Apparently you can not control yourself : (

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> I will not ask this question again.  Apparently the rightwing cannot
> receive the question for some reason  (fear expressed in self -
> assertion ??) but the question is this:  assuming they are going to
> hell in due time (a discussion point for another time), what do we do
> with these folks IN THE MEAN TIME?  Do we continue to patiently deal
> with the them, receive them as brethren, teach, pray and work with
> them as did Paul with the carnal Christians in Corinth (HH's opinion
> aside) or take some of his words of exclusion and impose them onto
> all and refuse to help any who cry for help? 
> .......................................and why.  
> 
> I have concluded that radical fundalmentalism cannot answer this
> question without sacrifice to aspects of its theology and , so , some
> refuse to answer the question.  
> 
> jd
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> From: Judy Taylor <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
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> On Thu, 16 Mar 2006 07:35:58 -0500 "David Miller"
> <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> writes:
> How do we deal with the subject of carnal Christians?  Is there such
> a thing?  Holy Hubert use to preach that there was no such thing as a
> carnal Christian.  Does anyone on the list believe like that?  Kevin,
> you in particular are being asked by JD to tell him how you perceive
> 1 Cor. 3:1 and the subject of carnal Christians.  Do we talk down to
> them, shoot them, tell them to get out of the church, have lunch with
> them, ridicule them, what?
> 
> Praise the Lord for Holy Hubert - I knew there was something I had to
> be missing.  I agree with him on this issue
> that's for sure... It is a doctrine cobbled together by men to help
> the weak stay weak and I speak from experience
> I heard it myself early on and clung to it for a while until I heard
> someone preach the truth and expose that darkness. This is how things
> get so confused - Paul told that bunch in Corinth they were still
> carnal - he did not give them assurance that they would be able to
> stand at the end if they did not move on.  God isnot going to
> take a bunch of devils to heaven with him. Those who walk after the
> Spirit are the ones who make it.  judyt
> 
> 
> 
> From: Kevin Deegan 
> 
> JD says "Just remember this   --  you do not believe" 
> 
> Thanks for reminding me what I believe!
> Next time I need to know what I believe on a particular subject I
> will check with  you FIRST!
> 
> [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
> Obviously, this is offered as a criticism.   No solutions  -- just
> criticism.   Just remember this  --  you do not believe in passages
> such as I cor 3:1 and the reality they present.  That is what we know
> from this thread.
> 
> jd
> 
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> From: Kevin Deegan <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> 
> JD says we all know of your theology on the matters cited 
> 
> You're all set then:
> It should be a piece of cake for you or that matter any other to
> summarize my beliefs on the matter, as you say YOU ALL KNOW SINCE YOU
> ALL KNOW, I NEED NOT WASTE ANY MORE TIME ON THIS!
> 
> If thare are any other issues you have concern for, just check with
> yourself since you ALREADY KNOW
> 
> Thanks : )
> 
> 
> [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: 
> Sounds like a bear with his foot in a trap !!  
> 
> It is so easy to set the record straight.  You are all over people or
> activiity such as the one shared by Lance and his friend,  Joanna
> Williams,  and yet,  you now seem to want others to believe that I
> have misrepresented you.   Not my intention at all.   What would you
> do differently than Paul and why?  Or, would you rather moan for a
> while?   Get back to me on that , will you? 
> 
> Have I not quoted enough of your position on this?  Give the word  --
> there is more.  
> 
> dj
> 
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> From: Kevin Deegan <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> 
> I see you as standing outside the door of the church rebuking
> 
> Wake UP!
> It's just a NIGHMARE!
> Or a personal problem...
> [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
> 
> Your theology is herein included, Kevin.   Now  --  Back to I Cor
> 3:1ff.  It appears (based on what is written) that we have a church
> full of carnal and immature people.   It is my beleif that if this
> were a circumstance in which Joanna Williams could help  --  she just
> might be doing her best to mentor these folk toward freedom in Christ
> and maturity in the Spirit.   And that is exactly what Paul is trying
> to do with the writing of this Corinthian letter.   
> 
> I see you as standing outside the door of the church, rebuking them
> to the hell they so richly deserve  (don't we all) and doing precious
> little to actually help these brethren.   They are alive in Christ,
> yet carnal  --  a circumstance that could work harm in their lives. 
> This is a church with problems  (more than likely a Missionary
> Baptist church.)  Again, these disciples are alive in Christ, 
> Christians if you will, but carnal  yet in their walk with God.  
> Actually,  Paul deals with this weak fellowship of saints for several
> years, does he not --  perhaps three letters or more and a visit or
> two.    He never recommended they be cut off from the larger church. 
>  
> So how does Kevin deal with this Apostolic example?     Mock those
> who think to do what Paul was doing  -- or   ?????????   I am
> curious.   Can you answer this?  telll us how the reality that is
> pictured in I Cor 3:1ff works in your thegology?  
> 
> jd
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> From: Kevin Deegan <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> No surprise here from the "community" of salve your own conscience
> crowd.
> God's ways? It my way or the highway!
> 
> SIN #1
> The sin is in doing it our way in direct disobedience to God's
> commands.
> 
> SIN #2
> What help was offered has the Fornicator Repented?
> The attempt was about as useful as the same attempt to help in a
> Emergency room. More damage than help.
> 
> This guy is headed for trouble where was the help?
> Comfort for Fornicators? That is a great help!
> whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
> 
> [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: 
> To imagine that there are those who think it a sin as one attempts to
> help those who cry for help demonstrates just how confused we can get
> in our individual theologies.   
> 
> -------------- Original message -------------- 
> From: Kevin Deegan <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> "Community" Conscience is an EXCUSE for lack of Personal
> responsibility & holiness.
> Therefore it's overwhelming popularity!
> 
> [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: 
> Much of the effort we see in the posts from friends of Lance is
> illustrative of the Charles Sheldon's In His Steps.    WWJD came from
> this book.   It pictures the tension that is too exist between the
> corporate body  (the church) and the individual.    Our assemblage is
> designed to offer encouragement as we consider love and good works. 
> To imagine that there are those who think it a sin as one attempts to
> help those who cry for help demonstrates just how confused we can get
> in our individual theologies.   
> 
> jd
> 
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> From: Kevin Deegan <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
> 
> it is also not our place to point out people's sins.
> 
> Whatever happened to when you see a brother overtaken in...?
> Amazing ignorance of the Bible ignorance of holiness
> But then it does say some are willfuly ignorant
> 
>  I hope that a seed may have been planted and will take root
> eventually and bear fruit. 
> This tapioca pussyfooting will never reawaken conciousness of sin
> 
>  But I am not naiive enough to think that I will see or be involved
> in that entire process. 
> 
> O No you have done your part you are a sin enabler. You want to be so
> inclusive while God says to be exclusive put them apart. You have
> touched the dead thing so much now you have the leaven on you and can
> not see it.
> But them that are without God judgeth. Therefore put away from among
> yourselves that wicked person.
> 
> Lance Muir <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> 
> ----- Original Message ----- 
> From: Joanna Williams 
> To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
> Sent: March 14, 2006 01:02
> Subject: RE: Fw: [TruthTalk] Joanna Williams - friend of some 10
> years speaks on believing teens
> 
> 
> While I agree completely with what you are saying...it is also not
> our place to point out people's sins.  May they see righteousness in
> our lives and be drawn to a life lived that speaks volumes..much more
> that words ever could.  Francis of Assissi said well: Preach the
> gospel and use words when necessary.  The earlier e-mail I sent was
> about a couple of encounters...which ended up in some substantial
> conversations.  I hope that a seed may have been planted and will
> take root eventually and bear fruit.  But I am not naiive enough to
> think that I will see or be involved in that entire process.  I must
> do my part and then move on in faith, praying and trusting that God
> will do that miraculous work of transformation in people's lives that
> He always does.  I ran a youth group here in Mississauga years ago
> where I had a friend of one of our young people from the church show
> up stoned out of her mind.  I knew that everyone was watching how I
> would handle that as a youth leader.  It wasn't easy but I wanted her
> to stay and did not chide h
> er for being out of it...or not listening...or interrupting my lesson
> etc..  I continued to invite her out and she continued to
> come..sometimes in a mind-altered state.  I eventually found out that
> she was dating  a drug-dealer and as we talked I discovered that her
> mother had just become a Christian.  She also confessed once in our
> group that her mother was her greatest role model and she admired
> her!  I knew that God was working in the life of this young woman. 
> One day when I went over to her place to invite her out for coffee,
> she couldn't wait to ask me a ton of questions about the Bible,
> Jesus, faith etc...We talked for hours that night.  It was just
> another "coffee"..and yet it wasn't.  People change when God wants
> them to.  She was utterly hungry for truth and probed more and more. 
> We finally went home and a few days later she not only broke up with
> her drug-dealer boyfriend, witnessed to him, started going to church,
> gave h er life to God, got baptized, attended Redeemer University and
> is now a Christian counsellor.   Her
>  cousins have become Christian through her witness and still contact
> me once in a while to get together.  Last summer, I had the privilege
> of attending her wedding to a wonderful Christian guy.  I could go on
> and on about many young people like her.  I have learned that often
> when I am least expecting it people will change.  All of our words
> and judgements and pointing of sin in their lives is not what draws
> them.  God's love and us living out that love in our lives draws
> them..and they will come to Him in their own time and way.  There are
> young people out of that exact same youth group that I am still have
> "coffees" with!  And will continue to...even when they are not
> spiritually hungry YET... I feel it is so important to be faithful to
> people and pray them into the kingdom...not talk them into it.  They
> know what I live for and they can see it and that's enough.  And I
> have th i s feeling that they will know God in their own time.  They
> are just on a journey of finding how life is empty without Him.  It
> is during this time that 
> we must stay faithful to them.  Just some thoughts...
> Joanna
> 
> 
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> 
> From: "Lance Muir" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> To: "Joanna" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> Subject: Fw: [TruthTalk] Joanna Williams - friend of some 10 years
> speaks on believing teens
> Date: Sun, 12 Mar 2006 13:44:40 -0500
> 
> 
> 
> ----- Original Message ----- 
> From: ShieldsFamily 
> To: [email protected] 
> Sent: March 12, 2006 08:45
> Subject: RE: [TruthTalk] Joanna Williams - friend of some 10 years
> speaks on believing teens 
> 
> 
> Lance, from the small piece below I’d say Joanna has a heart of gold.
>  I agree that rushing to judgment is one way to chase unbelievers
> away, and is not what Jesus did except with those who were religious
> hypocrites.  First one must love and befriend, as she obviously does.
>  But, as I told JD, we must also speak truth if we are to be
> ambassadors of Christ, just as Jesus did.  He loved, He befriended,
> but He never hesitated to call sin a sin because He loved those He
> befriended enough to want to lead them to freedom from sin, as that
> is what ultimately will destroy our relationship with Him.  That was
> His entire objective in dying on the cross, of course. Tough love is
> much harder for us to give than soft love.  Tough love isn’t harsh
> and angry; it is just the kind of love that pulls people towards the
> truth, even when it is tempting to gloss over the hard issues.  Sin
> is the e lephant in the room; do we “love” people so much that we
> pretend it isn’t there, or do we really love them enough to address
> the obvious? The fleshly Believe
> r takes the easy path of just “loving and being loved,” while the
> Spirit-filled Believer uses the truths of the Word to deliver the
> captives from sin as well as unbelief.  Like being a parent, a
> Christian mentor always holds up the goal and then walks with you
> towards it.  Poor parents are those who give “love, love, love,” and
> never balance that with self-discipline and hard work—the children
> are ruined for life by their own selfishness and laziness. Jesus
> defined our goal as His disciples: Luke 5: 32 I came not to call the
> righteous, but sinners to repentance. That, of course, is the issue I
> continually have with those of the “liberal Christian”
> persuasion—they have no fear of sin, for themselves or others.  They
> don’t realize that sin is what truly ails us.  This is a hollow gosp
> e l that allows many to die in their sins.  Izzy
> John 8:21 Then said Jesus again unto them, I go my way, and ye shall
> seek me, and shall die in your sins: whither I go, ye cannot come.
> 
> 
> 
> 
> From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
> [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Lance Muir
> Sent: Saturday, March 11, 2006 12:05 PM
> To: [email protected]
> Subject: [TruthTalk] Joanna Williams - friend of some 10 years speaks
> on believing teens 
> 
> Well, since I'm being asked for a response on this...my initial
> feeling is that we need to live in the real world having contact with
> real people...perhaps listen a little more to others and how they
> live.  In my experience with people, including believers by the way,
> struggle with sin is common.  By the way, people are so much more
> harsh on visible sins such as addictions to alcohol, pornography,
> drugs etc....whereas I believe Jesus always looked deeper into our
> hearts and spoke to much that was invisible to many...such as
> self-righteousness, judgement towards others, jealousies, religious
> obsession. etc.  These are way harder to weed out of our lives than
> outer behaviours that seem to upset the church so much.  I pray that
> we may see these situations with the heart of God, listening and
> dealing with others on a very real level which unfortunately is so
> often tucked away and not t alked about enough.  We have many hurting
> people in our churches who are deeply addicted to many non-christian
> behaviours...but rather than judge...it m
> ay be much better to listen, to learn and to work out the deeper
> rooted hurts and issues that cause people to lose themselves in the
> worlds of pornography, alcohol, sexual relationships etc.  It is so
> important to be the kind of Christian that is listening to others
> with an open attitude and no pre-conceived judgements in mind whether
> they are in the church or not.  A couple of instances pop into my
> mind right now...one is from last Saturday when I actually popped by
> my friend's house...co-worker from the bank where I work.  As we
> sipped on coffee, her boyfriend/spouse began to talk about how he
> used to go to church in England and considers himself a believer in
> God and Christ but would no longer go to a church anymore because of
> the questions about his relationship with my friend and the fact that
> they were living together.  H e  began to share his hurts about th is
> situation and then we got into one of the best discussions I've ever
> had on the book of Job.  He relates a lot to Job and the judgement
> his well-meaning friends brough
> t to him during a rough time in his life when they should have been
> listening and loving him and not judging him.  How wonderful at the
> end of the book when Job not only comes into a deep trust with God
> but God also invites him to pray for the very friends that
> incessantly accused him.  Great victory there and much to be learned
> from that story.  Another situation I am reminded of is happening in
> my church right now with a young teenager who is pregnant and has
> come to our church for shelter.  While she loves the Lord and clings
> to His love at this hard time in her life, she is also still involved
> with her boyfriend outside of marriage right now and realizes her
> situations are not perfect.  I have just chosen as a y ou th ministry
> leader to walk bes ide her, with no judgments given, and just let the
> Word of the God speak to her and let her make her choices...letting
> her know God's great love just as she is.  I feel as if as a church,
> if we come out of the little religious bubble we've allowed ourselves
> to be in...much awaits us.  S
> ure life will not be black and white but it will be interesting and
> beautiful...as diverse as each person's dna and personality is...it
> is in these simply unique ways that God does touch and change each
> life...not in cookie-cutter ways or via textbook answers!  I hope
> this helps somewhat...would love to continue the conversation!!  All
> the best to all of you...Roll up your sleeves and get into the
> amazing mix of life with others...God will pop up in the most
> surprising places!!  My e-mail address is [EMAIL PROTECTED]
>   if any of you care to contact me at a ny time!  Thank you!   
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