And everyone has baggage. Heck, I have the whole tourister line of luggage I think...LOL...but hey..that is me...the whole package...and either you take me as I am...baggage and all..or forget it.
Laurie --- Greg Hopper <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > Ditto..... > > If you don't take the "baggage" into account and > deal with it before hand, > your asking for trouble later. Thinking there is no > "baggage" is just > begging for trouble..... > > ----- Original Message ----- > From: "Laurie" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > To: "The Sandbox Discussion List" > <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > Sent: Tuesday, October 07, 2003 10:51 AM > Subject: Re: [Sndbox] 2nd Wives > > > > It has some merit..but the people involved have to > > realize that these people did not start to exist > the > > day that they go together. That there were others > in > > their past and in a lot of cases will always be > there. > > The mother of the child is not going to disappear > and > > it is better if they can all work together for the > > betterment of the family as a whole. The child > will > > play the parents against each other, and the dad > > against the new wife if they can..and that has to > be > > addressed as well. > > > > but if the union is strong and the people involved > > realize the pitfalls and work to maintain the > > relationship, it will survive. Too many times > people > > go into a new relationship with demands based on > an > > old one...and not realistically dealing with the > new > > person as that...a new person...not without all > that > > crap that the last person threw at them. > > > > Laurie > > > > ________________________________ > > Changes to your subscription (unsubs, nomail, > digest) can be made by going to > http://sandboxmail.net/mailman/listinfo/sndbox_sandboxmail.net ===== I wanted a perfect ending... Now, I've learned, the hard way, that some poems don't rhyme, and some stories don't have a clear beginning, middle, and end. Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment, and making the best of it, without knowing what's going to happen next. Delicious ambiguity. --Gilda Radner __________________________________ Do you Yahoo!? The New Yahoo! Shopping - with improved product search http://shopping.yahoo.com ________________________________ Changes to your subscription (unsubs, nomail, digest) can be made by going to http://sandboxmail.net/mailman/listinfo/sndbox_sandboxmail.net
