I was in hibernation for the last one month and not at all checked my emails which are related to TMAD.I apologize for that.At this point, I am having a heap of mails from this group which needs atleast two days for me to go through completely.
This particular email from Ratan ji with this curious subject line caught my attention. The moment I tried to go through all the emails to know what is happening in the group I felt bad and sad too. To my surprise I see a lot of dissatisfaction and frustation from everyone. The main intention of this group is to make a difference to the underprivileged and which in turn should help us feel good. Not to demean anyone, It is always Prasanthi who use to gel the team and the way she co-ordinated the activities is second to none. I personally feel I will always go with her decision to use the groups money as she is good in her judgement till now. Are we also suffering by the big company syndrome where company loses the edge as it grows by numbers?..are we accommodation too many views from too many quarters?... I am sorry to see that we are having difference of opinions. I feel we are allowing too much of democracy in this group which is not a good thing as far as my personal opinion goes. Decision should be left with few people and not consesus or majority Hope we will resolve the differences between ourselves ASAP and again get going the way used to. I want to see more cases where we can help like Divena case, paparao gari case and the small kid from bangalore case. BTW, My monthly contribution from this month is pending and I will be sending this along with my next month contribution. Thanks & Regards, Uday ----- Original Message ---- From: ulprasanthi <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: [email protected] Sent: Tuesday, May 22, 2007 9:51:55 PM Subject: [tomakeadifference] Re: <<<NOT AT ALL IMPORTANT-READ AT LEISURE>>>Last mail from me..a lengthy one Hi Friends, I do not see any reason to feel sorry for. This is not like any other group and we maintained the status of a 'family' to it. Members must be clear on few points. There should not be any insecure feeling in anyone and messages shouldn't send a wrong signal. That is why I tried to answer. After all there is nothing against me, Ratan ji and few persons related to some issues. Anyone of us do not have anything against the others. How great a member can be, we will not try to please individuals. The group will run keeping in mind the larger interests. If a family member is dissatisfied and left, what is the way? We should work hard and show to them that they misinterpreted and all of us are working for the purpose only. Let us strive to create such a confidence. But I am very much particular of the fact that we should allow members to work in the way they feel like. Only if we try to object the activities, it will create dissatisfaction. I do not have anything personal against anyone. Ratanji, Suresh Adina or anyone else for that matter, I have utmost respect for them. I feel that they too do not have anything against me. We are a family and we continue to work together as a family. The question of whether they will be part of us or not, it is upto them. Irrespective of their email subscription status, they are a part of our family. We will not leave them :) They cannot go away :) We will mail them of any activities and if they have time, they will participate, I suppose. Thank you. with regards, Prasanthi. ____________________________________________________________________________________Shape Yahoo! in your own image. Join our Network Research Panel today! http://surveylink.yahoo.com/gmrs/yahoo_panel_invite.asp?a=7
