Being there for others during both good and challenging times can strengthen your relationship. Offering support, encouragement, and reassurance shows that you care about their well-being and are willing to help them through difficult situations.(J) KR Being there is a term which holds a wide meaning; Paramatma is the only being there. All others are in a drama stage where they come and go. Who is there when a young girl in a village gets harmed by rogues?. All are there; but they are being there only after her loss; so being there is of no consequence. One who is there, when he is assured that he will not be harmed, IS NEVER EVER BEING THERE AT ALL. Dialogues are too many in all cultures; but real action with the courage as knight does is wholly missing. Consoling is not being there. Being there is like Krishna to Arjunan; when HE gets down the chariot of Arjun crumbled to pieces; that was being there. A mother holding the child is there. One who has no backbones to face courageously in prevention of any incident of disrepute ,by holding others shoulders later, is depicting only his cowardice, cloaked by a dagger behind , smiling surreptitiously. One who talks dharma about Patni behind the ears of Rama is not a person of good culture, however hard he speaks over Dharma clandestinely. The sad part of everyone is, those who acted smart ,in front of adhama, were hit hard in their life later, when they cried, loud for help, when there was no one with them. On the contrary, one who dies for dharma becomes a mumukshu or a great birth in future or a history in presenti. It is not a number but it is the will to defend. We have lacked it since 1600AD for a few gold coins and so we have no voice to say be there I Am with you . History hence speaks only about a few and the whole rest reads them. KR IRS 31 8 23
On Thu, 31 Aug 2023 at 04:45, Jambunathan Iyer <[email protected]> wrote: > Being there for others during both good and challenging times can > strengthen your relationship. Offering support, encouragement, and > reassurance shows that you care about their well-being and are willing to > help them through difficult situations. > > N Jambunathan Rengarajapuram-Kodambakkam-Chennai-Mob:9176159004 > > *" What you get by achieving your goals is not as important as what you > become by achieving your goals. If you want to live a happy life, tie it to > a goal, not to people or things "* > > -- You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "Thatha_Patty" group. To unsubscribe from this group and stop receiving emails from it, send an email to [email protected]. To view this discussion on the web visit https://groups.google.com/d/msgid/thatha_patty/CAL5XZoq5%3DuTxGcYQi2xec5RwtNLtacvqY90Zvx_yWPH8DbNdLw%40mail.gmail.com.
