Re: Looking back at very difficult year

2016-01-10 Thread Boris Liberman
Thank you, Mark, for your kind words. On 1/6/2016 16:53, Mark C wrote: Sadden to learn that 2015 brought so much sorrow, Boris. Loses such as you describe truly are life changing events. I hope that 2016 brings peace and time to recover. Mark On 1/5/2016 2:20 PM, Boris Liberman wrote:

Re: Looking back at very difficult year

2016-01-10 Thread Boris Liberman
Thank you, Peter. Yes, my father had a habit of following the doctor's advise only to the point when he would start feeling a bit better. Then, he'd claim that he felt well, and hence required no medical care of any kind. I still remember the fights between my mother and him when she had to

Re: Looking back at very difficult year

2016-01-10 Thread Boris Liberman
Thanks you, Christine. Please pass my thanks to Darrel. I am told that for the husband/wife of a person who just passed away, the very first year afterwards is the most difficult one. My mother now has a good deal of her own problems, where her breast cancer got out of control of the pills

Re: Looking back at very difficult year

2016-01-10 Thread Boris Liberman
Thank you, Brian! On 1/6/2016 22:35, Brian Walters wrote: Hi Boris It's good to see you posting again. I'm sorry about your painful losses during the year and sincerely hope that 2016 is much better for you and your family. Kind regards Brian ++ Brian

Re: Looking back at very difficult year

2016-01-10 Thread Boris Liberman
Thank you for your kind words, Malcolm. Yes, this is very sad thing. And one cannot possibly really prepare for it. The moment before and the moment after are so profoundly different... Boris On 1/8/2016 16:25, Malcolm Smith wrote: I'm very sorry to hear of your loss Boris. I never know

RE: Looking back at very difficult year

2016-01-08 Thread Malcolm Smith
Boris Liberman wrote: > It seems that the 2015 has been one of if not the most difficult year > in my life so far. Back in March, just a few days after we signed a > contract for our own apartment, my father passed away from cardiac > arrest. It was unexpected, it was very quick, it wash

Re: Looking back at very difficult year

2016-01-06 Thread Christine Aguila
Hi Boris: Very sad to hear about your difficult year. Darrel & I send our condolences. It seems you and I have had a similar kind of year. In January my very best friend of 20 plus years had a heart attack and died at the age of 54. Then in July, my dad died, and now my mom is not doing very

Re: Looking back at very difficult year

2016-01-06 Thread Mark C
Sadden to learn that 2015 brought so much sorrow, Boris. Loses such as you describe truly are life changing events. I hope that 2016 brings peace and time to recover. Mark On 1/5/2016 2:20 PM, Boris Liberman wrote: Hello. It seems that the 2015 has been one of if not the most difficult

Re: Looking back at very difficult year

2016-01-06 Thread P.J. Alling
Boris my father died almost 20 years ago from congestive heart failure. It was expected, but it hurt. He was a relatively young man, in this age of medical miracles. It still hurts, but only occasionally, and it's bearable. On 1/5/2016 2:20 PM, Boris Liberman wrote: Hello. It seems that

Re: Looking back at very difficult year

2016-01-06 Thread Brian Walters
Hi Boris It's good to see you posting again. I'm sorry about your painful losses during the year and sincerely hope that 2016 is much better for you and your family. Kind regards Brian ++ Brian Walters Western Sydney Australia

Re: Looking back at very difficult year

2016-01-05 Thread Bulent Celasun
Hi Boris, Just wanted to say that "time", more than anything else, helps healing our wounds. All of them. A little or totally... And 2016 is time. Some more time... Bulent - http://patoloji.gen.tr

Re: Looking back at very difficult year

2016-01-05 Thread J.C. O'Connell
My dad passed in Nov of 2013 and I still haven't recovered, time does make it a little easier though. jco On 1/6/2016 12:23 AM, Boris Liberman wrote: Thank you, Paul. I am trying very hard not to dwell too much into misery and I may even have some minor "successes" every now and then, but

Re: Looking back at very difficult year

2016-01-05 Thread Boris Liberman
Thank you, John. Yes, I hear you perfectly. This hasn't been an easy year, at all... On 1/6/2016 2:10, John Coyle wrote: Hi Boris - 2015 must have been one of the worst years of your life: please take comfort from your beautiful family being around you, as I have in the last few days. John

Re: Looking back at very difficult year

2016-01-05 Thread Boris Liberman
Thank you, Carlos. Almost a year passed since March, when it all happened, so I can feel the healing effects of time, to some extent... I need more time, that's for sure. On 1/6/2016 0:47, Carlos R. wrote: I am sorry for that, Boris. My father also died in the same way when I was very

Re: Looking back at very difficult year

2016-01-05 Thread Boris Liberman
Thank you, Paul. I am trying very hard not to dwell too much into misery and I may even have some minor "successes" every now and then, but the wound is still quite fresh... /deep sigh/ On 1/6/2016 2:49, Paul Stenquist wrote: Hi Boris. So sorry to hear of your loss. Keep your family close

Re: Looking back at very difficult year

2016-01-05 Thread Boris Liberman
Thank you, Jack. Tough year indeed... On 1/5/2016 22:38, Jack Davis wrote: Tough year, Boris. Am honored you chose to share and extent my sincerest sympathies. Here's to a hopeful 2016! J Sent from my iPhone On Jan 5, 2016, at 11:20 AM, Boris Liberman wrote: Hello.

Re: Looking back at very difficult year

2016-01-05 Thread Boris Liberman
Bulent, thank you so much for your wise and soothing words... It is just that time goes on so slowly for me these days... On 1/5/2016 22:45, Bulent Celasun wrote: Hi Boris, Just wanted to say that "time", more than anything else, helps healing our wounds. All of them. A little or totally...

Re: Looking back at very difficult year

2016-01-05 Thread Boris Liberman
Thanks, Stan. Yes, especially now that we finally moved in into our own apartment, it feels different too... The "glass half full" is an ever uphill battle for me... At least now, that I am aware of this trait of mine, I can deal with it, and not let it overcome me. On 1/6/2016 0:38,

Re: Looking back at very difficult year

2016-01-05 Thread Boris Liberman
Thank you, Dan. This is what I am trying to do, at least within myself... On 1/5/2016 23:31, Daniel J. Matyola wrote: My heart goes out to you and your family, Boris. Keeping his memory alive, through images and stories, will help a bit to ease the pain of the loss. Dan Matyola

Re: Looking back at very difficult year

2016-01-05 Thread Stanley Halpin
> On Jan 5, 2016, at 2:20 PM, Boris Liberman wrote: > > Hello. > > It seems that the 2015 has been one of if not the most difficult year in my > life so far. Back in March, just a few days after we signed a contract for > our own apartment, my father passed away from

Re: Looking back at very difficult year

2016-01-05 Thread Carlos R.
I am sorry for that, Boris. My father also died in the same way when I was very young (23) and living abroad at that time. Time will heal your wounds for sure, but it is a slow process. Be patient and strong, and enjoy your life as much as you can. Carlos El 05/01/2016 a las 20:20, Boris

Re: Looking back at very difficult year

2016-01-05 Thread Daniel J. Matyola
My heart goes out to you and your family, Boris. Keeping his memory alive, through images and stories, will help a bit to ease the pain of the loss. Dan Matyola http://www.pentaxphotogallery.com/danieljmatyola On Tue, Jan 5, 2016 at 2:20 PM, Boris Liberman wrote: > Hello. >

RE: Looking back at very difficult year

2016-01-05 Thread John Coyle
Hi Boris - 2015 must have been one of the worst years of your life: please take comfort from your beautiful family being around you, as I have in the last few days. John in Brisbane -Original Message- From: PDML [mailto:pdml-boun...@pdml.net] On Behalf Of Boris Liberman Sent:

Re: Looking back at very difficult year

2016-01-05 Thread Paul Stenquist
Hi Boris. So sorry to hear of your loss. Keep your family close and remember the good times. The pain won't go away any time soon, but you can begin to fill the void with love and warmth. Paul > > > > -Original Message- > From: PDML [mailto:pdml-boun...@pdml.net] On Behalf Of Boris

Re: Looking back at very difficult year

2016-01-05 Thread Jack Davis
Tough year, Boris. Am honored you chose to share and extent my sincerest sympathies. Here's to a hopeful 2016! J Sent from my iPhone > On Jan 5, 2016, at 11:20 AM, Boris Liberman wrote: > > Hello. > > It seems that the 2015 has been one of if not the most difficult year in