Hey Raghu... :) Thnks for ur quick reply. I am hopeful of wht u said about next generations...and soo like the example of the doctor :D I shall work on getting smart on that score rightaway and talk to Prasanthi about it..since it is her mostly who deals with these ppl directly.
Totally agree on what u said. My thoughts were pretty much more or less on those lines...but I must admit,I lacked in comparison the hope n confidence u shared about future generations. I guess I am a more today person...like we have today in hand...and we are trying to save as many as we can today. Looking beyond that is definitely good. If we could make a difference for tomorrows' generation....from my end..more than mission accomplished. (But..whether it be today or tomorrow..I hate the idea of sum1 just kewlly taking advantage of us). My brain is analysing the doctor statement right now..and enjoying it infact :D Btw...welcome to the group :) I can c that we have a wise mind checking in already. By what u wrote..I am sure we will have you as a valuable addition in our group. Just to let u know...we are a good combination of all kinds of brains here. A colorful cocktail of Some Wise...Some Marketing...Some Smart...Some Intelligent...Some Hardworking...Some Emotional...Some Super Practical and a good collection of Some LAZYBOY's. Will be fun working with us on projects. Cheers! Divya --- In [email protected], raghu vamsi <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > Divya, > > If you are in a problem, try to think from other's perspective. Let me mention it clear. Let me be Raju's Father. If I am in trouble and if I know that there is a way in solving this problem, my mind will never think for any other alternatives. First try this out and then if this doesn't work, then think for other options. > > In this situation, Raju's Father, when needed some money, will definitely come to us for help, bcos he know that we will help and he did the same. Nothing wrong in this. > > Being a member of MAD, wanted to make a difference, we should change the approach when looking forward on a long run. Let me explain, A doctor when he sees a patient, he can estimate the situation of the patient but will not put it in his face, he will keep smiling and tells the bad news. We should learn many a things from here. > > When ever we are approached with a case (Sorry to mention a needy with this terminology, but as an example), yes, we feel sorry for that, but should not expose what we are thinking about that. We should make the people think, who approached us, about our constraints. > > Raju's Father, if he is good at analyzing people, can easily understand that if we approach these youngsters crying, they will help us. We should first make sure that these assumptions should not be inbuilt within the people. > > This will come with the experience, from ur mail, as we are buddies, we may face problems like these for some time but on long run these problems will not remain. > > I Strongly feel that we should not think about how much to help, when to Stop. But we should concentrate on what are the effective ways to make people believe in their selves not on others. We should try to attain that, and am sure one day we can achieve it. > > Divya, lastly i would like to say, even if raju's Father tries to cheat us, the next generation where another Raju will be in place of father, he will never cheat, means we had Made A Difference. That's it. > > Regards, > Raghu > > > --------------------------------- > Jiyo cricket on Yahoo! India cricket > Yahoo! Messenger Mobile Stay in touch with your buddies all the time. >
