Janet,
As a mother, I can not imagine the pain you are going through.     I have not 
heard of this happening, but have asked my neuro if this was possible-thinking 
of my
36-year old daughter.     He said that he has not heard of that happening and 
saw no reason why it would happen.    Wait til I talk to him again!     Just 
remember,
we are ALWAYS here for you and certainly thinking about and praying for you 
both.      I am so very sorry.

Is he on any pain meds now?    If not, because of no diagnoses until now, they 
should be able to help him out there.     I just don't know what to say - sure 
would
love to give you a huge hug!      Please use us.
Janice


From: Janet Dunn 
Sent: Thursday, May 06, 2010 11:30 AM
To: 'Transverse Myelytis' 
Subject: [TMIC] My Son


 

Hello  all you fellow TM'rs.

 

It is with such a heavy heart, and with tears rolling down my face that I write 
this.  

 

My 15 year old son, who has struggled with his legs for a year now, 
undiagnosed, has finally been diagnosed.  While it is not life threatening, it 
is TM.  

 

I am so sad.  I do not know what to think.  When I was diagnosed he is the only 
child of my four that asked if it was hereditary, and I said no.  He replied 
"Good, then I won't get it." 

 

Now they strongly think he has it.  I am so sad.  So hurt - probably angry if I 
allow that emotion.  I worry about his future.  I know he can be productive, 
but really - two people in the same family having this beast of a disease?  
What are the chances?

 

The only common denominator, other than the gene pool, is that he was in the 
same vehicle accident that I was in 8 years ago.  And he was on the same side 
of the truck that I was on, in the back seat.  Why so long to manifest?  I 
don't know.  He has seen me and my trials, so he knows what is ahead.  

 

Does anyone know if this beastly condition can be hereditary?  He is already 
talking about not having children in case it is.  

 

I am so sad, so discouraged.  I know that he is lucky - he can walk with a cane 
- for that I am thankful.  He has not gone to school for a year because of the 
pain, and the exhaustion.  I know that Tracy out there has an eleven year old 
daughter with it.  I am just wondering if anyone else has two family members 
afflicted with this thing? 

 

I simply cannot stop the tears.  It is one thing for me, at 47, to face life 
with this, but to have my son have it too, at 15 is almost too much.

 

Thanks for listening.

 

Janet

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