Very interesting article Allen.  I don't think "George" was teasing "Mary"
in this scene, but your explanation as to what might be going on this
scene from the movie is, I have to admit, more parsimonious than mine.

What the article says about teasing vs. bullying is really quite
interesting.  Excellent points.

Michael


> On December 2008 Michael Britt wrote re "It's a Wonderful Life":
>> Okay, how's this for Reaction Formation: remember the scene
>> where George goes to Mary's house (before they are married)?
>> We know he's in love with Mary but at first he pretends not to
>> care for her.  In fact, he's even a little bit rude to her.  Then they
>> get that telephone call (from that rich character whose name
>> I forget) and by the end of the call Mary and George are kissing.
>> What do you think - the rudeness was reaction formation?
>
> Or maybe it was just teasing:
>
> "As they departed in sex-segregated lines, my daughters stood transfixed.
> Serafina asked me, 'Why did that girl try to put the crab in the boy's
> pants?' 'Because she likes him,' I responded. This was an explanation
> Serafina and her older sister, Natalie, only partly understood. What I
> witnessed might be called 'the teasing gap'."
>
> http://tinyurl.com/6oszr8
>
> Allen Esterson
> Former lecturer, Science Department
> Southwark College, London
> http://www.esterson.org
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