In a message dated 7/14/2004 9:23:42 PM Pacific Daylight Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:

Is it possible to love and hate the same object at the same time?


Glad to see you weigh in on this, Bill.  And I appreciate your honesty.   A practical example of the above:   my youngest son is the tough guy in the family  but his Dad has had more bar room experience.  His last year in high school  (and I raised him from the time he was 11) , he was so disrespectful and had to handle, that the only thing I could think of -- day or night -- was locking the two of us in the back and showing him what an old man can do with a punk.   He is 26 now.   We talked about that year and he apologized.  He is a great Christian leader, a real heart for ministry, a terrific Dad and (probably) still a tough guy but God has changed his life.   The point being  -  I was filled with hate and love for this boy all at the same time.   So, I guess I am saying that from personal experience, I know the two can co-exist.   And it had nothing to do with love the sinner and hate the sin  ---   I wanted to kick his butt but I loved him.   It actually took me over a year (with him gone to school in Davis) to get over how riled I was.  


John

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