Also I have had all of my "silver" fillings removed over the course of the
year (quite costly) (worth it since my migrains are gone) but they would
like to "paint" floride on at my next cleaning and I have said I am not
interested.  The hygenist said "well just give me a reason why you wouldn't
want it".  I guess saying "because I don't want it" isn't going to satisfy
them.  Any help would be appreciated.  Thanks.

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Bernadette,

It's YOUR mouth. YOU are paying THEM for their services. That they are
putting you on the spot is inappropriate-not to mention suspicious.

 

I would tell them that they don't need a reason, and that I'll see another
dentist if they don't abide by my wishes.

 

Even so, I'd think twice about going to such a dentist anyway. I'd be
concerned that they might slip things into my mouth that don't belong there,
without telling me.

 

Nenah