Respected Mr Rajaram,
Except the Thatha patti group, where minimum age of a member is fixed at 55, 
Kerala iyers and iyer 123 have members from age of 18 years. 

Gopalakrishnan

    On Thursday, 21 March, 2024 at 12:30:42 am IST, Rajaram Krishnamurthy 
<[email protected]> wrote:  
 
 
CULTURAL QA 03202420

G    I am only acompiler.  

KR:     In a broadercontext outside of software development, the term 
"compiler"typically does not refer to a software tool. Instead, it may denote a 
person orentity that compiles or gathers information, data, or resources from 
varioussources to create a comprehensive or organized collection.1 sources must 
bemany not just a Quora; 2 information, data, or resources must be authentic 
andnot riff raff jugglery. 3 shall be gathered, means verification of 
fact’ssifted from the chaff; and 4 chaff with taken out and placed on plate 
isserving food to others while he does not know anything about the 
cooking-namedas a server; from one server to another. So, a server cannot be 
blamed for thecooking.             KR IRS 21324 

Q1      Do you owemoney to friends or family?

G    My note- Evenafter children birth, I had to take loans from friends and 
staff members,having no more gold to pledge and promptly returned. I have 
availed allpossible loans from department, banks and promptly repaid. I had to 
pledge goldand take loans even to send my son abroad. I could settle only after 
heremitted his savings from salary for two months. Then onwards no loans  till 
my Home was built in Chennai. Againloans  and all cleared only about 2 
yearsback. For a middle class central Government employee, where salary was 
notsufficient to meet both ends meet, loans are inevitable.

KR     I wanted topass off; but these comments drew me in; yes, it is true; not 
only govtemployee; every 66&2/3% minimum and 80% maximum, are in that status 
only,not only in India but even abroad, including his son and many 
nations,including USA also, hence credit cards were devised out. The policy of 
the Britishwas to keep employees under begging status, as they shall not think 
anythingmore than that; that was once. Later it became a management rick and 
policy ofGovt to collect taxes. My Grandfather Was also employed in his spare 
time whichbrought him then a salary of Rs 100 pm. Then Gold rate was 8 rupee a 
sovereign. He bought 8 sovereigns almost 4 to 5times aa year. And he had 10 
velis of agriculture along Cauvery. So, food andshelter was fixed. Dress code 
was only a dhothi and towel. Entertainment wassat Sangam, temple and pujas. 
Arattai and cards. Any wedding was a greatgathering. So, a simple life and 
roughly 30 to 40 sov a year as savings. So whywe went under debt? Because we 
threw the ownership of Bhumi and ran away from. 

      Now wrt thatstory, it is quite normal; what is wrong if someone says that 
he or she savedhis prestige? 101 members of the family and friends in 100 
families will onlytalk; beggars cannot be choosers; what words he would have 
uttered when he tookthe money? Forgot to write? Every good thing must be 
appreciated right on face;but we do apricate the dead and media and FB. In 
another corner of Quora, thesame story could appear as a great deed rendered by 
her etc. 

Q3      How canAsian people eat rice three times a day?

KR   This is a stupid question. In the north oncebarley was food; wheat is now; 
bread in Europe was once; so, in keralam the tapioca;eskimos ate only fish; 
food is a habit of the season and geography and askinghow etc is an immature 
Woodhead. Even medicine was only what was around yourarea. Because we shifted 
gear as these wrong questioners to eat all, we landedin so many diseases as DNA 
takes 7 generations to adopted ayur vedam says. 

Q4      What aresome dark lessons that life showed you?

KR    Babu Nath sermon and how old is he?

Your close friends might end up betraying you.

KR      what you sow,so you reap; nandrum theethum piror thara Vara. Babu 
showed who is he. 

Overthinking can harm your happiness, take care of yourmental well-being.

KR      ENNITHTHUNIGA KARUMAM  THUNINDA PIN

          Ennuam enbhadhuizukku Tirukkural 

     What is thedefinition of over thinking? Beyond SIX BALLS? There is only 
thinking dependingon the individual and subject; Karanam, kaaranam and kartha. 
So what is meantabove is don’t think jump into action and die? 

Don't get too attached to everyone, some don't deserve it.

KR      why he says that/; BG said it 5000 yrs back. 

You have to save yourself, don't rely on others to rescueyou.

KR     Undoubtedly adependent is a shame. But an unconscious  will only drown 
unless dependent on others to be saved. 

Believe in yourself, don't always listen to others'opinions.

KR    repetitive as above.

Be financially independent and work hard for what youneed.

KR   how one willwithout depending on someone financially to change as self- 
possessed. Withoutladder one cannot step up ; walking on the wall is not that 
easy. 

Your so-called family may actually wish for your failure.

KR       He is apervert

Storms in life are temporary, the sun always shines again.

KR      Where do theSUN go during the storm? you closed your eyes because of 
wind and dirt; not theSUN; Sun is always there

Be assertive and stand up for yourself, know your rights.

KR      And sir yourduty first and then only right

Find joy in the little things and do what makes you happy.

KR         Joy is adesire and option; so one must decide his limitations. 

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From: 'gopala krishnan' via KeralaIyers <[email protected]>
Date: Tue, 19 Mar 2024 at 20:53
Subject: [KeralaIyers] CULTURAL QA 03-2024-20
To: Patty Thatha <[email protected]>, Kerala Iyer 
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CULTURALQA 03-2024-20

Allthe below   QA are from QUORA DIGEST tome on   20-03-2024. 

SelectedQuora answers by scholars generally interesting are included. Still 
they need not be 100%correct answers. Goodjokes are also included.

Iam only a compiler.  Compiled and postedby R Gopalakrishnan, 80, on 20-3-2024 

Q1      Do you owemoney to friends or family?

A1      AnilRoongta, Former Member at Consumer Court 14h

My father used to narrate one incident. In mid 1960s,my aunt (father’s younger 
sister) was getting married. My father had arrangedeverything and he was 
bearing all the expenses. He had joined civil servicesfive years back and he 
hadn’t that much of savings with him. He managedsomehow.

The marriage took place in our village. On theevening of the wedding ceremony, 
groom’s father told my father that he wanted acash dowry of 5100/-. My father 
was in a fix. He didn’t have that kind ofmoney. He approached one of his uncles 
who was a rich person and asked him tolend him the money. That uncle 
immediately arranged the money and the weddingceremony took place.

A few months later, that uncle’s wife (my father’saunt) in a gathering boasted 
“If my husband hadn’t given money to so and so,his sister’s marriage hadn’t 
happened).” This remark was in very bad taste andnobody liked it.

My father said that after that day he vowed tohimself that he wouldn’t borrow 
from anyone in his life and he did that. Helived within his means and never 
ever took any kind of loan from anyone.

And he inculcated that habit in his children. I havealso followed it. I don’t 
owe any kind of money to anyone.

My note- Even after children birth, I had to take loans from friends and 
staffmembers, having no more gold to pledge and promptly returned. I have 
availedall possible loans from department, banks and promptly repaid. I had to 
pledgegold and take loans even to send my son abroad. I could settle only after 
heremitted his savings from salary for two months. Then onwards no loans  till 
my Home was built in Chennai. Againloans  and all cleared only about 2 
yearsback. 

For a middle class central Government employee, wheresalary was not sufficient 
to meet both ends meet, loans are inevitable. 

Q2      What are someof the greatest examples of presence of mind?

A2      PrachiSinha, MBA from Indian Institute of Technology, Delhi Updated 4y

One day some of my dad's friends came to our house(uninvited). My dad welcomed 
them and spontaneously asked me to serve something for them to eat(forgetting 
that kitchen has always been a very rarely visited place for me).

I looked for biscuit, namkeen but couldn't findanything. I have a younger 
sister and (as per our mom) both of us never leaveanything for the guests. We 
are scolded by mom innumerable times for this butwe just can't control 
ourselves from hogging the cookies until the damn packetis over.

So as usual, there was nothing at home.I lookedaround searchingly and found 
this:

I mixed chilled water and Eno. I let the fizz go and servedthem in glasses. I 
went to the living room with self prepared drinks for them.My dad and his 
friends were discussing something deeply, completely engrossedin the 
conversations.

I served them.They took a sip.

And…..Then they took another sip and continued thediscussion.

I can't tell how happy and proud I was about myself!;)

My note- “ Eno isIndia's No. 1 Antacid Brand. Eno Regular Antacid Sachet is 
used for the symptomatic relief of acidity, heartburn,acid indigestion, sour 
stomach and an upset stomach. Eno Regular Antacidprovides fast relief from 
acidity & gets to work in 6 secs by neutralisingexcess stomach acid” Google 
search result.

 

Q3      How can Asianpeople eat rice three times a day?

A3      Ben A.Wise,I've spent almost a decade living in India Updated 6y

Before I came to India, this is what I saw in my mindwhen I thought about rice:

That’s right. Good ‘ole semi-sticky white grains indesperate need of gravy. 
Fascinating stuff, right?

After I lived in Tamil Nadu, India, my rice-relatedvocabulary… expanded.

Reader, meet Idli and Dosai. Idli and Dosai, meetReader. Good. Now that you’re 
all acquainted, let me tell you what you’ve beenmissing.

These are made from a batter of fermented rice andlentils that is either 
steamed or fried.

They are gloriously good. Tongue-gasmically good.They are 
hold-on-a-second-while-I-look-at-flight-tickets-to-Chennai good.

They are accompanied by a chutney, usually made fromeither tomato or coconut, 
as well as a lentil-and-vegetable stew called sambar.

All three accompaniments singe your tongue with theaddictive goodness of chili 
and curry leaves and smoky mustard seeds andfenugreek. They explode their 
tangy-salty-pungent flavors in your mouth untilyou beg for more.

Also, dear Reader, please meet Tomato Rice, CurdRice, and Lemon Rice. Yup, 
shake hands again. Good.

Remember that first image of white rice? Well, Mr.Bland Grain has just 
undergone a badass metamorphosis into the Holy Trinity ofGoodness.

The sourness of lime-laced lemon rice, the coolcreaminess of curd rice, that 
tangy-spicy-saltiness of tomato rice…

*Must not book ticket to Chennai. Must not bookticket to Chennai. Must stay at 
home with family and work*

Ah.What was the question about?

Ah yes, how can Asians eat rice three times a day.Ithink we’ve pretty much 
covered that…

Q4      What are somedark lessons that life showed you?

A3      ChauhanBabu nath,Mar 6

Your close friends might end up betraying you.

Overthinkingcan harm your happiness, take care of your mental well-being.

Don't get too attached to everyone, some don'tdeserve it.

You have to save yourself, don't rely on others torescue you.

Believe in yourself, don't always listen to others'opinions.

Be financially independent and work hard for what youneed.

Your so-called family may actually wish for yourfailure.

Storms in life are temporary, the sun always shinesagain.

Be assertive and stand up for yourself, know yourrights.

Find joy in the little things and do what makes youhappy.

Q5      What is thebest joke about engineers that very few people have heard?

A5      RachitPandey,Entrepreneur, Mentor and a larger than life guy :)1y

A woman in a hot air balloon realized she was lost.She reduced altitude and 
spotted a man below.

She descended abit more and shouted, "Excuse me, can you help me? I promised a 
friend I would meet himan hour ago but I don't know where I am."

The man belowreplied "You're in a hot air balloon hovering approximately 30 
feet above the ground.You're between 40 and 41 degrees north latitude and 
between 59 and 60 degreeswest longitude."

"You must be an engineer," said the balloonist.

"I am", replied the man."How did you know?"

"Well, answered the balloonist, "everythingyou told me is technically correct, 
but I've no idea what to make of yourinformation, and the fact is I'mstill 
lost. Frankly, you've not been much help at all. If anything,you've delayed my 
trip even more."

The man below responded, "You must be inmanagement."

"I am," replied the balloonist, "buthow did you know?"

"Well," said the man, "You don't know where you are or whereyou're going. You 
have risen to where you are due to a large quantity ofhot air. You made a 
promise which you've no idea how to keep, and you expect people beneath you 
tosolve your problems?!!"



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