I think you've hit it on the head. It's a matter of expressing intent if one is trying to move things to another level. I've slept in the same bed with male friends where there was nothing sexual about it. Hell, we even spooned. But it was just platonic love/affection. Or, as one of them put it before gathering me in his arms, "it's just horizontal hugging--we do it vertically, so what the hell, c'mere. Sweet dreams."
--- In [email protected], "dvm8375" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > I just don't think it's that black and white. Haven't you ever > shared a hotel room platonically? What, are you people made out of > money? I have definitely shared rooms, and even beds, with friends > of both sexes to reduce vacation costs. I don't think it would be > weird for coworkers, that are long-time friends, that have NEVER had > a romantic/sexual involvement to travel together and share a room > and not have sex. Now if it's the guy's (or girl's) intention to > move things to a new level, he (or she) should make that clear > before asking for a travel buddy. > > > -- Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/weingartenchatters/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
