Re: Was Had Enough, Now Actual Questions

2003-03-12 Thread HenochNJ
In a message dated 3/11/2003 6:41:42 PM Eastern Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: My original post was asking for actual conversations On a light(?)note, here's my favorite: I met a lovely, well-off, older gentleman at the dog park recently (he's now about 75, I'd say). He admired my

Re: Was Had Enough, Now Actual Questions

2003-03-12 Thread Mary Shaver
Anne wrote: P.S. I think the thing that some potential owners find off-putting (and it hasn't been my experience)is less the actual questions than the overall sense that they are being discouraged or excluded from Bernerdom as a matter of principle. I don't want to indiscriminately absolve bad

RE: Had Enough -- Now: How to be a breeder

2003-03-11 Thread Kathleen Bert
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RE: Had Enough -- Now: How to be a breeder

2003-03-11 Thread T Thompson
her for daring to speak up and ask about it. Kate Bert Lady Cedarburg, WI -Original Message- From: Mary Shaver [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Monday, March 10, 2003 10:10 PM To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]; [EMAIL PROTECTED] Subject: Was: Had Enough -- Now: How to be a breeder When I talk to PPO's

Re: Had Enough

2003-03-11 Thread Peg McQueary
Hi Everyone, I wanted you to know that I've spent the last 2 1/2 days talking with the woman who wrote the post about looking for a berner puppy and her frustrations as such. What I've found is that this person is the direct opposite of what her post implied to many on the list. What prompted me

Was: Had Enough -- Now: How to be a Breeder

2003-03-11 Thread Burlile\\MemoriesBMDs
Thank you, Rahda, for your comments. My original post was asking for actual conversations, not the why do breeders ask too many questions. Original post: Would someone, anyone, everyone, put into the acutal words ... yeah, like quotes ... what it is breeders are saying, asking, and/ or implying

Re: Was: Had Enough -- Now: How to be a Breeder

2003-03-11 Thread Vegasbep
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Was: Had Enough -- Now: How to be a breeder

2003-03-10 Thread Burlile\\MemoriesBMDs
Pet shops don't do that -- they stroke people looking at their wares. They thank us for repelling otherwise good homes directly into their lair We may have to look at what *we're* doing that causes this behaviour. Would someone, anyone, everyone, put into the acutal words ... yeah, like

Re: Had Enough -- Now: How to be a breeder

2003-03-10 Thread Kim Morrow
Hi Cathy, I think people are actually put off by the fact that we selectively screen our puppy buyers and that we request they sign and enter into a contract with us. They are also put off by the fact that they are entering into a partnership for the life of the dog, with us the breeder. Lots

Re: Had Enough -- Now: How to be a breeder

2003-03-10 Thread bernerhaus
I just felt like throwing in my two cents. The first thing I think when someone posts to the list and says how a breeder has been mean to them because they were asked some questions from the breeder is to stop whining and think. If a breeder is worth anything they will ask questions. I

Re: Had Enough -- Now: How to be a breeder

2003-03-10 Thread gwebara
A friend of mine that shows Berners but is not a Berner owner recently went to some shows in the northern plains states. She is often approached by people looking for a Berner pup and has learned all the right things to tell these folks regarding care and health. At this one particular show she

Re: Had Enough (long response)

2003-03-09 Thread Radha Iyengar
PROTECTED] Date: Sat, 8 Mar 2003 03:22:53 EST Subject: Had Enough To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Plain Text Attachment [ Save to my Yahoo! Briefcase | Download File ] I am an avid dog lover and always dreamed of welcoming a berner into my family. However, the experiences I have encountered

Re: Had Enough (What?)Long

2003-03-09 Thread MnTwhalen
: Saturday, March 08, 2003 5:21 PM Subject: Re: Had Enough (What?) I find this a disturbing email when you look at the AOL profile for the sender. Below is what I found. **Name: If you're Italian, you'll read it in the screen name **Location: Colorado **Sex: Female **Marital

Re: Had Enough (What?)Long

2003-03-09 Thread Sylvia Katvala
Mike, I have personally a big problem with people not signing their emails. This was not directed toward you, because you signed yours properly:) The person who said people didn't do this and that, well if I get an email without a signature, it goes directly into the trash. Here we have a

Re: Had Enough (What?)Long

2003-03-09 Thread Seleya8
In a message dated 3/9/2003 4:49:06 PM Eastern Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: Mike, I have personally a big problem with people not signing their emails. This was not directed toward you, because you signed yours properly:) The person who said people didn't do this and that,

Had Enough

2003-03-08 Thread Principessa4real
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Re: Had Enough

2003-03-08 Thread Seleya8
[EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: I am an avid dog lover and always dreamed of welcoming a berner into my family. However, the experiences I have encountered in speaking with breeders is discouraging. I am a professional, successful woman, mother of three healthy, well taken care of children and am

Re: Had Enough

2003-03-08 Thread Ruth Reynolds
Dear author of Had Enough- Sorry to refer to you that way, but you didn't sign your e-mail and I don't know what else to call you. I think you should consider yourself fortunate that it's apparent to you that the breeders you've contacted are not the right ones for you. Have any of them told

Re: Had Enough

2003-03-08 Thread sudansfarm
Excellent Post! Sue Sanvido . I have given up homes for what may seem insignificant things but I have to sleep well at night knowing my puppies are safe. As for being 'forced to' get a puppy mill pup No one can make you do anything you don't want. It's up to you to weigh the ethical,

Re: Had Enough (What?)

2003-03-08 Thread MnTwhalen
I find this a distrubing email when you look at the AOL profile for the sender. Below is what I found. **Name: If you're Italian, you'll read it in the screen name **Location: Colorado **Sex: Female **Marital Status: beautifully single **Hobbies Interests: I'm very social and love to make

Re: Had enough

2003-03-04 Thread Liz Steinweg Crew
] To: Bernese Mountain Dog Mailing List [EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Monday, March 03, 2003 7:28 PM Subject: Had enough At this point I am taking a break from pooch research! Berner Pros: Unconditional love and companionship Cons: Hair in my ice trays and butter tray tens of thousands of dollars

Had enough

2003-03-03 Thread Kenneth L Babcock
At this point I am taking a break from pooch research! Berner Pros: Unconditional love and companionship Cons: Hair in my ice trays and butter tray tens of thousands of dollars in vet bills 7.5 life expectancy my home is too small ? can I handle the fur balls? Some Berner owners seem to want to

Re: Had enough

2003-03-03 Thread Janice Parky
Kenny- I am sensing that your inquiry caused you receive more negative feedback than positive. Your Pros are right on. As for the negatives, they are in the eye of the beholder. Berner fur in my ice cubes or butter does not bother me. Yes, if my mother is visiting, it bothers her, so she