Yes, I agree this is a hard problem for organisers.

 One option is to bill the food and alcohol separately, some restaurants do
this anyways

Also I find that restaurants today are fine with separate bills. One plus
point is that it discourages the freeloaders who are otherwise skilled at
making themselves scarce when the bill is presented.

Jo

On Thu, Jan 25, 2024 at 9:16 AM Udhay Shankar N via Silklist <
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>
> This is a topic that comes up every now and again. Speaking as someone who
> regularly organizes group meetups,
>
> 1. We usually split the bill evenly, because (at least as far as food is
> concerned) the entire table ends up sampling whatever is ordered.
> 2. The people I tend to meet with tend to order things which are roughly
> similar.
> 3. Liquor is where this model faces challenges. A teetotaller (or even a
> beer drinker, such as myself) might feel hard done by, if asked, on a
> regular basis, to partly subsidize someone ordering much more expensive
> spirits.
>
> The solution isn't easily achieved. At least in India, separate checks
> aren't the norm, and most POS systems aren't set up for it. Also, keeping
> track like this is a tedious and mood killing chore at the end of a
> pleasant evening.
>
> What are the thoughts of the hive mind?
>
>
> https://www.businessinsider.in/policy/economy/news/splitting-the-check-is-no-longer-restaurant-etiquette-in-2024-its-every-diner-for-themself/articleshow/107123596.cms
>
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