Sebastian Ortiz Duran Gochicoa wrote:
> Dear Fudo:
> 
> You are not a milk distributor. You're the milk man! You know your
> customers! You don't publish articles. You post personalized replies!
> 
> Your first analogy gave you away: A Professional Assassin. You've been
> doing this for years right? Don't tell me you haven't been able to tell
> the difference by now. You KNOW when you hurt, you sadist you.

Dear Sebbie-san,

Professonal assassin. Charged to kill where no one is supposed to be? So 
who whines when the arrow strikes? Here is a koan for you, how can an 
assassin kill somone who is not there?

If I am the milk man, I deliver blind, I only know of my customers what 
they care to share.

You have mistaken kindness for niceness. I am not nice, but I am kind. 
As a matter of fact, someone who knew me well, who worked for me for 
several years once said "You are the kindest man I have ever met, but 
you are not nice."

So you think I am not nice? Join the line. I do not pretend to be nice. 
I have watched nice people enable illness over and over again because 
they were too nice to be kind.

My teacher is not nice, as a matter of fact he is ruthless. I have seen 
him cry after striking a blow he knew needed to be struck. All the time 
he pushes, stresses, challenges, hoping to find one who can answer.  Zen 
as I have seen it practiced is not a nice way. If you are looking for 
nice, you are looking in the wrong place. If you are looking for 
kind...well come to Iowa and meet the kindest man I know, he is not very 
nice though...well not very nice for very long anyway.

Be Well

Fudo




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