Re: Re: g_b Caught red handed

2007-08-07 Thread sam s tam
As rightly said by manoj, eyes tell a lot ... they tell many more where word fall short off to express... I can understand you mit hav doen this with a fear of loosing a good gayfriend.. but this act mit have been soem what shocking for that guy. Thanks that you shared you experienced n didnt

Re: g_b Caught red handed

2007-08-07 Thread ZOHEB WALIA
HI Abhay Good that u have openly written abt the incident without any inhibitions whatsoever, I am not sure if I were in yr place, that I could be so vocal abt the whole incident, u r very open and honest, qualities that are dying out among human beings. As we all can see, everyone who has

Re: g_b Caught red handed

2007-08-07 Thread Salil
I am a bit uncomfortable with the judgmental thread running through the responses to the guy who got beaten up by a straight man he groped in the train. Why can't we let the guy just be, instead of telling him that he deserved it since he chose his risk - he was hardly justifying himself in

Re: g_b Caught red handed

2007-08-07 Thread Salil
Manoj, I partly disagree - you are saying that gay men in Mumbai who have been blackmailed etc. when cruising, all thought they had been careful enough. This is fallacious. I remember hearing and reading of a number of incidents on these lists where the gay victim was simply ignorant of the

Re: g_b Caught red handed

2007-08-06 Thread Anon Anon
Hello Abhay, I do understand while travelling in trains we guys can't stop urself frm crusing guys with out knwing weither he is the one or nt,and secondly people do talk ant thier experiences tht they had in train hence also wanna to have the same. I don't think this is worng but

Re: g_b Caught red handed

2007-08-06 Thread Bloot Fontaine
Sorry that that happened. Do be careful next time. Quite often, I also touch people I like in trains and if they don't like me, they simply move away. Getting beaten up happens only if I pester the person beyond limits, which I never do. Similarly, I also get touched in trains and even though I

Re: g_b Caught red handed

2007-08-06 Thread Mark Gory
Abhay, Try to remember this you can take control of your dreams, most of the time we know we are dreaming when we are sleep and you can take control of the situation and basiclly do anything you want I have had the same situation and by taking contol of the dream I have bee able to turn those

Re: g_b Caught red handed

2007-08-06 Thread Manoj
Isnt it a bit stupid to do either of both the acts? The eyes speak tons which the words fail to express. So if the guy is someone u life cant it be that u look at the guy - i am sure a person is inteliigent enuff to know the intention behind the look quite easily- if he does respond

Re: g_b Caught red handed

2007-08-06 Thread Manoj
Dear Anon, Well meanng but misplaced sympathies? I am not the person to answer if there wud be a meet on the topic u have suggested, but the way i see it , this is a topic on whether to cruise or not to cruise in public places in the first places and can it ever be safe -- India or