Kristy,
In this case the consensual relationship appears not to be problematic, if the rules of the arrangement are up-front and not furtive, and the woman is psychologically mature. Both parties should have the option of discontinuing the arrangement at any time. --ED --- In [email protected], Kristy McClain <healthyplay1@...> wrote: > Anthony, Steve and all, I read the attached article, and listened to Sally Kempton's podcast on this: (link below-- see #7). Here are some thoughts to ponder... Sounds True: Insights at the Edge - Download free podcast episodes ... <http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/sounds-true-insights-at-edge/id30793\ 4313> Download or subscribe to free podcast episodes from Sounds True: Insights at the Edge by Tami Simon on iTunes. itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/sounds-true-insights...edge/id307934313 - Cached <http://webcache.googleusercontent.com/search?q=cache:ODgiwMy2t78J:itune\ s.apple.com/us/podcast/sounds-true-insights-at-edge/id307934313+www.itun\ es.apple.com/podcasts/sounds-true-insights-at-the-edge/id307934313&cd=1&\ hl=en&ct=clnk&gl=us> In both, there is an examination of the guru or teacher -discipline relationship. (For those who listen you can start in about 11 min, and go to about 25 min, if rushed). She is in her late 60's, with 40+ years on the spiritual path, and is trained in the Kundalini Awakening /Swami-as-guru style). She points out the teacher /disciple relationship is one of intense commitment. She needed a guru as she felt that the reason for a guru is because of the transmission that is conferred. The guru can offer a clear mirror to the student, whereby the difference between one's deluded and dualistic, ego-driven self, and the clarity of your essential self. The guru takes total spiritual responsibility for the student, who then surrenders all spirituality authority. The teacher assumes responsibility for the student's awakening experience, according to her. They make a profound and intense commitment to each other. in her case, she had an "abolute" guru. This reminds me of a D/s-type relationship. (dominance - submissive). One has absolute control and authority, and the other submits to the Dom's guidance / direction , with complete obedience. All i can say is that this requires a lot of trust.. or naiveté, depending on your perspective. ...
