Re: [Zen] ROLL CALL

2009-01-22 Thread Anthony Wu
OK, I will fuck it up myself.
 
BTW, Gaylord is the name of a famous Indian restaurant here, so I cannot 
violate the patent law.
 
Anthony

--- On Thu, 22/1/09, fitness4u2163  wrote:

From: fitness4u2163 
Subject: Re: [Zen] ROLL CALL
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com
Date: Thursday, 22 January, 2009, 9:58 AM






Anthony Wu  

I think that is pretty gay. You might as well change your name to 
Gaylord or Gaywad. 

The idea that you need some fucking cocksucker to lead you anywhere 
is fucking lame-O. Get a grip on your life and fuck it up yourself 
and then work your way out of your mistakes by learning from those 
that God puts in your path. 

If that means going to a Buddhist Temple or a mental asylum, so be 
it. But even if some smirking asshole sensei gives you a certificate 
that says you are enlightened, you can wipe your ass with that unless 
you feel it and earned it and do something with it. Maybe that means 
that you become a teacher, or maybe that means that you get a fucking 
job and enjoy whatever you are doing and put your guts and your soul 
into that. 

Do something meaningful with your life, like helping others, 
supporting your family members, charities, etc. Be a person who 
gives, not some lamedick gimp asking for charity so that you can sit 
on your ass and wonder what life means. 

Good luck to you and man-up, bitch. 

 














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Re: [Zen] ROLL CALL

2009-01-22 Thread Mayka


--- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, "cid830"  wrote:
>

> 
> My problem here (along with my lack of practice!) has been a lack of 
> respect. 98% of us can have discourse, agreeing or dis-agreeing in 
> what each of us may post. But there is always that 2% that show a 
> lack of respect for others. It is an insight into one's nature, as 
> well as a product of one's upbringing. If one has not learned to 
> deal with others respectfully by the age of adulthood, they probably 
> never will.
> 

> Chris



Hi chris!,

If you work in a team or for a company, if you go to collegeYou´ll
always find that there is somebody, someone, a percentage you don´t
get on or you disagree or you don´t like it...
This may happens even in the best families there is always someone
willing to create annoyance to everyone else. Dialogue not always work
with some people in that case the best is to let it go.  The trick
here is no to take it as personal.  In the internet this is not as
difficult to put into practice since you can spam or put in the thrash
mail you don´t wish to receive it.  But in real life that is a little
more difficult since we can´t throw to the bin our boss.  In that case
the practice becames handy.  The practice of not taking anything as
personal.  The continuos concentration of focusing the mind in the
present moment helped with the awareness of the in an out breathing
can slowly slowly have some surprising results.  

Not that I have achieved much control over myself emotions yet but i´m
in the way.  Each sceneary that appears in daily basis becames the
playing ground .  I don´t get attached to the result of this practice.
 what i mean is that if i loose control over my emotions i acknowledge
it and keep trying again and again and again.  Not to take anything as
personal and complete disattachment to the results of the practice is
a joyful way of practicing.

Thanks for writing and your very kind words.
Mayka






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Re: [Zen] ROLL CALL

2009-01-22 Thread Mayka
You are welcome...

Take care of yourself if you can
Mayka



--- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, "fitness4u2163"  wrote:
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> "Mayka" <> I see no wrong of posting what is in your mind, what are 
> you feeling or what is really in you...>
> 
> THANKS! 
> 
> >Words carry in them energy positive or negative.  Only one word can
> > heal or destroy.>
> 
> HO
> 
> HO HO
>





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[Zen] Moderators Wanted?

2009-01-22 Thread fitness4u2163
I have no interest in participating in this group this year, so I 
would like to find someone who can handle the moderator duties. This 
entails deleting spam, banning spammers, and reading the emails in 
order to take people off moderated status if they are halfway normal 
and put people back on moderated status if they describe any graphic 
sexual activities or post pornography. You must also check the link 
sections and files sections and photo albums for pornography or links 
to non-zen websites, etc. 

Please nominate yourself to the group so that a winner can be chosen 
by popular acclamation and/or by my choice, depending on who it is. 




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Re: [Zen] Moderators Wanted?

2009-01-22 Thread Edgar Owen
I'd be happy to moderate the group if you wish. I already moderate a  
number of science oriented groups so am familiar with what is  
required, and it would be just a little extra effort.


Edgar



On Jan 22, 2009, at 2:14 PM, fitness4u2163 wrote:


I have no interest in participating in this group this year, so I
would like to find someone who can handle the moderator duties. This
entails deleting spam, banning spammers, and reading the emails in
order to take people off moderated status if they are halfway normal
and put people back on moderated status if they describe any graphic
sexual activities or post pornography. You must also check the link
sections and files sections and photo albums for pornography or links
to non-zen websites, etc.

Please nominate yourself to the group so that a winner can be chosen
by popular acclamation and/or by my choice, depending on who it is.







Re: [Zen] ROLL CALL

2009-01-22 Thread cid830
Mayka,

I appreciate your understanding on this. I agree, I have experienced 
the ability to remain detatched from other's perspectives, no matter 
how negative. The longer I have stayed away from my practice, the 
more I found that "little" things can bother me. I am happy to say I 
have resumed my practice and it is going well. I have started re-
visiting the temple I sent you info on in the past. 

Thank you for your participation.

Chris

--- In Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com, "Mayka"  wrote:

> Hi chris!,
> 
> If you work in a team or for a company, if you go to 
collegeYou´ll
> always find that there is somebody, someone, a percentage you don´t
> get on or you disagree or you don´t like it...
> This may happens even in the best families there is always someone
> willing to create annoyance to everyone else. Dialogue not always 
work
> with some people in that case the best is to let it go.  The trick
> here is no to take it as personal.  In the internet this is not as
> difficult to put into practice since you can spam or put in the 
thrash
> mail you don´t wish to receive it.  But in real life that is a 
little
> more difficult since we can´t throw to the bin our boss.  In that 
case
> the practice becames handy.  The practice of not taking anything as
> personal.  The continuos concentration of focusing the mind in the
> present moment helped with the awareness of the in an out breathing
> can slowly slowly have some surprising results.  
> 
> Not that I have achieved much control over myself emotions yet but 
i´m
> in the way.  Each sceneary that appears in daily basis becames the
> playing ground .  I don´t get attached to the result of this 
practice.
>  what i mean is that if i loose control over my emotions i 
acknowledge
> it and keep trying again and again and again.  Not to take 
anything as
> personal and complete disattachment to the results of the practice 
is
> a joyful way of practicing.
> 
> Thanks for writing and your very kind words.
> Mayka
>





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Re: [Zen] Moderators Wanted?

2009-01-22 Thread cid830
I second Edgar's nomination. Here! Here!






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Re: [Zen] Moderators Wanted?

2009-01-22 Thread fitness4u2163
Edgar Owen < I'd be happy to moderate the group if you wish. I 
already moderate a number of science oriented groups so am familiar 
with what is required, and it would be just a little extra effort.
> 

Dear Edgar, 

thanks for your interest. You are a very nice person, and I enjoy 
reading your observations. 

I am going to keep the offer open for a few more days so that 
everyone can have a shot. I would not mind adding more than one 
assistant moderator. Keep in mind, that your duties, 
responsibilities, and power will be very limited. You can ban those 
you do not like, but only after verbally humiliating them in true Zen 
Forum fashion. Bill will be the ultimate authority on all issues 
regarding sarcasm and humiliation.  

You will not be able to stay at the Zen Forum retreat lodge or my 
private mansion until you have worked as an assistant moderator for 
at least one year. You will be eligible for vacations in Japan, 401K, 
pension plan, casino pass, profit-sharing, and Vegas trips depending 
on your ability to recruit gullible members of this group who are 
willing to pay the monthly membership fee of $25.00 per month and a 
dollar per post. 

I just want you to understand that the last assistant moderator (2003-
2004) hated me bitterly because she did not understand the concept of 
me screwing around with people for the sake of my entertainment. I 
hope that my joking does something positive for the victims, but it 
always provides sarcastic entertainment for me. I see that as win-
win. 

I have curtailed that side of my moderator activities over the past 
few years, but lately I find it hard not to return to the old ways. I 
am burned out again. I guess that means that I need a break from this 
group, so that I can step back and appreciate all the good people 
that are here. 

In spite of my best efforts, this is a really good group of very nice 
people. I would like to come back with the Beginner's Mind and feel 
the love and the strength of the ideas and people. 

Confucius say: When the finger points to the moon, the imbecile looks 
at the finger. 




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