I just suggest that everyone view that scene again (or possibly for the first 
time). From a verbal description, I am sure many of those explanations could 
apply but it really isn't a case of the hero and heroine not being able to 
stand one another. She actually really likes him and he likes her but he 
doesn't want to get stuck in this small town forever. He wants to see the world 
and his mom (of all the Freudian possibilities) is trying to get him to go down 
and see Mary. It is also humorous the way that Mary's mom is pulling for her to 
marry the rich guy who is calling. It is quite a complex scene with George 
falling in love against his will. I wouldn't classify it as one of the many "I 
hate you, I hate you, I hate you, I love you" story lines but he does say he 
doesn't want to marry her because, I believe, he sees her as a symbol of him 
being stuck in this hick town forever and he wants to see the world (which he 
never does). I don't know if it is an excellent example of a reaction formation 
but I wouldn't hesitate to use it as discussion fodder if you wanted to discuss 
the concept of reaction formation. It is not a very long scene and it really is 
a classic.

Rick

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Sent: Thursday, December 11, 2008 10:08 PM
To: Teaching in the Psychological Sciences (TIPS)
Subject: Re: [tips] It's A Wonderful Freudian Life

Michael Britt first made this comment about
 "It's a Wonderful Life":

> Okay, how's this for Reaction Formation: remember the scene
> where George goes to Mary's house (before they are married)?
> We know he's in love with Mary but at first he pretends not to
> care for her.  In fact, he's even a little bit rude to her.  Then they
> get that telephone call (from that rich character whose name
> I forget) and by the end of the call Mary and George are kissing.

to which Allen Esterson contributed:

> But from Michael's description my first thought was that George's initial
> behaviour could be put down to nervousness. (Some young people in that kind
> of situation shy away from revealing their true feelings, presumably to
> avoid possible rejection.)

And to which I demur:

Such a scenario has little to do either with reaction formation  or
reality. It's a well-worn literary device, standard fare in countless
books and films that the hero and heroine first can't stand each other,
and then they can (and how!). Cases in point:  _Pride and Prejudice_,
_Anne of Green Gables_ and, of course, _The African Queen_.

Stephen

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