g_b the Queers Pets Meet this Sunday!

2015-02-22 Thread Vikram D vg...@yahoo.co.uk [gay_bombay]
Gay Bombay, Queer Ink and the Hive present the Queers Pets meet! As we recover from an amazing Pride 2015 Gaybombayhas a fun and interesting meeting lined up for this Sunday @ The Hive, Khar:the first Queers Pets Meet!  Anyone who knows queer people know how we love ouranimal friends. Dogs,

g_b servants and sexuality

2015-01-06 Thread Vikram D vg...@yahoo.co.uk [gay_bombay]
This very well written piece brings up a subject that matters to most middle-class Indians - the servants who are the ubiquitous, if often un-acknowledged parts of our lives: http://www.ndtv.com/article/blogs/a-hole-in-the-heart-of-my-family-641504 It reminded me of a piece I wrote some years

g_b LGBT food

2014-12-21 Thread Vikram D vg...@yahoo.co.uk [gay_bombay]
Pearls Before Swine, an engagingly offbeat comic strip that runs in Mumbai Mirror, recently had this strip which referred to a LGBT sandwich (thanks to the lag that Indian newspapers run comics, the strip came out in September, but only ran here this month):Pearls Before Swine by Stephan

g_b In case you are photographed in a compromising position...

2014-11-27 Thread Vikram D vg...@yahoo.co.uk [gay_bombay]
Just in case you ever happen to be photographed in an intimate position with someone of the same sex and happen to need to explain it away you might want to use this masterful explanation from Vivek Mishra, who seems to be someone intent on making himself a celebrity by becoming India's first

g_b RedFM Bengaluru speaks to the wife who filed the 377 case

2014-11-23 Thread Vikram D vg...@yahoo.co.uk [gay_bombay]
This recording of a RedFM show is really worth listening to because the host manages to connect with the wife who filed a S.377 case against her husband when she learned he was gay. https://soundcloud.com/redfm-bengaluru/disha-oberoi-explores-section-377 There has been quite a lot

g_b remember sections 388 and 389 IPC

2014-11-23 Thread Vikram D vg...@yahoo.co.uk [gay_bombay]
When the Supreme Court upheld Section 377 one of the immediate reactions was that this was a shocking case of the court empowering blackmailers. Throughout its history S.377 - and similar laws across the world - has been used extremely successfully to extort money from gay men who are too

g_b (unknown)

2014-11-23 Thread Vikram D vg...@yahoo.co.uk [gay_bombay]
An interesting article from the excellent online news magazine Scroll.in on how children's and young adult books in India are starting to include lgbt characters: Gay characters, single-parent families: Books for Indian kids begin to reflect real life Gay characters, single-parent

g_b Are you watching... Faking It ?

2014-11-23 Thread Vikram D vg...@yahoo.co.uk [gay_bombay]
For those who haven't discovered this MTV US comedy show, just find some way to watch it! It is, sadly, not showing in India and I wonder if it ever will (70:30 chances I think, since MTV India sometimes likes to push the envelope and the show doesn't show explicit sex, even if it hints at a

g_b from Indian Express: A letter from a mother to her son

2014-11-23 Thread Vikram D vg...@yahoo.co.uk [gay_bombay]
In advance of Children's Day on November 14th, the Indian Express' Sunday supplement published a collection of letters from parents to their children. This is a particularly moving one from a mother to her queer son. (Please consider posting comments about it. All too often we leave online

g_b GB Film Club Screening on Sunday November 30th

2014-11-23 Thread Vikram D vg...@yahoo.co.uk [gay_bombay]
This is just to tell everyone to mark their calendars for Sunday November 30th when GB will be having one of its super popular Film Club screenings. It will be happening, as usual, at National College in Bandra from around 1.30 pm to 8 pm. This is a free event, but entrance is restricted to

g_b What Tim Cook is telling Singapore and India

2014-11-09 Thread Vikram D vg...@yahoo.co.uk [gay_bombay]
A piece by me in response to Tim Cook's coming out: Will Singapore, India continue to disregard LGBT rights? Will Singapore, India continue to disregard LGBT rights? As multinationals become quiet advocates for equal rights for LGBTs how long will investment and technology hungry

g_b Australia's anti-gay churches shift focus to Asia Pacific

2014-11-09 Thread Vikram D vg...@yahoo.co.uk [gay_bombay]
An article that really should be read to alert us to the threat that these ex-gay organisations might pose to use in India. As this article notes, because they are facing a dead end in places like Australia they are shifting their focus to places like India. And far from providing just an

g_b two attempts to take on homophobes

2014-10-20 Thread Vikram D vg...@yahoo.co.uk [gay_bombay]
Here are two recent attempts to take on homophobes which are worth seeing, though this first one is frankly a bit of a train wreck: Check Out This Irish Senator's Awesome Smack Down of Russia's Anti-gay Propaganda Ban: VIDEO |News | Towleroad Check Out This Irish Senator's Awesome Smack

g_b isumasuqputit

2014-10-05 Thread Vikram D vg...@yahoo.co.uk [gay_bombay]
When queer Indian kids come out to their parents they sometimes say that one of the problems they had is they didn't have the words to explain the concept of being queer to their parents in the language they speak. What words they could think of often had negative connotations which they felt

g_b RIP Goolam Vahanvati, an advocate for LGBT rights

2014-09-04 Thread Vikram D vg...@yahoo.co.uk [gay_bombay]
Goolam Vahanvati, the ex-Attorney General of India passed away yesterday from a heart attack. He was much in the news in the last years of the previous government particularly for having to defend some dubious legal decisions. But what should matter to us is that he was a supporter of

g_b Pride the film, and the documentary on the story behind it

2014-09-04 Thread Vikram D vg...@yahoo.co.uk [gay_bombay]
The trailer of Pride, a new British film about an unlikely alliance between gay activists and striking miners during the Thatcher years has been getting a lot of publicity. It looks like its going to be a really great film to watch, Billy Elliott with much more gay interest (Billy did have that

g_b Listen to judges tearing apart homophobic arguments

2014-08-29 Thread Vikram D vg...@yahoo.co.uk [gay_bombay]
For all of us who were in court during the Supreme Court hearings on the Naz case and remember the awfulness of hearing Justice Mukhopadhaya responding to our lawyers arguments with total ignorance and prejudice, the audio in this link affords a certain irrational satisfaction. Because