This is one of the problems with the ADHOM rule it will never be administered fairly
There has been name calling on this list for as long as I can remember.
Some of it flies by seemingly missed by the moderator.

BTW
NICE dissertation on how much strife the ADHOM rule brings with it Way to go Perry!
Dean Moore <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> [Original Message]
> From: David Miller
> To:
> Date: 3/14/2006 12:45:46 PM
> Subject: Re: [TruthTalk] The dearly departed
>
> These comments are out of line. The only person I have been on the phone  with is Ruben. He called me just this morning, after Dean had decided to  step down from being moderator. As for e-mail exchange, it has been very  minimal, with some attempts to include Dean to resolve problems off the  list. This is entirely appropriate. The evil surmisings about this  activity below are inappropriate.
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cd: Back to the evil surmising again I see- I said I had "reason to believe
DavH had called you". Here is my reason for that belief: Note that Perry
gave me permission to use this letter.

[Original Message]
> From: Charles Perry Locke
> To:
> Date: 3/12/2006 8:49:39 PM
> Subject: RE: Perry
>
> Dean,
>
> If they deserved to go, then so be it. When I put DaveH off the list, he
> entered into a big private email conversation with myself and David M
over
> his getting banned. He and david M even chatted by phone. He never really > understood why I banned him. The reason he said he was banned was not the > reason I banned him, yet after I explained the real reason to him several > times, he continued to quote his imagined reason, I suspect because he felt > it better supported his argument for a double standard on TT.
>
> I say all of this to let you know that he will bend the story to support
> his own argument, even when the truth is presented plainly to him.
>
> Perry
cd: More below.
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>
> >From: "Dean Moore"
> >Reply-To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
> >To: "Charles Perry Locke"
> >Subject: RE: Perry
> >Date: Sun, 12 Mar 2006 16:33:11 -0500
> >
> >Perry- I just put Daveh and Gary off the list-Things should get
interesting
> >now;-)
cd: More Below.
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> >
> >
> > > [Original Message]
> > > From: Charles Perry Locke
> > > To:
> > > Date: 3/12/2006 3:57:56 PM
> > > Subject: RE: Perry
> > >
> > > Dean,
> > >
> > > Moderating TT is definitely a difficult task. As you know I have
> > > unsubscribed from TruthTalk, and to be honest, Dean, I do not have any> > > intentions of rejoining, or being moderator again. I think that truth> >talk
> > > actually did more to weaken my faith than to encourage it, and I don't> >need
> > > that. Now that it is clear to me that TT is actually a secular group
> > > intended to discuss whatever anyone thinks is their personal truth,not> > > necessarily Christian truth, I see why it operates as it does. Notonly> >is> > > there no fellowship among the Christians on the group, there isdivision> >and> > > strife among the would-be bretheren. It is truly a secular group, andit> > > behaves as such.
> > >
> > > When I was moderator the best I could do was to watch only for the > >most> > > blatant ad-hominem references. Many of the people on TT are so> > > self-deceiving and disrespectful of one another that they use > >ad-hominems> > > and do so slyly that when it is pointed out they have 101 reasons and> > > rationalizations why it was not an ad-hominem, why it was justified,or> >"why> > > didn't you correct do-and-so when he said such-and-such about me"?
> > >
> > > So, the only advice I have, if you choose to remain the moderator, is> >to> > > continue to point out ad-hominems, continue to disallow publicresponses> >or> > > discussions about moderator comments, and ignore the petty wining and> > > sniping. Moderating worked well for me when I had the time to follow
> >every> > > post, but when the traffic became heavy, I lagged behind and appearedto> >not> > > be moderating at all. And most of all, do not expect to see brotherly> >love> > > in a secular group.
> > >
> > > Hope this helps, Dean.
> > > Perry
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>
> For what it's worth, I have not received or sent email to Gary at all and > did not even know he was taken off the list. I would not have known that > Dave Hansen was taken off the list except that he wrote me privatelyasking > me if that was the situation because the list was rejecting hissubmissions.
> I told him that I was unaware of this and that I would investigate and
let > him know.
>
> David Miller
>
>
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: Dean Moore
> To: [email protected]
> Sent: Tuesday, March 14, 2006 7:03 AM
> Subject: Re: [TruthTalk] The dearly departed
>
> cd: Does the foolish need a reason to be foolish? I also reason to
believe
> that they have spoken behind my back on the phone- Wickedness whispering
in
> Millers ear lies and half-truth-put a little truth-show a little emotion
in
> the mix and there you have it. This is what happened with John-but I
refused
> till he show signs of remorse. He hung around so long in private that he
> reminded me of that stray dog that refused to leave my house. After a
while
> I started feeding it out of pity-Turned out to be a worthless dog in the
> end-didn't have no appreciation for the food, me ,or the pity.Just a
> worthless dog-that bites the hand that feeds it.Sound familiar?
>
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: Judy Taylor
> To: [email protected]
> Cc: [email protected]
> Sent: 3/14/2006 1:02:48 AM
> Subject: Re: [TruthTalk] The dearly departed
>
> Why do ppl so love darkness and gossip and one upping the next guy??
> Along with stirring the pot - where's the love??
>
> On Mon, 13 Mar 2006 20:22:45 -0500 "Dean Moore"
> writes:
> cd; They have been in contact with Miller - Blain, DH ,John, Gary- and
> believe it or not Glen tabor.All in one group e-Mail-of which I seem to
be
> the topic.
>
> From: ShieldsFamily
>
> Why dont you contact them directly? You have their email addresses, as
do
> the rest of us. iz
>
> From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
> [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of
[EMAIL PROTECTED]
>
> By the way -- are we allowed to ask as to the status of Gary and DH?
> They are missed on this forum by some.
>
> jd
>
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