Barry - 20
  years and he is still trying, is there a lesson you think? Is this
  something your reductionistic, obfuscatory, impulsive brain can wrap
  around?
   
   
  
 
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-05 Thread obbajeeba
I go away for a day and you children are all acting up again?
I thought I left you swanson's frozen dinners, hungry man size,
sour cream and onion mix, and chips, pop ups (a few boxes in the freezers), all 
the netflix you can watch, the lawn cut, the dishes done and tons of paper 
plates, plastic cutlery and napkins you can throw away, and Ravi, all the Ramen 
noodles, I mean Maggi noodles masala you can eat...Steve, your fried Ravioli 
things in a nice 3 pound bag in the freezer, the rest of you, blueberries.
Emily, welcome again to the nut house farm thing as Share or Ann refers to this 
as.. or as some call it, Uncle Tantra's Judy Expo, or all about Robin and the 
Maharishi. How they helped form the crop circle culture dance party. Who is 
Vedic Alex? What is the name of the guy who started this thread? I don't give a 
damn.
There. Emotion. Good night. 

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@... wrote:

 
 that wasn't what I was referring to, but it'll have to do.
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula wrote:
 
  Sorry for the typo - untaseable it is. She can fucking tase you but
 she
  can't be tased back.
 
  On 7/5/13 3:25 PM, seventhray27 wrote:
  
   unwhatable? Is there something else you're trying to say? (-:
  
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula wrote:
  
Judy's Teasification salyavin baby? LOL - there is something about
   her that causes grown men like you to act like retards. This is your
   fourth post on it you fucking idiot.
   
News flash - Judy is essentially unteasifiable. Look at Barry - 20
   years and he is still trying, is there a lesson you think? Is this
   something your reductionistic, obfuscatory, impulsive brain can wrap
   around?


   
  
  
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-04 Thread seventhray27

My goodness you've had a busy week, Judy. Time to holster that gun,
dontcha think?  You've gone into overtime shooting down lies and
bloopers, and whoppers, and ooopsies like we haven't seen in a long
time.  I'd say you're 49 for 49 for uncovering Barry's lies, my lies,
Share's lies, Susan's lies, Xeno's lies.  Oh, and some good mind reading
as pertains to the schism book.

I hope Robin appreciates the extra work.

Who's this last bullet gonna be for?


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend wrote:

 First and second, more bloopers from our little Stevie.

 Third, Maharishi and Robin.




 348918

 Opsie, Stevie, I suspect Ann was referring to the
 assertion that you carefully snipped, most likely because
 by the time you wrote this you realized your error.

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann awoelflebater@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27
 wrote:
 (snip)
   glad for the clarification Jim and for letting us know how
   above board and honorable you are for bringing a family
   member's suicide into the discussion here.
 
  Get the timeline and the events here straight Steve. Go back
  and have a look. Read what Barry has had to say about Jim and
  Jim's brother now and many posts ago and then draw some
  reasonable conclusions. Figure out which bandwagon you want
  to leap on before you do so.

 DrD did not bring Barry's brother's suicide into the
 discussion here. Barry did (post #348743).



 348875

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
wrote:
 
  Quite interesting. I know others will say why even bother with
  something over thirty years old, but some of this (beginning on page
  289) directly contradicts many of Robin's avowed claims. Sad really.

 Gee, Stevie, I guess I need to repeat what I told you
 awhile back: It would be in your best interests not
 even to *try* to understand the controversies that go
 on here, let alone comment on them, because you almost
 invariably get them wrong.

 It's partly because you can't be bothered to read the
 posts with attention, but even if you did, I'm very
 dubious you would have anything but confusion to
 contribute.

  Judy always trots out the article of faith that Maharishi secretly
  supported Robin. Sort of blows that up, doesn't it?

 Judy has only *speculated* to that effect. See how you
 got that wrong?

 And no, the book chapter doesn't blow that up in any
 case. You might want to look up the word secretly in
 Mr. Dictionary.




 348930

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig LEnglish5@ wrote:
 
  As understand it, MMY said that Robin Carlson's experiences of
  Unity (book says Cosmic Consciousness) were valid and asked
  him to describe them.

 Actually Robin described his experiences to Maharishi, who
 then said they were valid. And they were most definitely
 both talking about Unity, not just CC.

  Robin took this as a personal declaration of his own full
  enlightenment and, like others have done, refused to go and
  be viable in society, but instead got full of himself.

 Actually he went and became quite viable in society, thank
 you very much. When the course he was on was over, he went
 back to Canada to teach and supported himself doing so for
 some years. And until things began to go wrong seven or so
 years later, his students (mostly TM initiators) were
 extremely enthusiastic about what he taught them.

  MMY not wanting to comment in public on Robin's enlightenment
  is no more significant than him not wanting to comment on MY
  enlightenment: it's not his place to micromanage arbitrary
  people's states of consciousness.

 Well, that's true, at least publicly. He did comment on it
 during the course Robin was on, even asked him to wait for
 a few days to describe it until the video cameras were up
 and running so they could get his comments on tape. (Who
 knows where that tape is now...)

 But the larger point is that Robin never got any signals
 that Maharishi disapproved of what he was doing until his
 campaign at MIU--and Maharishi had been keeping close tabs
 on him after he set up shop in Canada. His whole teaching
 gig was based on the assumption (Robin's and his students')
 that he was in Unity.

 It's mysterious, to say the least, why Maharishi wouldn't
 have sent word that Robin should stop claiming he was in
 Unity if Maharishi didn't think he *was* in Unity,
 especially given that Robin was working with all these TM
 initiators. Why wasn't Maharishi concerned about the
 purity of the teaching his own initiators were getting
 if it was coming from someone he thought was deluded or
 lying?


 (Lawson, I can't help myself. How many times have you read
 the name Carlsen and yet still keep spelling it Carlson?)





[FairfieldLife] Re: Two for Stevie, one for Lawson

2013-07-04 Thread seventhray27

I wonder if anyone even reads those rebuttals.  But I suppose they are
gratifying to you.

This is the image that always comes to mind.

http://img.timeinc.net/time/photoessays/2008/un_moments/un_moments_khrus\
hchev.jpg
http://img.timeinc.net/time/photoessays/2008/un_moments/un_moments_khru\
shchev.jpg

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 wrote:


 My goodness you've had a busy week, Judy. Time to holster that gun,
 dontcha think? You've gone into overtime shooting down lies and
 bloopers, and whoppers, and ooopsies like we haven't seen in a long
 time. I'd say you're 49 for 49 for uncovering Barry's lies, my lies,
 Share's lies, Susan's lies, Xeno's lies. Oh, and some good mind
reading
 as pertains to the schism book.

 I hope Robin appreciates the extra work.

 Who's this last bullet gonna be for?


 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend wrote:
 
  First and second, more bloopers from our little Stevie.
 
  Third, Maharishi and Robin.
 
 
 
 
  348918
 
  Opsie, Stevie, I suspect Ann was referring to the
  assertion that you carefully snipped, most likely because
  by the time you wrote this you realized your error.
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann awoelflebater@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27
  wrote:
  (snip)
glad for the clarification Jim and for letting us know how
above board and honorable you are for bringing a family
member's suicide into the discussion here.
  
   Get the timeline and the events here straight Steve. Go back
   and have a look. Read what Barry has had to say about Jim and
   Jim's brother now and many posts ago and then draw some
   reasonable conclusions. Figure out which bandwagon you want
   to leap on before you do so.
 
  DrD did not bring Barry's brother's suicide into the
  discussion here. Barry did (post #348743).
 
 
 
  348875
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray27 steve.sundur@
 wrote:
  
   Quite interesting. I know others will say why even bother with
   something over thirty years old, but some of this (beginning on
page
   289) directly contradicts many of Robin's avowed claims. Sad
really.
 
  Gee, Stevie, I guess I need to repeat what I told you
  awhile back: It would be in your best interests not
  even to *try* to understand the controversies that go
  on here, let alone comment on them, because you almost
  invariably get them wrong.
 
  It's partly because you can't be bothered to read the
  posts with attention, but even if you did, I'm very
  dubious you would have anything but confusion to
  contribute.
 
   Judy always trots out the article of faith that Maharishi secretly
   supported Robin. Sort of blows that up, doesn't it?
 
  Judy has only *speculated* to that effect. See how you
  got that wrong?
 
  And no, the book chapter doesn't blow that up in any
  case. You might want to look up the word secretly in
  Mr. Dictionary.
 
 
 
 
  348930
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig LEnglish5@ wrote:
  
   As understand it, MMY said that Robin Carlson's experiences of
   Unity (book says Cosmic Consciousness) were valid and asked
   him to describe them.
 
  Actually Robin described his experiences to Maharishi, who
  then said they were valid. And they were most definitely
  both talking about Unity, not just CC.
 
   Robin took this as a personal declaration of his own full
   enlightenment and, like others have done, refused to go and
   be viable in society, but instead got full of himself.
 
  Actually he went and became quite viable in society, thank
  you very much. When the course he was on was over, he went
  back to Canada to teach and supported himself doing so for
  some years. And until things began to go wrong seven or so
  years later, his students (mostly TM initiators) were
  extremely enthusiastic about what he taught them.
 
   MMY not wanting to comment in public on Robin's enlightenment
   is no more significant than him not wanting to comment on MY
   enlightenment: it's not his place to micromanage arbitrary
   people's states of consciousness.
 
  Well, that's true, at least publicly. He did comment on it
  during the course Robin was on, even asked him to wait for
  a few days to describe it until the video cameras were up
  and running so they could get his comments on tape. (Who
  knows where that tape is now...)
 
  But the larger point is that Robin never got any signals
  that Maharishi disapproved of what he was doing until his
  campaign at MIU--and Maharishi had been keeping close tabs
  on him after he set up shop in Canada. His whole teaching
  gig was based on the assumption (Robin's and his students')
  that he was in Unity.
 
  It's mysterious, to say the least, why Maharishi wouldn't
  have sent word that Robin should stop claiming he was in
  Unity if Maharishi didn't think he *was* in Unity,
  especially given that Robin was working with all these TM
  initiators. Why wasn't Maharishi concerned