Re: [silk] Indian Men Living in U.S. Strike Out

2009-04-09 Thread .
If Shefali Anand did live in India, especially through the 90's and the current decade, she would know that Indian women are not exactly demure as most misconceptions go. The author would have been enlightened if she had taken the trouble to actually live and meet some (so-called repressed rural

Re: [silk] Indian Men Living in U.S. Strike Out

2009-04-09 Thread ss
On Thursday 09 Apr 2009 1:04:49 pm . wrote: If Shefali Anand did live in India, especially through the 90's and the current decade, she would know that Indian women are not exactly demure as most misconceptions go. The author would have been enlightened if she had taken the trouble to actually

Re: [silk] Indian Men Living in U.S. Strike Out

2009-04-09 Thread .
On Thu, Apr 9, 2009 at 8:00 PM, ss cybers...@gmail.com wrote: In the absence of social support a pregnant girl is in serious trouble. If she is married - support from a husband helps. Abortion and pregnancy all carry Marriage is not necessarily the solution. There are men who abandon their

Re: [silk] Indian Men Living in U.S. Strike Out

2009-04-06 Thread Deepa Mohan
On Mon, Apr 6, 2009 at 10:52 AM, Suresh Ramasubramanian sur...@hserus.netwrote: This is Krish Ashok blog material and I hope he will write about it and I can have a wonderful time reading it! :) Deepa.

Re: [silk] Indian Men Living in U.S. Strike Out

2009-04-06 Thread Srini RamaKrishnan
On Mon, Apr 6, 2009 at 7:15 AM, Divya Manian divya.man...@gmail.com wrote: Came across this, and found it too funny! http://online.wsj.com/article/SB123896998996190775.html [...] I suspect this is satire, even the names of the marriage bureaus seem too fantastic! Really? In my observation

Re: [silk] Indian Men Living in U.S. Strike Out

2009-04-06 Thread Ravi Bellur
http://online.wsj.com/article/SB123896998996190775.html For instance, he says some overseas Indians want a bride who is smart, fluent in English, and simultaneously, docile in the house. He says such women are now harder to find, so he bumps up his fees for some searches. To be fair,

Re: [silk] Indian Men Living in U.S. Strike Out

2009-04-06 Thread Ashwin Nanjappa
On Mon, Apr 6, 2009 at 17:38, Srini RamaKrishnan che...@gmail.com wrote: If you find this unbelievable check out how the Chinese get married. With a male:female ratio that's even more skewed than in India, and with no social stigma against marrying non-Chinese, the Chinese men have it much

Re: [silk] Indian Men Living in U.S. Strike Out

2009-04-06 Thread Ashwin Nanjappa
On Mon, Apr 6, 2009 at 18:11, Ashwin Nanjappa ashwi...@gmail.com wrote: Matrimonials – Chinese style by Pallavi Aiyar Sorry, forgot the link: http://www.hindu.com/mag/2008/05/18/stories/2008051850020200.htm ~ash

Re: [silk] Indian Men Living in U.S. Strike Out

2009-04-06 Thread Suresh Ramasubramanian
Its what feminists sarcastically call most men's perception of an 'ideal wife' - an angel all day long but suddenly turns into a pornstar in the bedroom. On Mon, April 6, 2009 4:46 pm, Ravi Bellur wrote: To be fair, there are some red-blooded, white-breaded American males looking for such

Re: [silk] Indian Men Living in U.S. Strike Out

2009-04-06 Thread Kiran K Karthikeyan
Its what feminists sarcastically call most men's perception of an 'ideal wife' - an angel all day long but suddenly turns into a pornstar in the bedroom. I thought feminists were those who believed that's what most men want, devoid of any sarcasm :) Kiran

Re: [silk] Indian Men Living in U.S. Strike Out

2009-04-06 Thread Radhika, Y.
I didn't realize a flat screen TV could be a determining factor in marrying someone-guess i would never have made it to any matrimonial list in any case especially since i clean my own bathroom! my husband had only an air-mattress in his name thanks to his free wheeling, globetrotting lifestyle

Re: [silk] Indian Men Living in U.S. Strike Out

2009-04-06 Thread ss
On Monday 06 Apr 2009 7:48:26 pm Radhika, Y. wrote: his golfclubs Aha! This man knows life. shiv

Re: [silk] Indian Men Living in U.S. Strike Out

2009-04-06 Thread Srini RamaKrishnan
On Mon, Apr 6, 2009 at 4:18 PM, Radhika, Y. radhik...@gmail.com wrote: I didn't realize a flat screen TV could be a determining factor in marrying someone-guess i would never have made it to any matrimonial list in any case especially since i clean my own bathroom! my husband had only an

Re: [silk] Indian Men Living in U.S. Strike Out

2009-04-06 Thread Thaths
On Mon, Apr 6, 2009 at 8:43 AM, Srini RamaKrishnan che...@gmail.com wrote: Ancient Rome at the peak of its affluence saw a decline in marriages because people saw no reason to marry. This led to the introduction of the tax sop for married couples that most modern states continue to this day.

Re: [silk] Indian Men Living in U.S. Strike Out

2009-04-06 Thread Suresh Ramasubramanian
ah. an excuse for when the wife catches you with a copy of playboy .. Srini RamaKrishnan [06/04/09 17:43 +0200]: OTOH, modern society seems to have aids to counter the genetic urges, such as pornography. Porn is a socially acceptable (in most cultures) outlet for genetic urges. Ironically

Re: [silk] Indian Men Living in U.S. Strike Out

2009-04-06 Thread Indranil Das Gupta
On Mon, Apr 6, 2009 at 10:07 PM, Thaths tha...@gmail.com wrote: snipped I find the entire social construct of marriage (arranged or find your own) quaint. Of course, there are important financial implications (inheritance, benefits, taxation, etc.) of formalized cohabitation. or implications

Re: [silk] Indian Men Living in U.S. Strike Out

2009-04-06 Thread Radhika, Y.
Cheeni, please do stir up the pot! going by the logic of your argument though since the lady Anisha _ quoted in the article doesn't need a man's money as she is quite well off and therefore doesn't need to marry, why does she still care if the man makes more money or less? something

Re: [silk] Indian Men Living in U.S. Strike Out

2009-04-06 Thread Kiran K Karthikeyan
On Mon, Apr 6, 2009 at 4:18 PM, Radhika, Y. radhik...@gmail.com wrote: I didn't realize a flat screen TV could be a determining factor in marrying someone-guess i would never have made it to any matrimonial list in any case especially since i clean my own bathroom! my husband had only an

Re: [silk] Indian Men Living in U.S. Strike Out

2009-04-06 Thread ss
On Tuesday 07 Apr 2009 12:17:36 am Kiran K Karthikeyan wrote: If females had lower life expectancy and infant mortality was high, society as such would move to polygamy. Once female and male life expectancy got closer, and infant mortality rate was lower, given the need for a proper home for

[silk] Indian Men Living in U.S. Strike Out

2009-04-05 Thread Divya Manian
Came across this, and found it too funny! http://online.wsj.com/article/SB123896998996190775.html Here is an extract: Given the difficulty in finding matches for Indians abroad, some matchmakers are now charging them more. Mr. Dave of Klassic Match charges a minimum fee of $100, versus $50 for

Re: [silk] Indian Men Living in U.S. Strike Out

2009-04-05 Thread Suresh Ramasubramanian
This is Krish Ashok blog material On Mon, April 6, 2009 10:45 am, Divya Manian wrote: Came across this, and found it too funny! http://online.wsj.com/article/SB123896998996190775.html Here is an extract: Given the difficulty in finding matches for Indians abroad, some matchmakers are