Hi Friends, Sorry for responding lately.
Below are the reasons to help raju monthly: 1.Raju was operated on oct 13th 2005 in mahaveer hospitals. Hope all of you know abt that. Intially when prasanthi took up the case, we came to know that they require 4 to 5 lakhs for operation and post operation medical expenses upto one year. CM has released 40k and from other sources they got 60k. Prasanthi said we should collect atleast 1 lakh. With prasanthi countless efforts she could find good people like you all and mobilise funds say 1,73,600/-. For operation itself they have payed 1,70,000/-. For dialysis twice a month and for medical expenses they have utilised the rest of the amt. Raju's father didnt asked money upto March 17th 2006 as he has money to pay medical bill and tests. This shows his honesty and truthfulness. Raju has fainted in lift, they have no money and there is no option for him unless our group. So he called prasanthi..as she is busy she asked him to call me. We helped. Raju's father says they borrowed the money through all the sources they has and now there is no chance to get money. So they are seeking our group help for another 6 months. Montly it will be around 15000 to 18000 per month. This is genuine case and we all should understand their problems and we all should help raju for another 6 months. There are some different cases we have faced in our earlier activities. For Example..when we took asma case, very few are there in group and there are less funds. Asma's father is drinker and used most of the amount got from eenadu helpline. Thru carehospital help we got less bills. We promised to help them rs.1000 every month upto one year. But they bought only rs.300 for charges and the rest amount paid by our group for asma's medicines and their travel expenses. When ever they come for monthly check up for 6 months, i used to scold them to get money for their travel expenses so that we can give more medical help for asma. They got 25k from eenadu helpline. 75% of the amt was used for his drinking. I used to scold him not to drink. he is having 4 children. His wife is innocent and she cries to help asma and sponser education for other 3 children. i thought of seeking syam garu's help. But after 6 months there was no response from them. I tryed their phone numbers, i came to know that they have borrowed some more amt and left that place and many stories.. I didnt even tell to prasanthi also...as she might get depressed. Here in raju's case, it is different...there is a real need and necessity ...we all can understand. 2.There is another case ravi...He is from a poor family. he got good percentage in lawcet and he has no money for his studies. Srinivas Turlapati, TeluguPeople.com user from UK had come up and promised to pay every year school fees. when we spoke to ravi, he said he needs for monthly expnenses to study in hyd. Our group suggested to take tutions in night times and use that money. Sneha garu offered to pay montly if he tell tutions for their children. He came once to TP office. I suggested to take tutions who are near to their uncle's home. Till date he didnt seeked our help. he is getting some amt from tutions and other sources. There are many people like Bhardwaj garu, ananth garu who are silently helping for studies those who are in need... Above all are my experiences. I couldnt write proper english but hope all can understand my feelings. Raju's father left his job 9 months back/ so there is no other source of funds. Now our group size has increased and if necessary we should find more people who can help. There are many organisations which has funds but they dont have the right cause to spend. Syam garu will speak to kinnera foundation and he might help partly for sirisha's care. Iam sorry if i say anything wrong. Thanks for all the members who joined this group and thanks for their contributions and time. Due to work pressure i couldnt spend more time. Regards, chandra. --- divyapryga <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > Hey Raghu... :) > > Thnks for ur quick reply. I am hopeful of wht u said > about next > generations...and soo like the example of the doctor > :D I shall work > on getting smart on that score rightaway and talk to > Prasanthi about > it..since it is her mostly who deals with these ppl > directly. > > Totally agree on what u said. My thoughts were > pretty much more or > less on those lines...but I must admit,I lacked in > comparison the hope > n confidence u shared about future generations. I > guess I am a more > today person...like we have today in hand...and we > are trying to save > as many as we can today. Looking beyond that is > definitely good. If we > could make a difference for tomorrows' > generation....from my end..more > than mission accomplished. (But..whether it be today > or tomorrow..I > hate the idea of sum1 just kewlly taking advantage > of us). > > My brain is analysing the doctor statement right > now..and enjoying it > infact :D > > Btw...welcome to the group :) I can c that we have a > wise mind > checking in already. By what u wrote..I am sure we > will have you as a > valuable addition in our group. > > Just to let u know...we are a good combination of > all kinds of brains > here. A colorful cocktail of Some Wise...Some > Marketing...Some > Smart...Some Intelligent...Some Hardworking...Some > Emotional...Some > Super Practical and a good collection of Some > LAZYBOY's. Will be fun > working with us on projects. > > Cheers! > Divya > > --- In [email protected], raghu > vamsi > <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > > > Divya, > > > > If you are in a problem, try to think from > other's perspective. > Let me mention it clear. Let me be Raju's Father. If > I am in trouble > and if I know that there is a way in solving this > problem, my mind > will never think for any other alternatives. First > try this out and > then if this doesn't work, then think for other > options. > > > > In this situation, Raju's Father, when needed > some money, will > definitely come to us for help, bcos he know that we > will help and he > did the same. Nothing wrong in this. > > > > Being a member of MAD, wanted to make a > difference, we should > change the approach when looking forward on a long > run. Let me > explain, A doctor when he sees a patient, he can > estimate the > situation of the patient but will not put it in his > face, he will keep > smiling and tells the bad news. We should learn many > a things from here. > > > > When ever we are approached with a case (Sorry > to mention a needy > with this terminology, but as an example), yes, we > feel sorry for > that, but should not expose what we are thinking > about that. We should > make the people think, who approached us, about our > constraints. > > > > Raju's Father, if he is good at analyzing > people, can easily > understand that if we approach these youngsters > crying, they will help > us. We should first make sure that these assumptions > should not be > inbuilt within the people. > > > > This will come with the experience, from ur > mail, as we are > buddies, we may face problems like these for some > time but on long run > these problems will not remain. > > > > I Strongly feel that we should not think about > how much to help, > when to Stop. But we should concentrate on what are > the effective ways > to make people believe in their selves not on > others. We should try to > attain that, and am sure one day we can achieve it. > > > > Divya, lastly i would like to say, even if > raju's Father tries to > cheat us, the next generation where another Raju > will be in place of > father, he will never cheat, means we had Made A > Difference. That's it. > > > > Regards, > > Raghu > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > Jiyo cricket on Yahoo! India cricket > > Yahoo! Messenger Mobile Stay in touch with your > buddies all the time. > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ Do You Yahoo!? Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com
