I have heard this "body language discussion" during many HR management diliberations. It is true that the one who is in the public dealing business or is in human resource management business, need more nonverbal expressions than the verbal one. During field work too, one needs to make a eye contact with one's audience. However, being a totally blind person, I learnt a lot through my family and personal friends, who told me as to how I may overcome this gap of nonverbal communication during my public presentations. The very first rule is, always be cool and calm. Even if you are under severe stress, do not let it reflect on your face. Always smile. Be careful not to grin. Your smile should become your habit. During public appearances, if you are standing before an audience, never stay erect, keep moving a bit. At times, raise your hand to assert your point. If you are on the stage, try to guess the mood of the crowed in your front by the nature of noice. Act accordingly. Many of such tactics can fill the gap, though not fully. Exciting Offers to Grab Vedprakash Sharma
-----Original Message----- From: AccessIndia [mailto:[email protected]] On Behalf Of avinash shahi Sent: Tuesday, August 11, 2015 3:20 PM To: accessindia <[email protected]> Subject: [AI] What does your body language say about you? After reading this article, I am worried where do blind people fit in? Can we discuss how to deal with the difficulty faced by blind people in conforming to the prevalent norms of the body language? Or we have alternative ways to express and understand people's body-language which is underrated by the 'popular' discourse around non-verbal communication? Lets hear from you friends! http://www.theguardian.com/small-business-network/2015/aug/11/what-body-language-say-about-you-obama Just 7% of communication comes from the words we use. And there’s plenty of evidence that demonstrates just how important body language is in the workplace: from making the right impression on a new boss to making a sale. But it’s also crucial for entrepreneurs – the entire business can depend on how you come across when making that crucial pitch or sale. So what are the basics? small business network Join the Guardian Small Business Network Sign up for free to gain access to best practice resources, expert advice, live Q&As and entrepreneur blogs. Click here First of all, pin down what body language actually is and where it comes from. It’s more than just movements – it’s everything that isn’t verbal, from your tone of voice to your hand gestures. And it’s intimately connected to the way you feel. Think of yourself as an evangelist, says Annette Kramer, body language coach and judge on The Pitch – a UK small business competition. “If you’re an evangelist, you really want to engage with people. You want to hear what people have to say back. Your whole manner changes. If you believe in what you’re saying and you’re genuine, you will engage people.” Power posing For an important pitch or presentation, Dr Connson Locke, assistant professor of management at the London School of Economics, recommends the power pose highlighted by Amy Cuddy, associate professor of business administration at Harvard Business School. Cuddy’s research on power posing found that study participants who adopted the power pose before a mock job interview performed better and were more likely to be hired. Advertisement Before you go in front of your audience, says Locke, head into the bathroom and stand still, spreading your arms and taking up as much space in the room as you can. Research by Cuddy and her colleague Dana Carney also found that this pose both elevates testosterone (thought to be associated with confidence for both men and women) and decreases cortisol, a hormone associated with stress. To see the power pose in action, check out Cuddy’s TED talk, Your Body Language Shapes Who You Are, currently at more than 27 million views. First impressions First impressions count: we make up our minds about whether a person is trustworthy or not within a tenth of a second. In that tiny time frame, people only have your body language to go on. “If they get conflicting signals between what you’re saying and how you’re acting, they’re going to go with how you’re acting, as they don’t know you,” she adds. “It’s more difficult to control, so it’s more honest.” Advertisement Dr Locke advises standing up straight, making eye contact and using a confident tone of voice. Avoid repetitive small motions, like fiddling with a pen, rubbing your face or playing with your hair – that makes you look nervous. Stillness can convey confidence – not just stillness in the body but stillness in the voice, such as strategic pauses. Control conveys confidence Try to be as relaxed as you can, advises John McLachlan, neuro-linguistic programming trainer and co-founder of leadership development and training company Monkey Puzzle. “People don’t realise that when they’re tense, the tone of their voice changes as the body seizes up and makes it hard to speak,” he says. “So try to breathe deeply to rid your body of that tension.” Use an open stance, with shoulders back to open out your chest and stop your breath constricting, to indicate that you’re willing to answer questions. Advertisement Some people talk with their hands, says McLachlan, and this can convey excitement and passion. But don’t overdo it. “Not so much that you look as if you’re about to take off,” says McLachlan. “And not so much that you look anxious. Keep movements controlled to convey confidence. Look at Barack Obama: he doesn’t move that much but when he does he uses rounded gestures that say I’m here, I’m thinking, I’m open, I’m being clear.” Adapt body language to the situation Body language is also important in more intimate situations – both controlling your own, and being able to read other people’s. Greg Barden, founder of Pixie, a discovery platform for independent small businesses, needed to make a significant change from the body language he used in his previous career as a Royal Marine. A big part of his business is persuading SMEs to join the Pixie platform – a very different proposition from giving orders. ADHD traits can be an 'opportunity' for entrepreneurs Read more Studying the body language of the business owners he was trying to reach, he noticed that they became defensive while he was pitching the platform to them: they would turn away, not make eye contact, and even refuse to shake his hand. He adapted his body language to appear less intimidating. Advertisement “I’m 1.9 metres (6ft 3in) tall, so I know I can be quite dominating,” he says. “I once cold-called a shop where the owner wouldn’t shake my hand. So I talked slowly, engaged with him by leaning forward, and made myself slightly vulnerable and nervous by saying: ‘You’re the first person who hasn’t shaken my hand, but if you give me five minutes, you’ll see that I’m different’.” It worked – 20 minutes later the owner wasn’t just shaking Barden’s hand but had become a committed supporter. Interviewing prospective employees can also be intimidating: again, the stakes are high and you’ve only got a limited amount of time to make a judgement. So concentrate on listening, advises Kramer. “You want to make your interviewee feel comfortable and relaxed enough to reveal their best qualities, so give them signals. Check in with them. Lean forward. 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