Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-24 Thread Michael Pollak
On Wed, 19 Nov 2003 michael perelman wrote: It is a perfect wedge issue...It also hits at Dean. Perhaps not. It could be that Dean might have the perfect riposte: that he's not for gay marriage, he's for gay civil unions. The NYT article linked below argues that that may well be the position

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-24 Thread Yoshie Furuhashi
At 4:51 AM -0500 11/24/03, Michael Pollak wrote: [I]f civil unions could nationalized so that they included citizenship rights along with health and housing entitlements and inheritance, it would be a huge step forward. And then maybe the way to take the next step forward towards normalizing

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-21 Thread Waistline2
In a message dated 11/20/03 12:50:48 PM Pacific Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: Why should I not kick their ass. Do you have kids or just stupid?Melvin, Michael Perelman is probably too busy writing his next book topay attention to this thread but I will not dignify your question with

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-21 Thread Michael Perelman
Melvin, you oppose gay marriage. I think that we all understand that by now. You are welcome to your opinion, but you should not get personal in differing with those who differ from you. Nor should those who differ with you get personal with you. So, please calm down. You made your opinion

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-21 Thread Doyle Saylor
Hello All, I am home today sick. For me, this is a sad moment. I don't look for times like this to take stands they just seem to come to me. When I was young I was assaulted many times as a queer. I didn't even know what that meant. There are certainly many people like Melvin who are in the

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-21 Thread Carrol Cox
Michael Perelman wrote: My original point in mentioning the subject was that gay marriage gets people emotional and prevents rational discourse. I did not expect that observation to apply here on this list. _Every_ issue of any importance to the left gets people emotional, or ought to. And

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-21 Thread Michael Perelman
I agree with everything that Doyle wrote and mostly agree with everything that Carroll wrote. I take issue with his agreement with Lou's statement that a Revolutionary party would have to expel Melvin. I think that Doyle was closer to the mark. He seems to understand that we need to learn to

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-21 Thread Louis Proyect
Michael Perelman wrote: I take issue with his agreement with Lou's statement that a Revolutionary party would have to expel Melvin. What I said is that if Melvin made remarks at a branch meeting like he made here, he'd be brought up on charges. I know for a fact that lots of older SWP'ers,

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-21 Thread Jurriaan Bendien
At the same time, we need to struggle against all injustice, and cannot let toleration blind must to inequities. I wish I knew the formula to achieve this. The Irish formula, from what I understand of it, is that if toleration blinds you to inequities, you get charged, whether you like it or

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-21 Thread Jurriaan Bendien
Michael wrote: My original point in mentioning the subject was that gay marriage gets people emotional and prevents rational discourse. I did not expect that observation to apply here on this list. Does that mean we could realistically look forward to the next American elections as

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-21 Thread joanna bujes
Doyle Saylor wrote: My only answer to that is the whole working class is the whole working class. We cannot build a socialist society that does not acknowledge all the different elements that build a society and builds a whole society. Thanks, Doyle Well put. Joanna

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-21 Thread joanna bujes
Carrol Cox wrote: As Lou says, a revolutinary party that did not expel Melvin would not be a revolutionary party. Well, if a specific revolutionary party sought human liberation irrespective of wether that human was straight or gay, I assume Melvin would not join this party. Solidarity is

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-21 Thread Michael Hoover
[EMAIL PROTECTED] 11/21/03 11:48AM Michael Perelman wrote: I take issue with his agreement with Lou's statement that a Revolutionary party would have to expel Melvin. What I said is that if Melvin made remarks at a branch meeting like he made here, he'd be brought up on charges. I know for a

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-21 Thread Waistline2
In a message dated 11/21/03 8:12:33 AM Pacific Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: When I was young I was assaulted many times as a queer. I didn't even knowwhat that meant. There are certainly many people like Melvin who are in theleft and feel they are leftists. To them I am morally

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-21 Thread Waistline2
In a message dated 11/21/03 9:30:06 AM Pacific Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: recp 'comrades' used to kick shit out of gay rcp-er friend of mine for'bourgeois decadence' during 'maoist self-criticism'sessions...he remained member for number of years as this washappening... michael

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-21 Thread Louis Proyect
Melvin wrote: I maintain that at this juncture of history homosexuality is propagated by the bourgeois and part of the decay and degeneracy in society. The Bolsheviks were outspoken supporters of gay rights. Not only did the Soviet Union abolish all laws against homosexual acts in December, 1917,

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-21 Thread ravi
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Further, with the acceptance of homosexuality in society a number of social issue arise... ... I teach them that homosexuality is primarily - not exclusively, learned behavior. ... I maintain that at this juncture of history homosexuality is propagated by the

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-21 Thread ravi
Doyle Saylor wrote: My only answer to that is the whole working class is the whole working class. what is the working class, in terms of unique characteristics or use characteristics that help lend it definition? i am truly puzzled: i go to work each day. i am part of the yuppie privileged

Re: the next wedge issue/end enough of this

2003-11-21 Thread Waistline2
In a message dated 11/21/03 11:04:28 AM Pacific Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: Let me repeat this with emphasis: the Soviet government did not viewsame-sex relations as being in any way *sick* or *perverted*. It didnot promote homosexuality, nor did it condemn it. This is all

Re: the next wedge issue/end enough of this

2003-11-21 Thread ravi
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Expel Melvin because he thinks different from me. And my wrong thinking and political assessment is really Stalinism. Because Stalinism did something back n the 1930s. Forget the economic and social content of the times and the political maneuver. The issue is sodomy.

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-21 Thread andie nachgeborenen
--- joanna bujes [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Carrol Cox wrote: As Lou says, a revolutinary party that Solidarity is not the logic of an idea. I repudiate what Melvin is saying because I don't agree with himnot because PEN-L solidarity (whatever that means) requires that I do so. Joanna:

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-21 Thread Michael Perelman
I think that the debate with Melvin has gone on long enough. Let's call it finished. -- Michael Perelman Economics Department California State University Chico, CA 95929 Tel. 530-898-5321 E-Mail [EMAIL PROTECTED]

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-21 Thread Waistline2
In a message dated 11/21/03 11:44:27 AM Pacific Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: i have snipped out all the hand-waving (why, some of my best friends aregay! in fact some of them hit on me!) arguments. i want to hear thefactual basis (outside of the anecdotal evidence that is given) of

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-21 Thread Waistline2
In a message dated 11/21/03 2:21:36 PM Pacific Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: I think that the debate with Melvin has gone on long enough. Let's callit finished.--Michael PerelmanEconomics DepartmentCalifornia State UniversityChico, CA 95929 Sorry I sent another article before I read

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-21 Thread Jurriaan Bendien
As far as I am concerned, Justin's position is correct. What people always forget in these disputes about reformism and revolutionism is that the classical debates about this topic, which occurred in Europe, between Kautsky, Bernstein, Lenin, Luxemburg and so on, took place in a historical context

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-21 Thread joanna bujes
ravi wrote: what is the working class, in terms of unique characteristics or use characteristics that help lend it definition? i am truly puzzled: i go to work each day. i am part of the yuppie privileged class. there's a guy wearing a union t-shirt who installs furniture in my building. am i in

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-21 Thread ravi
joanna bujes wrote: I also take deep umbrage (I've always wanted to use that phrase) at your characterizing the tonga driver as a wife beater. The notion that the poorer part of the working class is more violent is very untrue in my experience. There's plenty of domestic violence among the

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-21 Thread Yoshie Furuhashi
At 11:48 AM -0500 11/21/03, Louis Proyect wrote: What I said is that if Melvin made remarks at a branch meeting like he made here, he'd be brought up on charges. I know for a fact that lots of older SWP'ers, especially factory workers, felt threatened by woman's and gay liberation but they had the

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-20 Thread joanna bujes
Melvin wrote: Personally, I abhor homosexuality and feel no compulsion whatsoever to explain why I think a man penis should be place in a women and not another man. I am not required to explain my ideology. Actually, there is no such thing as a man's penis, right? I mean there's your penis, which

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-20 Thread ravi
joanna bujes wrote: Melvin wrote: Personally, I abhor homosexuality and feel no compulsion whatsoever to explain why I think a man penis should be place in a women and not another man. I am not required to explain my ideology. Actually, there is no such thing as a man's penis, right? I mean

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-20 Thread Carrol Cox
ravi wrote: joanna bujes wrote: Melvin wrote: joanna, i commend you on your rational and measured response. i am not sure melvin deserves such consideration. I've filtered Melvin into trash for so long I'd forgotten that he was on the list. The author of the stuff that You, Joanna, and

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-20 Thread Waistline2
In a message dated 11/20/03 8:58:30 AM Pacific Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: I've filtered Melvin into trash for so long I'd forgotten that he was onthe list. The author of the stuff that You, Joanna, and others havequoted probably ought not to be allowed on a list that calls

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-20 Thread Louis Proyect
Why is homosexuality a Wedge issue? Here is a simply question that requires thinking. Bigotry is not the answer. Melvin P. I don't think that Carrol was referring to serious differences of opinion. He was referring to stupid shock jock remarks that you made that embarrass you and that get in the

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-20 Thread Waistline2
In a message dated 11/19/03 11:34:33 PM Pacific Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: Actually, there is no such thing as a man's penis, right? I mean there's your penis, which you have the right to decide where to place. And then there's other men and their penises, and I guess the question

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-20 Thread Waistline2
In a message dated 11/20/03 12:08:23 PM Pacific Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: I don't think that Carrol was referring to serious differences ofopinion. He was referring to stupid "shock jock" remarks that you madethat embarrass you and that get in the way of you being taken

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-20 Thread Waistline2
In a message dated 11/20/03 12:08:23 PM Pacific Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: Like: "I swear, if the girls do not clean up my stove I am going to kicktheir asses." Why should I not kick their ass. Do you have kids or just stupid? Melvin P.

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-20 Thread Louis Proyect
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Like: I swear, if the girls do not clean up my stove I am going to kick their asses. Why should I not kick their ass. Do you have kids or just stupid? Melvin, Michael Perelman is probably too busy writing his next book to pay attention to this thread but I will not

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-20 Thread Michael Perelman
I have been teaching all morning. I do not like to give anyone the boot, but this sort of language is not acceptable. Nor did I appreciate Carroll saying that he filters someone. Go ahead and filter, but you don't need to make it public. Maybe the exchange shows why gay marriage is such an

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-20 Thread [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Um, let's see, because it is child abuse? Joel Original Message: - From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Date: Thu, 20 Nov 2003 15:43:17 EST To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Subject: Re: the next wedge issue In a message dated 11/20/03 12:08:23 PM Pacific Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: Like

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-20 Thread ravi
Michael Perelman wrote: Maybe the exchange shows why gay marriage is such an effective wedge issue. Maybe some day we can figure out how to make people get as worked up over working conditions, inequality, the environment ... with all due respect, MP, i do get equally worked up about

the next wedge issue

2003-11-19 Thread Michael Perelman
It looks like gay marriage will be the wedge issue next year to take people's attention away from the war in Iraq, environmental ravaging, corporate looting, and other assorted crimes. It will also be useful in marginalizing the few progressive Democrats left in politics. -- Michael Perelman

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-19 Thread Jurriaan Bendien
: Michael Perelman [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Wednesday, November 19, 2003 5:40 PM Subject: [PEN-L] the next wedge issue It looks like gay marriage will be the wedge issue next year to take people's attention away from the war in Iraq, environmental ravaging, corporate looting

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-19 Thread joanna bujes
Jurriaan Bendien wrote: I am always perplexed by the combination of an obsessive preoccupation of Americans with sexual relations, and a puritan christianist morality which stigmatises a frank and open discussion about it, which seems to lead to the idea that expressing or using sexual imagery is

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-19 Thread Jurriaan Bendien
Americans are the most over-stimulated and under-gratified people in the world. If you think about it, this is not a contradiction at all; the one requires the other -- to ensure compulsive behavior...like shopping. They can't be under-gratified, otherwise we would hear about it. Or is it that

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-19 Thread andie nachgeborenen
More interesting to me is the obsessive labeling. Why does it matter that one is homosexual, heterosexual, bisexual, etc. What is any of this about? Don't you know ? Firstly, God forbids human pleasure not in accordance with his Law, and some people see themselves as authorities

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-19 Thread joanna bujes
But therea re lot of people who have a visceral disgust about sexual behavior different from theirs that is independent of any religiosu beliefs. Visceral? I'm skeptical. Aren't you the one who argues against the causative value of inborn anything. Do you mean visceral disgust independent of

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-19 Thread andie nachgeborenen
I didn't say hardwired and independent of social conditioning, I said visceral, meaning, gut,; I wasn't speculating about its cause or origin. I used to see this when I was teaching. Ohio students found (male) homosexuality to be, eeww, yuck, gross, dis-GUST-ing. How would you describe that except

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-19 Thread ravi
andie nachgeborenen wrote: I didn't say hardwired and independent of social conditioning, I said visceral, meaning, gut,; I wasn't speculating about its cause or origin. I used to see this when I was teaching. Ohio students found (male) homosexuality to be, eeww, yuck, gross, dis-GUST-ing.

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-19 Thread Jurriaan Bendien
But therea re lot of people who have a visceral disgust about sexual behavior different from theirs that is independent of any religiosu beliefs. True. I wouldn't say I was a prude exactly, but I think I can be disgusted to. I guess that for me though it is rarely the act itself, but more the

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-19 Thread andie nachgeborenen
. Ohio students found (male) homosexuality to be, eeww, yuck, gross, dis-GUST-ing. your male students said eeww, yuck? that's so gay!! ;-) And my kids, male and female, until I reminded them forcefully that their beloved godparents and auntie are gay. jks

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-19 Thread joanna bujes
Well, Christ!, Justin. Many college students still find oral sex viscerally disgusting...it takes a while. Besides, one thing I can tell you is that while men may publically gag at the idea of having sex with another man, when they get older, like say, after 40, they all start to come clean about

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-19 Thread Michael Perelman
It is a perfect wedge issue. It costs nothing, such as good health care or eductation. Those who it upsets often get unglued by it, to the exclusion of important issues that really affect them. It solidifies the repug. base, while few Dems. will actually dare to advocate gay marriage. It also

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-19 Thread andie nachgeborenen
Yes, and? Look, I was just saying that I didn't think that the only reason that homosexuslity was a lightning rod was that people thought that God hates fags. I said taht in my experience many peoples eem to find the thought disgusting. I did not offer a theory as to why. I did not say that the

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-19 Thread Devine, James
someone's got to argue that there are two types of marriage: 1) civil marriages (or civil unions), where the rights and responsibilities are determined by the state. 2) religious marriages, where the rights and responsibilities are determined by the religion. It seems to me that the state

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-19 Thread Michael Perelman
that is absolutely the point. On Wed, Nov 19, 2003 at 01:45:59PM -0800, Devine, James wrote: someone's got to argue that there are two types of marriage: 1) civil marriages (or civil unions), where the rights and responsibilities are determined by the state. 2) religious marriages, where

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-19 Thread joanna bujes
fair enough. sorry-- Joanna andie nachgeborenen wrote: Yes, and? Look, I was just saying that I didn't think that the only reason that homosexuslity was a lightning rod was that people thought that God hates fags. I said taht in my experience many peoples eem to find the thought disgusting. I

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-19 Thread Carrol Cox
Michael Perelman wrote: that is absolutely the point. On Wed, Nov 19, 2003 at 01:45:59PM -0800, Devine, James wrote: someone's got to argue that there are two types of marriage: I tend to see everything in terms of its relevance to building the core of a mass movement against imperialism

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-19 Thread Waistline2
In a message dated 11/19/03 1:38:11 PM Pacific Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: Yes, and? Look, I was just saying that I didn't think that the only reason that homosexuality was a lightning rod was that people thought that God hates fags. I said that in my experience many peoples seem to

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-19 Thread Jurriaan Bendien
Jim wrote: The basic principle is that of the division between church and state. Render unto Caesar and all that... I agree with you about that, except that I would add: 1) the separation of church and state must explicitly include the guarantee to the right to one's own religious beliefs and

Re: the next wedge issue

2003-11-19 Thread Devine, James
it may be the point, but I heard a pro-gay lawyer on US National Public Radio missing the point completely, saying that civil unions represent a separate but equal policy (i.e., BOO!). Jim Devine [EMAIL PROTECTED] http://bellarmine.lmu.edu/~jdevine that is