It gets easier, perceptibly less corruption in some key areas, pay taxes, 
electricity bills etc online and similar.  And foreign brands easily available, 
with comparable indian brands

But the ayyadurai guy was not merely maladjusted, he was arrogant and foolish 
to say the least. And exhibited behavior that would have got him fired just as 
fast stateside as he was from csir.



------Original Message------
From: Deepa Mohan
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Subject: Re: [silk] Some Indians Find It Tough to Go Home Again
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On Mon, Nov 30, 2009 at 6:03 PM, Badri Natarajan <asi...@vsnl.com> wrote:

> > t
> > t in their "home"
> > country.
>
> I agree in general, but why the quotes? The US (or wherever) *is* the home
> country for those children - no wonder they find it hard to adapt
> (although I know several people who've made the transition).
>

I used the quotes because the parents tell them they are going home, when
they relocate to India.


>
> The general points are true, but I mostly have to ask why these people are
> so surprised that it is difficult to come back - they *have* changed and
> so has India - moving countries at any level is hard.
>


I guess most expats' memories stagnate at the point where they left...with
regard to several things like population, price indices, etc..and there is
also the Rose-Tinted-Glasses Syndrome which makes them forget the stuck
lifts and the waterless taps...until they come face to face with them on
their return!

Obviously, repats who need a higher level material comforts...and their
children ...are adversely affected. Also, the common man in the US can get
the average day's chores done with not much of hassle or corruption...and
repats find the different way of getting things done (or not done) very
difficult to handle.

Deepa.


-- 
srs (blackberry)

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