Re: (",) being sick

2006-04-01 Thread guido bondioli
--- LaVona Sherarts <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > I am not a pretender. I have learned how to listen > and > to help the person I am working with how to deal > with > the problem they may be having. Guido Vermeulen may > be able to explain what I do. I have put about 200 > people through the pro

Re: (",) being sick

2006-03-31 Thread LaVona Sherarts
Yes, you are right on. I agree 100 %. I don't have to take on the problems, I let them go through a process and they do the work And they get well. Well, those who want to. I let those who don't want to be where and what they want to be, be. I still respect and value them. LaVona --- Elizabeth <[E

Re: (",) being sick

2006-03-31 Thread LaVona Sherarts
I am not a pretender. I have learned how to listen and to help the person I am working with how to deal with the problem they may be having. Guido Vermeulen may be able to explain what I do. I have put about 200 people through the programs on a one to one. LaVona --- guido bondioli <[EMAIL PROTEC

Re: (",) being sick

2006-03-31 Thread Elizabeth
>> more feeling and the more kind sort of people who do >> not flee...able to be here... > Reducing the stress in the > situation was most useful. Talking calmly, being > reassuring, asking if there is some way of BEING > HELPFULL are way better ways to approach people who > are obviously having p

Re: (",) being sick

2006-03-31 Thread guido bondioli
> It's the braver > more feeling and the more kind sort of people who do > not flee. They are > able to be here in the world with the bad and the > good although I cannot > explain how. I am so brave only sometimes. And > you? It seems not to be brave at all. It is a matter of interest in and i

Re: (",) being sick

2006-03-28 Thread LaVona Sherarts
> Ivé gotten divorced. The stigma attached was > nothing > > compared to being sick. > > As you say, right, it's definitely not to the same > degree. It's the braver > more feeling and the more kind sort of people who do > not flee. They are > able to be he

Re: (",) being sick

2006-03-28 Thread LaVona Sherarts
--- Elizabeth <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > >>> guido bondioli wrote: > > Ivé gotten divorced. The stigma attached was > nothing > > compared to being sick. > > As you say, right, it's definitely not to the same > degree. It's the braver &g

(",) being sick

2006-03-28 Thread Elizabeth
>>> guido bondioli wrote: > Ivé gotten divorced. The stigma attached was nothing > compared to being sick. As you say, right, it's definitely not to the same degree. It's the braver more feeling and the more kind sort of people who do not flee. They are able to be here