Mayka,

According to Merriam-Webster Online:

Refrain:  to keep oneself from doing, feeling, or indulging in something and 
especially from following a passing impulse <refrained from having dessert>

Repress:  a: to hold in by self-control <repressed a laugh> b: to prevent the 
natural or normal expression, activity, or development of <repressed her anger>

In reading their defintions these two words seem very similar.  My 'feeling' of 
the meanings are that they differ in that 'refrain'
 is more of a healthy, voluntary restraint; where 'repress' is more unhealthy, 
forced (even if self-forced) restraint.

But these two words are close enough in meaning that you'd have to ask the 
person using one or the other to explain in more detail what they mean.

...Bill!  
 
--- In [email protected], Maria Lopez <flordeloto@...> wrote:
>
> Could anyone tell me what is the difference between refraining and repressing 
> anger?.  Don't know the answer to it.  Does anyone know?.  This question came 
> up in the "Wake Up" website in Scotland.  The "Wake Up" is the group for the 
> youngster founded by TNH.  I didn't do myself subscription as I'm far of 
> being in teens or twenties but since someone in the group did for me I stayed 
> with them. I've already clarify the age issue and still they want me with 
> them.  Oh, well!.
> 
> Mayka
>




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