I apologize unconditionally, and sincerely, and I feel ashamed, to be pointing towards women. What I intended is not a matter of importance when it is conveyed wrongly or it can be interpreted wrongly.
Kiran/NaChaKi --- In [email protected], Lalitha G <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > Kiran garu, > > I still say that that comment was unnecessary and > beats the purpose. > > Bottomline - women, society, parents of boys need to > know that reckless behavior of man wrecks family. > Society needs to demand responsible behavior from both > men and women. Women get plenty of moral education. > Let men start getting some too. Let them not point at > some exceptional cases of women and gain sympathy. > > If there are exceptional cases of women going the > wrong way, they suffer hell and do not even get a > second chance. So, even considering such exceptions is > not worthy. > > lalitha. > > --- NaChaKi <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > > << Please be more considerate to women. >> > > > > Lalitha gaarU, > > > > I'm no indifferent to women! I respect Woman for > > what She is, and what Man can never be! > > > > Having said that, I agree with you completely about > > woman being at the receiving end most of the times. > > But, my comment was more on Sree Harinath's opinion > > that AIDS-afflicted women and children may be helped > > but men should not be. > > > > Anyway, since we all, including Sree Harinath now, > > do agree that prejudice is not right, let's drop > > this discussion here. If my comments sounded like > > loose talk about women, I am the first one to be > > sorry about it for women! > > > > NaChaKi > > > > ----- Original Message ---- > > From: Lalitha G <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > > To: [email protected] > > Sent: Thursday, February 8, 2007 7:15:33 AM > > Subject: Re: [tomakeadifference] Feb 7th Update > > > > Kiran garu, > > yes, we should all come out of prejudice when > > talking > > about AIDS affected. Made a good point. > > > > "but do you think women cannot get it due to "wrong > > activities"? ? (Let's talk facts, and I wish the > > women > > members can see I don't have a grudge against > > women!)" > > > > What I am going to say doesn't justify "not helping" > > men, women or children. But the need to educate goes > > far beyond comments like "women could have been > > reckless too". > > > > It may be so. Technically, that's possible. But, > > mostly women are at the receiving end due to the > > reckless behaviour and stubbornness of the man, > > mostly > > husband, in their lives. > > > > I was under some prejudices myself too. After > > reading > > and watching more and more AIDS awareness articles > > and > > shows, I see that women are in most cases at the > > recieving end. > > > > Let's focus on India. Women are either married off > > at > > very early age (especially in lower classes) or kept > > under watch and taught so many moral lessons. Men, > > on > > the other hand have a lot of freedom. In lower > > classes, men get into work very early, go to > > different > > places, there is no education / awareness. The > > importance is not felt. They are men. They cannot > > become pregnant. Men, I'm sorry to say, are prone to > > and are not kept as seriously away from reckless > > behabior as women. > > > > We need to educate parents of boys to keep their > > sons > > under watch as they would a daughter by tradition. > > We > > have to educate parents and women to know the HIV > > status of man before they are married. We need to > > educate parents, in-laws and relations of AIDS > > affcted > > women that in all possibility the man might have > > been > > at fault. > > > > Woman, even if at receiving end, in most cases > > pardons > > and strives for the health of her husband. Men, > > parents and in-laws are all ready to escape the > > responsibility of the woman by blaming her. > > > > Please be more considerate to women. > > > > lalitha. > > > > ____________ _________ _________ _________ _________ > > _________ _ > > Don't get soaked. Take a quick peak at the forecast > > with the Yahoo! Search weather shortcut. > > http://tools. search.yahoo. com/shortcuts/ > > #loc_weather > > > > > > > > > ______________________________________________________________________ ______________ > Don't get soaked. Take a quick peak at the forecast > with the Yahoo! Search weather shortcut. > http://tools.search.yahoo.com/shortcuts/#loc_weather >
