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Hello, Marcus,
This is a lengthy answer to your question. I've become familiar with my case after all these years and I also listened to Dennis' lecture, "Overts". My Trom partner saw me determined to clear out childhood and he modified Dennis' "To Handle" process (the four questions), and he helped me run both of my parents .... WITH MARVELOUS RESULTS. I put that in capitals because it was one of the best things I ever did for my case. I'm continuing this process solo, and started with my first dynamic (the body) which helped me drop a current valence and shift into a lighter valence (peeling the onion we go) that could now handle its first dynamic without need to create beings to resolve its case for it. I'm now back to working on the second dynamic with further great results. I'm also testing variations of this on a client who knows nothing about TROM and who has a very serious 2nd dynamic case and it is working surprisingly well. When he sticks in an incident he looks into the confusion and the decisions he made in the confusion and he runs Repeater Tech on them with great results. He's also getting marvelous results in the few times I had him do Level Two differences and similarities on a particularly stuck person's face. He's also learned to do the RI with great results. I've learned a lot from this client. "How have you handled your mother?" was a long haul for me, and even my deceased mother showed up with tears, asking for forgiveness. "How have you handled your father?" was easier but I had to do copious amounts of RI after the End Phenomenon was achieved because lifelong importances too suddenly disappeared. Then I worked solo on The Body, and now I'm working on another childhood caretaker who was a very gamey person and quite provocative. It's all timebreaking and it is producing case change in a person who thought covert game strategies were just part of life. Now I'm beginning to see that unbiased compassion is part of life - and freedom. Of course I want to see how this runs as well for other people, and what mods might be useful for different people. My email is cygnifique (at) gmail.com and I can help someone safely run it on themselves. My SKYPE is ATWTFG. It changed my life dramatically for the better, thanks to my TROM partner who "questioned everything". My intention was so strong that I think that was why breaking Dennis' rule was okay for me. About the mods, for example, in my solo sessions, I broke it down into subjects: "With regards to sex how have you handled ___________?", and ran that to its EP and then, "With regards to eating how have you handled ___________?". Otherwise I followed Dennis' instructs. Casewise, I could have been diagnosed as "Co-dependent", attracted to what psychs term narcissistic manipulative personalities, and I'm now clearing myself of that Second Dynamic Game Loop, setting boundaries, curing the addiction to that particular sensation and more detached from the "other's" game ploys whereas in the past I would have blown asap without resolving my Cause. I'm also much friendlier with my body now and can appreciate its latent abilities, and bringing my First Dynamic into a higher condition keeps me from using the higher dynamics to cover up or support First Dynamic liabilities. For example, I no longer need be susceptible to chronic dis-eases, yet I'm still addressing the condition of no-thyroid, so it's not perfect yet. And my case did "settle" after the initial blown-out key-out, but I'm now getting used to that occurring. Clearing out life-with-parents using "To Handle" process was an important lynchpin to removing covert games case... overts and motivators. I now have more of a reach for Level Four. Colleen
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