I love discussing ideas and I enjoy reading
or listening to the ideas of others (that is why I am still on
TT) -- but I hate debate. If there doesn't appear to be any
chance of resolve, I would rather disengage than ride a disagreement into
the gutter.
Thanks for your response Bill,
But how do you know there will never be any chance
of resolve if you don't follow it through?
I think this is one of the things that drives a lot
of women 'nuts' about their husbands.
They get into some kind of an every day conflict - she wants to talk it through and he puts up a
wall.
So they are in a stalemate with no
resolution in sight. What is so threatening
about talking things through??
Just wondering.... judyt