Re: [Tango-L] Women's role

2007-07-26 Thread Carol Shepherd
Rather than relying on references to the superiority of ethnicities and other stereotypes in discussing the building of one's dance prowess: The best method I have seen to teach women to follow (any dance), is to simply ask them to close their eyes in partner work. A. The lead and the move

Re: [Tango-L] Watch it! [OT]

2007-08-22 Thread Carol Shepherd
Hi Igor: The first video clip that you linked is mostly charleston with some collegiate shag thrown in. The couple in the same fur coat are doing collegiate shag. Others remarked that the couple moving around the stage are doing Peabody. That's possible but it seems awfully slow for

Re: [Tango-L] Expanding social dancing to exhibition level?

2007-08-23 Thread Carol Shepherd
Ron: I second your observation on this trend. All dance, when it comes to America, seems to not only gets transmogrified into something different, it also gets turned into a competitive sport: if you view film footage from the jazz dancers at the old Savoy in New York, it was all about

Re: [Tango-L] Help to find masculinity in Tango !

2007-09-29 Thread Carol Shepherd
Igor, for feminine substitute intimate. Then it all makes sense. Igor Polk wrote: I was told that many men trying tango drop it because they think tango is too feminine. Some of my friends actually think that tango is very masculine, strong. I believe these men who dropped could be the

Re: [Tango-L] Help to find masculinity in Tango !

2007-09-29 Thread Carol Shepherd
Sorry, hit send before I added my suggestion. How about this: demonstrating confidence = masculine better posture = masculine precise control of body and movement = masculine (ie, martial arts) CRS Igor Polk wrote: I was told that many men trying tango drop it because they think tango is too

Re: [Tango-L] The Jungle and Women's Tricky Tricks

2007-10-05 Thread Carol Shepherd
Hey, sometimes our feet *are* sore and we really need to rest! Have you ever worn tango shoes? ;) This is a bigger problem in the tango world than in other dance styles, because of the difference in customs. In other dances I can say to the guy when I'm done resting, I'll come over and ask

Re: [Tango-L] How to break couples who do not want to change partners

2007-10-11 Thread Carol Shepherd
With all due respect, Group class structure almost always infers that there will be rotation. Those are the expectations in every group class I have been in, in the last decade I have been dancing. Rotation makes you a better dancer because you don't end up 'memorizing' your regular

Re: [Tango-L] taxi dancers

2007-10-15 Thread Carol Shepherd
My mistake, I wasn't reading all the emails carefully enough. Sorry-- Astrid wrote: I notice it's the men who are responding to this. Are we talking about female taxi dancers, or male taxi dancers? Seems to me that it's the women who are really stuck in BsAs, because the codes do not allow

Re: [Tango-L] Musicality. What is it?

2007-12-06 Thread Carol Shepherd
OK, I wasn't gonna but I'm gonna jump in. 1. There is a WORLD of difference between XYZ musicality class and ABC musicality class. Some people need 2 + 2 = 4 because they do not understand basic rhythm and phrases in music. Don't mock that That's just mean, people. They probably have

Re: [Tango-L] What is tango music?

2007-12-10 Thread Carol Shepherd
Furthermore the chan chan is also pervasive in many other types of music, such as Afrocuban See, eg, Chan Chan by BVSC, which has chan chan at the end of every phrase. So, conventional for certain artists, no doubt -- but not unique to tango. Bruno Afonso wrote: The chan chan at the end

[Tango-L] [OT] Men|Women|Dancing Ability [WAS Re: Don't blame your follower]

2007-12-17 Thread Carol Shepherd
Interesting. I get to the same conclusion (boys weren't encouraged to develop dance skills) but by a different explanation. Huck Kennedy wrote: Now let's get to the truth of the matter--any advantage women have in dancing comes from their being shunted off to dance class at an

[Tango-L] [OT] jump blues [WAS OT Men|Women|Dancing Ability [WAS Re: Don't blame your follower]

2007-12-17 Thread Carol Shepherd
Hi Steve, we could get into an even-further off-topic discussion about quote-unquote swing music (swing is a verb, not a noun. there is no such thing as swing music -Paul Whiteman). It would sound exactly like a spat about competing tango orchestra styling in the Golden Era. Those of us

Re: [Tango-L] [OT][OT][OT] Prima

2007-12-17 Thread Carol Shepherd
Too late Doug! My nitpick to your nitpick to Steve's nitpick to my off-topic post is that Prima was active in ALL eras and jazz genres from 20's to 70's. Prima's versatility, sheer creative output and musical longevity are directly comparable to Piazzola. (shameless attempt at topic

Re: [Tango-L] tell me why someone can not stand comparison of a dancer to a musical instrument

2007-12-23 Thread Carol Shepherd
This dispute about the metaphors is really about two different underlying issues: collaboration in partner dance, and respecting the feelings of others. Collaborative contributions to a tango -- Some of us evidently think that the collaborative ratio of

Re: [Tango-L] any advice for bad shoulders?

2007-12-23 Thread Carol Shepherd
How about saying to the follow, I have an injured shoulder, please try not to use too much resistance with your right arm? Not everyone can make this adjustment but some can/will. [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I have had prolonged bouts with bursitis in both shoulders, as well as small tears in

Re: [Tango-L] Rhythm breaks at 3 1/2 hour milongas

2008-01-05 Thread Carol Shepherd
Don't be makin so much fun of this. We had a salsa and swing night here in the Detroit area which ran for 3+ years and the DJs played an argentine tango set twice per evening. As the club owner remarked: We love the tango music. That's when everyone hits the bar to re-order. (The night was

Re: [Tango-L] Gender Imbalance/Advertising for men

2008-01-08 Thread Carol Shepherd
Another reluctant jumper-in, but I have practical experience as a volunteer promoter that I think might be helpful. We have the same problem locally with other dance styles and attracting men -- perceived impression that dancers are all slick 'Dancing with the Stars' material. To combat this,

Re: [Tango-L] Popularity of Milonga (the dance)

2008-01-10 Thread Carol Shepherd
YAMP (yet another milonga post) Just as there are several flavors of tango there are several flavors of milonga (my experience is US). I originally learned milonga as a quickly moving and sassy dance that travels over the floor. In close embrace the traspie and other rhythmic 'stops' and

Re: [Tango-L] social tango 101

2008-01-14 Thread Carol Shepherd
These transgressions are not special to tango, they are no different from ANY social dancing event. Same thing happens in ballroom and any moving dance. If anything, more so in ballroom, and a lot of it probably comes from ballroom, which can resemble an Indy 500 video game. Someone let

Re: [Tango-L] Milonga rhythms

2008-01-14 Thread Carol Shepherd
I would agree I haven't heard triplets in tango, vals, milonga. I'm sure the musicians on the list will chime in if they exist. I think the confusion is being caused by the idea of one-two-three in music based on four beats. This is the same as quick-quick-slow (where the first three beats

[Tango-L] NYT: Dance, Dance, Revolution?

2008-01-17 Thread Carol Shepherd
FYI. About dancing and antiquated cabaret laws. We should all be dancing tango in the streets! :) THE NEW YORK TIMES June 3, 2007 Op-Ed Contributor Dance, Dance, Revolution By BARBARA EHRENREICH COMPARED with most of the issues that the venerable civil liberties lawyer Norman Siegel takes

[Tango-L] NYT: Dance, Dance, Revolution? (1 of 2)

2008-01-17 Thread Carol Shepherd
FYI. About dancing and antiquated cabaret laws. We should all be dancing tango in the streets! :) THE NEW YORK TIMES June 3, 2007 Op-Ed Contributor Dance, Dance, Revolution By BARBARA EHRENREICH COMPARED with most of the issues that the venerable civil liberties lawyer Norman Siegel takes

[Tango-L] NYT: Dance, Dance, Revolution? (2 of 2)

2008-01-17 Thread Carol Shepherd
... To the secular opponents of public dancing, it is always a noxious source of disorder and, in New York’s case, noise. But hardly anyone talks about what is lost when the music stops and the traditional venues close. Facing what he saw as an epidemic of melancholy, or what we would now call

Re: [Tango-L] Milonga rhythms

2008-01-17 Thread Carol Shepherd
Me, I can definitely distinguish triplets (3 against 2) in any music I hear, but I have a lot of music training. I don't hear them in tango music. I hear them in Afro-Cuban music all the time, and in Brazilian samba drumlines (ie, percussion improvisation). But I don't hear them in tango or

Re: [Tango-L] Milonga 101 -- conversation between dances

2008-01-17 Thread Carol Shepherd
When you get to a certain level of dance where you are seeing a lot of basic building blocks and patterns of steps over and over again, what you get out of lessons is very different. I am happy with any lesson, even a lesson teaching choreography, if I take away just one important insight or

Re: [Tango-L] Two of My Teaching Pet Peeves

2008-01-18 Thread Carol Shepherd
Bravo, Astrid. I have been having this problem for years and could not exactly pinpoint why my lower back was in so much pain from dancing with certain people. Thanks CS Astrid wrote: Hmmm, I'm always trying to get further outside on my left especially when in close embrace. Is this my

Re: [Tango-L] The Disappearance of Tangobliss.com

2008-01-30 Thread Carol Shepherd
I don't have any problem with Miles doing what he did. He had a large audience from this mailing list and he was notifying them as he was receiving inquiries. How does a catty personal slam from Christian Luthen about eventually dancing tango relate to Miles's decision to stop writing a

Re: [Tango-L] Igor Polk is off the list and Nino Bien

2008-02-02 Thread Carol Shepherd
I'd like to hear about why this happened as well. It's not like Igor is *more* irascible than the average irascible person on the list, he's warm and fuzzy in his own stubborn and highly opinionated way. (as are we all) CS Chris, UK wrote: Forwarded from direct mail: *Subject:* Igor Polk

Re: [Tango-L] Beginners and milongas

2008-02-15 Thread Carol Shepherd
Since we all hate the 8CB paso basico so much and feel it is a failed teaching method that encourages the wrong kind of dancing and collisions on the pista, how do we all feel about the open frame 6CB (modified box step) that is frequently taught for milonga? I say it is a nice, simple figure

Re: [Tango-L] beginners and milonga

2008-02-15 Thread Carol Shepherd
Interesting. When I learned D8CB tango from Ray Hogan and Amy Calio in Detroit 10 years ago (open frame), after about 3-4 months, the next dance on the agenda was milonga. Difficulty was very clearly presented as tango, milonga, vals. We didn't even get to vals until level 3. Milonga was

Re: [Tango-L] Tango-L Helping Newbies Dance in Tight Spaces

2008-02-15 Thread Carol Shepherd
Maybe you mean that a front ocho figure is a good holding pattern? Or did you mean that a front ocho or back ocho figure can also be over- or under-rotated to realign the couple's direction, to navigate around a couple that has stopped to execute some kind of non-progressing figure. Also

Re: [Tango-L] Beginners and milongas

2008-02-18 Thread Carol Shepherd
I agree there is a lot of confusion between counts and positions in the 8CB and that is partially what makes it so awful. For non-musically trained and trained alike, it is very hard to dislodge the idea that the 8 represents 8 beats of music. I have often thought (coming from ballet

Re: [Tango-L] What makes tango tango?

2008-03-06 Thread Carol Shepherd
Good question. I have danced lindy hop on the opposite foot from partner for entire stretches of a dance, but that's improvisational, it's not part of the structure of the dance vocabulary. And it's certainly not a ballroom dance. [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: By cross-feet I meant crossed system

Re: [Tango-L] Ballroom vs Tango: Cross feet

2008-03-06 Thread Carol Shepherd
Just curious: is it also referred to as cross-system in those dances? I have limited experience with professional ballroom instruction, and in the lessons I've had, the instructor hasn't used the term. Michael wrote:

Re: [Tango-L] Ballroom vs Tango: Cross feet

2008-03-06 Thread Carol Shepherd
Sounds like shadowing = mirroring. Ordinarily lead and follow are not on the SAME foot (as in, they are both on L, they are both on R). More typically, in a dance that progresses, they are on opposite feet on the same side of the couple facing each other (as in, lead is on L, follow is on R).

Re: [Tango-L] Origin of Tandas

2008-03-14 Thread Carol Shepherd
This is very interesting and finally tandas make sense. We of course had taxi dancers and taxi dance halls here in the US from the 20's to the 50's -- but the men got only one dance per ticket. Sergio Vandekier wrote: There was a time, very early in tango history (1880 - 1920) when tango was

Re: [Tango-L] leading cruzada

2008-04-10 Thread Carol Shepherd
Joe Grohens wrote: There should be no such thing as an automatic cross. Maybe not in TANGO®. Automatic would mean that the women just do a cross on their own as a memorized pattern. That's wrong. Women do not dance on their own. They dance with and in response to what the man is

Re: [Tango-L] Surplus Tanguera - Not

2008-04-16 Thread Carol Shepherd
If a man who dances repeat tandas with the same woman is a tango hog, is the follow who dances repeat tandas while there are surplus follows who are not dancing (indeed, many have not danced a single tanda all night) also a tango hog? When I brought this topic up about having a hard time

Re: [Tango-L] Surplus Tanguera - Not (reply to Skip's 1st)

2008-04-17 Thread Carol Shepherd
Trini, I disagree. I think the multiple-tanda woman is motivated by not wanting to mess with a good thing. She looks around and sees surplus women standing around not dancing every time she goes out, and she thinks that could be me if I'm not careful, he wants to dance a lot with me, I like

Re: [Tango-L] Taxis

2008-04-20 Thread Carol Shepherd
The airport taxi special tax is the rule in many US cities and in the international capitals. Most international airports charge non-airport-licensed taxis a pick-up ticket per fare (the upcharge at Detroit Metro is $10 -- ie, adds $10 to the mileage fare). The airport's own taxis are typically

Re: [Tango-L] Stone Soup 2008 Follow Up

2008-05-08 Thread Carol Shepherd
All, I'm so glad to see that list members are stepping up to say negative things about Argentine Tango in the US and this apparently overwhelmingly popular and positive event. There was an appalling lack of negativity about this topic, and I see that the tone of the list is now being

Re: [Tango-L] Stone Soup 2008 Follow Up

2008-05-08 Thread Carol Shepherd
Thank you Chris, I feel so much better now, having been insulted by you in an ad-hominem attack which has nothing to do with the subject of the post. Regards, Chris, UK wrote: Why are you people in the US so obsessed with classes? Uhm..because we have seen what inbreeding in a small

[Tango-L] belated apology to the list

2008-07-19 Thread Carol Shepherd
Some time ago I transgressed. I received an email from the moderator requiring me to apologize to the list, and not transgress again. I said I would not post on the list again until I did so. I am truly sorry for the discomfort that was caused to listmembers by my posting, and for any

Re: [Tango-L] Gender Roles in Tango

2008-07-19 Thread Carol Shepherd
Rather than going back through that loop of passionate discussion on the proper use of the words Argentine Tango If we're talking about a fellow following or a lady leader (with a partner of whatever gender) why not call that dance Ognat Enitnegra? Then we'll all know what we're talking

Re: [Tango-L] Dancing socially to Piazzolla

2008-07-22 Thread Carol Shepherd
Piazzolla is socially danceable, but only by dancers with a deep knowledge of music and very high skill levels. I've seen a couple of couples do it well. You both have to have very high level lead and follow skills. You have to be very familiar with the particular piece of music from

Re: [Tango-L] Gratuitous insults and social tango

2008-07-23 Thread Carol Shepherd
To me social dancing is, simply, any partner dance that is not choreographed and/or for competition. There are those who understand social dancing to customarily imply dancing around with multiple partners in one evening. For some of those, the intimacy of tango may be too much for more than

Re: [Tango-L] Gratuitous insults and social tango

2008-07-28 Thread Carol Shepherd
That last paragraph should say maybe because tango dancers are much MORE likely to come into tango as their first dance rather than from other ballroom experience where these are more frequently taught. Sorry-- Carol Shepherd wrote: To me social dancing is, simply, any partner dance

Re: [Tango-L] How to lead volcadas

2008-08-05 Thread Carol Shepherd
Tom, you're just brilliant. You had me rolling on the floor laughing. Until just now, I never understood exactly what I couldn't stand about those early tango lessons. These moves are truly the opera bouffe of the Tango Borg. You reminded me of Milan Kundera's philosophy of kitsch (not just

Re: [Tango-L] Social Tango

2008-08-05 Thread Carol Shepherd
I compare dance 'styles' to dialects of the same language. Dance and language are similar in that they facilitate connection between us. Dialects develop organically by the expressions of community members cross-influencing others within the same community. Dialects reflect a group's preferences

Re: [Tango-L] Rhythm or Melody?

2009-06-13 Thread Carol Shepherd
If you are a follow, this depends on the skills of the leader, and what's appropriate for the music. The orthodox answer would be to say that the feet should always be in rhythm, but the lead should be choosing to fit figures to the phrases of melody. That requires a medium to high

Re: [Tango-L] Tango Teacher DJ Reviews :: New Blog

2009-06-16 Thread Carol Shepherd
Alex, I think Trini has good suggestions. I think that the comments would trend to the negative and several will be very personal and poisonous. If you require people to register with a name, as opposed to leaving anonymous comments, at least they will have to put a public persona on their

Re: [Tango-L] Tanguera/o occupation?

2009-11-14 Thread Carol Shepherd
I'm an attorney and I know two other attorneys who dance tango in the Detroit/Ann Arbor area, but of all the local dancers I know, the percentage of engineering/IT/sciences tango dancers has to be at least 75%. Fran and John Verheul wrote: ... So - what broadly speaking - is your occupation

[Tango-L] Men's dance shoes (but not sneakers)

2009-11-15 Thread Carol Shepherd
A friend from the swing scene wants to move into dancing the Latin dances (salsa, west coast) and also begin to learn Argentine tango. So far he has been dancing in 'lindy sneakers' (i.e., Chucks or Vans with chromed leather on the bottom). He wants to graduate to 'grownup dance shoes' that