On Oct 11, 2008, at 9:40 PM, Jack Dylan wrote: > I'm still open to the idea, but I'm not convinced about any big > improvement > that the man will make by learning to dance the woman's role.
Specifically: If you experience the movements of the follower, you feel what she does inside her body and you will find it far easier to figure out how to lead those movements. Leading another person well is a very deep experience, like a martial arts. Doing it yourself is extremely enlightening. That's the main benefit. There are a number of other reasons. For example - The follower learns technique sooner than the leader. - By following you feel what you are supposed to feel like. If you are dead set against it for ideological or psychological reasons... well, fine. You don't have to anything you don't want to. I'm just telling you what is extremely obvious to me. Tom Stermitz http://www.tango.org Denver, CO 80207 _______________________________________________ Tango-L mailing list [email protected] http://mailman.mit.edu/mailman/listinfo/tango-l
