RE: [ZION] working woman

2003-09-20 Thread hkpage
Well, there IS a way to follow prophetic counsel AND work where there is a
husband in the home...and it looks like I'm about to embark upon it.  I'm
going to start doing child care in my home, so I'll be at home with my own
children yet bringing in income.  I'm also considering giving piano lessons
from my home.  And I'm also considering taking night classes in medical
transcription (I have work experience from my college years in it, but I
need to sharpen my skills and there is a program near my home) so that I do
that from home.  I have a friend from high school, who is LDS and lives in
Arizona.  She and her husband have 4 children, and though she is trained in
other things, she took a course in medical transcription so that she could
work from home, and she gets paid very well for her work, which is part
time.  

Now, Jim, you have to admit that there are circumstances when a woman HAS
to work outside the home.  Val in Mishawaka has to...she is a widow; her
family depends on her.  The time may come when I will have to...my husband
will likely be unable to work due to physical disability in the next 5
years.  I really should be doing more to prepare to support my family, but
right now I feel like I should be at home.  I will, in the next year,
probably be taking part time college courses to finish up my last year of
bachelor's degree work.  We hope to eventually transfer to Louisville, and
then I can go to law school, which I've always wanted to do.  Once my
husband becomes unable to work, we will likely move east, closer to my
parents (and a bit closer to his family, too), to have the help  support
of family.  

Be careful, Jim, of painting all LDS working women with the same brush.

Heidi


 [Original Message]
 From: Jim Cobabe [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 Date: 9/19/2003 9:12:23 AM
 Subject: RE: [ZION] working woman


 With regard to applying prophetic counsel, where is the line between 
 personal prerogative and inspiration, and personal apostasy?

 2 Sam 6:6-7

 And when they came to Nachon's threshingfloor, Uzzah put forth his hand 
 to the ark of God, and took hold of it; for the oxen shook it. 

 And the anger of the LORD was kindled against Uzzah; and God smote him 
 there for his error; and there he died by the ark of God.

 I note that in the original ark-steadying incident, it would certainly 
 appear that the imperative of the moment was a more important 
 consideration than any more formal rules.  When do such considerations 
 assume overriding priority?

 What about testing the Lord's word?  Do we give an honest try to obeying 
 prophetic counsel, then abandon that when we have decided that our 
 circumstances warrant some other course of action?



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Re: [ZION] confiding in bishops

2003-09-20 Thread Stacy Smith
Their desire, in my opinion, is to coach the person seeking help to get 
personal revelation and help solve their own problems.  At times they have 
referred people to therapists.

Stacy.

At 10:28 PM 09/19/2003 -0400, you wrote:

Jim Cobabe wrote:

Counsel with the bishop is a standard answer.  As a problem solving 
strategy, it usually doesn't work at all, at least in my experience.
Bishops don't have effective answers for any but the most routine 
problems.  Many of them are good at running LDS wards, but terrible as 
personal counselors.

=
Grampa Bill comments:
   As a former Bishop of the Savannah First Ward, I tend to agree. While 
I was given the keys to receive revelation on behalf of the ward, I was 
not given revelation on behalf of Brother Smith's family. Brother Smith 
himself solely had that right. Incidently, as I understand the order of 
the Church, neither the Stake President, the Area President, The 
Brethren, nor the Prophet hold such keys. They are given only to Brother 
Smith. Of course, Sister Smith had the right to revelation in living her 
own life.
   About all a bishop can do is look to see if the members are following 
generalized counsel as given in the scriptures and by the Brethren, and 
counsel them to move in that direction. If he goes further, it is at his 
own peril.
Love y'all,
Grampa Bill in Savannah

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RE: [ZION] working woman

2003-09-20 Thread Stacy Smith
I wish I could work at all.  The Department of Rehabilitation in this 
county has evaluated me and decided I am unemployable.  This is no laughing 
matter for me and has caused me much depression.  Seeing I have no 
children, employment outside the home should not have been a problem for me.

Stacy.

At 06:45 AM 09/20/2003 -0500, you wrote:

Well, there IS a way to follow prophetic counsel AND work where there is a
husband in the home...and it looks like I'm about to embark upon it.  I'm
going to start doing child care in my home, so I'll be at home with my own
children yet bringing in income.  I'm also considering giving piano lessons
from my home.  And I'm also considering taking night classes in medical
transcription (I have work experience from my college years in it, but I
need to sharpen my skills and there is a program near my home) so that I do
that from home.  I have a friend from high school, who is LDS and lives in
Arizona.  She and her husband have 4 children, and though she is trained in
other things, she took a course in medical transcription so that she could
work from home, and she gets paid very well for her work, which is part
time.
Now, Jim, you have to admit that there are circumstances when a woman HAS
to work outside the home.  Val in Mishawaka has to...she is a widow; her
family depends on her.  The time may come when I will have to...my husband
will likely be unable to work due to physical disability in the next 5
years.  I really should be doing more to prepare to support my family, but
right now I feel like I should be at home.  I will, in the next year,
probably be taking part time college courses to finish up my last year of
bachelor's degree work.  We hope to eventually transfer to Louisville, and
then I can go to law school, which I've always wanted to do.  Once my
husband becomes unable to work, we will likely move east, closer to my
parents (and a bit closer to his family, too), to have the help  support
of family.
Be careful, Jim, of painting all LDS working women with the same brush.

Heidi

 [Original Message]
 From: Jim Cobabe [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 Date: 9/19/2003 9:12:23 AM
 Subject: RE: [ZION] working woman


 With regard to applying prophetic counsel, where is the line between
 personal prerogative and inspiration, and personal apostasy?

 2 Sam 6:6-7

 And when they came to Nachon's threshingfloor, Uzzah put forth his hand
 to the ark of God, and took hold of it; for the oxen shook it.

 And the anger of the LORD was kindled against Uzzah; and God smote him
 there for his error; and there he died by the ark of God.

 I note that in the original ark-steadying incident, it would certainly
 appear that the imperative of the moment was a more important
 consideration than any more formal rules.  When do such considerations
 assume overriding priority?

 What about testing the Lord's word?  Do we give an honest try to obeying
 prophetic counsel, then abandon that when we have decided that our
 circumstances warrant some other course of action?



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RE: [ZION] working woman

2003-09-20 Thread John W. Redelfs
Stacy Smith wrote:
I wish I could work at all.  The Department of Rehabilitation in this 
county has evaluated me and decided I am unemployable.  This is no 
laughing matter for me and has caused me much depression.  Seeing I have 
no children, employment outside the home should not have been a problem for me.
A number of years ago I was a telephone salesman, selling magazine 
advertising over the telephone.  I got really good at it after weeks of 
failure.  I'll bet a blind person could do it better than a sighted person 
because they would be more sensitive to the subtle nuances in the voice of 
both themselves and their prospective customers.  Of course some people 
don't like that kind of work.  Come to think of it, some people don't like 
any kind of work.

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RE: [ZION] working woman

2003-09-20 Thread Stacy Smith
That's not true of me.  I loved medical transcription but did not have the 
necessary speed required and the references I was able to get became out of 
date soon.  I loved it and I could learn to love something else.

Stacy.

At 08:55 AM 09/20/2003 -0800, you wrote:

Stacy Smith wrote:
I wish I could work at all.  The Department of Rehabilitation in this 
county has evaluated me and decided I am unemployable.  This is no 
laughing matter for me and has caused me much depression.  Seeing I have 
no children, employment outside the home should not have been a problem for me.
A number of years ago I was a telephone salesman, selling magazine 
advertising over the telephone.  I got really good at it after weeks of 
failure.  I'll bet a blind person could do it better than a sighted person 
because they would be more sensitive to the subtle nuances in the voice of 
both themselves and their prospective customers.  Of course some people 
don't like that kind of work.  Come to think of it, some people don't like 
any kind of work.

John W. Redelfs   [EMAIL PROTECTED]
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