Brilliant! Good horse sense (or should I say bird talk) is louder than all the psych-circle talk in the world. CC
> From: Ode Coyote <[email protected]> > Reply-To: [email protected] > Date: Mon, 09 May 2005 08:20:52 -0400 > To: [email protected] > Subject: Re: CS>Re: silver-digest: Uncontrolable granddaughter > Resent-From: [email protected] > Resent-Date: Mon, 9 May 2005 06:49:16 -0700 > > When the baby bird becomes too demanding, loudly squalking that they know > everything and wants to grab all the worms...Momma bird gives baby bird a > little nudge. > Baby bird discovers what it is to fly or die. > 16 year olds can legally emancipate themselves, or a parent can > 'emancipate' them. > Squalking is a declaration of independence. > Honor it or suffer. Your choice. > > "Controlling" others is a study in frustration. > Controlling you is your only real choice. If that requires excluding > another from your peaceful environment to maintain it..as demanded..so be it. > [You can always sent em a peanut butter sandwich/tattered blanket/tent just > before they starve or freeze. Providing steak is counterproductive] > > Teanagers should run the world while they still know everything. > Old people forget in the face of reality. > > If someone insists that they're right..they are. Finding out 'how' right > is 'their' job and they'll have to do it...you can't. Your job is done. > > ...so, you want an SUV? OK cool..go buy one. End of story...go play > 'your' harp in the yard and see how well the rain keeps it in tune. > No problem. > PS Give back that old rusty trusty Toyota...I'll drive it. > > ..anyone who fucks with my head at the mall gets to walk home. [They might > find the locks changed and a sleeping bag on the door step with a 'take a > hike' note pinned to it.] > Go find another airstrip baby, you ain't flying that crap through MY head > space. [Where "I" am the traffic controller.] > > I can always love ya from a distance..and eventually will anyhow 'if and > when' you grow up. ['They' determine how far away that is and when.] > > Ya can't buy and sell love, especially with abuse as the currency. If you > accept an exchange like that..YOU'RE the turkey on a learning curve. [Gee > whiz! Step aside and let that crosswind blow by!] > > Nothing that anyone 'says' can MAKE you feel ANYTHING..unless you volunteer > victimhood. > Who's wearing a sign that says, "Kick me and MAKE me cry"? > > Well, kick ME and you'll see just how fast I'm not at the end of your foot. > [Was that a sonic boom?] > You'll look pretty stupid standing there with one foot in the air, I'll > betcha. [and nary an SUV to stand on] > Now you wanna hate me? OK, your choice. [Not something I can > control...that's YOUR headspace.] > Your game, your rules...I ain't playin. > Go have the fun that you defined for yourself. > > Ode > > At 12:57 PM 5/7/2005 -0500, you wrote: >> >> Hi, >> I have been on this list forever and make colloidal silver and this list has >> so many wise people on it that was wondering what list that I could go to >> that would help us know what to do with my granddaughter who will be 16 >> soon. It is not just being a teenager since she has always had a bad >> character. She makes my daughter miserable and she told her that she didn't >> love her or her father any more and that all she wants from them is >> financial support. They just bought another house in a upscale neighborhood, >> she said she was ashamed to have friends over to her other house. She harped >> and harped on this and now it is a suv, her other friends that have turned >> 16 have a used SUV. It's like she gets in my daughter's ear and repeats the >> same thing over and over. She is beautiful and is good in sports and makes >> good grades. My daughter teaches at the high school that she goes to. >> Last night she called my daughter at 10 PM and wanted her to come and get >> her at her friends house and she didn't do this and this morning when she >> picked her up she started in on the suv again. They had gone to a store and >> granddaughter called her a "dumb but) loud enough for people to hear. This >> is so severe that my daughter called me this morning crying and said that >> she made her so miserable that she wishes she had never been born. Her >> father is a military man and tends to ground her for long periods which >> punishes my daughter also to have her around all the time. He wanted to >> ground her last week and I got into it and told my daughter that if you are >> too strict sometimes it backfires and she begged him not to ground her, I >> probably should not have gotten into it. In the halls at the school she told >> my daughter that she wasn't going to swim practice to be a life guard and >> she told her she wasn't going and she told her she had to and granddaughter >> looked at her real mean and said Make Me. Well she did go because her father >> picked her up and took her. She doesn't mess with him and says she hates >> him. Now this is a normal family in ever other way she has two younger >> sisters and my daughter says if it wasn't for them she would think she was a >> total failure. Talking to a Psychologist would not be the thing because she >> knows it all and would not talk to him, I think she needs medication. HELP >> Sorry for this long post >> >> Mary H. >> ----- Original Message ----- >> From: <[email protected]> >> To: <[email protected]> >> Sent: Saturday, May 07, 2005 5:51 AM >> Subject: silver-digest Digest V2005 #310 >> >> >> >> -- >> The Silver List is a moderated forum for discussing Colloidal Silver. >> >> Instructions for unsubscribing are posted at: http://silverlist.org >> >> To post, address your message to: [email protected] >> Silver List archive: http://escribe.com/health/thesilverlist/index.html >> >> Address Off-Topic messages to: [email protected] >> OT Archive: http://escribe.com/health/silverofftopiclist/index.html >> >> List maintainer: Mike Devour <[email protected]> >> >> >> >> >> -- >> No virus found in this incoming message. >> Checked by AVG Anti-Virus. >> Version: 7.0.308 / Virus Database: 266.11.6 - Release Date: 5/6/2005 >> >> > > > -- > No virus found in this outgoing message. > Checked by AVG Anti-Virus. > Version: 7.0.308 / Virus Database: 266.11.7 - Release Date: 5/9/2005 > >
