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Hey Colleen
Thanks for your time explaning. There are some coincidences here. I also seem to have a deep interest about the game strategies and the 'to control' goal (I had skipped listening to the 'overt' lecture in the past, but now I've done it). I usually get confused or stuck when I recognize those in a problem in my life. And I'm pretty sure it has a lot to do with early problems in communication with my parents too. RIght now I'm working on getting accustomed to level 3 and trying to sort it out. I'd like to check those tech's you mentioned. And maybe try them if they are not too complicated or heavy :). My email is mftofa at gmail.com. Good trommin` 2016-04-05 8:32 GMT-03:00 The Resolution of Mind list <[email protected] >: > ************* > The following message is relayed to you by [email protected] > ************ > > Hello, Marcus, > > This is a lengthy answer to your question. > > I've become familiar with my case after all these years and I also > listened to Dennis' lecture, "Overts". My Trom partner saw me determined to > clear out childhood and he modified Dennis' "To Handle" process (the four > questions), and he helped me run both of my parents .... WITH MARVELOUS > RESULTS. I put that in capitals because it was one of the best things I > ever did for my case. > > I'm continuing this process solo, and started with my first dynamic (the > body) which helped me drop a current valence and shift into a lighter > valence (peeling the onion we go) that could now handle its first dynamic > without need to create beings to resolve its case for it. > > I'm now back to working on the second dynamic with further great results. > I'm also testing variations of this on a client who knows nothing about > TROM and who has a very serious 2nd dynamic case and it is working > surprisingly well. When he sticks in an incident he looks into the > confusion and the decisions he made in the confusion and he runs Repeater > Tech on them with great results. He's also getting marvelous results in the > few times I had him do Level Two differences and similarities on a > particularly stuck person's face. He's also learned to do the RI with great > results. I've learned a lot from this client. > > "How have you handled your mother?" was a long haul for me, and even my > deceased mother showed up with tears, asking for forgiveness. "How have you > handled your father?" was easier but I had to do copious amounts of RI > after the End Phenomenon was achieved because lifelong importances too > suddenly disappeared. Then I worked solo on The Body, and now I'm working > on another childhood caretaker who was a very gamey person and quite > provocative. > > It's all timebreaking and it is producing case change in a person who > thought covert game strategies were just part of life. Now I'm beginning to > see that unbiased compassion is part of life - and freedom. > > Of course I want to see how this runs as well for other people, and what > mods might be useful for different people. My email is cygnifique (at) > gmail.com and I can help someone safely run it on themselves. My SKYPE is > ATWTFG. It changed my life dramatically for the better, thanks to my TROM > partner who "questioned everything". My intention was so strong that I > think that was why breaking Dennis' rule was okay for me. > > About the mods, for example, in my solo sessions, I broke it down into > subjects: "With regards to sex how have you handled ___________?", and ran > that to its EP and then, "With regards to eating how have you handled > ___________?". Otherwise I followed Dennis' instructs. > > Casewise, I could have been diagnosed as "Co-dependent", attracted to what > psychs term narcissistic manipulative personalities, and I'm now clearing > myself of that Second Dynamic Game Loop, setting boundaries, curing the > addiction to that particular sensation and more detached from the > "other's" game ploys whereas in the past I would have blown asap without > resolving my Cause. > > I'm also much friendlier with my body now and can appreciate its latent > abilities, and bringing my First Dynamic into a higher condition keeps me > from using the higher dynamics to cover up or support First Dynamic > liabilities. For example, I no longer need be susceptible to chronic > dis-eases, yet I'm still addressing the condition of no-thyroid, so it's > not perfect yet. And my case did "settle" after the initial blown-out > key-out, but I'm now getting used to that occurring. > > Clearing out life-with-parents using "To Handle" process was an important > lynchpin to removing covert games case... overts and motivators. I now > have more of a reach for Level Four. > > Colleen > > > > > > > > > > > _______________________________________________ > TROM mailing list > [email protected] > http://lists.newciv.org/mailman/listinfo/trom > >
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