Re: [Gendergap] A cautionary tale

2014-06-23 Thread LtPowers
Wow. That's sobering. I'd like to think we don't have it that bad on WMF sites, but maybe we do? Then there's this: Technical solutions abound when websites and apps provide options that take targeted users into consideration -- namely, giving us back our ability to make boundaries. For

Re: [Gendergap] A cautionary tale

2014-06-23 Thread Federico Leva (Nemo)
Hm, we've discussed that author before... oh well. What I found that could be of use for us: «giving us back our ability to make boundaries [...] shouldn't let strangers message strangers, and all sites and apps should allow users to block others. [...] A block should be across all site

Re: [Gendergap] A cautionary tale

2014-06-23 Thread Derric Atzrott
Carol Moore dc, 23/06/2014 06:34: A lot of women used to be outspoken about all this here when this email list started, but that stopped after a bunch of guys joined and started hassling them about it. SURPRISE!! By looking at this directory, I can tell that I mostly stopped reading this

Re: [Gendergap] A cautionary tale

2014-06-23 Thread Moriel Schottlender
Did this really just happen? Did we really just read someone suggesting that women are not participating as much in the mailing list -- with the more-than-subtle suggestion of the cause being that they didn't feel this group is completely woman-friendly -- and your response was to remind us what

Re: [Gendergap] A cautionary tale

2014-06-23 Thread Risker
I'm sorry Derric, but I think the topic of this thread is the notion that many men, including those in administrator roles (e.g. list moderators) simply don't even recognize misogyny, and don't recognize the importance of providing systems by which women (and others, for that matter) can easily

[Gendergap] men on lists

2014-06-23 Thread Kathleen McCook
There is a tendency of men to disregard women's discussion of issues that affect them so, yes, men on a list like this can undermine its purpose. --Kathleen On Mon, Jun 23, 2014 at 11:26 AM, Risker risker...@gmail.com wrote: I'm sorry Derric, but I think the topic of this thread is the notion

Re: [Gendergap] A cautionary tale

2014-06-23 Thread Derric Atzrott
Moriel, I meant no offense. My reason for posting that email was that I was feeling uncomfortable with the direction that the discussion was going. I intentionally left my email non-specific in an attempt to prevent offense to anyone. I think you may have misunderstood me. “A lot of

Re: [Gendergap] men on lists

2014-06-23 Thread Derric Atzrott
I'm sorry Derric, but I think the topic of this thread is the notion that many men, including those in administrator roles (e.g. list moderators) simply don't even recognize misogyny, and don't recognize the importance of providing systems by which women (and others, for that matter) can

Re: [Gendergap] men on lists

2014-06-23 Thread Risker
Derric, if I may suggest - the best way to get a mailing list back on topic is to write to the topic, not to remind people of the rules. Risker/Anne On 23 June 2014 11:49, Derric Atzrott datzr...@alizeepathology.com wrote: I'm sorry Derric, but I think the topic of this thread is the notion

Re: [Gendergap] men on lists

2014-06-23 Thread Federico Leva (Nemo)
Ok, I shouldn't have said two women but two members, the gender was unimportant. Risker, 23/06/2014 18:02: Derric, if I may suggest - the best way to get a mailing list back on topic is to write to the topic, Sure, and of course the topic is throwing judgements on who missed the point:

Re: [Gendergap] A cautionary tale

2014-06-23 Thread Katherine Casey
Responding to this on my phone, so please excuse what I assume will be wonky formatting/quoting, but: Derric, you say you hope your email didn't come across as shouting over the women or generalizing about them, but to me it did (and I say this not just to make you feel bad - I see you've

Re: [Gendergap] A cautionary tale

2014-06-23 Thread Moriel Schottlender
Derric, I meant no offense. My reason for posting that email was that I was feeling uncomfortable with the direction that the discussion was going. I intentionally left my email non-specific in an attempt to prevent offense to anyone. I think you may have misunderstood me. That's why I

Re: [Gendergap] A cautionary tale

2014-06-23 Thread Daniel and Elizabeth Case
MediaWiki's mostly impersonal interaction helps a lot here. No image avatars, no upvoting or downvoting of comments (something I don't see the utility of on either Reddit or Quora, FTM). Maybe the features are what we *don't* have. Daniel Case

Re: [Gendergap] A cautionary tale

2014-06-23 Thread Nathan
On Mon, Jun 23, 2014 at 11:26 AM, Risker risker...@gmail.com wrote: snip The focus on technology here is very important. Right now, there is no way for Wikimedians to control from whom they receive email this user emails, or pings through the notification system. We know that both have been,

Re: [Gendergap] A cautionary tale

2014-06-23 Thread Katherine Casey
Actually, I think there's something to be said for downvoting. Not in the reddit i disagree sense, but in the slashdot/ meta filter comments downvoted/flagged past a certain point will be hidden/deleted sense. It would obviously take a lot of work to make that work within the media wiki software

Re: [Gendergap] men on lists

2014-06-23 Thread Carol Moore dc
On 6/23/2014 11:45 AM, Kathleen McCook wrote: There is a tendency of men to disregard women's discussion of issues that affect them so, yes, men on a list like this can undermine its purpose. --Kathleen FYI, for those who want to read the early archives, they are linked from the bottom

Re: [Gendergap] men on lists

2014-06-23 Thread Derric Atzrott
Would anybody object to me hijacking this thread to use as a sort of meta thread for what just happened? I have further questions and things to explain and get feedback on. I can start another thread if wanted. This whole situation sort of reminds me of when I tried suggesting on Wikitech-l

Re: [Gendergap] A cautionary tale

2014-06-23 Thread Carol Moore dc
On 6/23/2014 12:56 PM, Katherine Casey wrote: Actually, I think there's something to be said for downvoting. Not in the reddit i disagree sense, but in the slashdot/ meta filter comments downvoted/flagged past a certain point will be hidden/deleted sense. It would obviously take a lot of

Re: [Gendergap] A cautionary tale

2014-06-23 Thread Carol Moore dc
On 6/23/2014 11:26 AM, Risker wrote: I The focus on technology here is very important. Right now, there is no way for Wikimedians to control from whom they receive email this user emails, or pings through the notification system. We know that both have been, and continue to be, vectors for

Re: [Gendergap] A cautionary tale

2014-06-23 Thread Daniel and Elizabeth Case
Actually, I think there's something to be said for downvoting. Not in the reddit i disagree sense, but in the slashdot/ meta filter comments downvoted/flagged past a certain point will be hidden/deleted sense. It would obviously take a lot of work to make that work within the media wiki

Re: [Gendergap] A cautionary tale

2014-06-23 Thread Derric Atzrott
On the popular liberal/progressive website Daily Kos, the equivalent of downvoting, “hide rec”’ing, is meant to be used only for really offensive or out-of-line comments. Abusing that function, i.e., by constantly doing it to the same user or similar opinions reasonably expressed, can lead

Re: [Gendergap] A cautionary tale

2014-06-23 Thread Derric Atzrott
* bring back Wikipedia:Wikiquette_assistance since women may not want to got to WP:ANI for low grade constant nonsense Would support wholeheartedly. * take complaints about harassment in general more seriously Also would support wholeheartedly. * Have a class action Arbitration on

Re: [Gendergap] Improving on Wikiquette....A cautionary tale

2014-06-23 Thread Carol Moore dc
On 6/23/2014 2:19 PM, Ryan Kaldari wrote: On Mon, Jun 23, 2014 at 10:49 AM, Derric Atzrott datzr...@alizeepathology.com mailto:datzr...@alizeepathology.com wrote: * bring back Wikipedia:Wikiquette_assistance since women may not want to got to WP:ANI for low grade constant nonsense

Re: [Gendergap] Threads on various issues...A cautionary tale

2014-06-23 Thread Carol Moore dc
On 6/23/2014 1:49 PM, Derric Atzrott wrote: Studies are useful. This particular study shows promise I think: https://meta.wikimedia.org/wiki/Grants:IEG/Women_and_Wikipedia For allies these sorts of things help us understand what we are actually trying to accomplish and metrics are useful

Re: [Gendergap] Threads on various issues...A cautionary tale

2014-06-23 Thread Derric Atzrott
Maybe it would be worth making threads for some of these ideas. If no one else does, I'd be happy to. *Threads here? Like proposals that could be worked over and brought to our various wikis? That's what we need to do. I re-named one thread that dealt with one issue and renamed this one too,

Re: [Gendergap] Wikiproject? ...Threads on various issues

2014-06-23 Thread Carol Moore dc
On 6/23/2014 3:17 PM, Derric Atzrott wrote: Maybe it would be worth making threads for some of these ideas. If no one else does, I'd be happy to. *Threads here? Like proposals that could be worked over and brought to our various wikis? That's what we need to do. I re-named one thread

Re: [Gendergap] A cautionary tale

2014-06-23 Thread Sydney Poore
I agree with Ryan that the wiki etiquette board was not helpful in many situations largely because people who regularly patrol the board are often people formerly brought to the board with issues about civility. While the average editor stays away from this area. So often the discussions are less