Thnks on ur thoughts Suresh. Some positive boost....and a more healthy way of looking at things.
:) Divya --- In [email protected], suresh <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > Team, > > this is the process of evolution. > > We began simply with an attitude to help , To help anybody and everybody. Now we are talking about not just helping , but helping them > to be independent; > to value the help; > to extend this help to others; > > Had we not have faced this situation, we would not have thought about our approach (most likely) , so i guess its a learning process and it just goes to show we are quick learners :-). > > Take the example of krishna. He started out helping sireesha literally all by himself. Now he ended up teaching the parents to face the interviews, giving sireesha the hope , the confidence to sireesha's parents and most importantly succesfull in getting the sponsorer's for sireesha's treatment. > > This just prooves that we could help sireesha and kids like her , by referring her to other sponsorers, help their parents to be more responsible. It needs more time, more efforts .... but less money :-) > > more thoughts, more discussions ..... A HEALTHY GROUP > > cheers > Suresh > > divyapryga <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: Hey Raghu... :) > > Thnks for ur quick reply. I am hopeful of wht u said about next > generations...and soo like the example of the doctor :D I shall work > on getting smart on that score rightaway and talk to Prasanthi about > it..since it is her mostly who deals with these ppl directly. > > Totally agree on what u said. My thoughts were pretty much more or > less on those lines...but I must admit,I lacked in comparison the hope > n confidence u shared about future generations. I guess I am a more > today person...like we have today in hand...and we are trying to save > as many as we can today. Looking beyond that is definitely good. If we > could make a difference for tomorrows' generation....from my end..more > than mission accomplished. (But..whether it be today or tomorrow..I > hate the idea of sum1 just kewlly taking advantage of us). > > My brain is analysing the doctor statement right now..and enjoying it > infact :D > > Btw...welcome to the group :) I can c that we have a wise mind > checking in already. By what u wrote..I am sure we will have you as a > valuable addition in our group. > > Just to let u know...we are a good combination of all kinds of brains > here. A colorful cocktail of Some Wise...Some Marketing...Some > Smart...Some Intelligent...Some Hardworking...Some Emotional...Some > Super Practical and a good collection of Some LAZYBOY's. Will be fun > working with us on projects. > > Cheers! > Divya > > --- In [email protected], raghu vamsi > <raghugvamsi@> wrote: > > > > Divya, > > > > If you are in a problem, try to think from other's perspective. > Let me mention it clear. Let me be Raju's Father. If I am in trouble > and if I know that there is a way in solving this problem, my mind > will never think for any other alternatives. First try this out and > then if this doesn't work, then think for other options. > > > > In this situation, Raju's Father, when needed some money, will > definitely come to us for help, bcos he know that we will help and he > did the same. Nothing wrong in this. > > > > Being a member of MAD, wanted to make a difference, we should > change the approach when looking forward on a long run. Let me > explain, A doctor when he sees a patient, he can estimate the > situation of the patient but will not put it in his face, he will keep > smiling and tells the bad news. We should learn many a things from here. > > > > When ever we are approached with a case (Sorry to mention a needy > with this terminology, but as an example), yes, we feel sorry for > that, but should not expose what we are thinking about that. We should > make the people think, who approached us, about our constraints. > > > > Raju's Father, if he is good at analyzing people, can easily > understand that if we approach these youngsters crying, they will help > us. We should first make sure that these assumptions should not be > inbuilt within the people. > > > > This will come with the experience, from ur mail, as we are > buddies, we may face problems like these for some time but on long run > these problems will not remain. > > > > I Strongly feel that we should not think about how much to help, > when to Stop. But we should concentrate on what are the effective ways > to make people believe in their selves not on others. We should try to > attain that, and am sure one day we can achieve it. > > > > Divya, lastly i would like to say, even if raju's Father tries to > cheat us, the next generation where another Raju will be in place of > father, he will never cheat, means we had Made A Difference. That's it. > > > > Regards, > > Raghu > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > Jiyo cricket on Yahoo! India cricket > > Yahoo! Messenger Mobile Stay in touch with your buddies all the time. > > > > > > > > > > > > When you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it. > > ------------------------------------------------------------------- > Related Link: http://geocities.com/dokkuface4 > Post message: [email protected] > Subscribe: [EMAIL PROTECTED] > List owner: [EMAIL PROTECTED] > > > > > --------------------------------- > YAHOO! GROUPS LINKS > > > Visit your group "tomakeadifference" on the web. > > To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: > [EMAIL PROTECTED] > > Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to the Yahoo! Terms of Service. > > > --------------------------------- > > > > > > I am only one, but still I am one. I cannot do everything, but still i can do something. I will not refuse to do something I can do . 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