Hi friends and seniors, I am 30 years old, well educated and central government employee. I have some serious issue with my eyesight, as the doctors say that I have Retinitis Pigmentosa, which is stable and I have fair eyesight to manage my all day to day chores except reading writing and driving. People generally don't recognize me easily that I am having problem of eyesight. Before few months I was introduced to a girls family with a view of marriage, the girl was also there. The girls family liked me looking my job and higher education, as I am well settled in my life. Thereafter I started chatting with that girl, she also started liking me and we started talking on phone for longer hours. I clearly told that girl that I have serious issue with my eyesight, and I can see little, and I prefer to take someone with me if I go out to unknown places or while traveling. She looked perfectly fine with that, she told me that she will be with me in any case. Then second time her family came to meet me formally and I told her father about my eyesight issue, he also looked quite normal with that, and he said that physical problem may hit anyone so we are ok with it. Thereafter we met in a function again. Everything was going normal. But nothing sort of engagement etc was done as my family was not ready to fix the marriage so erly. In between few of my relatives told the mother of the girl that this boy has very serious issue with his eyesight, as he can not go outside alone, and he can not walk in sunlight and he can not do his work independently. After listening this all (which is not true) her mother created lots of drama, and convinced the father of girl that they will not marry their daughter to me. Now present situation is that the girl is in full favour of me, she is trying her best to convince her parants that she has no issue with eyesight problem of the boy. But her mother is torturing her and blackmailing her emotionally saying that you will always be in pain if you will not be obedient to your mother. So dear friends, kindly suggest me what should I do here, should I talk to her parants and try to remove their doubts about the situation which they have visualized in their minds on the account of my poor eyesight? Because they are saying only thing that how will he manage if he has poor eyesight. Should I try to save my relationship with that girl who is supporting me despite of my visual impairment? Will I be losing an understanding and supporting life partner if I let this relationship go? Or will it emotionally hurt me back as the family of the girl will target me after the marriage due to my eyes problem.. Please suggest me what should I do, as I am in difficult situation.
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