Hey Prasanthi.. Hmm.....OK!! My way of doing things:
We cannot say NO...like I always said...it wont make sense letting his life go down the drain now. So..not paying is out of the qn. First....find out if he is speaking the truth. Whichever doctor it is who is dealing with Raju...get his no..call him and ask him every thing about the scenario. How long Raju has to be on these medications..the names again and so on. DONOT GIVE CASH!! Buy the medications from a closeby medical store. Also donot give the medications in bulk. Medicines can always be sold back to any other store for money..if not its full price. Just being cautious here...and not attempting to throw stones at a fathers' feeling towards his child or so. Mr. Rajus' dad has to really work !!! HIGH TIME. Is there any work that we could make him do in Telugupeople.com Office?? PLEASE DONOT BE SUPER LENIENT WITH THIS MAN. Given all the benefit of his words..he still needs to get back to work. We must find him a job. If he works directly under us...we can watch him too. Or...is there any shop or business of anykind...where upon our request and the fact that it is against a social cause...someone or some organisation can give this guy some job?? We have to explore all the possibilities. I really wouldnt' give him a option that he lives sumwhr els and cannot live in hyd to work. This cannot go on long as it is going on now. He asks for money saying some reason and we keep giving it I mean. May be u can first try talking to all the business in the same complex where tp.com office is...or its neighbouring places. Please donot think of investing some more money and help him open a business. I have a gutt feeling it wont' work. I donot like the statement that there is no work. There is always work and need for labour somewhere. One has to go try find it. At that one place where he worked initially there is now work doesnt mean there isnt' any anywhr else. I donot care if ppl are phd's or university rankers in their house. Of what good is one's education if it cannot come of use in times of grave need???? Talk to Raju once if possible. If its stright face to face..even better..since we can read the face aswell when he answers. I want to know if he thinks his family sincerely tries to work and earn some money...specially knowing that Raju can loose his life any given day if there is no help from people like us supporting his medications and so on. Is every penny we give used exactly what we are giving it for?? What according to him are his familys' future plans on earning??? What will they do if we say NO someday and he is in the same health situation as today??? Time and on I have been expressing my thought directly and indirectly that I dislike this man so very much from my heart. 'There is no work' is such a vague statement....and he can afford to get away with it becos of US...since he knows we wont' say NO. He needs to be taught that help is not something u take for granted and he needs to learn to respect the favour in a better manner. I so damn wish I could wash this guys' brain once! Also...one question.(To those of you who jump to conclusions with emotional mind....hold on and try to see my view if possible). Is there a way to find out if this man has any police record of some kind??? We need to know this before we try to put him to work with us or somewhere else..since we have to know what we are getting into. Also perhaps it can be a cause of him loosing his job or not getting any other job anywhere else...if he is trying like he says. If not...then he is lying big time! So much for now. WE HAVE TO GIVE THE MONEY. Really no option. But buy the medications and make him come once a week if he has to...so that we reduce the chance of giving him the medicines in bulk and he selling it. Also..when u do end up talking to the doctor...can u ask him...that how many days of no medication forms these lumps in the throat....and if it is even related to his kidney transplantion??? Perhaps our inhouse doctor Mr.Sundar can throw some more light rightaway...and so can Viplove. We should ofcourse talk to Rajus' doctor and know his thoughts too. Also...Prasanthi...check how many days of medications did our last 6k plus donation buy him. We will know if it was appropriately used rightaway. If u donot know the price of the medications you can always find out from a store..or when u buy it now u can compare n figure out. All for now from my end. Btw..this Uncle of Raju..whr does he stay??? If this Raju's father is put into work here..he can always be given a roof from this guy right? Specially knowing all we are trying to do. That ways we donot leave an excuse from Rajus' dad that his house if far and he cannot travel for work everyday or he cannot afford to live here in the city. This guy needs to be cornered out form excuses and MADE TO WORK !! -Divs ********************************************************************** --- In [email protected], "Lakshmi Prasanthi Uppalapati" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > Hello Friends, > > Good Morning/Evening. > > This is with respect to Raju's case. Yesterday night Raju's father called me > saying that he needs Rs. 12k for medicines and from one week they are not > having medicines at all and Raju has grown lumps on this throat (meda > vaachimdi). > > I asked him that what about his job and did he joined as he promised in > April's MAD meeting. He is saying that work is not there so he couldn't go. > > I told him that I cannot assure him and as there is no MAD meeting in Hyd, I > can't promise him anything. I also told him that he requested me Rs. 6400 > saying that it is the last time that he is asking us. > > He replied me saying that 'Yes. I will pay back in two installments as I am > expecting my PF loan grant'. > > I am not sure with this case. This time I am not happy with the > conversation. But still I am feeling that can we help them and is it really > a help? How far can we take the responsibility of a case and feel that we > own the case? > > I am in doldrums. I couldn't decide. As per his words, he will repay the > amount back in two installments if we give money to him. Can we trust him? > > I await eagerly for your reply. Raju is supposed to come today to Hyderabad > for the monthly checkup. I don't know if he came or not. > -- > with regards, > PRASANTHI. > ---- > When you want something, the whole universe conspires in helping you to > achieve it. >
