Ekhart GEORGI (last name last) wrote:
John Meyer wrote:
Ekhart GEORGI (last name last) wrote:
3) trying to make the victim feel guilty, taunting the victim, and
trying to intimidate in a corner or off list with lame excuses about
reducing clutter and not wanting to bother others
Grow up or get personal help or both.
Might I suggest the same with you for moving this conversation back
on-list. You don't like somebody's comments, set up a filter and send
the mail straight to /dev/null, problem solved.
Back to On topic issues about OOo.
I didn't move the conversation back onto the list; it never was off
the list. Just because somebody sends me rude comments privately
doesn't mean that the problem and the thread have been moved off the
list! Nor does that give him the right to elude the social control of
the group.
This list is apparently unmoderated. The only way to control asocial
behavior in the absence of a moderator is to have many people
(privately) tell the aggressive list member to stop being aggressive.
Your comments, John, did not help to improve the list's atmosphere or
effectiveness nor did they make it clear that you, hopefully, don't
condone the aggressor's behavior.
Keeping this list at least civil is very much on topic and important
to make it useful and effective for OOo.
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I have always been told that you must ignore unsociable list
behavior and that you must not respond in any way
because anything else reinforces the behavior. Telling someone not to be
aggressive, just reinforces the
aggressive behavior.
Be realistic. Suggest what works, not what sound like it should work.
Susan
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